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Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by FalselyaccusedC: 10:50am On Jun 14, 2023 |
There is this girl in my school. I've known her for a while now. We exchanged numbers in school and went on outings. After a Whatsapp chat one night, she promised to visit me the following day by 5pm So around 4pm I called her to ask if she's still coming. She said yes. I said okay. And waited. Around past 5, I called her again. She said she's coming. And was like, are you going somewhere? I said No. Then she said she's coming Waited and waited. No show. So I believed she wasn't coming again when it was 6pm Then I gave up and started working on my assignments Around Past 9pm. I got a call that she's at my gate. At my gate? I was shocked. Because it was late already Told her to enter (she knows my hostel room number) Few minutes later, I heard knock and I asked her to come in. Behold, this girl came with an extremely revealing clothes. Her boobs was almost out and just the nipples downward was covered. I welcomed her. I laid down on the bed and gave her my chair She sat down and I told her about how I wasn't expecting her again. She apologized and told me her friends and her went to a party and they are lodged in a hotel. So she was coming from hotel. I said okay. She suddenly joined me in bed and I wrapped my hands around her while tickling her with my fingers. She then called my name and asked "What are we now"? I said what does she want? She then said she can't be my bedmate so what are we? In my mind, I was like bedmate? I am not even planning to do anything with you. So I told her my girlfriend. So she said I should ask her out. I did and she said she will think about it Next thing, she asked me to do her a favour .... Still typing |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by FalselyaccusedC: 10:53am On Jun 14, 2023 |
@RoyalRoy and @Dominique Please help push this to front page. I need all the advice I can get |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by FalselyaccusedC: 11:02am On Jun 14, 2023 |
She sat down on the bed and I did the same And She said can I do something for her? I said, what? She said I should help her with 20k for something urgent I said I will see what I can do. Then she said if I don't allow you to 4ck me this night, will you still give me the money. Again, in my mind, I was like what's all this? I didn't tell you I want to have sex with you. Why are you making this assertion? So I answered her that she shouldn't let me 4ck her because of money. Then she suddenly laid almost on my chest and pressed her boobs on me. So I touched them and she pressed it even more and looked at my face She gave me this look of seriously? You don't know what to do face? So I stopped looking into her eyes. So she said aren't you supposed to kiss? Then I apologized. She said it's okay. She's going home and I escorted her She said she'll come back on Friday And got on bike. She left my place around past 10pm or to 11 at night of the same night she came And 10 minutes later, I got a message .... Typing.. |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by FalselyaccusedC: 11:07am On Jun 14, 2023 |
She then accused me of not caring about her in the message. She said I didn't even message to know if she got home safely. I apologized again. She then reminded me of the N20k and I said okay. Days later, she started disturbing me about the N20k and I told her to calm down that the money I was expecting hasn't come yet and the one in my account is for something very important. She got pissed and said she'll never come to my hostel again. On Saturday, I got the biggest shock of my life ... Typing |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by FalselyaccusedC: 11:13am On Jun 14, 2023 |
On Saturday, she sent me a VN claiming I raped her the day she came to my house. She was crying in the VN and girls in the VN background were consoling her and screaming all manner of insults. Next thing, I saw my picture and name on different school groups calling me a rapist. Even our school students Instagram Gist page with 57k followers posted my picture and called me a rapist. I can't go to school now I might even be expelled or arrested My DM is filled with insults. They even put Wanted on my pictures Guys, please. I need help. What can I do? Is there a medical way to prove a guy is still a virgin? Because that's the only thing I can think of now |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by FalselyaccusedC: 11:16am On Jun 14, 2023 |
I can't afford a lawyer. I haven't even finished paying my should fees. Please help me with advice because I might just commit suicide. I haven't slept since Saturday. I even picked up kitchen knife 2 days ago almost stabbing myself. I just thought of my family and dropped the knife again. But at this point, it's getting out of hand. More groups and pages are posting my pictures for something I didn't do. And nobody wants to hear my own side of the story |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by FalselyaccusedC: 11:21am On Jun 14, 2023 |
@dominique @Rocktation @farano @justwise Help me push to front page. I need help. I'm dying |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by talented321: 11:26am On Jun 14, 2023 |
Your reputation you use 30 years to build a woman will spoil it within one second, that is why even the bible no like women 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by Solofresh2: 11:33am On Jun 14, 2023 |
Nice Fiction bro |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by FalselyaccusedC: 11:33am On Jun 14, 2023 |
Solofresh2:I don't need to convince you this is my dilemma right now but thanks for reading |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by FalselyaccusedC: 11:35am On Jun 14, 2023 |
Guys please I need help. I would appreciate comments from ladies and medical experts. That's why I posted in Family section and not romance to avoid trolls and insults. Please I need all the reasonable people I can get to advise me. Thank you |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by Solofresh2: 11:42am On Jun 14, 2023 |
FalselyaccusedC:If your story is true then you should learn how to manipulate women before they do same to you.You should have learnt these things before allowing her to yourself in the first place |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by Zupay: 11:49am On Jun 14, 2023 |
Fiction but if true, no matter how broke you are, get the police and a lawyer as she needs to be prosecuted for falsely accusing you. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by Chronosvineberg(m): 11:52am On Jun 14, 2023 |
If you guys chatted on Whatsapp, after she left your house without her crying about rape but instead asking for 20k then you have all you need. It's your turn to start posting in the groups. Stand your ground. Do not be intimidated 7 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by FalselyaccusedC: 11:57am On Jun 14, 2023 |
Zupay:Why are you people saying fiction? Because I'm getting frustrated. If I want to entertain, won't I go to Romance section where there will be more engagement? I told my own side of the story to people offline, they chose to believe the girl's crocodile tears over my own explanation I came online to tell my own side of the story, you people are calling it fiction. Can't you get it? I need help! I'm frustrated here. Hello! Is it a crime to be a male in this world? |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by Zupay: 12:00pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
FalselyaccusedC: Did you skip where I mentioned the police and a lawyer? |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by FalselyaccusedC: 12:01pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
Chronosvineberg:I posted it. They didn't still believe me. She posted the part where I was begging her. Because before she and her friends posted my details on the group chat, she threatened me and it got to a point, I started begging her. So, she posted that part. It's like nobody wants to even listen to me. Even my fellow male. Nobody. All of them are consoling the girl |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by FalselyaccusedC: 12:02pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
Zupay:What if police arrest me? I don't have money for lawyer. I heard they charge 500k. I haven't even had 100k of my own before |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by Zupay: 12:16pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
FalselyaccusedC: Then go to the office of the Dean of students affairs and report her with your own evidence. |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by FalselyaccusedC: 12:18pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
Zupay:I haven't thought of that. I will try that today. Though I am really scared and shy of entering school but I will try today |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by bot227(f): 12:27pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
If you have all the messages and whatapp chat that shows you are innocent, send it to your school instagram and take it to the police station.make sure you inform her that you are going to the station with your evidence 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by dmgr(m): 12:43pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
FalselyaccusedC: Bro you f up by apologizing to her, like what were you apologizing for? Since you know deep within u ain't guilty of shit. That single apology has put you in a tight spot, because people will be like for him to have apologized means the rape accusations re true, you have already been manipulated. Taking your life won't solve the problem, rather compound it, if not anything for the sake of your family. On the way forward, hopefully a lawyer on here will be kind enough to give you legal advice on how to vindicate yourself from this mess you have found yourself. I wish you the very best. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by sisisioge: 12:43pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
FalselyaccusedC: Talk to your parents and elders in your family. They will know how to handle the matter. Meanwhile do a screenshot of all your convos and send to a secured email incase she gets your phone stolen. Small girls are now something else. She should be brought to the books for this. If you slack, there goes your life! 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by Nfora: 12:47pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
There is nothing to fear or contemplate suicide about. If you are innocent, rape is not something that can be proven otherwise. Even proving a real rape case is very very difficult, not to talk of lying over rape. I beg relax, with a cup of tea. A good strategy is for you to make same noise all over the social media and school magazine, about your innocence. Let your friends too join you in the crusade to counter false allegations. Publish all your conversations with the girl. I repeat, It is never possible to prove a rape that never happened!!! 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by b4ball: 12:49pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
I believed poster is just a troll. If not, you don’t even need a lawyer as this case would most likely be settled at the police station. Your WhatsApp messages are more than enough evidence because it will detail how your conversations began and how it evolved along every scenario. Go to the nearest police station, incident the case, ask for an IPO to be assigned to you and explain carefully all u said here with your WhatsApp evidence. Blackmailing is a serious crime and police don’t joke with it. She will be invited or arrested whichever comes first and trust me she will plead for forgiveness and retract her statements. The most you will part with is between 5k to 10k. 5k if she honours police invitation and around 10k if you need to mobilize them to go for arrest. The mere fact she chatted you lovingly after leaving your place same night, only to demand for 20k which didn’t come and later blackmail you has nailed her. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by tuzle(m): 1:27pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
FalselyaccusedC:are u a funaab student 400l because I saw one news like that online. The guy above is right. The message she sent the next day should proof that she wasn't raped. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by Freelancerr(m): 1:42pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
Stab yourself? Don't be a coward bro. She's trying to play your mind. If I were you ill use 5k and visit the nearest police station and arrest the ïdiot. Once I lock her up her family will beg for her üseless behaviour. You have both WhatsApp chats as evidence. Where she was asking you for 20k. Bro report that girl to the police asap. |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by We4all: 1:57pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
Firstly, show us the group chat where she posted it. Secondly, repost your own side of the story in the group chat. Thirdly, set her up by using someone to cajole her to a place. Make her confess then post it in the group chat. Go to the police and lodge and report her for false accusations. |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by GboyegaD(m): 2:07pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
FalselyaccusedC: Why are you not posting what happened the exact way it happened in the groups? Let it be known you have never had sex and that was the reason you rejected her offer that you should 4ck her. Explain it this same way how she asked you for money and is trying to blackmail you because of it. That said, do you know anyone in her family? Post her name on social media like this and find who knows her parents number. Call them to call their daughter to make necessary corrections ASAP. Please, post her name on ALL SOCIAL MEDIA with her pictures ASAP and write your story in full. It is a case of HE THAT IS DOWN NEED FEAR NO FALL. Report to the police ASAP and if you have links in the military, please make use of it. Someone needs be taught a very bitter lesson. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by IOXOI: 2:44pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
Post the Screenshot of the chat |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by akwesenana: 3:01pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
FalselyaccusedC:Where you, disembark from that jonsing. Tomorrow, go raise report of blackmail for yawa station and Dean of Student Affairs office. But you don already loseguard as you no show school since. Now some mayee them fit go dey mend you 'cause from your writeup, you no get the smallest OT. |
Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by Ajione(m): 3:03pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
Chronosvineberg: Screenshot all your chat and upload and type your own Side of story on the school social media or any social media handles that talk about you. You can get an activist lawyer for free. Act Fast |
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