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Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by phemmyfour: 9:35pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
all4zionlover:Divorce is not the solution. The woman still need him around for stability. No guarantee that he's not going to lose subsequent jobs. The first thing to do, is to help him win battle over gambling . When he's free, you can now start looking for a job for him |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by frozen70(f): 9:36pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
bonnyhope: Wetin concern me What do you even know about marriage |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by GboyegaD(m): 9:36pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Richy4: Did someone hack your account? |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by LadyG05: 9:36pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
all4zionlover: This is a man that has resigned to fate. He has given up on his ability to be the Head. He needs a serious push. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Fuckyoumod: 9:37pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
APCNig:lol.... She is just joking. Shey na one lady for France they beg man to come marry her, while she pays monthly allowance to him. She will so regret it eehh..... Let her keep feeding him until he wakes up and find something new to do. She think sey marriage na child's play, milk and honey. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Nobody: 9:37pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Oyerinde16: He can never make it big. Not a curse, just fact of life for lazy men. Only by jackpot or huge family inheritance can he hit it big. Otherwise, no food for lazy man. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by highchief1: 9:38pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:bros I no Dey like talk am.itโs everything she explained der itโs same scenario pls.when a man allows a woman to carry all the responsibilities in a house death awaits the woman, |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by emiika: 9:39pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
frozen70: fresh air with two kids and not well paid job, single mother no easy oooo |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by boxypane(m): 9:39pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
You really need to make him have a session with a Therapist. This is silent depression. God forbid you come home and meet him dead o. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Kobojunkie: 9:40pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
LadyG05:Obviously, he is not interested in getting that push from his wife, given he has resigned to his fate even while watching her struggle. ![]() |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Luckysbab: 9:40pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Why do you think he doesn't see it as a problem? Cos he lies under the AC, seeming not bothered? |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by frozen70(f): 9:40pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
emiika: Most women prefer to be a single mother rather than staying with someone that gives then emotional depression That's why i said fresh air 1 Like |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Kobojunkie: 9:41pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
boxypane:How is she going to make him do that if he does not even admit that the problem is real โ he tells her he has a plan. ![]() |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Kmoney4money: 9:41pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
highchief1:You must be a joker, so men that carries women responsibilities na enjoyment await am abi. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Kobojunkie: 9:41pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Luckysbab:Get to your point instead. ![]() |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by RotimiBliss: 9:42pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Richy4: ๐ bros small small na As much as i find dis ur comment so harsh and blunt, there's a lot to reflect on. People tend to forget their marriage vows, thinking it will all b rosy Happily-Ever-After as if its a fairy tale. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Kobojunkie: 9:42pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kmoney4money:Men CHOOSE to carry all that responsibility on themselves against commonsense. This does not mean women should also follow suite. ![]() |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by boxypane(m): 9:42pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Pls he needs help. Lots of patience from the madam is required. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by starbn(m): 9:42pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
I don't comment here,but you need some respect to that man.any time women have power and money they tends to miss behave. You can help back in little way you if you're not already eyeing another. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Mindlog: 9:43pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
ridwintin89: I have worked in a Rehab where gambling addicts were part of our clientele. and we had religious leaders who are gambling addicts admitted there. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Kobojunkie: 9:43pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
highchief1:I do concur considering not everyone is built to carry all that load alone. Marriage is meant to be a partnership for good reason. ![]() |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Kobojunkie: 9:44pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
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Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by xavuv: 9:44pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
kobojunkie: all4zionlover: Hmm, they are yours. Unnecessary Pride. How sad! You are part of his problem. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Kobojunkie: 9:45pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
boxypane:Madam is complaining that she is reaching her limit though. So? ![]() |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by franchasofficia: 9:45pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Richy4: ![]() ![]() |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by franchasofficia: 9:48pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Autobot05:Yes oh. During dating self na most of these ladies de fund their boyfriend's betting account, and whenever he wins a game they go out together to celebrate while praying to hit the jackpot soonest so they can then shock their friends and relatives with their sudden success ![]() But when things refuse to go as they programmed in their little brain, they start to cry fowl and start to blame the man as if they didn't know who he was during courtship ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Kmoney4money: 9:49pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
starbn:Women and pride are like 5&6 Wen a woman feed or Ouse a man for just one month, d whole world we hear of it and she will be complaining, but a man dat has feeding the woman years would loud it. Women always take things easy wen u are doing well Dan ur spouse |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by jaxxy(m): 9:49pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: church or sm1 atleast weds both of u. So which hypogamy documents una sign? |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Prenonjebose: 9:49pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Going by her story, the issue is mainly some semblance of financial stability needed for a family. It's not just a matter of husband and wife. There are children involved, with a clock payment of bills. I know one or two serious gamblers who still have one or two businesses they fall back on to in tough times. She mentioned he not putting some monies in her business in time past, most likely to mitigate this kind of situation. An expert on such addiction cases may help both of them |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by ObosiUkwalla: 9:50pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
all4zionlover: Poison him so he will die, and u marry another husband. Shebi that's what u want to hear from us... |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Kobojunkie: 9:51pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
jaxxy:No, you can simply register your marriage without your churches. That is how marriage actually works. There is no document to select hypogamy for you as hypogamy refers to choosing for yourself a spouse of lower financial status than the one you are on. ![]() |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by HellVictorinho7: 9:51pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
all4zionlover:u need to divorce him if u cannot continue to finance the entire family, the addiction will not leave except by chance, the efforts of people like Kobojunkie will not work except by chance, his brain will never overcome gambling except by chance, i know how the gamblers feel, well,some people have multiple addictions. |
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