Jennyclay:
Even the Bible says any man that can’t provide and take good care of his girlfriend/wife and children is worse than an infidel. Atleast men are to provide 97% for his girlfriend/wife.

A woman takes care of the home and you still expect her to bring something to the table. Haba!! Na wa!!

If you as a man wants your woman to bring something to the table, then be ready to switch sides by taking care of the home while the woman goes out to provide for your lazy and broke self.

You are Misled into Wasteful Lifestyle and indolence...Misinterpretation of d Bible is Sin.
The Family is a BALANCED Edifice. The Woman has her Shared Values and Proportion of Material Support...Bible Didn't Say that, the Should Provide everything for the Home...He Is the Head of d Home/Family and MUST Provide for the Home...But it doesn't Preclude her Support and Work...WHERE IS D VIRTUOUS WOMAN IN NIGERIA...Where Her Price is more than RUBBIES,Pls? Obey ur Bible intoto as U Read/Study it and DON'T BE SELECTIVE IN OBEDIENCE. Go and Get Married Pls...NO ROOM FOR GIRLFRIEND ALSO IN THAT UR QUOTE

Werey

Onisokuso!

That's because He doesn't have a Table in the first place , so no need bringing anything .


You can't put something on Nothing and expect it to stand

Dey play.

Segzy19:
Helping you to spend your money reasonably.
Not adding to your financial burden
Raising the kids well and maintaining the home well
Supporting you incase you have a business venture.
She can help run your business if she has the knowledge
If she is intelligent and brainy, she can help you with good and profitable ideas... Not like the dull ones that only has their beauty, breast and bumbum....

Not like the dull one or air full brain like jennyclan
I hope she's not like jenny??

Maysdevices:
Almost.

My wedding is next month.

Happy married life in advance.

TheOnlyUyai:


Happy married life in advance.

Thank you sweetheart.

You too.

Everyone is now a motivational speaker

Maysdevices:
You found my comment nice but wrote to me an insulting comment, you come to form innocent. Would you talk to anyone that way in reality? Are you trying to say your intention was not to mock me or have others mock me?

How would your comment be construed in reality? A nice one? Because you’re on a faceless forum that give you the right to comment like like teenager who’s balls haven’t even dropped in his sac?

Oh..u were expecting me to praise u because ur comment was nice?? ...lol....this is funny

Mock you..?? For what??

Form innocent..?? .?? Why would i want to do that?? I dont even know you..

Lol.... I thought u said u often come accross my comments. then u should know that i am not one of those that pretend, I dont asślick or worship pple or try to make pple feel I am a nice person.....
Any ways ..If u feel insulted...i sincerely apologize..that was not my intention.....

.but if u still feel my apology is also forming innocent to you........i take it back sharpally...

Jennyclay:
Even the Bible says any man that can’t provide and take good care of his girlfriend/wife and children is worse than an infidel. Atleast men are to provide 97% for his girlfriend/wife.

A woman takes care of the home and you still expect her to bring something to the table. Haba!! Na wa!!

If you as a man wants your woman to bring something to the table, then be ready to switch sides by taking care of the home while the woman goes out to provide for your lazy and broke self.

97%?
Why not 100
You airheads sha no get sense

I agree and that's what Adam fails to understand

LZAA:

97%?
Why not 100
You airheads sha no get sense

Adakintroy:
Funny thing he talk a about nature. The way people run through language and thrown around poetic words just to make themselve sound enlightened is why the world so such a reverse dumb place.

In nature as he said females bring things to the table. As a matter of fact all things are truly independent there. Male lion hunt female lioness hunt. Same with cheetahs, croc, bird e.t.c They are self sufficient. The female hunt, the male also hunts, no one provide for the next. The human arre the once that try to reverse that order. Naturally its not so. Every one should hunt on their own. It the fulcrum of the survival of the fittest mandate. No one owes you provision.

Actually the Lioness do most of the hunting not the male Lion.

Please and please and please dear Nigerian men let's clarify this bring to the table oh. For instance you want a woman to carry financial burden with you, you men will agree to carry 9months pregnancy with her as in, she say she no wan get belle for una born make una men begin carry belle born una go gree? Afterall science is way advanced for that upside down concept, so as i was saying dear Nigerian men una go gree born pikin? If not? Y'all better lace your boot straps and get on it like men. Spits at men waiting for women to feed them. A woman can decide to contribute/help out as your help meet where she sees you are lacking but opening your mouth waaa to say bring to the table, it is insulting to even your mothers that bore you.

Pride and entitle mentality will not allow her keep small secret, i think she is the first woman to got engaged.
You never start your journey you do dey make noise.

advanceDNA:



Lol....I read ur comment and i thought it was nice which made me feel u are ready for marriage..hence my comment....whats wrong with looking for a husband or wife??

..i ddnt insult u....but as usual, u interpreted it as an attack and start throwing insult and
confessing about ur life to a total stranger .

Wait..what has telling me u are engaged got to prove?? .... I dont even know u.........its a faceless forum.....nobody cares ....

If you can get your husband pregnant, then no problem he will do the shores with u.

Jazmine10:
Please and please and please dear Nigerian men let's clarify this bring to the table oh. For instance you want a woman to carry financial burden with you, you men will agree to carry 9months pregnancy with her as in, she say she no wan get belle for una born make una men begin carry belle born una go gree? Afterall science is way advanced for that upside down concept, so as i was saying dear Nigerian men una go gree born pikin? If not? Y'all better lace your boot straps and get on it like men. Spits at men waiting for women to feed them. A woman can decide to contribute/help out as your help meet where she sees you are lacking but opening your mouth waaa to say bring to the table, it is insulting to even your mothers that bore you.

Maysdevices:
This forum is faceless but you do business on it and have the temerity to add a vacancy to your thread.

The option of a profile picture has been added for a reason, several people have met each other and impacted positively on themselves because they actually have something to offer. People do business here, people have met life partners here, people have get jobs here, make lifetime friends.

It is only a loser with nothing to offer that thinks they can run their mouth here and decide to be faceless because they have nothing to offer anyone. What a disgrace.

That is the only part of your comment I will respond you because you have repeated it too much and quite frankly, it is extremely lame. Go to Quora and see how it is done, mr Faceless forum. Or better yet look for old threads with mature people here before your likes overrun it with foolishness.

Lets agree not to quote each from now on. I will make sure I never respond again.

Thanks.

Lol...untop say i talk say u wan marry... which i was correct....na hin u dey vex, dey insult me since......okay ooo......i nor kuku insult you....let the karma be the judge

Sorry ooo.....i mistakenly apologized in my last comment cos i felt u were angry by my comment......now i see that u just want to insult....so i take my apology back..

kapish!!!

But wait o! The money women make, what's it really for?

talented321:
If you can get your husband pregnant, then no problem he will do the shores with u.

Oga, releasing sperm and carry pregnancy no be the same thing no to talk about the process of birthing a child. Nigerian men quit whining like little bitches and take care of your responsibilies as men.

talented321:
Pride and entitle mentality will not allow her keep small secret, i think she is the first woman to got engaged.
You never start your journey you do dey make noise.

Baba .....i tire oooo....
Na emotions women dey u dialogue oooo...
Dem fit use aggression of man wey insult them yesterday insult person wey dem meet today....
. see her asking me "why did treat her that way after being nice to men" i bin dey feel say something else is involved.... men dey try ooooooooo....

Person go just marry some women enter wahala oooo

Jennyclay:
Even the Bible says any man that can’t provide and take good care of his girlfriend/wife and children is worse than an infidel. Atleast men are to provide 97% for his girlfriend/wife.

A woman takes care of the home and you still expect her to bring something to the table. Haba!! Na wa!!

If you as a man wants your woman to bring something to the table, then be ready to switch sides by taking care of the home while the woman goes out to provide for your lazy and broke self.

If you can precisely quote the Bible verse where you culled this nonsense from, then I will simply abide by the holy book

Majority of social media age women mumu well well, imagine that one claiming to be a responsible woman, i pity her husband, it may be one simp sha. Women who got engage to simps they get entitle mentality well well.

advanceDNA:


Baba .....i tire oooo....
Na emotions women dey u dialogue oooo...
Dem fit use aggression of man wey insult them yesterday insult person wey dem meet today....
. see her asking me "why did treat her that way after being nice to men" i bin dey feel say something else is involved.... men dey try ooooooooo....

Person go just marry some women enter wahala oooo

BigBen23:
But wait o! The money women make, what's it really for?

in times of crisis to cushion the man, saving/investng for the future of her children as plan B/ financial independence in case the man head knock as only a few men are really family oriented etc.

ebukajay184:
"A Woman Isn't Supposed To Bring Anything To The Table" - American Author (Video)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JQL0NPfz3Z8


Video credit: TikTok/Instagram/@reemusb

Everyone brings something to the table. It's a figure of speech. It means to add value.

donbachi:
No womb no pikin...so,who carry womb come carry something come.

no sperm, no fertilization of egg

Jennyclay:
Even the Bible says any man that can’t provide and take good care of his girlfriend/wife and children is worse than an infidel. Atleast men are to provide 97% for his girlfriend/wife.

A woman takes care of the home and you still expect her to bring something to the table. Haba!! Na wa!!

If you as a man wants your woman to bring something to the table, then be ready to switch sides by taking care of the home while the woman goes out to provide for your lazy and broke self.

remove girlfriend there,don't add rubbish to the bible

Person dey use correct English with American accent yarn total nonsense and rubbish. Tueh! 🙄🙄🙄

A man should provide; let the wife just do 100 percent of everything he tells her to do.

uote author=Jennyclay post=124041160]Even the Bible says any man that can’t provide and take good care of his girlfriend/wife and children is worse than an infidel. Atleast men are to provide 97% for his girlfriend/wife.

A woman takes care of the home and you still expect her to bring something to the table. Haba!! Na wa!!

If you as a man wants your woman to bring something to the table, then be ready to switch sides by taking care of the home while the woman goes out to provide for your lazy and broke self.[/quote] which verses of bible mention GIRLFRIEND.

Jazmine10:
Please and please and please dear Nigerian men let's clarify this bring to the table oh. For instance you want a woman to carry financial burden with you, you men will agree to carry 9months pregnancy with her as in, she say she no wan get belle for una born make una men begin carry belle born una go gree? Afterall science is way advanced for that upside down concept, so as i was saying dear Nigerian men una go gree born pikin? If not? Y'all better lace your boot straps and get on it like men. Spits at men waiting for women to feed them. A woman can decide to contribute/help out as your help meet where she sees you are lacking but opening your mouth waaa to say bring to the table, it is insulting to even your mothers that bore you.

Lets say I agree to carry and bore the child as a man, now tell me, how many women can perform fully, the responsibilities of a man, how many re capable?

Well you re not man, so you can and will never know what it is to be one.

God1000:
He's entitled to his own opinion

A woman who knows her worth needs no validation. She knows she brings a lot to the table; Love, compassion, support, prayer, wisdom, ambition, vision, intelligence, value and drive."

She needs to be putting in the same level of effort that I am. If someone isn't willing to meet you half way to begin with, it's not a relationship and it's not worth pursing.

She brings the womb o
Lol you omitted this tangible point

Segzy19:
Then she has to bring it to the table if what the man earns is not able to do it all. That's why I mentioned that the Bible calls them helper. Now she has to help financially.
If I earn 100k and I spend 70% - 80% on my family, then I am trying. If my wife earns 200k, and she supports me with 50% (even 40%) of her earning, then she has supported me.... It's only reasonable that she supports me in that situation. Otherwise what are we friends, lovers and partners for?

However, I may be earning millions and my wife earns so low. I may not even need her money, even if she donated everything to the house. I will still find a way of giving it back to her...


See this thing is not a rule or commandment. It's all about understanding and flexibility

You said it all! Understanding
But sadly, majority of the women out there won't see it that way