If u take this topic to romance section urself, dat means you already have the answers to urself... So please don't bother us

this are two different stages in life, but getting a car as a single dude will open spectrum of choices, thereby increasing your chances in both ends...

Op u beta buy motor use am do uber work, from there u go get money take marry. My 2cent.

If you really need that car please buy it now before getting married. Else you will be getting the car in next 15years. If you know you know

GEJDHERO:
PLS I NEED ADVICE .Am on a crossroad..i know i have to settle down soonest but i also desperately need to buy a new car.I HAVE BEEN USING MY OLD CAR FOR 10YRS NOW

U done buy land?

GEJDHERO:
PLS I NEED ADVICE .Am on a crossroad..i know i have to settle down soonest but i also desperately need to buy a new car.I HAVE BEEN USING MY OLD CAR FOR 10YRS NOW

Buy a new car. Use 20k do court wedding and just pay bride price. Marry Yoruba babe, bride price na 5k. Live your life

I came to read a brother’s sister comment

GEJDHERO:
PLS I NEED ADVICE .Am on a crossroad..i know i have to settle down soonest but i also desperately need to buy a new car.I HAVE BEEN USING MY OLD CAR FOR 10YRS NOW

pls everyone on nairaland, i am apealling to you all. pls can anyone help,me with 1k, just 1k nothing more than that. i am very very hungry, i havent eaten since saturday last week. At least let me get something to eat today, so i can have energy to go out and look for money or hustle. PLS SAVE A HUNGRY BROTHER

Buy your car, my brother!

Atleast you can always 'ride' that one without any wahala

You need not get our advice, follow your mindset.

jeffsummers:
pls everyone on nairaland, i am apealling to you all. pls can anyone help,me with 1k, just 1k nothing more than that. i am very very hungry, i havent eaten since saturday last week. At least let me get something to eat today, so i can have energy to go out and look for money or hustle. PLS SAVE A HUNGRY BROTHER

Haha!!! You dey fast ni......last week bawo🏃‍♂️

GEJDHERO:
PLS I NEED ADVICE .Am on a crossroad..i know i have to settle down soonest but i also desperately need to buy a new car.I HAVE BEEN USING MY OLD CAR FOR 10YRS NOW

buy car. Marriage isn't hard as long as the woman is not lazy. Don't go and use your hard earned money to cook rice and buy drinks for strangers you don't know oo

Teeklef:

Haha!!! You dey fast ni......last week bawo🏃‍♂️

you wont understand. i am really broke, if am fasting, i wont be asking anyone for money.

Marry the one wey go follow you and the old car.









Thank me later.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Get married please, this is how you keep wasting somebody's daughter's time.

Don't just blurt out advice like that. I thought you were smarter than that

You buy a car you pay every month for servicing and spare parts, you fuel it too and sometimes you pay to get it washed and in the end the car depreciates... You start a family, you pay bills, food, electric, rent, educational, health, clothes....and in the end your kids grows to be successful and they inturn start taking care of you... I rest my case.

Will you like to break Moses record??..How long you wanna keep walking??..Even our lord was on a horse cause it was a necessity..Marriage will happen when the time is right but my brother,A lady will sit in a corolla than sitting on a bike with you..No woman wey no like car oo..Don’t play yourself

SMARTMOTORS:
You buy a car you pay every month for servicing and spare parts, you fuel it too and sometimes you pay to get it washed and in the end the car depreciates... You start a family, you pay bills, food, electric, rent, educational, health, clothes....and in the end your kids grows to be successful and they inturn start taking care of you... I rest my case.

..Abeg your advice no clear road..

Buy a car o.
make those yahoo boys with cars no flex your wife puna.

SMARTMOTORS:
You buy a car you pay every month for servicing and spare parts, you fuel it too and sometimes you pay to get it washed and in the end the car depreciates... You start a family, you pay bills, food, electric, rent, educational, health, clothes....and in the end your kids grows to be successful and they inturn start taking care of you... I rest my case.

They will take care of their mom and niglect the father....

jeffsummers:


you wont understand. i am really broke, if am fasting, i wont be asking anyone for money.

Toh

Both are not achievement,only if the car is fetching u money on a daily basis,that's an achievement
And if that woman u marry to is ur dream woman and she loves u back equally! otherwise both are just liabilities

Teeklef:
Toh

pls can you help me out with anything

Marriage is not a joke financially and emotionally. Are you ready for marriage and its responsibility?

If you getting married today Shey you wan dey bottle your friend car to carry una go wedding ??..Think well..Send 10mil to a woman now and she will rather buy cloths than thinking of una marriage so wise up brother..Focus on things you need before marriage..My lovely wife to be is with me cause she sees what am worth and not who I am..

seanwilliam:
At the op, please get yourself the car,



The reality of life, especially in Nigeria is that, chances of enjoying life as a man is low the moment you get married. Responsibility might choke u to the extent that you’ll even forget to buy yourself a new boxer




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Except luck and grace shine on you and you have more than enough ,

Are you married?

Marry and thank me later. A good wife ooo.
Most times car is liability, we call it second wife.

Persephone1:
Buy a new car except you want to wait another ten years

If he married now, he may not be able to afford car in the next 10 year? Lol

[quote author=GEJDHERO post=122860231]PLS I NEED ADVICE .Am on a crossroad..i know i have to settle down soonest but i also desperately need to buy a new car.I HAVE BEEN USING MY OLD CAR FOR 10YRS NOW Both are not achievement,only if the car is fetching u money on a daily basis,that's an achievement
And if that woman u marry to is ur dream woman and she loves u back equally! otherwise both are just liabilities

akwesenana:
A wife and a car.


Both are liablieties.

One can be converted to an asset though.

Ohhhhhhhhhhhh.....gye u be mind reader.
Na d thing wey dey my mind be dt.

Why not him turn dt money over in a biznaze. Both 'liabilities' can be incurred without pain when his 'pepper' fully rest.

The only thing dt should make him go for either is if d car is expected to bring in money or if the woman is ever so submissive!
If she's submissive she'll tag along with u thru thick and thin.

None. Both are liabilities, get a landed property instead or an investment account