okoroemeka:
sometimes I wonder how some men can relax so much and reach such years with nothing,is it laziness,lack of seeing opportunities,lack of proactive thinking,procrastination ,or simply accepting mediocre living standards?before I was 25 yrs I already have a car,wife,two children and a small two bedroom bungalow,it is sad that not everyone can pull him or herself out of poverty and that reinforced my belief that success is tied to state of mind,there is a proverb in igboland that says,e ejigi mkpacha nsi egbe agba adaka ozo,which means you cannot use scrap leftover gunpowder to shot a gorilla.

You sound so foolish and arrogant sir

Only available job in NIGERIA now is
POLITICS

Hezzyluv:


Freelancing or UI/UX

Which computer skill is freelancing?

Tell him to stop going to church first.
He needs to have a one on one chat with his maker inside his house with fasting only.
Tell him not to rush himself. He should avoid women oooooooooooo

Sirchiboy:
He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life.
Please advice him

I'll advice him to eat ....na who chop dey fit plan 😁

Mumbled list.
Reorder and acquire.
Skills, job, wife.
In that order.

He can still be a billionare before 40. Never late with the right IT skills dt can be learnt on YouTube.

After all at 35, Simon Cowell of Britain got Talent was living in his mum home, dead broke.

First of all, it's important to remember that everyone's situation is different, and there's no one-size-fits-all solution. That said, I have some suggestions that may be helpful.
First, he should consider exploring their interests and passions, and finding ways to develop skills related to those interests.
Secondly, he may want to consider exploring local job resources, such as job fairs, job training programs, or employment agencies.
Third, he may want to consider seeking out social support, such as family, friends, or a support group.

My advice is learn how to drive . Be it car, bus or trucks. Driving has no age limit. Get busy with a driving job as a hussle to feed yourself temporarily while you plan for other ventures.

It also brings opportunity to meet people, connecting on business and knowing other hussles people engaged in to make big money.

Wish you best of luck.

okoroemeka:
sometimes I wonder how some men can relax so much and reach such years with nothing,is it laziness,lack of seeing opportunities,lack of proactive thinking,procrastination ,or simply accepting mediocre living standards?before I was 25 yrs I already have a car,wife,two children and a small two bedroom bungalow,it is sad that not everyone can pull him or herself out of poverty and that reinforced my belief that success is tied to state of mind,there is a proverb in igboland that says,e ejigi mkpacha nsi egbe agba adaka ozo,which means you cannot use scrap leftover gunpowder to shot a gorilla.

You should be a solution giver, rather than added more problem to people seeking for helping hand

Sirchiboy:
He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life.
Please advice him

I believe learning skill like phone repair will help him

Make he go farm oo...

It's not too late,

Things dey sup for dis life

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I believe learning skill like phone repair will help him


Phone repair cannot be enough for him, not to mention wife and children... other relative billings aside....

Olasyke:

Yeah, age isn't a barrier to starting over or making it in life. Even Orlando owoh made it in his 70's

and of what use will money be to you in your 70s?

DenreleDave:


He is not depending on his parents like you are...

If e sure for you, come make we show eachother our revenue for last year. Mumu

PepeXKermit:


If e sure for you, come make we show eachother our revenue for last year. Mumu

Revenue from yahoo plus abi

Go and do dt with ur fellow yahoo guys

Only a fraud will boast of sumtin like this, u keep showing ur true color

Osanoghodua1:
My advise is for you to learn about AIRDROP and TESTNET in Cryptocurrency , in addition to other soft skills, in 1yr of you're not a waster ( careless with Money) you will be worth $20k. Just get use to twitter, stop entertainment, marry Reddit, twitter join a lot of crypto communities, am not telling you to pay money to invest in any project don't get scammed by fake projects. There are too many money in the world and people are ready to distribute it but you must find out how they will be distributed and you must position yourself through the right skills. I can't teach crypto ATM, 25"hrs not enough for me again.

Nice advise boss

Corea4king:
His condition is even more better than mine, Am 37 without a job ,a wife and HEALTH.
I have been looking for easy work that can sustain my health,no where to be found, even if I find,they said I can't fit in due to my health challenge
Despite all these, am the first son and many of
my siblings are looking upon on me.
This condition develop during my nysc year .

Sorry about that my brother. You will be fine.. Just a matter of time.. Look for online skills just give yourself target of 3-5yrs.
Involve in anything you sense can be an oppurtunity.. Be it crypto mining or airdrop.

He should start something (a skill) it’s never late

Hezzyluv:


To go where

Modified.
At op, tell him to go and learn welding if he has the passion for it. Within one years, he should be able to get the basic. Down to the next 2to3 years, he would become oga of his own.

Na who go support am financially abi him no go chop

clinician2x:
Tell him to join nairaland and be defending APC, be will be paid 30k monthly.

U cant be serious

VTJN:
it is not easy for some of us seriously. I for instance has done virtually everything within my reach to make headway but all to no avail. I am a 2.1 graduate but teaching with 20k salary. School has closed and i wonder how i would survive till September 18th. Coming from a poor home is really a disadvantage to some of us. I can't indulge in crime. I don't have the mind. I am the second son also. My elder brother is also not doing fine. He's a graduate. My other siblings can't go to school because there was no money. One is learnt fashion design but there was no money to get her sewing machine. She's just 18, and can sew very well using her madam machine at times. If my dad was alive, maybe things wouldn't have been this tough on us. I cried at times. The suffering is too much. We hardly had two square meal daily. My younger brother can play football excellently but no sponsor. He can't go to school because there was no money. He's just doing menial jobs just to keep soul and body together. The last boy still in secondary school but i do pity the poor boy. At times i do regrets why i came into existence. It's not being easy seriously

It is well my brother.. Its just a matter of time..most time background is the issue.. Except for those that are extremely lucky. It takes time to get it right if the background is no where to be found

Let him go and learn a skill. Simple

At 35 it is not too late to learn a skill. Success comes to those who do things now

Dearlord:
OP, better advice your friend to give up or die now that he is still able to die because he is a failure already and dieing at old is just a waste of time among the living

Ignore this one

MAKE HIN GO DIE NAO.

HOW USELESS OF HIM.

NO SKILLZ..., FOOLISH HUMAN

He should learn solar inverter installation

lampido22:
I'm 35 but I entered nursing school 2 years back

Wow amazing.
Wish you well...

Anticrime77:


It is well my brother.. Its just a matter of time..most time background is the issue.. Except for those that are extremely lucky. It takes time to get it right if the background is no where to be found

exactly. The background

Sirchiboy:
He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life.
Please advice him

Start Blogging Business And Thank

DenreleDave:


Revenue from yahoo plus abi

Go and do dt with ur fellow yahoo guys

Only a fraud will boast of sumtin like this, u keep showing ur true color

Lol. My brother when you dey come out, also come through with your source of funds. I will do the same too. Useless people wey thimk say everybody wey have it na yahoo.