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Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by Kobojunkie: 5:27pm On May 15, 2023 |
pooozeee:Abroad or in Nigeria? ![]() |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by Hydroxide(m): 5:31pm On May 15, 2023 |
cococandy:That's how women reason here in this part of the world. If a man hits money the first thing that comes to his mind, is looking for a good woman but when a woman hits money, the first thing that comes to her mind is being a Boss lady and she will brag she don't need any man. 2 Likes |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by erico2k2(m): 5:35pm On May 15, 2023 |
Righteousness2:The way it seems right now ,Jesus Lives in Europe and America, Devil lives in Africa, where would you rather be ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by erico2k2(m): 5:38pm On May 15, 2023 |
delishpot:MayB they should run their own ship in Nigeria too and get used to it |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by Kobojunkie: 5:38pm On May 15, 2023 |
cococandy:It ain't even about being true Christians as I equally know traditionalists who have similar respect their spouses. It is common sense to do in relationships really. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by Kobojunkie: 5:40pm On May 15, 2023 |
cococandy: 1 Like
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Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by cococandy(f): 5:40pm On May 15, 2023 |
Hydroxide: Okay I see we are still choosing to be economical with the truth. The men who hit money are not typically trying to see how many women they can get with (even when they are married)? All I see is a group of people who are not ready to actually be for real. Maybe one there’ll be a solution but as of today when everyone is the problem except you guys, you will still see the same results over and over again 3 Likes |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by caesymore(m): 5:41pm On May 15, 2023 |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by PoliticalChinex(m): 5:41pm On May 15, 2023 |
Jennyclay: U wan dump that 9ja boyfriend as u dey look for who go carry u go UK |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by cococandy(f): 5:42pm On May 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Totally agree. It should be common sense 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by PDJT: 5:42pm On May 15, 2023 |
cococandy: -Few, not most, may share household bills in Nigeria, but not 50:50 as "equal partners" should. Most Nigerian women marry men above their socio-economic status and won't be able to share most of those bills anyway, and this leaves the men running against brick walls in order to keep the home going - a thankless job. -Perhaps, men who wants to get into this monogamous relationships needs to marry only women within their socio-economic status not below. This can go along way to normalise their relationships... -The African man is carrying too much of the burden to build a home, village, town and city for his community and people. These things weigh men down and affect their mental health too. So let's cut the men some slack, and also stop nudging them on to keep on ruining their physical and mental health for the good of others especially women. The African woman must step-up and carry some, if not half, of the burden in order to earn some respect. - As par the household chores, thats why Polygamy is there... more hands gets things done sooner and better, otherwise "partners" should invest in some white-goods and live their Europhile lifestyle in peace. 1 Like |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by ffo(m): 5:44pm On May 15, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Why cant you be the one to take someone to UK? there are ladies taking men to UK too |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by edoairways: 5:44pm On May 15, 2023 |
Crafteck1:It is just a stereotype which shouldn't be generalized |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 5:47pm On May 15, 2023 |
Mindlog:I go for like read this project oo. 1 Like |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by Kobojunkie: 5:49pm On May 15, 2023 |
PDJT:of what value or meaning is the statement in bold to this here subject? ![]() |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by Kobojunkie: 5:50pm On May 15, 2023 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Me too! We may even need a series of threads to explore it in-depth! ![]() 1 Like
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Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by cococandy(f): 5:50pm On May 15, 2023 |
I see your definition of reality is based on nairaland. I won’t be going back and forth with you on a clearly disingenuous premise. PDJT: 1 Like |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by HaneefahRN(f): 5:50pm On May 15, 2023 |
Mindlog: God bless you. |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by promzy555(m): 5:53pm On May 15, 2023 |
Arranging marriage. If u know u kn |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by cococandy(f): 5:53pm On May 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: His solution to the problems in the marriage is for the men to marry more wives. because the women obviously are not human beings hence whatever the men have against sharing their wives with other men is not applicable to women. Like I said, they will promote everything dysfunctional except working on themselves to be more lovable husbands. They are not ready for solutions. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by PDJT: 5:54pm On May 15, 2023 |
cococandy: -Whatever love. X |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by t2luv1: 5:55pm On May 15, 2023 |
JovialJune: I was this close to agreeing with you on some points until that overrate thing. Depending on the woman's age if after 35 she wants to leave I will say please let her go. Until someone can show me what freaking things in this world appreciate in values with age and after being used. The Same thing applies to men. |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by Kobojunkie: 5:56pm On May 15, 2023 |
PDJT:But no one holds a gun to their heads to cause them to choose these burdens for themselves. Why must the woman do anything when it is the men who continue to burden themselves in these ways? ![]() 2. So, in order to avoid doing chores, marrying more than one wife is what makes sense? Wow... and earlier, and here I was thinking you wanted men to carry fewer burdens in marriage? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by Kobojunkie: 5:58pm On May 15, 2023 |
cococandy:I thought for a second he was being serious about advising African men to carry fewer burdens until I read the lines where he suggested they marry more wives in order to have more hands on deck as far as handling chores. I was like what the heck.... ROFLMAO ![]() 1 Like
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Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by PDJT: 5:58pm On May 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: - Ha! You again. How much would you pay me to educate you on that? |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by descarado: 6:00pm On May 15, 2023 |
bukatyne:What should they discuss? Just get it right from the beginning. Characters encoded in the dna is hard, very hard to change. We often look the other way when the tale tell signs are everywhere during courtship. How are you and family? |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by Kobojunkie: 6:06pm On May 15, 2023 |
xynerise:Do you know why it is happening to your uncle though? I am asking that you take off the blinders and examine every detail of why exactly he is going through it. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by PDJT: 6:09pm On May 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: -Women are not a burden to real men. Only the Simps are burdened by women. -Sure, Polygamy makes more sense especially in today's world full of lazy postmodernist women. -And yes, if women wants equal respect they must share the burden 50:50. Deal? 1 Like |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by Mindlog: 6:12pm On May 15, 2023 |
keepingmum: It is a draft and the Masters student is still working on it, as she is going to present and submit it in September, for her graduation in November. So I do not have the rights to share her academic work as she shared it with me in confidence, for my insights as I encouraged her to opt for Psychology fot her Masters. 2 Likes |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by Kobojunkie: 6:14pm On May 15, 2023 |
PDJT:So a married man has zero responsibility toward the woman he is married to? ![]() Keep twisting yourself up in tangled-up knots there. 2 Likes |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by t2luv1: 6:19pm On May 15, 2023 |
PDJT: Even in America, nothing is 50:50 unless both of you use joint bank accounts (Something I will strongly advise against doing). In all my years of living in the USA whenever a woman makes more than her husband trust me on this one aspect Nigeria women are still better as compared to American women. They still tend to respect their husband, but American women forget about it she rules. 1 Like |
Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by cococandy(f): 6:22pm On May 15, 2023 |
PDJT:Mmmkay sweetheart ![]() 1 Like |
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