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Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Gamesmart: 3:31pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
virginprincess: He married her. She should be eternally pleased and grateful and she should be consistently looking for ways to please and reward him for the marriage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Isabi4lov: 3:32pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Emma1Oj: Her eyes don open be that , all the things she bin dey tolerate from her guy before she no wan dey tolerate them again . She feel say her guy no too good for her again, so her guy gats to level up and up her game. |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Fearyourcreator: 3:32pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Mrwhite09:Most of you shouting simp... Old age many of una go suffer... No be everything be simp 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by millstone(m): 3:33pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis:This man you just wan use your hand scatter your marriage o! You be listening to the devil here. Oga go home to your wife and make her feel like a woman again. What do you people even enjoy when your affairs are public? Tried that shit and it leads to no solution. Oga you're playing with fire here |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Robella(f): 3:34pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Dear poster, Congrats on 10 years. Many things might be involved here... raising kids and building a home can be overwhelming and sometimes people can forget to live life. Ask yourself these questions 1. Have you both gone on dates or just hung out alone recently? 2. When last did you buy her a gift just for the sake of it? Not birthday or valentine. 3. When last did you tell her she is beautiful? 4. When last did you flirt with her and make her feel young and sexy 5. When last did you tell her you appreciate her taking care of the home. 6. When last did you tell her "babe relax I'll cook dinner'' or "babe wear something nice, I'm taking you out. Women get bored too, you need to spice things up, make her feel wanted, tease her, kiss her and please her. she might just be craving your attention that's why she's talking about piercings and tattoos. 10 years is a long time but marriage is a lifetime job. It's best that she has told you how she feels. You both can get through this together...Good luck! snthesis: 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Veepeelee: 3:35pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Nairaland is the worst place to seek advice q for marriage problems ![]() |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Killermamba: 3:36pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis:This one don go marry slay queen 👑 |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by EgunMogaji2: 3:37pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Divorce? |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Boldkrammy: 3:37pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Good that she said it. All you need to do is to sit down with her, discuss, agree and disagree on what her terms of being romantic is. Set boundaries. It's not everything a man should agree for a woman. Being ten years in marriage does not guarantee anything. Marital relationship needs continueous review and corrections in love. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by sewa36447(m): 3:38pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Someone is knacking her already 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by advanceDNA: 3:38pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by OdefaGirl(f): 3:40pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis: Hmmmmm, wahala 🤣 She has strayed.... but tell us your own flaws too |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Gamesmart: 3:40pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Albertone: Very well said. If Mr A does something for or to a woman, she might love it and be satisfied. If Mr B does exactly the same thing for or to a woman, she would hate it and be unsatisfied. Whether you are treated like Mr A or B depends on how much she likes and is attracted to you. The woman wants to be pleased by anything Mr A does and will find a way to be pleased if she likes him and feels lucky he is entertaining her. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by standardboi(m): 3:41pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Why say that? She feels because of the children bearing you are not really attracted to her.......He has to walk on himself. |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by OdefaGirl(f): 3:44pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Gamesmart: Ok nah 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by snthesis(m): 3:47pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Gamesmart: deep. ive decided to ignore her, there is a deeper issue, that she isn't revealing, and trying to hide under me not being romantic 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Basicend: 3:48pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Autobot05: Why did you say don't get emotionally attached to a woman, Sir? Lemme have ur nos. Thanks. |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by OdefaGirl(f): 3:50pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
rickleye: BEST COMMENT AWARD.... THIS ONE SWEET ME 🥰 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Gamesmart: 3:50pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
blaquebelle: Thank you. Similar to what I said. |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Haveyoueatentod: 3:51pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
She has tasted a romantic peepee your peepee suddenly becomes unromantic |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by AFRICANJAMAICA: 3:51pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
ajimo54: Unless the guy is useless,why will you be bothered if a woman wants a divorce.. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by kellybently(m): 3:52pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis: Your wife don experience super sexy romantic touch from one nice niggar |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by sniperr007(m): 3:52pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis: She wants to express herself. It's either you let her or she does it behind you. But I assure you, she will. She wants to live the youthful life that she didn't live Cos she was bearing children. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by IamtheTruth1(m): 3:53pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis: Brace yourself; she wants to be free o. Hope your blood pressure is good. |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Nobody: 3:53pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Akharmony:She has tasted a “town rod” different from Balablu blu blu bulaba, ye babuluku le. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by kiddkash(m): 3:53pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
advanceDNA:No need
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Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Rhassidy360: 3:54pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Hamzaaaaaaaa:sharap u get GF ? |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by sniperr007(m): 3:56pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Lovilla: She will after living the life she believes she has missed in her 20s. She wants to catchbup lost times |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Gentew(m): 3:58pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Wakins: She's about to nack the next available nackable.. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by bentenny(m): 3:58pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
hmmmm.... You got carried away for years by the lovey dovey waves and you probably lost most of your mystery which acted like a charm to her! You got too comfortable and she also got comfortable! Now she is bored and is looking outside for a little adventure! Unfortunately,she may have probably got emotionally and sexually entangled with a younger and crazy stud which explains why she now wants tattoos and nose piercings! My opinion though! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by marsup: 4:00pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Then spice up the relationship, be adventurous, spontaneous and romantic. Do something nice.... Spontaneous sex on beach, or a quicky in an elevator or your car.... Take her out on dates. Be happy she told you. PS. Make sure your wife is not hanging out with unfriendly friends. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Hotguy27: 4:00pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis: Waistebeads? To impress who? You or another man? Piercing where? Nose? Ears? Or down there? If nose or ear, you may encourage her to do it but if it's down there...hmmm... Wahala dey oo. The hard truth maybe difficult for you to absorb. She is ready to flirt if she is not doing so already. It is also possible that both of you were not together at a certain time and she tasted another man after a long time without s3x. The feeling for her must be great and she may think it has something to do with you. Solution: Spice up your marriage by ;- Try to bring next things in your sexual lives - try new styles, try s^cking her down there, Do not engage her in s3x often, Try doing it once in two weeks or more, Be buying her gifts, Be taking her out once in a while without the kids and Finally, upgrade your own wardrobe. Dress smartly, Buy designer Snickers, shoes, wrist watches, Wear nice and mild colognes. Don't link what you are doing to her complaints of you not being romantic. You will thank me later. |
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