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Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Arizoner: 7:29pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter:you mean to tell me you've not had sex at 31? |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Ideservebetter(f): 7:30pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
aestake:Hmmm.. You people and your terrible assumptions. Na wa o. I've got my own apartment but I go to my family house almost every time I'm free from work. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by VicM6: 7:39pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Come nd marry me nd save ur self the stress jeje |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Ideservebetter(f): 7:42pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Arizoner:Is it strange to you? |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Arizoner: 8:19pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter:are you sexually active? |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by aestake: 8:28pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter:Enjoy yourself then. But we know it is a lie. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by BlessedOne259: 9:12pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter: You can minimize your contact hours with them to reduce the pressure. If you used to call them twice a week, reduce it to once a week. Most people don't seem to realize that many people who are of marriageable age and are not yet married wish to get married but have not found someone or lack the resources required. It is becomes double wahala when people start bugging them to get married. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Akin1212(m): 9:45pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Rubbiish:s Are you saying there are no women at 55-year-olds who are not suffering and are happy with their lives? Or are you saying there are no women at 55-years-olds with husbands and children who are still suffering? What exactly would a 55-year-old married woman get from her husband and kids that would make her suffer if she wasn't married with kids? 1 Like |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Ortintin: 9:53pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter: Hehehehehe... this used to be my story when i was 28-31 yrs living in my family house then. My tenants and street people no dey allow me rest. Any little thing, - they say "go and marry". It was when I got my own apartment in a new area that nobody knew me I had rest. If you don't mind can I get to know you more? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Ideservebetter(f): 10:20pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
aestake:Lol.. I don't think telling lies here would be necessary.. I work and I've got my own apartment. I just don't want to give too much details in one post because I've got so many of my people on nairaland. There's a way I would write my story and they'll know it's me, I don't want that 1 Like |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by aestake: 11:11pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter:Okay. I know when you are independent the pressure reduces a little bit. What I hate most is after getting a man and marriage, you start bugging those leftovers. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Ideservebetter(f): 12:08am On Feb 11, 2023 |
aestake:What leftovers are you referring to please? |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Davidave(m): 12:33am On Feb 11, 2023 |
If you think you are independent, take hard decision to move away from your family.. At this age you perfectly knows what to do... May be you lacks enough courage to take the step 🤷♂️ |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by aestake: 12:33am On Feb 11, 2023 |
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Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Treassured: 12:53am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Travel far away abroad. I'm not really a Big Fan of Marriage too. I'm very Adventurous. Marriage and bringing Kids to this world are the last things on my mind. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Nobody: 1:01am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Do not ever let anyone pressure you into marriage. Don't listen to your parents, they are just a product of their society. They want you to conform and be like their friend's children. Nobody will bear the burden of marriage with you. Not even your own parents. Make up your own mind and when you are ready to marry, date your partner extensively, know him very well, know what he does for a living, his future ambitions, brothers, sisters, parents very well. Do not ever jump into marriage and do not ever listen to any Nigerian pastor when it comes to marriage. You will thank me later. 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Treassured: 1:17am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Akin1212: Infact I was Just smiling as I was reading that guy's post☺ |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Treassured: 1:44am On Feb 11, 2023 |
If someone can't find someone like his/her heart, It's better to remain Single than being miserable In a forced union because you want to Impress and satisfy the Society. Marriage Is not a Must or a Do or Die Thing. Live And Let Others Live👆 |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Treassured: 1:49am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Akin1212: You have made my day so Colorful with this beautiful piece. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Treassured: 1:56am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Isabi4lov: There are some serious, responsible and modest guys out there. But would you guys be able to spot them and act civil when they approach you then give them chance and also be ready to build with them? I guess Not. These days, Most of you want an "unrealistic reality, flashy things, ready made" and you keep on complaining afterall. To sum It up, There are too many Unfaithful People both Guys/Ladies out there these days. Well everyone will be fine, That's for sure. 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Ubanz: 2:04am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Ideservebetter: Just take ur time. I feel ur plight. A compatible spouse is like a diamond,u rarely find it when you are eagerly looking for it. Bet me ,u will soon find the right man if u think less of the issue. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by HoneySwag(f): 6:54am On Feb 11, 2023 |
JASONjnr:Well you have a point, but one don't have to create enemies or become unapproachable just because of some silly questions. If she acts like that, she'll gradually become a very angry person cos right now she's not even happy with her situation, she wants to get married. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by HoneySwag(f): 7:06am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Ideservebetter:Dear sis, pls stay calm and don't get mad at them. You're currently in a situation that they don't understand, and you too may not understand how they feel right now. I'll advise you keep your cool cos at the end FAMILY matters. Whenever they ask you "when are you getting married?" Tell them very soon, don't make mountain out of it, I know it's not easy but it's best to avoid quarrelling or getting bitter. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by achimendy(m): 7:59am On Feb 11, 2023 |
anthonyuncle: Nobody is stopping anybody from from expressing his or herself, but those old people has a way of reasoning. They might scold her or add more insults for her. The best solution is ignore them, don't take their words serious. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by JASONjnr(m): 8:18am On Feb 11, 2023 |
HoneySwag: Getting married shouldn't make her out pressure on the man.... But working together to make it happen. For instance, if you're purging and you can control yourself to get to the house and eventually rush to the toilet, then it means self-control....Rather than pooing on yourself because you're press or purging.... |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Isabi4lov: 8:58am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Treassured:You can only speak for yourself, some of us were ready to build with them but then life happens. What will be will be . |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Isabi4lov: 9:54am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Rubbiish:Some men do have problems ..... If you don't tell them what to do ... They won't do anything.... They're never serious with anything in this life especially the ones that are advance in age . |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Tribalism123(m): 10:00am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Rubbiish: She can not even think of any mess. Na shout I go carry open door for her. Who cares |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Lovelydaisies: 11:10am On Feb 11, 2023 |
That was how mine pressured me and I was barely twenty-one. It started from then on until I became 'depressed', nervous and worried. I was never truly happy. I left home but I wasn't free. One man was even telling me to 'loosen' up, that I was too religious and people were finding it hard to approach me. So I should be smiling at anybody I see or open my doors to any Tom and Jerry? Mtchew ![]() Anyway, you will be fine. Move out of the house, get yourself stable and be open. Don't compromise unnecessarily. And above all, pray for God's guidance. You will need it. Don't go into sexual relationships because they are not moral. You will be fine. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by anthonyuncle(m): 1:24pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
achimendy: there are ways to deal with oldies. listen to them. convinced them that their opinions are good. weigh their options yourself. tell them what you are opting for. go ahead and do what will be beneficial to you. don't give a fück about their reaction 1 Like |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Goodlady(f): 11:01am On Feb 12, 2023 |
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Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Akin1212(m): 6:56am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Lovelydaisies: You capped at the end, nothing concerns sexual relationships with morality, over religiousness won't be the end of you. |
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