Wodu89:



Find out about how to setup a bank account. Banks thesedays easily set accounts up for people. Look into it

She can even open an Opay account if possible.

Kobojunkie:
Immorality? Hahahahaha

Pure relationship? You religious people ehn... always looking to imposing your delusions on others.

Abeg go and sit down. Na to dey knack na him go make you enter heaven now. Always twisting the truth.

Jewessgratitud3:
■ Abeg go and sit down. Na to dey knack na him go make you enter heaven now. Always twisting the truth.

You religious folks are so confused. Jesus Christ tell you say na everybody fit become born again or enter into Heaven to begin with? Someone chose to be in a relationship, to gbadun her life on earth, but here you are ranting about heaven. To this point, OP don tell you say she wan enter your heaven abi you dey high?

Kobojunkie:
You religious folks are so confused. Jesus Christ tell you say na everybody fit become born again or enter into Heaven to begin with? Someone chose to be in a relationship, to gbadun her life on earth, but here you are ranting about heaven. To this point, OP don tell you say she wan enter your heaven abi you dey high?

Kobojunjkie, let me rest for this forum Biko kwa. I don't have time for your back and forth argument.

Jewessgratitud3:
Kobojunjkie, let me rest for this forum Biko kwa. I don't have time for your back and forth argument.

Na me come get your time? Abeg shift make person engage reasonable beings.

Kobojunkie:
Snap out of it! There are no generational curses or first born curses after you. What you have here is simply the consequence of many decisions made. So wake up and work towards carefully thinking things through before jumping in.

Will your mother's people not have you and your child? If they can, move back there to take care of her and offer to help them out as much as is possible. Put your kid in school there and work any job available from there.

I called for their help and they said they are dealing with my mom's illness and I should find a way out myself.

They said my father caused my mom sickness and abandoned her,they told her not to Marry him but she refused. that he should take responsibilities of his kids

IamAsiri:


She can even open an Opay account if possible.

Someone opened one with my number which is palmpay

Here is it

8100360872
Palmpay

fifehanmi938:
■ I called for their help and they said they are dealing with my mom's illness and I should find a way out myself. They said my father caused my mom sickness and abandoned her,they told her not to Marry him but she refused. that he should take responsibilities of his kids

You are homeless. Go back to them and beg for them to take you in, and that you would be willing to help care for your mother while you are there. You need a place for you and your kid.

Or find an orphanage to drop your child at and say goodbye to her forever while you go figure yourself out wherever else you have in mind to go.

chinebu:
If you are talking of adoption, make sure you really understand what adoptions means. You will never claim her again if someone adopts her.

That is not a problem. The problem is the child being abused by the adopted parents.
I can assure you that no matter the love you give an adopted child, they would long for their biological parents more and seek them.

Wow, you have a very loving family. Imagine the type of people carry someone to church when they don't know Jesus.

How old is your daughter?

Kobojunkie:
Na me come get your time? Abeg shift make person engage reasonable beings.

..

Nazgul:
Rather than look for a job, or learn a skill to cater for yourself and daughter, you're looking for a short cut to escape the mess you made.

The father has absconded and left the whole responsibilities for you, that's why you feel it's completely normal to give up your 10 year old daughter for adoption on a faceless forum to a total stranger?

I'm sorry to say this, but you're not a responsible person, if you were you would have know that there are perverts lurking around who would happily accept that child for the sole purpose of making her their séx toy, there are ritualists who wouldn't blink an eye lid before considering to use her for rituals, there are demons, who would beat, torture and make life miserable for her.

Better go out there and get a job to take care of that child. If you want help, look for the father or any member of his family.

Can you see that the OP replied with just a mere "hmmmn" to your epistle? Do you have any idea why? It's because you truly haven't grasped the depth of emotions involved here! I don't care about your age; it's crystal clear that you know nothing about life! I pray you never find yourself in a hopeless situation, you find yourself struggling to breathe like literally, feeling utterly alone, with no one to support you. Trust me, the OP's courage in seeking help is remarkable.
Have you ever wondered why people get to the point of contemplating suicide? Have you ever experienced the anguish of looking in every direction and finding no one willing to lend a hand? It's entirely possible to feel utterly abandoned. Count your blessings and thank God for your fortunate circumstances, but also open your heart to empathize with others and cease speaking from a place of ignorance. We all need a helping hand at some point in our lives to rise again.

Òmò e be many things ooooo

If no be transport fare wey dun dae expensive I for enter ifo tomorrow to even verify everything and know if the op is telling the truth

Tfare from ewekoro to ifo alone no be smalls

Jewessgratitud3:
Uchu!

Get away!

BrighterThanDay:
Can you see that the OP replied with just a mere "hmmmn" to your epistle? Do you have any idea why? It's because you truly haven't grasped the depth of emotions involved here! I don't care about your age; it's crystal clear that you know nothing about life! My heart aches for you, hoping you never find yourself struggling to breathe, feeling utterly alone, with no one to support you. Trust me, the OP's courage in seeking help is remarkable.
Have you ever wondered why people get to the point of contemplating suicide? Have you ever experienced the anguish of looking in every direction and finding no one willing to lend a hand? It's entirely possible to feel utterly abandoned. Count your blessings and thank God for your fortunate circumstances, but also open your heart to empathize with others and cease speaking from a place of ignorance. We all need a helping hand at some point in our lives to rise again.

Shut up your dirty mouth jare.

You're encouraging someone who comes to a faceless forum to advertise that she wants to give up her daughter for adoption, and you want me to believe that it's normal.

Do you know what having a child means, a 10 year old daughter for that matter, and she's expecting someone here, a total stranger to send her a DM so she can waybill her daughter to the person and somehow you don't see anything wrong with that.

If you have nothing sensible to say, don't ever quote me in your life.

Kobojunkie:
Get away!

Smh. See what you have become after mingling with evil souls here. Na me you wan transfer aggression to. Continue.

May God deliver your soul.

Jewessgratitud3:
■ Smh. See what you have become after mingling with evil souls here. Na me you wan transfer aggression to. Continue. May God deliver your soul.

Evil souls? Tranfer aggression? All this because I called you out for the ridiculous assertions you made regarding OP? WOW.... get help quickly!

Kobojunkie:
Evil souls? Tranfer aggression? All this because I called you out for the ridiculous assertions you made regarding OP? WOW.... get help quickly!

Just go abeg abeg.
Just let me be. Abi I jump on your comment? No be you first mention me?

You too get help and free me. O?

Klass99:


You are shouting apt there! When he starts touching you in your hot zones now, will you remember to take precautions? Harmless kwesion ooo, I was just thinking out loud.

Klass please. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Yes oh. I am too young to have my life ruined.

Nazgul:

Shut up your dirty mouth jare.

You're encouraging someone who comes to a faceless forum to advertise that she wants to give up her daughter for adoption, and you want me to believe that it's normal.

Do you know what having a child means, a 10 year old daughter for that matter, and she's expecting someone here, a total stranger to send her a DM so she can waybill her daughter to the person.

If you have nothing sensible to say, don't ever quote me in your life.

Oh, there you go again, confirming your immaturity! If it comes to insults, I'll finish you intelligently on this forum, and you'll be forced to either change your moniker or deactivate your account for good. But you are obviously not worth my time, don't push it though!

Haven't you heard of parents malreating their own kids? Where were you when a father beat up his 4-month-old baby boy with a hanger until the boy's hands got broken, and they had to amputate it? It's was all over social media! Her grand dad and step mom want absolutely nothing to do with her. That should tell you that you can have a family and still not at the same time.

The people on Nairaland are humans, not ghosts! It's possible to find good-hearted people here, just as much as you can find gullible nonentities like yourself. Emotions run deep in this community.

From the OP's story, it's painfully obvious she has no one to turn to, which is why she brought her issue here. It's like meeting a total stranger on the road and seeking help – it can end up being a beautiful gesture of compassion or lead to something terrible.

What I expected you to do instead of whining was to advise the OP to take certain precautions, like involving the law, before giving her daughter up for adoption to anyone on this forum. This is an emotional matter, and it requires sensitivity and understanding.

BrighterThanDay:
Oh, there you go again, confirming your immaturity! If it comes to insults, I'll finish you intelligently on this forum, and you'll be forced to either change your moniker or deactivate your account for good. But you are obviously not worth my time, don't push it though!

Lol...you will finish me intelligently and force me to deactivate as per wetin. Do I look like all those Riff Raff that live and breath on Nairaland. Abeg park one side biko. I'm not worth your time and you quoted me.

BrighterThanDay:
Haven't you heard of parents malreating their own kids? Where were you when a father beat up his 4-month-old baby boy with a hanger until the boy's hands got broken, and they had to amputate it? It's was all over social media! Her grand dad and step mom want absolutely nothing to do with her. That should tell you that you can have a family and still not at the same time.

This has nothing to do with the issue at hand.

BrighterThanDay:
The people on Nairaland are humans, not ghosts! It's possible to find good-hearted people here, just as much as you can find gullible nonentities like yourself. Emotions run deep in this community.

Lol...I'm not the cause of your depression, if you're feeling depressed take it out on someone else not me. Cos I ask questions whenever I come across questionable characters on this forum.

BrighterThanDay:
From the OP's story, it's painfully obvious she has no one to turn to, which is why she brought her issue here. It's like meeting a total stranger on the road and seeking help – it can end up being a beautiful gesture of compassion or lead to something terrible.

An account that was created today for the sole purpose of this story and somehow you're defending her with all your might. If she isn't a scammer why didn't she post this with her original account. Why create a new user ID?

And if you find nothing wrong with a mother willing to give up her 10 year old daughter to strangers, you're more heartless than I imagined.

BrighterThanDay:
What I expected you to do instead of whining was to advise the OP to take certain precautions, like involving the law, before giving her daughter up for adoption to anyone on this forum. This is an emotional matter, and it requires sensitivity and understanding.

Lol... emotional matter indeed. I'm beginning to feel that you and the op are the same person.

Have you validated this story...NO

Have you reached out to her to find out if at all she's not one of the numerous scammers roaming around this forum seeking whom to rip off...NO.

But you believe 100% that she's real and must be helped, everything you said in your first reply to me was just about help and help and help. And anyone who questions her or asks logical questions like I did is abrasive, childish and immature. Clap for yourself.

If you must know, I have a working brain and I make use of it.

Nazgul:

Lol...I'm not worth your time and you quoted me.


This has nothing to do with the issue at hand.


Lol...I'm not the cause of your depression, if you're feeling depressed take it out on someone else not me. Cos I ask questions whenever I come across questionable characters on this forum.


An account that was created today for the sole purpose of this story and somehow you're defending her with all your might. If she isn't a scammer why didn't she post this with her original account. Why create a new user ID?

And if you find nothing wrong with a mother willing to give up her 10 year old daughter to strangers, you're more heartless than I imagined.


Lol... emotional matter indeed. I'm beginning to feel that you and the op are the same person.

Have you validated this story...NO

Have you reached out to her to find out if at all she's not one of the numerous scammers roaming around this forum seeking whom to rip off...NO.

But you believe 100% that she's real and must be helped, everything you said in your first reply to me was just about help and help and help. And anyone who questions her or asks logical questions like I did is abrasive, childish and immature. Clap for yourself.

If you must know, I have a working brain and I make use of it.

The op is a scammer...her story is false.

I sometimes don't want to reply to some comments like this because I'm emotionally downcast and very sad.

But all i will pray for you is that you never find yourself in a situations worser than my own

You label me a scammer
Which I said In my post that am ready to meet up anyone who wants to help me with my kid,I'm not trying to hide and not meetup of I see who will render a help for me.

Secondly I said my reasons for being anonymous which I'm surprised if you even read it from the start of you just want to say something because you're somehow depressed like me.

I came online to vent here which I believe I might get help here,but haven't got any from anyone..

But I believe God will not forsake me no matter what 🙏

I will keep calm and watch out how my life turns out,if God makes me survive this with my kid and of it's the other way round.

I will abandon this post and forget about anything and see what will happen in real life to me.

Because social media sometimes add to depression because of people like you who is not in others shoes but judge them , insult them and curse them.

Any unfortunate thing can happen to anyone,I have seen and gone through a lot in this life.

If you can't help ,you don't need to pour salt on open wounds or laugh at someone predicament because it's not you.

Everyone is wiser when it's not their story.

You can Insult me more but I will never reply anymore because people like you are always common on social media.

Who troll people and label them all sort of names especially when they are seeking for help.

Love and lights

BrighterThanDay:


Oh, there you go again, confirming your immaturity! If it comes to insults, I'll finish you intelligently on this forum, and you'll be forced to either change your moniker or deactivate your account for good. But you are obviously not worth my time, don't push it though!

Haven't you heard of parents malreating their own kids? Where were you when a father beat up his 4-month-old baby boy with a hanger until the boy's hands got broken, and they had to amputate it? It's was all over social media! Her grand dad and step mom want absolutely nothing to do with her. That should tell you that you can have a family and still not at the same time.

The people on Nairaland are humans, not ghosts! It's possible to find good-hearted people here, just as much as you can find gullible nonentities like yourself. Emotions run deep in this community.

From the OP's story, it's painfully obvious she has no one to turn to, which is why she brought her issue here. It's like meeting a total stranger on the road and seeking help – it can end up being a beautiful gesture of compassion or lead to something terrible.

What I expected you to do instead of whining was to advise the OP to take certain precautions, like involving the law, before giving her daughter up for adoption to anyone on this forum. This is an emotional matter, and it requires sensitivity and understanding.

You said it all 🥺God bless you🙏

I will abandon this post forever

God is my salvation

fifehanmi938:

I sometimes don't want to reply to some comments like this because I'm emotionally downcast and very sad.

But all i will pray for you is that you never find yourself in a situations worser than my own

You label me a scammer
Which I said In my post that am ready to meet up anyone who wants to help me with my kid,I'm not trying to hide and not meetup of I see who will render a help for me.

Secondly I said my reasons for being anonymous which I'm surprised if you even read it from the start of you just want to say something because you're somehow depressed like me.

I came online to vent here which I believe I might get help here,but haven't got any from anyone..

But I believe God will not forsake me no matter what 🙏

I will keep calm and watch out how my life turns out,if God makes me survive this with my kid and of it's the other way round.

I will abandon this post and forget about anything and see what will happen in real life to me.

Because social media sometimes add to depression because of people like you who is not in others shoes but judge them , insult them and curse them.

Any unfortunate thing can happen to anyone,I have seen and gone through a lot in this life.

If you can't help ,you don't need to pour salt on open wounds or laugh at someone predicament because it's not you.

Everyone is wiser when it's not their story.

You can Insult me more but I will never reply anymore because people like you are always common on social media.

Who troll people and label them all sort of names especially when they are seeking for help.

Love and lights

Lol...you've logged back to your fake account. I thought you said you'll make me deactivate.

Use your original moniker to post if you want any sensible response from anyone.

Stop creating new accounts to appeal to our emotions. That format don cast tey tey.

How can you create an account today and expect people to take you seriously...did you know about Nairaland today?

fifehanmi938:



You said it all 🥺God bless you🙏

I will abandon this post forever

God is my salvation

Keep deceiving yourself...you and that fellow are the same person.

[quote author=Nazgul post=124595154]
Lol...I'm not worth your time and you quoted me.

You can't stop me from airing my opinion, I can quote whoever I like. I just won't stoop low to exchanging insults with you.

This has nothing to do with the issue at hand.

It has everything to do with it. The bottom line is it is possible to find a stranger from a faceless forum like this who will care for that child like her own. Families, friends or church members are not always the best option like you stated.


Lol...I'm not the cause of your depression, if you're feeling depressed take it out on someone else not me. Cos I ask questions whenever I come across questionable characters on this forum.

You are talking out of context , making no sense, what does depression have to do with airing my opinion?


An account that was created today for the sole purpose of this story and somehow you're defending her with all your might. If she isn't a scammer why didn't she post this with her original account. Why create a new user ID?

What makes you think she has an original account? What if she is actually telling the truth and she genuinely needs help, have you though of this possibility as well? What if you are denying a helpless person of help just because of your baseless assumptions.
She is even ready to meet with some persons physically. Why don't you wait till we get feedback on that instead of concluding? I'm sure if she is a scammer as you have confidently claimed, we'll find out soon since a lot of persons are invested in this.

And if you find nothing wrong with a mother willing to give up her 10 year old daughter to strangers, you're more heartless than I imagined.

You are the wicked and heartless one who wants the child to remain with a step mom who is maltreating her. Again what if the OP is right? Learn to be empathic towards people until you are certain they don't deserve it. The country is very hard at the moment. Let's help those in need if we can. Because of these unverified accusations, we are pushing a lot of our young ones to their early graves.


Lol... emotional matter indeed. I'm beginning to feel that you and the op are the same person.

Of course, I'm not surprised that you are also accusing me. That's all you know.

Have you validated this story...NO

Have you reached out to her to find out if at all she's not one of the numerous scammers roaming around this forum seeking whom to rip off...NO.

But you believe 100% that she's real and must be helped, everything you said in your first reply to me was just about help and help and help. And anyone who questions her or asks logical questions like I did is abrasive, childish and immature. Clap for yourself.

You never asked any reasonable questions or offered advice you only jumped to accusations and attacking. Unlike you, I'm trying to be empathic here.

If you must know, I have a working brain and I make use of it.

No you don't. I'm certain of that.

The bolded are my reply to you, just so you can read it with ease and get enlightened about life.

fifehanmi938:


She is 10 years old now

I will be glad of you can adopt her🥺

But jos is far ,did you have someone who can pick her up from here.


Yes I'm currently in Ogun state abeokuta precisely

I only have school certificate and I learnt fashion design when I was still in school..

You mean you dont even want to know the person adopting your child, she/he should send someone to pick her up and ship to Jos just like that! It is well! Please have mercy on the little girl.

Klass99:


FK I couldn't resist teasing you . Why would your life be ruined because of a child born out of wedlock? Do you Nigerians not live and die on the hill of marriage and children again?

If you are not married some clowns will be on your case advising you to try and born one as marriage never come and there's a biological clock. You give birth to one and the same clowns are vile towards you for being a single mother.

I just feel sorry for the women who bow to other people's opinions.

I know you were teasing me.

Uhm, I've never been a big fan of Marriage and children all my life. I'd say more of career, adventure, food, travelling etc.

My parents know I'm not big on marriage and they're seriously praying I change my mind. They once took me to their Pastor to see if he could change my mind, the man sef tire for me.

Well maybe, till I see someone worth it. But right now, Nahhh.

I usually tell my friends to take their time too.

Well, raising a child on your own ain't easy too, especially at a young age.

One thing people fail to realize is that Marriage and Children are not the Be-All and End-All of everybody in the society. Some people just want companionship and that is IT.

I've interacted with someone here off Nairaland that wanted simply Marriage and no kids with me, but I was still young oh, in University sef. I wasn't up to 20 as at that time.

Who even created this biological clock for women sef? We need to re-evaluate that damn "clock".

I just feel sorry for the women who bow to other people's opinions.

I know right?!!!!!! They're trying really. This reminds me of woman at church who asked me why I hadn't gotten married, I simply retorted that her daughter was older than me but still staying in the house.

Nazgul:

Lol...you've logged back to your fake account. I thought you said you'll make me deactivate.

Use your original moniker to post if you want any sensible response from anyone.

Stop creating new accounts to appeal to our emotions. That format don cast tey tey.

How can you create an account today and expect people to take you seriously...did you know about Nairaland today?

Later you will say "unlike you, I have brain to reason" where is the brain? Where is the common sense, can't you comprehend that my tone of writing and that of the OP is totally different?

I'm only reiterating that if she is a scammer, we'll find out sooner than you think because a kid is involved and I know that a lot of good-hearted individuals who are not even commenting will want to get involved and find out for themselves. Until then let's be empathic towards her plight and offer consoling words, it doesn't cost money, but it can do a whole lot of good. If we have no reason to be nice, then we can let it all out. For now let's not step on someone who is already on the floor.

Good night.

Klass99:


FK I couldn't resist teasing you . Why would your life be ruined because of a child born out of wedlock? Do you Nigerians not live and die on the hill of marriage and children again?

If you are not married some clowns will be on your case advising you to try and born one as marriage never come and there's a biological clock. You give birth to one and the same clowns are vile towards you for being a single mother.

I just feel sorry for the women who bow to other people's opinions.

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