GO0DHardDick:


Since you can't answer the question, I'll urge you to desist from quoting me on nairaland henceforth

You are daft, POOR GIRLS MARRY POOR MEN, THEY ARE EVERYWHERE in the society, don't be an illiterate.

Kobojunkie:
Because the way I see it, it all comes down to the traditional ideas of inequality between men and women.

Oh the way you see it not fact, all good.

chipower:

You are not far from the truth. Women are smart cheaters. Many women have cheated on their partners, and their partners will never find out. Men are not clever when it comes to cheating. Consequently, catching cheating men is very easy.
Another reason why women are not caught while cheating is because men traditionally think that women hardly cheat. With this mind set, men find it difficult to notice the signs associated with cheating women.
The truth is that many women here have cheated on their partners without being caught.

Yes women do cheat. I'm not disputing that.

The thing is that you men cheat disgracefully and will end up embarrassing your wife.

Jovialjune1:



You are daft, POOR GIRLS MARRY POOR MEN, THEY ARE EVERYWHERE in the society, don't be an illiterate.

Seun mynd44 Sissy Dominique farano disguy nlfpmod

Rule 2

GO0DHardDick:


A society where a girl tells a man that he can't afford her, she's not cheap, she's classy, she's this she's that, absolutely have no right to tell a man to stick to one woman he become rich. Oga e no possible! Let her continue with her "he can't afford me slogan" . Stop telling a man how to use his money and enjoy his life when he becomes Rich because the same girls rejected him when he was broke!

So cheating is how you enjoy life?

Jovialjune1:
■ Oh the way you see it not fact, all good.

It may not seem factual to you, but it has been proven to be so in much of what you now know as the developed world where many of the same issues once existed.

Father4all:
Men are polygamous in NATURE

You guys always express this sentiment when you're caught cheating. Why is that?

Polygamy isn't done in secrecy. Be upfront and tell your wife your true intentions.

The same way you want women to be upfront and tell you about their past.

1Sharon:


What do you mean by a poor man can't marry a poor man?

Are all the poor women in Nigeria married to rich men??

Do you live in Nigeria at all? Poor women marry poor men all the time!!

Your question is disingenuous. And you're intentionally being obtuse. Or maybe you're just straight up ignorant.

It's obvious you don't understand the question.

Simply put, why are you praying wishing and dreaming of marrying a rich man?

GO0DHardDick:


Seun mynd44 Sissy Dominique farano disguy nlfpmod

Rule 2

She answered you loud and clear and now you're running to the mods 😂

What is it you really want?

talented321:
1. He house u
2. He paid ur pride price
3. He feed's u
4. He pay all bills
5. He feed the children
6. He pays the children's school fees.
7. When your mother/father dies he is the one to spend money also when his mother/father dies he is the still the one to make all expenses
8. He walk all day to make sure u and the kids live a better life.
9. He sells his happiness for the family
10. He will be only regard as man when he produces something' but you as a woman can go into marriage without nothing
11. He know the worst u can do is to leave his house.
12. I don't like cheating but there is a different between cheating in men and cheating in woman'' the earlier u accept it the better for u
Modified '':'' when a woman cheat it is a shame to the husband and his/her family'' while when a man cheat it is normal in the eyes of land.
13. WITH MY HANDSOME WEED'' WHILE LUCKY DUBE KEEP THE VIBE CALLED '' IT IS NOT EASY''' GOING

Are these the reasons it is considered normal for men?

Abifarin16:

So cheating is how you enjoy life?

So her hooking up with a supposed rich dude after telling other guys that they can't afford her, is how she enjoys her life?

GO0DHardDick:


It's obvious you don't understand the question.

Simply put, why are you praying wishing and dreaming of marrying a rich man?

Why are you now shifting the goalpost?

I thought you wanted to know why poor women don't marry poor men?

You've gotten the answer and now you want to change mouth?

GO0DHardDick:


It's obvious you don't understand the question.

Simply put, why are you praying wishing and dreaming of marrying a rich man?

I don't get, so you want women to pray , wish and dream of marrying poor men? Lmao is this one serious at all 😂

Why do you pray, wish and dream to be a rich man instead of a poor man?

The thought process of most guys here ehn lmao 🤣

1Sharon:


Why are now shifting the goalpost?

I thought you wanted to know why poor women don't marry poor men?

You've gotten the answer and now you want to change mouth?

That guy doesn't have sense, look at his comment. Does it look like it comes from someone that went to school? Lmao 🤣

Jovialjune1:



That guy doesn't have sense, look at his comment. Does it look like it comes from someone that went to school? Lmao 🤣

😂😂

You can just tell that he is deeply troubled

1Sharon:


She answered you loud and clear and now you're running to the mods 😂

What is it you really want?

E reach to run to the mods, no where to hide again

Jovialjune1:



I don't get, so you want women to pray , wish and dream of marrying poor men? Lmao is this one serious at all 😂

Why do you pray, wish and dream to be a rich man instead of a poor man?

The thought process of most guess here ehn lmao 🤣

If a woman can tell a man he can't afford her, she's not cheap, she's classy and all manner of parasitic statements. What makes you think you as woman have the right to tell a man the number of women he should carry and enjoy his life with when he becomes Rich?

GO0DHardDick:


So her hooking up with a supposed rich dude after telling other guys that they can't afford her, is how she enjoys her life?

You no get valid excuse.

Jovialjune1:



E reach to run to the mods, no where to hide again

The truth is bitter. He had to look for a saviour 😂

Abifarin16:

You no get valid excuse.

If e sure for answer the question or desist from quoting me henceforth.

GO0DHardDick:


So her hooking up with a supposed rich dude after telling other guys that they can't afford her, is how she enjoys her life?

You no get valid excuse.

GO0DHardDick:


So her hooking up with a supposed rich dude after telling other guys that they can't afford her, is how she enjoys her life?

From their name you shall know them

1Sharon:


Yes women do cheat. I'm not disputing that.

The thing is that you men cheat disgracefully and will end up embarrassing your wife.

Cheating is cheating ......u hide....and bring another man's child home...pretending like u are a saint

The man does it openly and side chick gets pregnant...So...What's the difference....??

U women don't do it disgracefully or with ur full chest not because u have shame....but because u want to keep ur wife/girlfriend status and previleges while u still hop on other joysticks..u know no man will pay the bills or live happily with a woman another man is fvcking..

GO0DHardDick:


If a woman can tell a man he can't afford her, she's not cheap, she's classy and all manner of parasitic statements. What makes you think you as woman have the right to tell a man the number of women he should carry and enjoy his life with when he becomes Rich?

If a woman tells a man he can't afford her, she's not cheap, she's classy bla bla bla, he should leave her alone to her preference, then he should go meet women that he can afford, that is cheap, and is not classy, simple as ABC.

A woman has the right to tell her man he cannot cheat if a vow has been made between them through marriage, if he tells her before marriage that he wants to carry as many women as possible and she agrees, good and fine, it's very simple.

GO0DHardDick:


So her hooking up with a supposed rich dude after telling other guys that they can't afford her, is how she enjoys her life?

Is the her in this discuss your girlfriend because this has turned from an open conversation meant to address societal ills to a very personal vendetta in favor of cheating. Did she leave you for a supposed rich dude?

Because our culture approved it.

advanceDNA:


Cheating is cheating ......u hide....and bring another man's child home...pretending like u are a saint

The man does it openly and side chick gets pregnant...So...What's the difference....??

U women don't do it disgracefully or with ur full chest not because u have shame....but because u want to keep ur wife/girlfriend status and previleges while u still hop on other joysticks..u know no man will pay the bills or live happily with a woman another man is fvcking..

You need to remember that when you cheat openly your children will lose respect for you.

U re indirectly saying if the man can’t provide, the woman is free to cheat right? Una go just Dey device urselves

talented321:
1. He house u
2. He paid ur pride price
3. He feed's u
4. He pay all bills
5. He feed the children
6. He pays the children's school fees.
7. When your mother/father dies he is the one to spend money also when his mother/father dies he is the still the one to make all expenses
8. He walk all day to make sure u and the kids live a better life.
9. He sells his happiness for the family
10. He will be only regard as man when he produces something' but you as a woman can go into marriage without nothing
11. He know the worst u can do is to leave his house.
12. I don't like cheating but there is a different between cheating in men and cheating in woman'' the earlier u accept it the better for u
Modified '':'' when a woman cheat it is a shame to the husband and his/her family'' while when a man cheat it is normal in the eyes of land.
13. WITH MY HANDSOME WEED'' WHILE LUCKY DUBE KEEP THE VIBE CALLED '' IT IS NOT EASY''' GOING

Why is monogamy considered normal?

1Sharon:
.

Ewooo!!! Which one is small cheating ..??

He put only the tip??
Or he suck only one bréast??
Or na 10 minutes he use .??
Or na once in 3 months??

U are Just justifying ur own sin

DiamondPant:
I'm not sure cheating is 'normal" for anyone.

rephrase

1Sharon:


Yes women do cheat. I'm not disputing that.

The thing is that you men cheat disgracefully and will end up embarrassing your wife.

I think we are saying the same thing. It will only amount to disgrace when the cheating is discovered, and men are caught most of the time.

I believe you though, men should pursue cheating with more grace. They are messing up the game a lot.

Angelfrost:


Well, I think your issue should be with the topic...

What stats or records show that cheating has the stamp of approval of all or most men?!!

In the absence of such, it remains a generalization.

What is considered 'normal' is not frowned upon... Is Cheating by men not generally frowned upon?!! How many men in Nigeria and the world over comfortably and openly cheat?!!

That a lot of guys choose not to make a fuss about their fellow guys being unfaithful doesn't mean they see it or consider it normal.

Please, let's not use the population and comments of immature boys on this forum to conclude an unproven and untrue statement. @pocohantas

I think we should differentiate between normalizing and approval. Obviously no one will endorse cheating or approve it but no one will react to cheating in men like its an anomaly. Normalizing of cheating is that everyone agrees that it has come to stay or anticipate or prepares for it.if it's not normalized no madam will sow oversized uniform for her housegirl or insist on the sacking of a man secretary if she is pretty