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Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by NEUDUDE: 1:32pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: You better leave men alone. What a witch |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by williemichael(m): 1:37pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
How do you understand marriage. Do think that is something you jump in today and jump out tomorrow? For those of you saying if it was when she had only a child that it would have been possible for her to do what the evil mother ask her to do, you don't know anything yet about marriage. because of this i would advice you to meet a true man of God for counselling incase you are yet to marry so that you will not make a mistake |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Ayo8(m): 1:39pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
She be chicken?? |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Mindlog: 1:39pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Mountbatten: Which immigration? It clearly shows you don't even have an international passport, reason you think marital status is part of details on the data page! Keep showing off your ignorance. 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Anonymoususher: 1:49pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Fictional but here is my take. She is too young to cater for a family that size. Since her mom has Money, what she should do is to plan with her husband to pretend like she left, then accept the mom's offer to travel abroad. Once she gets there, she is now in a free society where an 18yr old is treated as an adult not like a baby. Gradually she works, earn, become independent and Start pulling her kids and husband out of poverty. That is the biggest gift she can give to the man and the kids now because the family is already drowning. Going down with the ship when you have an option to sail out and save the occupants is wickedness |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by 29Ade07: 1:53pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent:Back up your proposition with verifiable and quantifiable data. Not anecdotal testimonies. The same western hemisphere where a lot of single women are still in their thirties and not settled in marriage.It is even worst among african americans as compared to other ethic groups. |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Originalsly: 1:58pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: Is abroad El Dorado? Will the daughter even get a visa? ... and go abroad to do what? What job experience does she have when she was at home raising kids? What skills does she have? Even if she goes abroad can she as an illegal sponsor her children? What are her chances of finding a husband with soo many single productive women in the same hunt? The husband was a good provider and was set back due to accident ... no fault of his own. So she should dump him because he is no longer productive. What makes both you think the same or worse can't happen to her? .... at age 26? ... or is it she is too young to suffer from such? I guess you would've long bolted .... but believe it or not ..... Karma never sleeps .... and always visit people like you when you least expect. 2 Likes |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by meobizy(f): 2:04pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
So, we’re just going to lie for no reason? I shame for many of una. This is a faceless forum. You win no points crafting falsehood here. |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by 1Sharon(f): 2:04pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: Too much sense. |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by eallstar: 2:08pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent:What about this unfortunate happened to the lady at 26, I mean other way round. Will you still advice the man to dump her? 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Amumaigwe: 2:20pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: Reasoning of women... 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by maasoap(m): 2:30pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: And close to 100 people on nairaland have given your comment "likes"! You are a female, your comment sounded like someone who is having a revenge . Are you married already or intend to marry one day? How I wish the bedridden part is your portion so that you can experience how it feels to be abandoned. |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by maasoap(m): 2:34pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: A black woman with 4 kids in abroad, and probably still marrying to her first husband? Lol. What is she even bringing to the table in abroad marriage? |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Nobody: 2:34pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
GloriousGbola:You think it is legal work before? You aren't aware that it is through desert/meditarren sea that is the plan? With less than a million many run the package,you start repaying when you arrive. 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by MadeMan01(m): 2:35pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: You think a quality man will take her and her 4 baggage? She has not given the new man his own biological kids, but expects him to share his resources for 4 kids of another man. |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by maasoap(m): 2:38pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Mindlog: Because men will not go out and hustle for money? How long can you stay at the hospital with your wife so that you will not be playing with your job? Men go out to work and leave family members to stay with the patient |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by josite: 2:40pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: It sounds cruel but this is largely the mindset of the modern Nigerian wife |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by maasoap(m): 2:43pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
LilMissFavvy: And what was she waiting for before the accident if that was the case? You see, many of you are hypocrites, selfish and wicked. |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by josite: 2:45pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: Thank you for your frank view. This is why when we are able,we should be extra nice to people.espcially our spouses and our relatives 2 Likes |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by maasoap(m): 2:47pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Mindlog:If she has a job, she wouldn't want to risk it by staying at the hospital 24/7. If she's staying at the hospital without going to work, be rest assured that someone else or some other people are responsible for the hospital bills. Staying at the hospital doesn't mean that you are the one footing the bills. |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Gkay1(m): 2:48pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
[quote author=Sangoamadioha1 post=124954866] Nice. Now sit back, relax and think if this accident happened to your brother, will you encourage his wife to abandon him. Please be truthful to yourself and i don't need your reply. [/quote God bless you for this simple question. I'm waiting for her reply 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by maasoap(m): 2:50pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Rayban25: Lol. She tagged the story fake and still couldn't help but advised the wife to run. Some people sha! |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Mountbatten: 2:51pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Mindlog: Stop projecting your insecurities on me, as you've refused to apply critical thinking since your response is based on emotion and not facts. There is no way OP will not have to disclose their marital status or the fact that they have 4 kids already. What sort of visa will OP be granted eh smarty-pants? You do realise you cannot work or set up a business on a visitor's visa right? How will OP add value to the economy she intends to travel to without the required experience or qualifications? It's always the unintelligent ones who are quick to call people dumb. I have travelled enough times to know that OP will not be granted a visa should they apply but go on then… 🤡 Imagine getting this worked up over some probably BS made up story lol! 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by maasoap(m): 2:53pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Nairas2dollars:Laughing. Come ask those of us who already had 4 kids before Buhari and Tinubu happened to Nigeria . Thank God we didn't joke with investments. Now, one shouldn't even slack a bit. |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Gkay1(m): 2:59pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent:Well done ma. I just want to ask u a simple question ma Assuming your elder brother find himself in this type of situation and his wife accept this kind of your advice, (1) how will you feel, (2) can you accept your brother and take care of him with 4 children throughout their life ? I'm waiting for your reply ma |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by chima47(m): 3:06pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
What has caught my attention the most in this story, is that at 26 the lady already has 4kids, it's sounds beautiful, it's obvious she was married to this guy before she clocked 18. |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Pascal9: 3:13pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Tomorrow is pregnant, karma is there, the story said that the man provided and take care of his family, it did not said he was wicked to his family, if the woman abandoned the man and her children, her own case will be worst.don tempt evil . what we sow we will reap. 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Emma1Oj(m): 3:24pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
The mother told her that she is too young to suffer in that marriage, that she can easily remarry.[/quote] Even though I don't believe the stated age. After 4 is too young to remarry?? Dey play, just Dey play. |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by ufuosman(m): 3:52pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Wicked mother |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by rtdCivilservant: 4:32pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
I want to place a curse on all scammers (using WildChild00 as a point of contact to other scammers ) especially here on nairaland, it shall never be well with them, they shall die a miserable death, vultures shall feed on their dead bodies, misery shall forever locate them. Woe betide all scammers. WildChild00 |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by Rushna27(f): 4:33pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Rayban25:You really don't know what you are saying, its very clear and obvious... Advice from now till tomorrow what she will do is what she will do....by God's grace I'm married with two kids and I can boldly say I'm not who you supposed I am cos I stayed with my hubby despite the predicament..... He did major eye surgery, lost his job...mind you the eye isn't up to 60%anymore since d surgery... I've been the one catering for the family with my little income..... I can do it doesn't mean another person can......individual differences....what we can endure differs.... Pls take back ur nonsense comment towards me.......enjoy marriage counsellor.... Mtcheeeeeeewwwww 1 Like |
Re: Mother Wants Her Daughter To Quit Marriage Because Of This by achimendy(m): 5:09pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: Stop supporting nonsense. Learn to say the right thing no matter who's involve. |
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