You could've found love there in the UK, why put yourself in this emotional torture just because you wanted to marry a Nigerian wife.

You are shinning teeth but deep down, you are hurting really bad. Get that marriage dissolved asap and stop deceiving yourself around here.

Nigerian men abroad should stop this hullabaloo about marrying wives from Nigeria, a good wife can come from anywhere.

She doesn't deserve you. She is loose and cheap.

SPAMBOX7:
What if the girl told the guy she's not married? Una go just come online dey cap nonsense. Did you know if the gilr rejected the guy's advances and told him she's married the guy would persist?
Una go just read story jump into conclusions when you seen its the other gender that's fully at fault you here shouting

Just shut up, boy.
Stories abound in Nigeria of how you irresponsible boys go after people's wives, even after knowing well in advance that they're married.

While in school in Nigeria, i lost a classmate(via assassination) who specialized in going after people's wives.

If you're one of such despicable people, you need to run away from it, because every real man sees it as a big insult that must be punished.

luminouz:


God!!!

Na WA oooo

Guys dey face shege for that UK oo

luminouz:

Jesus

Your wife belonged to the street.


Start saving your resources cos one day she'll tell you she's tired of the relationship

Bro, you think say you wise? You be first grade Mumu😁

Ceaser90:
I painstakingly chose to read through all the chats.
I am in the UK and I know what is obtainable. I brought my wife in January and I know what started happening just 3wks she came in. Hiw I saw the chats from her own sister of how they will teach me a lesson.
In all, be calm. Speak to her, Share the bills and plan yourself.
Take your time and decide if you want a child with her (pray more about this) because it will increase your sorrows. Take care of your mental health brother.
Thanks for this thread. Atleast I am consoled. I nearly ran mad here.

I am concerned with this. Why would he pray more about something he ought to think hard into the future for?

Also,is divorce hard to get?

winner37:
Brother, is a rain that falls everywhere..since morning I have nothing eaten because of a girl whom I Love . Things didn't work out and money didn't flow as I expected to pay her school fee this, girl change all of a sudden no calls no chats .

I really wish it would be possible for a man to live his life without involving a woman.
Sorry I have no advice for you even me am not on the right state of mind .........
Women are evil ...

A man can live without a woman. I mean, it is very possible.


"...once you know how to take care of yourself, company becomes an option and not a necessity".

~Keanu Reeves

Insultme:


So I should stay single cause someone cheat on me? Let me ask you a question. Even if you're so rich like that of Dangote, can you live your life alone? So in the case I neva born, so I should do what please?

Lol this Op. You're too funny.
Since you've decided on what to do, what's the point of asking for advice?
E never clear for your eye yet. Just continue

Whatever You Do. DO NOT GET HER PREGNANT OOO, IF YOU DO, UR LIFE IS FINISHED, SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE

Hmmmm,I hear about this story yesterday by a sister to the OP who happened to be a lawyer. The said lady is from edo state.

Insultme:


So I should stay single cause someone cheat on me? Let me ask you a question. Even if you're so rich like that of Dangote, can you live your life alone? So in the case I neva born, so I should do what please?

You're sex addict. It means you can't stay without having sex. You're finished. From your narration you're being used. I wish you can open your eyes and see. Continue living with iyawo gbogbo aye.

penultimatee:
Hmmmm,I hear about this story yesterday by a sister to the OP who happened to be a lawyer. The said lady is from edo state.

Hmm.
Una don reach here.
Edo kọ́, Imo ni. 😔😔

Regex:


A man can live without a woman. I mean, it is very possible.


"...once you know how to take care of yourself, company becomes an option and not a necessity".

~Keanu Reeves

I perceived some truth here, am gonna work towards this ..

luminouz:


Haaaaaaaaa!!!!

You see? I try to help a nigha out and I'm still the bad guy... I call a nigha out for being a simp, I'm still the bad guy.

Jesus, with all that happened to you, you still refuse help and the redpill?

I'm done Sir. I wish you well. I can't save iteveryone.

cc heartofcity12

Of course you are a bad guy ,a big simp


Go thy way ....

winner37:





I perceived some truth here, am gonna work towards this ..

Please do. The earlier you start, the better. Life is beautiful with peace of mind. I mean, men underestimate it.

Regex:


Please do. The earlier you start, the better. Life is beautiful with peace of mind. I mean, men underestimate it.

Guy ,you won't believe what I gone through since on Tuesday, no peace of mind ,no good taste of food, everything is just vapid..
Am still that same person who stood with her since her first year in school now this is her final year she just let go of everything ..

I will learn to be on myself now , no love again..

winner37:




Guy ,you won't believe what I gone through since on Tuesday, no peace of mind ,no good taste of food, everything is just vapid..
Am still that same person who stood with her since her first year in school now this is her final year she just let go of everything ..

I will learn to be on myself now , no love again..

Don't say no love again. Just change the recipient of that love to be you. I don't have a girlfriend and I am not perturbed. I do things how I like because I know I have got my back. Whatever is not giving you peace of mind should be dumped.

It's my opinion nigga. You are free to express yours too.

ZombieSlayer1:
rubbish talk. What do you mean by "it's too early to go for a divorce"?

In as much as i agree with you that he needs to think hard, you cant be too harsh and quick in some decisionsin marriage(experience shows that). The young lady may just be carried away or may just be immature. It's left for him to check if there are other strengths he can accept while working on her weakness.

Regex:


I am concerned with this. Why would he pray more about something he ought to think hard into the future for?

Also,is divorce hard to get?

I am telling you. That is boundage for 20yrs minimum.

sirkonline:
Whatever You Do. DO NOT GET HER PREGNANT OOO, IF YOU DO, UR LIFE IS FINISHED, SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE

Even with all the advice you're getting here, you're still faithful in your defense for a woman that doesn't meant well for you.

ChybuzzDD:


Just shut up, boy.
Stories abound in Nigeria of how you irresponsible boys go after people's wives, even after knowing well in advance that they're married.

While in school in Nigeria, i lost a classmate(via assassination) who specialized in going after people's wives.

If you're one of such despicable people, you need to run away from it, because every real man sees it as a big insult that must be punished.

Dumbo

hammed71:
marriage these days na scam, bro I can bet she had sex with that guy and I am sure you already knew her character before you married her.
sometimes it's good to just have baby mama that you can co partner together and take care of your kids together.

Two adult won't have sex with each other after visiting in private? And she came back with bags?

Lol

Firefox01:
You avoid them. Or better still, you marry a woman that has her own papers. If she bleeps up, it might not be as painful as the Bleep up from a woman who used you for papers.

That's the formula.

The problem is not her per se, it's the discriminatory western laws against men. So it's an insult on your hustle to enter a deal where the person that breaks the deal get rewarded.

Now she is cheating on you, not supporting you, and if you scold her, she may file for emotional violence and abuse. So you don't even have to touch her to be considered a bad man.

I just hope the pain that is cooking in the background doesn't happen. And that pain is to be sent to the trenches by a woman you brought out of the trenches.

Regex:


I am actually living my life alone.


"...once you know how to take care of yourself, company becomes an option."

~Keanu Reeves

Yes. just like how a rat is punished with crayfish in the mouse trap, that's how humans are punished with the things they need, by the one who have it. If you can live alone as a man or woman, you'll almost be indestructible.

Since those malevolent folks can see that they are options, not a necessity.

hammed71:
marriage these days na scam, bro I can bet she had sex with that guy and I am sure you already knew her character before you married her.
sometimes it's good to just have baby mama that you can co partner together and take care of your kids together.

Gbam!, that's the way bro.

pansophist:


Yes. just like how a rat is punished with crayfish in the mouse trap, that's how humans are punished with the things they need, by the one you have it. If you can leave alone as a man or woman, you'll almost be indestructible.

Since those malevolent folks can see that they are options, not a necessity.

Exactly. I am glad I am able to do it. It shows what you have been talking here is actually entering my head. Na that weight and food own remain... Once I don get am, I go happy like mad.

emmaodet:


Na WA oooo

Guys dey face shege for that UK oo

Boss,

I just weak

pansophist:
Op I have no advice to give, I just came to announce that you're an idiot, and deserves everything happen to you. Even with all the advice you're getting here, you're still faithful in your defense for a woman that doesn't meant well for you. Ewu.

For you to be this angry, the thing enter you Wella

Insultme:


Hmm.
Una don reach here.
Edo kọ́, Imo ni. 😔😔

OP i feel your PAINS SHA…. So sorry about the betrayal from your WIFE….just that you didn’t know her that much before you brought her with yourself to UNITED STATE….

Can we chat privately, i have fee questions to ask you. Thank you