I really don’t want to go into depth. Just tired of him, just need a male friend who can take my mind elsewhere. I’m just fed up.

What happened? If you don't tell us, how do you expect us to advise and encourage you? Just try and put it down so we can know where the problem is coming from

Mikagrace:
I really don’t want to go into depth. Just tired of him, just need a male friend who can take my mind elsewhere. I’m just fed up.

Then divorce him and allow us hear word.
Onto the next please

Rayban25:


Then divorce him and allow us hear word.
Onto the next please

What does a kid like you know concerning marriage? Go to tech section and learn things, stop putting mouth on issues bigger than you. Just an advise

IyaebeTheGreat:
What happened? If you don't tell us, how do you expect us to advise and encourage you? Just try and put it down so we can know where the problem is coming from

so many issues, all the issue you think a human being can have, he has it. I don’t want to start listing them because I’ve written threads about him before and he found out. I need an outlet.. I need some type of distraction.

Mikagrace:
so many issues, all the issue you think a human being can have, he has it. I don’t want to start listing them because I’ve written threads about him before and he found out. I need an outlet.. I need some type of distraction.

Didn't you see the red flags before agreeing to marry him? If yes, what was the reason for overlooking those redflags?

IyaebeTheGreat:
What does a kid like you know concerning marriage? Go to tech section and learn things, stop putting mouth on issues bigger than you. Just an advise

Iyaebe..you finally have some of my precious attention that you crave so badly since you wont stay off my mention..

What can rayban do for you please
Nb: I dont patronize hookup/oloshos just to be clear

Mikagrace:
so many issues, all the issue you think a human being can have, he has it. I don’t want to start listing them because I’ve written threads about him before and he found out. I need an outlet.. I need some type of distraction.

So having a male friend around you will solve yr problem, i have this feeling you are worst then him

Rayban25:


Iyaebe..you finally have some of my precious attention that you crave so badly since you wont stay off my mention..

What can rayban do for you please
Nb: I dont patronize hookup/oloshos just to be clear

. Stop jumping on serious topics that demands serious advise and counseling

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ojun50:

So having a male friend around you will solve yr problem, i have this feeling you are worst then him

She is yet to say anything, until then don't judge her. Be patient till she tell us what happened

It is what it is!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FIiFz6zkiR0

IyaebeTheGreat:
Didn't you see the red flags before agreeing to marry him? If yes, what was the reason for overlooking those redflags?

yes I did, was too young and naive to leave. I also got pregnant so I had no choice. Thankfully I only have one child for him and will not be having anymore.

[color=#006600][/color] shit happens sometimes. Can relate. Just be strong.

Mikagrace:
I really don’t want to go into depth. Just tired of him, just need a male friend who can take my mind elsewhere. I’m just fed up.

ojun50:

So having a male friend around you will solve yr problem, i have this feeling you are worst then him

For now yes, to distract my mind from what I’m dealing with before I run mad.

IyaebeTheGreat:
She is yet to say anything, until then don't judge her. Be patient till we tell us what happened

She has made her mind up before coming here.

Mikagrace:
yes I did, was too young and naive to leave. I also got pregnant so I had no choice. Thankfully I only have one child for him and will not be having anymore.

Do you forsee a lasting solution to the problems? Or you've made up your mind? Why do you need a male friend? What of your parents and what are they saying in all of this?

Mikagrace:
yes I did, was too young and naive to leave. I also got pregnant so I had no choice. Thankfully I only have one child for him and will not be having anymore.

I feel your pain BUT... pls be patient. Can you at least move out of the house? Then both of you see counselors... or you alone, so your mind can heal?

If you are in Abuja, I can give you contacts to a therapist.

Just don't join his character and ruin the home. biko...

When we dey talk next time una go dey hear.

Men of these days don't really have anything to offer than pains, stress, headache.

Reason I advise any single lady who cares to listen not to be in haste to jump into marriage especially with men of this generation. They will strip you of the good life and freedom you once had and not add value to your life. So, maximize and enjoy your singlehood as long as it last and don't let any one pressure you into the wrong union.

If you can't stand him any longer, please separate from him for sometime for your sanity.

Mikagrace:
so many issues, all the issue you think a human being can have, he has it. I don’t want to start listing them because I’ve written threads about him before and he found out. I need an outlet.. I need some type of distraction.

For a wife to say this against her husband, it means she has had enough.

Kindly bear with him a little more, its an unavoidable stage of marriage. You shall soon overcome it.

ojun50:

She has made her mind up before coming here.

Let her say it herself before drawing any conclusion, always give people the benefit of doubt

Mikagrace:
For now yes, to distract my mind from what I’m dealing with before I run mad.

You can go ahead and see if that distraction will not turn to destrotion

I can assured you that having a male friend as you wish can't solve the problem...... mind you the so called bestie can be devil in disguise. . I will advice you call your hubby and have a talk with him...let him realise what he was doing that you don't like....remember no marriage is perfect

IyaebeTheGreat:
Do you have a dick that can service an olosho? Grow some dick first you kid. Stop jumping on serious topics that demands serious advise and counseling

I gave you an opportunity to tell me what you wanted and all you just did was confirm that you're an olosho

Onto the next please

yrhuhfy113:


I feel your pain BUT... pls be patient. Can you at least move out of the house? Then both of you see counselors... or you alone, so your mind can heal?

If you are in Abuja, I can give you contacts to a therapist.

Just don't join his character and ruin the home. biko...

we are stuck in this house together unfortunately. I don’t know if a therapist can help but okay maybe? Yeah…

[quote author=Mikagrace post=122133961] we are stuck in this house together unfortunately. I don’t know if a therapist can help but okay maybe?d

Mikagrace:
I really don’t want to go into depth. Just tired of him, just need a male friend who can take my mind elsewhere. I’m just fed up.

You are tired of your husband yet you need a male friend? If you are fed up what happened to divorce?

Mikagrace:
■ so many issues, all the issue you think a human being can have, he has it. I don’t want to start listing them because I’ve written threads about him before and he found out. I need an outlet.. I need some type of distraction.

1. You need an outlet or an out? Commonsense for people who have so many issues in marriage as you claim you have here is to seek an out, not an outlet, so why not an out at this point?

Mikagrace:
I really don’t want to go into depth. Just tired of him, just need a male friend who can take my mind elsewhere. I’m just fed up.

Errm i am interested in being friends with you .. not FWB, but gist partner, kindly send me a mail from my profile or drop your mail. Then we can talk all day.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Do you forsee a lasting solution to the problems? Or you've made up your mind? Why do you need a male friend? What of your parents and what are they saying in all of this?

my parents don’t like him, but they have told me to bear it for the sake of whatever. I need a male friend to distract my mind. I don’t see a lasting solution because he is set in his ways, I don’t think he can change. His issues are generational curses that I don’t have the power to break.

Rayban25:


I gave you an opportunity to tell me what you wanted and all you just did was confirm that you're an olosho

Onto the next please

All you know on this forum no pass olosho. See family matters Oya chook mouth let's know if you're grounded and intelligent but shishi you can't offer. Please don't derail because I intend to counsel her on what to do when she finally tells us why she needs a male friend

Kobojunkie:
1. You need an outlet or an out? Commonsense for people who have so many issues in as you claim seek an out, not an outlet, so why not an out at this point?

Both, but for now I can’t leave so an outlet is the best option for me.