snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

Basicend:
Hmm. .

She now wants to start tasting many fishes she missed while at young age. .

Most likely you married her a virgin and or at an early age.

Bro, there are some men out there confusing and deceiving ya wife.

Pray to God to salvage ur transforming wife and marriage.

virginprincess:
Instead of you to look for a way to pls her by being romantic you are here complaining to bitter nairaland men that will gladly help you scatter your marriage with their negative comments.

Samantha124:
Maybe you used money to woo her, isn't that how you Nigerian guys woo ladies? By using money?

She might've fallen for it hoping that you're this romantic guy, only to find out that you're not.
B

Failure2019:
It's over for you , she's not love with you anymore

You better divorce and go your way

sulakishop:
Maybe she has started sampling r@mr0ds

Women don't know how to hide feelings especially in "that" aspect

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

koladata:
please don't tell him , haba! , you can't keep simple secret... you want to ruin his home ?

Lovilla:
That is too bad of her

Just give her time, she will change

ahnie:

Most times you chip like a loose birdie,do you by any chance realised you re abusing someone's wife?

And for the records,pls stop stereotyping women.

Fearyourcreator:

Divorce don turn normal... 10 years you just opened mouth divorce like naso e easy ...

Failure2019:
It's over for you , she's not love with you anymore

You better divorce and go your way

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

ItisWell22:


Guyyyyy… 😂

Even me wey be woman begin laugh as I read the heading… 🤣😂

After 10 years!!

How?? 😫

And tiri shiidren ooo

rickleye:


Haha, it’s called midlife crisis.

Just tell her she is right and start the dating process again.
Many of us think our wives are like our mothers . Marry and keep for home. The game is changing bro. I am sure she has a friend on WhatsApp with whom she has discussed this with already.

1. Plan a date nite every week . Go catch a flick and have someone watch the kids.
2. Do something together with the family once a month. Go to Olumo Rock and Beach . A family outing .
3. Don’t forget her birthday make it exciting ( get her flowers or money - depending on her love language)
4. Make an effort to show PDA infront of the kids. Steal a kiss 💋, slap her buttocks , call her sexy mamacita or siren.
5. Make sex impromptu. After coitus , ask would like a glass of water or wine to relax ( she will laugh and say , thank you yes or no )
6. If you are just Spooning dude , change into missionary or doggy . ( now sex and love are not the same) . Massage and ask her where she may want to be touched to excite her …

Make the effort !!! You might not be comfortable doing any of the above but as you mentioned it appears she never “ lived “ done anything she wanted to do . Her first born is 10.
And it’s been mummy this , mummy that !

I would give her the leg chain *

Don’t ignore her warnings or else someone else will fill the void.