Stats: 3,190,030 members, 7,939,159 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 September 2024 at 07:25 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? (45988 Views)
Is This Enough Reason To Divorce My Wife? / As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? / Hauwa, Adam Nuru Wife Is Not Planning To Divorce Him, Stands With Her Husband (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) ... (14) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Kobojunkie: 10:25pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
boxypane:She has her hands busy as it is, yet you want her to, while he lies around lazily all day, take time to remind him of who he used to be before this, assuming he was any better? ![]() |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by boxypane(m): 10:27pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Hmm... Im sure she didn't marry a gambler. What was it like before the set back began? |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Kobojunkie: 10:29pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
boxypane:How do you know he wasn't already gambling before he met and even married her? ![]() |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by blastac: 10:30pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
All4zionlover Before he lost his job, he was contributing to the family ?? Before he lost his job you never contemplated on divorcing him ?? Did you marry him cos of his job ?? Did you marry him because you felt he could provide for his family ?? Look with what i read, oga is battling serious depression.. he might be having a break down. Men hardly share their emotions so as not to look weak but oga is not in his right mind now. Talk to him. Shey you married him cos he had the best qualities so why must your first go to be divorce Make sure you have tried every possible thing in this world to convince him before settling for a divorce. Your husband is like your brother, treat him like your brother not your boyfriend that you can just drop when the going gets tough I pray God comes through for your family, situations like this is heartbreaking. I pray everything will be alright in the end. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by 1MILLIONLiGHTS(m): 10:32pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
What if after the so called DIVORCE. His life picks up. Would you come back ? How would you feel in the presence of his friends and his relatives ? |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by boxypane(m): 10:32pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:However it was, something was the centre of affection. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Zihno: 10:35pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
shaybebaby: Have you met an “enterprising man “? Just because your marriage didn’t work doesn’t mean OPs marriage shouldn’t. I’m certain the circumstances surrounding both marriages are different. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by nathpope(m): 10:37pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
I AM SURE MOST OF THOSE WHO WOULD TELL YOU TO LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND ARE EITHER UNMARRIED OR BITTERED IN THEIR OWN MARRIAGE (BUT STILL IN IT). LIKE SOMEONE RIGHTLY SAID, "If he's someone you can smell any whiff of potential in, keep pushing and encouraging him......Most men like yours, you disengage from them and within a year, you'd be regretting why and how you lost out at the "almost" hour. HOW WAS HE TREATING YOU AND THE FAMILY BEFORE HE LOST HIS JOB? IF HE GETS A NEW JOB TODAY, HOW DO YOU THINK HE WOULD BEHAVE? WOULD YOU STILL PLAN ON LEAVING HIM AS YOU INTEND TO? ARE YOU SURE THERE IS NOT ONE JOHNNY IN THE CORNER SOMEWHERE PUTTING SOME CUNNING IDEAS IN YOUR HEAD? EVERY MAN NEEDS A WOMAN WHO WOULD NOT ONLY SUPPORT HIM IN HIS DOWN TIME, BUT ALSO ENCOURAGE HIM TO BE HIS BETTER SELF. DON'T LET SOME PEOPLE WHO DO NOT VALUE WHAT YOU HAVE MAKE YOU LOSE IT. DO YOU THINK IT IS EASY TO DO A MAN'S JOB WITH RAISING A CHILD? SEEK OUT THE ADVICE OF A SINGLE MOTHER TO REALLY KNOW WHAT IT MEANS TO DO A 2-MAN JOB. MY SISTER, PLS THINK IT WELL BEFORE YOU TAKE A DRASTIC STEP. AGAIN, IF YOU CAN SMELL A WHIFF OF POTENTIAL IN YOUR MAN, STICK WITH HIM, KEEP PUSHING AND ENCOURAGING HIM. WHEN HE GETS OUT OF THAT HOLE, HE WILL APPRECIATE YOU THE MORE... NO LISTEN TO BITTERED SOULS... all4zionlover: |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by quickly: 10:38pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
all4zionlover: This is women for you when the good was going you neglected his bad habits which i am sure you too have, Now things are not that rosy his bad habits you Put that front and center. In this case i will say do what you like. Its a marriage for better for worse but now worse part show and u show ur true self. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Kobojunkie: 10:40pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
boxypane:Gamblers are typically able to hide their problems from even family members, so I don't see how you would assume that he could not have been a gambler while he was dating her. ![]() |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by ejimatic: 10:41pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
all4zionlover:. This is not a scriptural reason to divorce a husband. A scriptural ground for divorce is committal of adultery.Grounds ofor separation with a view to reunion later are:. Non care for the wife and children ,. exposing the life of the wife to danger by beating her mercilessly,. etc .. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by franchasofficia: 10:43pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
shaybebaby:Of course I know it is some useless Nigerian men that destroyed Nigeria and made it the joke of nations it is today. The most painful part is when I see young Nigerians celebrate and support these failed Nigerian men just because of tribe. Once these failed politicians throw in the tribal card, Nigerian youths will forget their sufferings and struggles and turn against each other in the name of tribal supremacy battle that add no dime to their pockets 1 Like |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Kobojunkie: 10:43pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
ejimatic:Wrong! Scripture instead says that remarriage is allowed only if fornication was the reason for divorce. Divorce is not a sin at all. Instead, it is when one who is divorced then proceeds to remarry that the one could potentially be said to sin against God. ![]() |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by ladej(m): 10:44pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Gloriagee:she doesn’t lose No one knows He’s using style to say Be patient and be absolutely certain Once you divorce He’s gone forever It’s a weighty decision and the impacts , only you will bear it Think wisely and weigh everything He may need support After all he had a job before ? |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by EnterpriseMan(m): 10:46pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
all4zionlover:He's depressed. Try to talk with him and get him out of the house on dates once a while. Just help him back on his feets, not everything is solved by divorce |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by GoodCane: 10:47pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
all4zionlover: Which they are yours? But a man can endure jobless Wife? And the moment reverse is the case here you Women would want the world to know you're the one running the home. Nonsense! We all know you've found any dick you want to ride on so go ahead and bang that Dude who's giving you green light. No excuse wey you go take chop dicks around you dey find |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by flokii: 10:49pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
@OP You must have seen the red flags while dating him, I guess you felt you could change him.. newsflash you can't change a man who isn't willing to change It's just like guys making h0es housewives.. you live with the consequences. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Mboi: 10:49pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
all4zionlover:Was he into gambling before you married him? Why didn't you think.of divorce because of this gambling thing before he lost his job? If he had won millions while gambling, will you be considering getting a divorce because heinto gambling? You're being very selfish. Anyways your husband has an addiction and it is your responsibility to help him out of it. Make him your friend this period and always talk to him. He will regain his strength to hussle. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Then, no need to tell us. Just go ahead and divorce him. You cannot get any meaningful advice from Nairaland |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Graficient: 10:55pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Mumu woman. Find small money to dey fund him bet9ja account so that he will be busy. Your spirit is against his gambling that's why he didn't make good profit from it. Support him with some good luck and he will cash out soon to the benefit of everyone |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by ejimatic: 10:59pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:. Generally. We use fornication to describe immorality between two unmarried individuals while adultery is immorality between a married person with another married or unmarried person. The word in Greek Phornea is interpreted as adultery fornication bestiality ,lesbianism ,homosexuality etc Mathew 19 3-7 Mark 10 vrs 8-11 clearly shows that adultery is forbidden in a marriage. Sripturally it is the only ground for divorce before God in the Bible. However a wife or husband cheated by his or spouse can forgive his or her marital partner who commits adultery.Hiowever if the offended partner does not want to forgive the erring partner , he or she can divorce him or her. Any divorce on another ground apart from adultery is not accepted by God. So if the husband or wife remarries another person ,the person is commiting a sin before God because the first married was ended unscripturally. Separation may occur in a marriage though God does not want it. If it happens both husband and wife should look for a way of settling their misunderstanding.1Corrthuan 7: 7to 11 |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Clinghton: 10:59pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
A sign that he wants to be the house husband. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Oyerinde16(m): 11:05pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
hifocus: Sport betting is luck... As poor as he is, with just #100 he can hit 30m... If you abandon him, it papa God pick him call, he hits 30m... You will now want to come back... U were there for only the money... You can leave him sinc he does not have what you want (money) you can also come back when he has the money... Money worshipers every where .. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Kobojunkie: 11:05pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
ejimatic:1. Again, you are wrong in your claim as instead scripture states instead that it is when one remarries that one could potentially sin against God — not when one gets a divorce. ![]() https://www.nairaland.com/7078665/divorce-not-sin-jesus-christ 2. Jesus Christ no talk any of wetin you dey claim here abeg! ![]() |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Oyerinde16: The money will not last because he is irresponsible. Let him tackle his problem of laziness and irresponsibility first before talking about hitting a jackpot. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Myablew: 11:09pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Your case is different.. funny u Richy4: |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Orelafintun: 11:13pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
The above person, named kingdollar is mature In his comment. I like your style. Well done |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by zakkxx: 11:18pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Some times the man has look for job to no avail! This the time to show him true love, encourage him to go and look for job! Don’t command him, tell him everything is gonna be alright! Please don’t live him now when he need you the most. This man was providing before but just because no level now u are thinking of dumping him. The true love of a woman to a man shows when he is broke and Jobless! But for a Man U will know if he truly love when he has more money and he decide to stay with you, when he has money for plenty options. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Orelafintun: 11:18pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kingdollar is mature in his comment. Like your style. 👌 |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by sirSixtus(m): 11:22pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
all4zionlover: Funny question, so any small thing now na divorce? You guys are funny and it's obvious there's no case here, from he only gambles to he just wake up and sleep. You don dey listen to friends my there. |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by bukatyne(f): 11:32pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Luckysbab: It is petty to point out a jobless man is putting on AC every day? ![]() Even two income household try to mix and match fan & AC to reduce the expenditure on utilities. Should he be thinking of adding to their financial burden or reducing it? |
Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Onyeziokwu(m): 11:33pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kingdollar28: God bless you mate! Those of us still single are listening very attentively and learning too! Now the only thing we got to read is about his gambling lifestyle and how he lost his job and left with nothing. No one ever said something on how he has been a supporting husband financially during his days of working and gambling too! I'm just he was into gambling just to be able to make his family comfortable or was his lavishing his dividends on ladies? 1 Like |
(1) (2) (3) ... (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) ... (14) (Reply)
Its Children's Day: Upload A Picture Of Your Baby And Send Him/her A Shout Out. / Should I End The The Relationship? / See What A Father Did To His Daughter.....pics Not Appealing *beware*
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 88 |