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Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by raydboi(m): 12:02pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent:Are you kidding me? |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Bizibi(m): 12:04pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent:I won't abandon my wife,I will leave my disabled wife because i want to avoid house chores and partying!!! Nairaland and teenagers......you think everybody is into clubbing and partying infact some of you should remain single and live the life you want than getting married. There are men that married ladies with disabilities the same with women and they don't have two heads to take care of their homes and enjoy life. Well the world has made the institution cheap so I am not surprise seeing comments like this. 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by DeepSight(m): 12:04pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Sangoamadioha1: It doesn't seem to me you have really put yourself in her mother's shoes. You are just saying you have. But you haven't. Your thoughts are only and fully with the man on this. As I said. Personally I would even feel bad being a lifetime burden to such a young person especially with four children. It would be deeply selfish not to free her. Deeply selfish. I don't know what man would feel good watching her spend the rest of her life taking care of him and the children when her life has barely begun. 2 Likes |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Mindlog: 12:06pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Mountbatten: Your post reflected stupidity! if she chooses to fill single in her visa application, who would query her? 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by YorubaRonu01: 12:07pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Mindlog:This is why women are being encouraged to have something doing no matter how small, they should stop being overly dependent in case of eventualities like this! 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by YorubaRonu01: 12:09pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Mindlog:You guys should put many factors together before judging this, if a man leaves all he's doing and stays in that hospital, who will hussle for money and fend for the wife and kids? Abi make he stop work and start begging Considering scenario that many Nigerian women don't work, why won't they be free? If your wife is working and such happens, will you ever ask her to stop working and start staying in the hospital with you If she stops, who will pay the bills while you're bedridden ![]() These things are peculiar, stop being overly judgemental on it! If I am working, I wont be there with her instead I will hire a care-giver and visit her everyday while we communicate closely on the phone, same thing with her, let her not come and stay with me, she can hire someone and go her daily work while we communicate. Except if either of us doesn't work, then there's no need to hire any care-giver!! Bottom line: Someone must pay the bills, we can't all fold our hands and be in the hospital and maybe depend on "Abeg" from relations. This woke generation reasons unreasonably!! |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by MICVOCT(m): 12:09pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
jmoore: Beseech her to remarry. She's on a directives by mum, sooner would it be a personal decision. As per the husband, let him remain calm, the only power he would be able to put into effectiveness is until the children received good parentage guidance and management. Divorce of any kind is inevitable. This senerio is real, valid and genuine. |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by pongwa(m): 12:10pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
jmoore:children of perdition! una no get respect for marriage again. In old age all of una go regret am 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Komo4JESUS(m): 12:10pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
From ur comment,you must be a home breaker..imagine the trash u dropped here forgetting that the man had an accident and he's unfit physically to carter for his family as usual..just be in the man's shoe..Nonsence..quote author=CuriousStudent post=124953167]A fictional tale to shame women. Imagine catering for four kids and a bedridden man at the age of 26( when your mates are going from dates to dates and partying) This should be the duty of a woman in her 50s whereby haven enjoyed the protection and provision of a man for decades, repays him by nursing him and taking care of him when ill health arises but not a young lady at 26. So try to see things from the mother perspective. Men walk out of their families and abandon their wives with kids if they feel overwhelmed or for their peace of mind,so why should this be different? The lady in question can drop the man temporarily with his relations and give her kids to her parents then go Abroad. While abroad she can be sending money for the upkeep of her kids and husband till she can bring the kids over. The man should remain in naija while the wife hires a nurse and sends up keep till he is stable enough before he can join them over[/quote] |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Sangoamadioha1: 12:10pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
DeepSight: I don't pray or wish for bad occurrences but in every situation I believe i would remain loyal to my partner. This is based on my experiences in life and how I was brought up. Everyone's opinions are formed by their experiences, so I don't fault your thinking. |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by MICVOCT(m): 12:13pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
SparklingWindow: Things day happen, it may be rare. Hmm...26yrs old....hmm...forget it...she will remarry |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Mindlog: 12:14pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
YorubaRonu01: I believe you read "visiting hours" not "staying" in the hospital. How do you explain week in, week out a husband who is in the same state with the admitted wife, not showing up? 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by MICVOCT(m): 12:15pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
fyzaila: โค๏ธ ๐ ๐ 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Dchair2: 12:17pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: Just imagine? Madness unlimited |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by MICVOCT(m): 12:18pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
MrsTwrite: I am happy to quote you as a guy....believes me, she's not. Just that she's too open for my likeness. 26yrs old lady....hmmmm....o deep 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by fineberry(m): 12:18pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
This matter tie wrapper |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Nobody: 12:19pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Komo4JESUS:How many times have men on this forum being in women shoes? From all the women you insult daily ,how many? 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by 1Sharon(f): 12:19pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
She cannot easily remarry with 4 kids. |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by MICVOCT(m): 12:19pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: That's even better if not abandoned 2 Likes |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by qtx(m): 12:20pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: FOR BETTER OR WORSE People just walk into these marriages pretending to understand and accept that statement, but hmmmmm i shake my head. 2 Likes |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by 1Sharon(f): 12:20pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: What abroad are you talking about? |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by uuzba(m): 12:20pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent:Did you not SWEAR before God and Man on your wedding day, when you took your wedding oath to each other? In sickness and in health For richer for poorer. In good times and in bad times. Till death do us part. - Those that did not swear this oath are called single unmarried people. This is the oath you swear right there on your wedding day. If you cannot swear it, or have No Fucking idea what it means... PLEASE DO NOT MARRY ANYBODY. STAY SINGLE. 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by isabi2lof: 12:21pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: Same problem I do have with them , they all know the truth , very soon they'll come out to say , a man's accident is different from a woman's accident ๐๐๐ .. e no dey tire dem to compare and contrast You even went too far with an accident scenerio , some abandoned their wives during pregnancy period and child birth .. Only few men will stay with their wives , and those few men might not even be religious per se .. 3 Likes |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Nobody: 12:21pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Rushna27: your comment is the reason why men are afraid to marry you girls these days and make sacrifices for you people Do you know wghat for better for worse means at all? You dont know the meaning of marriage vows talkless of take them seriously. You want to divorce a man that catered for you and the kids and because something out of his control happened to him you now suppert her divorcing him? is it like the man even cheated on her? Tufiakwa for this generation of ladies to be honest i cant believe what im just reading here. 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by uuzba(m): 12:23pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
qtx:Don't mind the bloody idiot. People that jump into marriage because of status. Immediately the first challenge comes along, they jump out and abandon their spouse. 2 Likes |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Nobody: 12:24pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
1Sharon:So you assume most of this women are looking for marriage? Most are in need of pennnissses to be serving them or a sugar daddy(ies) to help with the kids( for the broke ones) Rarely a divorcee or widow or single mom of several kids will be looking committed relationships. 2 Likes |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by MICVOCT(m): 12:25pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Sangoamadioha1: I will do the reply, due to your logical and straightforward question that warrant an expository message. I had once been in a relationship where as her uncle asked me; "how do you managed to get her"?. Imagine that, not even up to an accident. Just a life issue, and she's not even disabled. She's on 90/100 pace rate. This senerio is a logical one. |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by uuzba(m): 12:26pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
1Sharon:She's a fucking lunatic. And EVERY MAN will see that. Never touch another man's wife. |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by einsteine(m): 12:26pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
ashawopikin: Yeah she is 26. I know a lady who had 6 children and at age 29, she left her husband to Canada. She has remarried and now has 2 children for the new husband. |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Nobody: 12:27pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
MICVOCT:And what makes you think it is total abandonment? |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Kindness218: 12:28pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
darkmarky:I am a living testimony |
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