So why do you think love hurts so much?

Why is it that relationships and marriages don't even last anymore?

Why do people pretend so much in a relationship or marriage, only for you to discover their true character later?

Why can't people be happy in a relationship anymore? And marriages??

And to think of all the marriages breaking up everyday, even celebrity marriages crashing everyday.

I think many people are just not sincere with themselves before getting married. They just pretend and show their true character after marriage. So the marriage crashes. Why can't people get married to those they love?

Love does not even matter to many people anymore. It's all about money and material things. So the pretence goes on...

So what do you think?

How can relationships and marriages be made stronger, to last more??

What do you think about these issues?

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Drop your views. Drop your experiences and what you think.

Not everyone is meant for marriage.

This is a fact of Life!

Pray very well before you marry that lady/man.

What are your experiences with love, dating, relationship and/or marriage?

What's your advice for people, from your experiences?

Digital204:
Drop your views. Drop your experiences and what you think.

How can two morally bankrupt, sexually indiciplined people, jumping from one pvssy/penis to another for more than a decade (btw age 16-30 years old) want to settle down....
Lol.. its funny.... there's nothing like "settling down" in that equation..cos old habits of over a decade wont just go away becos of a marriage certificate....

Its proven science..... its basically Garbage in, garbage out

I see. Hmmm....

Marriage is not meant for everyone, right? But many people who are not prepared for marriage go into it. That's why it collapses. If you know it's not meant for you, figure it out and don't go into it.

I see.....

Dating, love, relationship, marriage,...... Serious issues.

* Poverty - Most girls theses days don't date for love, they would date you as long as you've proven that you can absorb their financial responsibilities. So if you fall in love with such girl and along the line, you can no longer satisfy her huge financial appetite, it would end in tears for you.

* High rate of sexual immorality - Today, everyone wants to have sex. Even girls of 13 nowadays have boyfriends. Now imagine such girl at 26, what kind of love do you want to show to her that would move her? Loving such person would only end in tears cos such girl would be emotionally damaged and would find it difficult reciprocating your love. Same goes for guys as well.

* When you love for the wrong reasons - If you fall in love with a girl because she has big boobs or big àss and overlook her character, it would end in tears. Same goes for guys. If you love a guy because he's financially loaded and overlook his womanizing or abusive nature, it would surely end in tears.

* When you love foolishly - You know that a guy or girl doesn't love you, but you just can't stop loving him/her. You keep sleeping with him even though you know he's just using you. You sacrifice all you have to please her, you even give up your future plans just to make her achieve hers, my brother, it would end in tears.

* When you fall in love with a player - You know this person has a trailer load of exes who are very much in contact with him/her, but you don't care, you're in love and she's your missing rib. Your heart would go missing as well cos it would end it tears for you.

In summary, love isn't painful, we just like loving the wrong people. Don't just fall in love blindly, access the person and be sure that he/she is compatible with you before falling in love, that way you would have reduced the shege you'll see by over 90%

Why are some people selfish in relationships and marriages?

Why do some people care only about themselves, why this selfishness?

Why insincerity, why hypocrisy?....?

Today a good number of people disregard God's word, the female do seek independent lifestyle, and sex outside of marriage is abundance these days, a lot of people are also exposed to the so called civilised world.

.... And civilization has brought too much knowledge.

.... The I too know mentality....!!... A problem to many relationships and marriages!

It's the same sex outside marriage that destroys many homes. But people keep engaging in it.

So why does love hurt so much

So why??



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So why?

Why are people so in a hurry in relationships?

Why are people so impatient?

Why??


Why??

People are no longer willing to be patient or tolerant of each other, that's why relationships and marriages break up easily.

Many people are now selfish and unforgiving to their partners. People are simply not caring for each other anymore.

And social media plays a very negative role in influencing many people's behavior negatively.

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Civilization and independency of the female partner, that's the only logical explanation I can render in this discussion.

Okay think of it this way, if you are totally dependent on someone for your upkeep, needs, bill, and any other amenities you so wish or desire, you will prolly stay glued to that person right?

I mean even if the person offends you, you will almost forgive easily because he/she is your dependant.

But the moment you become independent and you are able to afford everything that has made you stay glued to that person, your thinking mentality changes and you begin to see things from a different angle.

Things that would have been said to you ealier that probably would have been ignored will now that getting into you and you being to take note and act back.

Because you are not relying on that person, you can make your decisions without minding the consequences....


Same way when you are married to an independent wife.

Steady259:
Civilization and independency of the female partner, that's the only logical explanation I can render in this discussion.

Okay think of it this way, if you are totally dependent on someone for your upkeep, needs, bill, and any other amenities you so wish or desire, you will prolly stay glued to that person right?

I mean even if the person offends you, you will almost forgive easily because he/she is your dependant.

But the moment you become independent and you are able to afford everything that has made you stay glued to that person, your thinking mentality changes and you begin to see things from a different angle.

Things that would have been said to you ealier that probably would have been ignored will now that getting into you and you being to take note and act back.

Because you are not relying on that person, you can make your decisions without minding the consequences....


Same way when you are married to an independent wife.

Great points there. Relationship and marriage is a serious business for serious people. It's not for people who are not prepared for the challenges ahead.

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dominique
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Who has time for relationship wahala?

My own is to bang toto and go my way

May God forgive you for this kind of statement.

My thoughts...


An extreme fondness for materiality -through the rulers to the ruled- cultivates in a society a hoard of inhabitants full of emotional imbalance and immaturity.

Such a society is often devoid of true innate peace, satisfaction and purpose.

Oh! What a world!

Starlight252:
My thoughts...


An extreme fondness for materiality -through the rulers to the ruled- cultivates in a society a hoard of inhabitants full of emotional imbalance and immaturity.

Such a society is often devoid of true innate peace, satisfaction and purpose.

Oh! What a world!

How? How??

A lot of big sounding words there!

What exactly are you saying?

Make yourself to be understood by every reader. Use simpler words please!

Regards!

Digital204:


How? How??

A lot of big sounding words there!

What exactly are you saying?

Make yourself to be understood by every reader. Use simpler words please!

Regards!

Apologies...



A society of people who pursue enjoyment and authority -no matter the cost on general wellbeing- will only breed narrow minded and selfish citizens. A society ruled by selfish businessmen, power hungry politicians and selfish societal figures will ultimately transmit their selfishness and power-mongering behaviour to the masses.

Starlight252:

Apologies...



A society of people who pursue enjoyment and authority -no matter the cost on general wellbeing- will only breed narrow minded and selfish citizens. A society ruled by selfish businessmen, power hungry politicians and selfish societal figures will ultimately transmit their selfishness and power-mongering behaviour to the masses.

Noted.

Our society needs reforms to improve the general standard and well being of the people.

It shall be well.


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dominique
Rocktation
farano
nlfpmod

Nazgul:
* Poverty - Most girls theses days don't date for love, they would date you as long as you've proven that you can absorb their financial responsibilities. So if you fall in love with such girl and along the line, you can no longer satisfy her huge financial appetite, it would end in tears for you.

* High rate of sexual immorality - Today, everyone wants to have sex. Even girls of 13 nowadays have boyfriends. Now imagine such girl at 26, what kind of love do you want to show to her that would move her? Loving such person would only end in tears cos such girl would be emotionally damaged and would find it difficult reciprocating your love. Same goes for guys as well.

* When you love for the wrong reasons - If you fall in love with a girl because she has big boobs or big àss and overlook her character, it would end in tears. Same goes for guys. If you love a guy because he's financially loaded and overlook his womanizing or abusive nature, it would surely end in tears.

* When you love foolishly - You know that a guy or girl doesn't love you, but you just can't stop loving him/her. You keep sleeping with him even though you know he's just using you. You sacrifice all you have to please her, you even give up your future plans just to make her achieve hers, my brother, it would end in tears.

* When you fall in love with a player - You know this person has a trailer load of exes who are very much in contact with him/her, but you don't care, you're in love and she's your missing rib. Your heart would go missing as well cos it would end it tears for you.

In summary, love isn't painful, we just like loving the wrong people. Don't just fall in love blindly, access the person and be sure that he/she is compatible with you before falling in love, that way you would have reduced the shege you'll see by over 90%

Great points there!

This deserves front page.

Moderators, please kindly move to the front page for wider view.

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dominique
Rocktation
farano
nlfpmod

Steady259:
Civilization and independency of the female partner, that's the only logical explanation I can render in this discussion.

Okay think of it this way, if you are totally dependent on someone for your upkeep, needs, bill, and any other amenities you so wish or desire, you will prolly stay glued to that person right?

I mean even if the person offends you, you will almost forgive easily because he/she is your dependant.

But the moment you become independent and you are able to afford everything that has made you stay glued to that person, your thinking mentality changes and you begin to see things from a different angle.

Things that would have been said to you ealier that probably would have been ignored will now that getting into you and you being to take note and act back.

Because you are not relying on that person, you can make your decisions without minding the consequences....


Same way when you are married to an independent wife.

Good points.


Cc: Seun
dominique
Rocktation
farano
nlfpmod

Digital204:


Noted.

Our society needs reforms to improve the general standard and well being of the people.

It shall be well.


Cc: Seun
dominique
Rocktation
farano
nlfpmod

On a friendly note, you seemed irritated by
my previous choice of words...

Indeed, communication is key.
Henceforth, i'll heed your correction. Definitely.

Much thanks.

Funnily, i sometimes talk too much.

Starlight252:


On a friendly note, you seemed irritated by
my previous choice of words...

Indeed, communication is key.
Henceforth, i'll heed your correction. Definitely.

Much thanks.

Funnily, i sometimes talk too much.

No problem bro! You're welcome!

We are all here to learn, because we learn everyday.

It's my pleasure meeting you!

Regards!