OvertheTop:

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You are one of them right?

chukkystar:
bro forget that guy, na ungrateful person. Even if person give 1 Naira U suppose appreciate cos na the person sweat. If e easy to fish or give fish why him never do am. People are like that, they can't see beyond their own front

That's why most rich people prefer to roll with fellow rich people, to avoid situations like this.

I'm a guy and married and the friend here is a female. I noticed she was not real, when she started behaving as if all I taught her in the office about her job roles which I have handled before her employment were never taught by me.....when she started having issues with the intelligent presentations I make during office meetings...., when she started becoming sarcastic and now oppose my suggestions or recommendations to our operations or challenges...., When she started comparing me with other guys she meets outside or even within our work environment,.....even when she compared my subordinates in my team to me, the same subordinates she advises me on how to handle with bad advice whether...and finally when we had misunderstanding and she suddenly forgot all the past good moments we once shared and chose to be spiteful, defamatory and malicious despite all attempts to reconcile ...kpekus friendship can be funny

The one I have is to take advantage of peoples good will. He rather saves his money and feed on yours.

Haa! But you're the wolf in a sheep's clothing, you promised to pay her but you didn't.

You even have the guts to post it here, yet you haven't paid her... We all know people like you, always playing victims, yet you don't want to pay the people you owe their money.

Hopss:
learnt it the hard way, this lady close to me was acting all nice till I borrowed money from her to settle my house rent, fast forward to when I promise to pay, I no fit pay, this lady has told everyone that cares listen that I am a bad person . well all I am hoping is that I have her money and pay back cos I believe a doubt you owe someone must be paid . I done learn say people na wolf in sheep clothing.

EMMARNUEL:
Na wa o... I had this friend that was so rich, i asked him to put me along make i de like am even if its in the long run... Nigga would rather send me 50k for upkeep than show me how to fish, i begged him on several occasion but it was futile, then i new he was a frienemy..

See how your mouth dey smell for this post

Reminderz:
Share your experiences...

Here's mine: I'm always happy for him, even when he opened his own store and rented his own space, in fact, I was one of the first person to get there when he celebrated his winnings... I gave him the needed support and encouragement... I realised that anytime I got my own breakthroughs, he never celebrated me or does as if he noticed them...

I later found out he was even jealous of my own winnings despite how true I was to him... I cut off the relationship before I got stabbed in the back... I didn't really know where the envy or jealousy was coming from...

He was saying shit about my friend sis which later extended to mine. This guy, I and my friend, the three of us grew up together. So this guy went on to tell other guys In the group what played during childhood days .
He kept discussing what I discussed with him to third party and those one were using it as a form of mockery.

Glad he got Stab too cos those third parties later start mocking him with his own life issues...

I distanced myself totally...

Omoolaissagoal:
Well, she was my neighbor a woman, we relate well ,I always, keep my room keys with her to avoid misplacing, then she greet me with cheers , until the holy Spirit told me he is not genuine,i should to observe her very well, since I just got to the house , I shrugged at first but obey......then i see scary things.

Such as she asking too many questions about me, telling me things I didn't tell her about myself, getting angry at me the following day I pray midnight, she killing two chicken and giving me the bottom part,and many

You're obviously suffering from schizophrenia disorder...

Seek therapy.......Get help

mediclife1987:


Dey play with your private part.

Even the person already winning doesn't want you to win anything at all.

The earlier you realized it's all man for himself, the better for you.

So you mean you don't want others to win.....

Thanks for being real

People are getting wise now.

professore:
People are getting wise now.

If people keep getting needlessly suspicious of one another. Who then suffers ?

In the end of the day, cynism destroys and damages human relations along with benefits that could have come out of good relationships.

The fear of betrayal is causing as great harm as betrayal itself. The balance is somewhere in between. Today I've touched atleast a combined sum of 20-30 M in my field of trade. It was a Nairalander I befriended some years back who met me when I was dying and broke that shared tips with me. What if our friendship didn't occur how would I not have died from the hardships I faced.


Humans need one another. The over glorification of these kinds of stories ruins potentially good relationships

I have seen shege in the name of best friend..
Story is just too long.

Now my best friend is BOY

Name of my Dog..

This is the only guy i feel comfortable around and can discuss anything with him..

Sometimes I ask for his advice too..

I better be with a dog than someone who
1. Hacked my fiverr acc
2. Was sending harsh text to my 1st gf with a dif number using my NAME for 1yr.
3. Fu*ked my 2nd gf
4. FU*cked my 3rd gf
5. Saw me as competition
5a. I buy shoe, guy go buy shoe
5b. where i got employed in 2012, my guy applied same place and we where working 2gether.
5c. i buys dish.. my guy buy dish o
5d. I buy dogg o.. my guy bought dog too o

Point black i told him.. oga.. u see this.. am not doing again..

interesting comments

I rented a house, allowed my friend stay with me cos we still de hustle, got teaching job for him same school, earning 35k each... I no quick realize say na only me de buy food, my friend just de buy cloths, bought bold or curve 5 then, began sleeping with our land lady... They both planned to evict me...

I just travel come back, my guy say land lady has rented the room to him and land lady say she no wan see me for the house... I think say ma joke until my guy lock up de give me attitude asking me when am I leaving cos him babe the land lady say so... Being ask am, guy I housed you o... Where u wan make I go, him tell me Oha... Say him no de, make I sort my self... Las las land lady pounce on am later... E no go better for you Johnson...

Aduke96:
Mine was childhood girlfriend.
We got departed when we both gain admission into higher institution.
mine was a uni while she was in a poly, yet I still keep in touch with her through FB.
Later she travelled out of the country without informing me, but later told me after several months she got there.
We connected back and I felt since we are far away from each other online close friendship will be better than physical friends since I'm not lucky with one.
I got so relax with her,she told me she has a land and she is building it presently,I also shared what I think a friend should know, but I noticed she was hiding things.
she message me almost all the time and I felt she is lonely over there, connected her to a very good and loyal boyfriend I know for a very long time. stay off their relationship.
Only for my gf to tell me to sell my land, and if I can't get a buyer the boyfriend I introduce to her is ready to buy.

Wait you connected her to your ex boyfriend who wa equally based abroad?
Wy didnt she sell hers why must you sell yours to her bf?
Did you tell her you wanted to seel your land?

Oyerinde16:
I rented a house, allowed my friend stay with me cos we still de hustle, got teaching job for him same school, earning 35k each... I no quick realize say na only me de buy food, my friend just de buy cloths, bought bold or curve 5 then, began sleeping with our land lady... They both planned to evict me...

I just travel come back, my guy say land lady has rented the room to him and land lady say she no wan see me for the house... I think say ma joke until my guy lock up de give me attitude asking me when am I leaving cos him babe the land lady say so... Being ask am, guy I housed you o... Where u wan make I go, him tell me Oha... Say him no de, make I sort my self... Las las land lady pounce on am later... E no go better for you Johnson...

LOl this one na lie abeg.

goodmike7:


Wait you connected her to your ex boyfriend who wa equally based abroad?
Wy didnt she sell hers why must you sell yours to her bf?
Did you tell her you wanted to seel yor land?

The guy wasn't my lover but a Bossom friend who help me when I needed to gain admission.
I never told her I'm selling my land ......she was just all over me to sell the land since I'm relocating back home from school and if I needed a buyer I should sell to his boyfriend (my male friend)

Frenemies are those who like to compete unnecessary petty competition with 'friends' instead of thinking of how to live better lives and make money with friends.

PerfectStranger:
It's always better when both friends are winning.

But as life no balance,one person will be winning and the other isn't. There's bound to be envy wich most times is normal.

I have a friend called Sunday, we are never jealous of each and we never lie to each other. Unfortunately, I thot people can read perceptions, so I had a new biness neighbor whom I helped settled in the environment. So when I later bought my shop and part of my landlord land, this useless Lawrence went and alert the Omonile why smiling with me 24/7 till I found out. I had to cut the idiot off.

I don't have, i also produce furnitures(09167148671)

Reminderz:
Share your experiences...

Here's mine: I'm always happy for him, even when he opened his own store and rented his own space, in fact, I was one of the first person to get there when he celebrated his winnings... I gave him the needed support and encouragement... I realised that anytime I got my own breakthroughs, he never celebrated me or does as if he noticed them...

I later found out he was even jealous of my own winnings despite how true I was to him... I cut off the relationship before I got stabbed in the back... I didn't really know where the envy or jealousy was coming from...

Eagba:
I have a friend called Sunday, we are never jealous of each and we never lie to each other. Unfortunately, I thot people can read perceptions, so I had a new biness neighbor whom I helped settled in the environment. So when I later bought my shop and part of my landlord land, this useless Lawrence went and alert the Omonile why smiling with me 24/7 till I found out. I had to cut the idiot off.

You didn't want Sunday to know about your wins?

PerfectStranger:

You didn't want Sunday to know about your wins?

Sunday was ok . Thing is, Sunday made me lazy in vetting people, thinking others can be like Sunday with a free mind. The idiot called Lawrence happens to be my neighbor were I'm doing bizness, I was partially open to him as I would Sunday but the idiot had talons.
The amount of stuffs the idiot did to me was plenty to mention. Even after cutting him off, the idiot was still trying to use style to come close. Then I know say na this kind Edo witch wey go try kill you from inside.

EMMARNUEL:
Na wa o... I had this friend that was so rich, i asked him to put me along make i de like am even if its in the long run... Nigga would rather send me 50k for upkeep than show me how to fish, i begged him on several occasion but it was futile, then i new he was a frienemy..

You are a thief

Hopss:
learnt it the hard way, this lady close to me was acting all nice till I borrowed money from her to settle my house rent, fast forward to when I promise to pay, I no fit pay, this lady has told everyone that cares listen that I am a bad person . well all I am hoping is that I have her money and pay back cos I believe a doubt you owe someone must be paid . I done learn say people na wolf in sheep clothing.

U are the bad friend in the relationship. Learn to keep to ur words

Please help me boss

Dancebreaker:

Envy and jealousy are like witchcraft. Nothing good you do for a jealous person will make him/her stop being envious.

Even your kindness/generosity towards them will make them jealous.
See, a typical jealous person likes to believe that they are the smartest, best and most successful. Another person's success or achievement, no matter how little, punches a big hole in their gigantic ego. Despite all their outwards pretence of superiority or success, they actually have inferiority complex.

The only thing that makes them happy is to see others down so that they can feel like top dog.

One example: a couple I was there for over many years achieved a milestone. I was there celebrating with them. In good and sad moments, I was there. When mine came, they both did their best not to come. Giving flimsy excuses.

A few years earlier, I had supported the hubby to achieve a milestone (related to both as a couple). He then begged me not to allow our friends know that I showed him the way. So that it would appear he did it all by himself. I obliged him that and other things that were weird.

But when he and his wife would not come to celebrate perhaps the most important milestone with me, I cut them loose. And not a second too soon. I rebuffed every attempt of theirs to reconnect.

It's better to have even just two friends than scores of leeches and jealous entities.

Quadribabaalagb:
Omoh, make I no talk.

Asin talk waiting ?

Gee Eff'd one of my girl behind me.
Later confessed that he did in a rather nonchalant manner.
After that incident I stopped being friendly with him as usual.

Eagba:
Sunday was ok . Thing is, Sunday made me lazy in vetting people, thinking others can be like Sunday with a free mind. The idiot called Lawrence happens to be my neighbor were I'm doing bizness, I was partially open to him as I would Sunday but the idiot had talons.
The amount of stuffs the idiot did to me was plenty to mention. Even after cutting him off, the idiot was still trying to use style to come close. Then I know say na this kind Edo witch wey go try kill you from inside.

Edo winch

Wodu89:




Hahaha. You made my day. I like the way you write.

😊 thanks

Na when you need help you go realize say watin you get na Numbers,

You no get Contacts

Many xperiences...realize mayb am wired to get easily liked and hated...i can easily feel vibez,energy and insecurities in people in my surroundin..small argument..all this werey don see fine face to spoil...me dey my day...my favorite language is SILENCE....the only drama i want na ROMANCE

warlord24:
I have seen shege in the name of best friend..
Story is just too long.

Now my best friend is BOY

Name of my Dog..

This is the only guy i feel comfortable around and can discuss anything with him..

Sometimes I ask for his advice too..

I better be with a dog than someone who
1. Hacked my fiverr acc
2. Was sending harsh text to my 1st gf with a dif number using my NAME for 1yr.
3. Fu*ked my 2nd gf
4. FU*cked my 3rd gf
5. Saw me as competition
5a. I buy shoe, guy go buy shoe
5b. where i got employed in 2012, my guy applied same place and we where working 2gether.
5c. i buys dish.. my guy buy dish o
5d. I buy dogg o.. my guy bought dog too o

Point black i told him.. oga.. u see this.. am not doing again..

He lost out..