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Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Tribalism123(m): 1:01pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
mrblessed:Lol. Omo. Make I de collect Character fee o with her puna. Me weh no get feelings again. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Everlastingson: 1:06pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter: Don't let anyone deceive you. At 31 you're no longer that young as a woman. I'm not saying you're old, but neither are you that young. A man at 31 is quite younger than a woman at 31 biologically.A woman at 40 is near or into menopause but a man a 40 is still brand new. Your people pestering you about marriage are doing so out of love. They know your time is passing ( you may not like this but it's the truth). Is it at 40 you'll become serious to get married? I'm not suggesting you jump into marriage with a man you don't love. But make sure you're not the one delaying your marriage by being unnecessarily choosy. Make sure you're not waiting for an imaginary man who would possess 100% of the qualities you're looking for. God is, however, the ultimate one you need for guidance into marriage. He knows your tomorrow. Involve Jesus and be serious so you can get married this year possibly. 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Emmanuel30a: 1:07pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter:Tell dem dat u would marry me... Tell dem dat I am ur Adefemi, Olufemi, Ololufemi, Ifemi, Adeyemi, etc... Tell dem dat u are my Onitemi, Ololufemi,etc; dat u are not looking4 "Orisafemi..." or am I ur Orisafemi...? I am not Orisabunmi let alone Orisafemi... I am Olorunfemi, Olorunifemi, Nifemi, Olorungbebemi, Emabemi, Kosinkankanlabemi, Aonijolabemi,etc... So, se oni ifemi; se ofe femi? Nitotoo? Did u love me&want 2 marry me; truly, really, verily, willingly, happily,etc...? U want 2b my family or u want me 2b d Emily of&in ur family...? U want us 2 av family, happy family,etc; or u want 2b d Emily/aunty Emily in/of my family... Verily Verily Verily I say un2 u, u can be in my family, my family or d Emily in/of my family; but it must be willingly, truthfully, thankfully, submissively, surprisingly,etc... Verily*3 I said unto u, u can have a family/ur family, etc; with THE LILY OF VALLEY,etc... But, it/u must be readily&steadily... |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by drimzsmoke(m): 1:07pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
frozen70: My younger brother got married at 28 |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by aestake: 1:08pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
GboyegaD:Still been fed at home...no housing and no husband to take her away? She can't be any assertive. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by drimzsmoke(m): 1:13pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Emmanuel30a: Arghhhhh...and I read all this tori olorun,bicycle will jam you before the end of the day!!! |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by stormborn28(m): 1:26pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Vijuchoco: During my university days my ICH lecturer would say "if 5 people tells you that you're drunk, even if you've never tasted alcohol before, check yourself something is wrong with you" If you've had above 3 serious relationships in the past, and none worked out, I'll recommend you take a break a reflect inwardly, ask yourself certain questions like where am I getting it wrong, should I be more patient, do I overreact to irrelevant issues, am I trustworthy, am I honest, do I talk too much...etc. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by stormborn28(m): 1:26pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter: During my university days my ICH lecturer would say "if 5 people tells you that you're drunk, even if you've never tasted alcohol before, check yourself something is wrong with you" If you've had above 3 serious relationships in the past, and none worked out, I'll recommend you take a break a reflect inwardly, ask yourself certain questions like where am I getting it wrong, should I be more patient, do I overreact to irrelevant issues, am I trustworthy, am I honest, do I talk too much...etc. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Emmanuel30a: 1:29pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter:So, are you ready to marry or to have a family&happy family with THE LILY OF THE VALLEY...? You don't need Jetli, Bruce Lee, Bahubali, Mohammed Ali, Dele Ali, etc; in ur family or of your family...? You don't need to be in their family, or u don't need to become a family with them... Become a family and an ally of/with THE LILY OF THE VALLEY... Not with Naphtali, Jetli, Bruce Lee, Mohammed Ali, Dele Alli, etc; of Burundi or in Burundi...,etc... |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Isabi4lov: 1:29pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
neztar:Nope |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by stormborn28(m): 1:30pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Everlastingson: Waooow.. An excellent advice |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by blacksam01: 1:35pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter: we aall did this same thing to my sis who became too selective and continue to wait for a charming prince from france...at laast sh married 8years after the pressure started and guess what...sh regreted not listening to us...from my elder sis point of reason...sh is getting older and pregnancy might get complicated... alas, sh is now married for 3 years..no belle, fibriod don block block everywhere..and doc said fibriod can obstruct pregnancy but it hardly get successful with younger ladies even when they have firiod long story short...anty is drinking all concussion now and visiting pastors up and down...sh is just 34 ooo.. u nevr see something...wait till time pass u...small work u got, u forgot ur a lady ..and ladies work with time.. dey shod stop begging u like we also planned and stopped talking to Uzo..now sh nor fit talk.... her decision , her life |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Brownshoe: 1:36pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
If you are not selective and of AA genotype quote me in my dead thread. Ideservebetter: |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Emmanuel30a: 1:42pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
drimzsmoke:Have you smoked again today or did you smoke again today...? Slow poke or drimzsmoke or what is your name... Bicycle ko, motorcycle ati tricycle ni... You don't even know your lifecycle... You better start reading The Book of Mark, Luke, Habbakuk, Chronicles, etc...in THE BIBLE or of THE BIBLE... Yee ti kuku bo inu uku, yee sun boloku sori uku, talofe maba di ikuku? Nkunku? Abi iwo ni Atiku olorikuku, tiunpe arare ni olori ikuku ati olori awon adi ikuku...? Olori kuku abi olori awon adi ikuku...? Iwo ni Atiku olori kuku tiko mo ojo iku re...? Ti oba fe di ikuku, tabi ti on banwa eni ti e ojoma di ikuku, losi Okuku lodo awon Luku leke mo ile kewu... Osi le loba Kiriku alaini ajeseku, tabi Kiriku tiun gba owo alajeseku, ati beebeelo; ki e jo maba arayin din ikuku o... |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by MoneyMustBMade(m): 1:44pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Brandiebird: Plenty kids are on nairaland. From thier comments here |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by drimzsmoke(m): 1:46pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Emmanuel30a: Lolz....Enjoy the rest of your day,bye!!! |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by frozen70(f): 1:52pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
drimzsmoke: That was a good one, probably he is among the last in the family, meaning that you guys who are his seniors must have positioned the entire family well What age did you get married |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Emmanuel30a: 1:57pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
drimzsmoke:Okay o... Thanks you too... |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Bluezy13(m): 1:59pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
NutFunny: The board did. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by drimzsmoke(m): 2:01pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
frozen70: Lolz....you're wrong on all count....he's the 3rd,1st male to be married in the family.Ma,I'm not married jare,stop whining me....a very close friend of mine got married late last year,his younger brother has been married since 2020 MODIFY: Ma,on the average,I think educated yoruba men or people who live in Lagos do marry early |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by MoneyMustBMade(m): 2:04pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Tribalism123: I respect you bro |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by JoyceNelly(f): 2:09pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Berrityga:People no get joy wahlai...... Take it easy nairalander |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Tayorshd2(m): 2:17pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Nazgul: You are truly matured thanks for this advise 1 Like |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by victorazy(m): 2:27pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
nicerod: Then husband go come ![]() U want to talk to your ppl rudely rather than to check yasef for I'll characters that repels men from you. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by emmaodet: 2:31pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Olodo24: 2:32pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
If you're jobless or single in your 30s, avoid family gatherings at all cost 1 Like |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by emmaodet: 2:45pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
ikeno: Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Aye oooo You people are evil aje |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by dazzlingd(m): 2:54pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter: African parents need to stop this. They have destroyed people’s lives for this kind of pressure |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by franchasng: 2:59pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Nazgul:Great advice. Every average looking lady gets approached by guys on a daily basis and most average looking ladies meet their Mr Right before they clock age 30, but unfortunately most miss their Mr Right out of some self inflicted issues that I cannot begin to breakdown now cos we are focused on redeeming Nigeria from notorious treasury looters like Emilokan aka Balablubulabo ![]() The golden rule of life for those who want to live a fulfilled life devoid of disappointments is to expect less from people. Don't have too much expectation from anybody. As a single girl, don't have too much expectation of what and what qualities your man must have, just make sure he has some of the qualities you can tolerate and you must increase your tolerance level to find happiness and to find true friends and lover. People that have too much expectation from others, especially from boyfriends, girlfriends, fiance, husband, wife always end up disappointed. I have never expected much from the opposite sex, I depend solely on myself and my ability and lastly on God my maker. As a single lady, that expect that the man you must be with or marry must be tall, dark, fair, rich, faithful, well educated, etc, what happened, are you God? Fear God with your expectations from the opposite sex. As a single lady, learn to tolerate, learn to delay your gratification, learn to demand less, learn to add value to your friends and relationship, learn to be a helpmate and not just a chopmate. Men of today are no longer looking for chopmate, they want helpmate they can partner with to build a better future. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Akorkor(f): 3:17pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
neztar: Yes. Are you? How many years have you been? As a married person, I got married when I felt I was ready and it was not forced on me. You need to be happy as a single person before you can be happy as married. 2 Likes |
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