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N20,000 Tradermoni Tears Adamawa Couple Apart As Husband Drags Wife To Court / Man Changes His Surname To His Mother’s Name / My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by ceejay80s(m): 10:53pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Mindlog:All is story...if pikin grow he won't know his father again abi? 2 Likes |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by Exceed15: 10:54pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
[quote author=clappa post=125069554][/quote] Abegii. ... |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by Entprys(m): 10:56pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Armaggedon: Then they are naturally b@stards 1 Like |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by MrDoGood(m): 11:13pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Mindlog: Your tradition is different from the constitution governing a state. Except the man don't want issues and choose to let his kids go away 11 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by CasNova(m): 11:21pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
The woman has not done well. She has not done well at all. |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by Housing(m): 11:22pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
DamnnNiggarr: It is the Court that will decide paternity based on biological relation, not dowry receipt. Moreso it happens in Ondo State. 5 Likes |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by Mindlog: 11:26pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
JuanDeDios: If a man's culture see no reason to pay bride price, he can't impose same on the woman who comes from where paying bride price is very fundamental and he is free not to involve bride price when his own daughter is getting married. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by Mindlog: 11:33pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
MrDoGood: What do you think made Davido to hasten marrying Chioma? Their late son had Adeleke as his surname on paper but traditionally belonged to Chioma's family because the father never married the mother. Davido's family had the wealth to go up to the Supreme court to contest legally but they knew better to respect tradition and did what was necessary before they could bury the boy. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by Mindlog: 11:35pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
ceejay80s: No go do baby daddy with the "wrong woman". 2 Likes |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by Mindlog: 11:40pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
[quote author=clappa post=125069554][/quote] Make effort to marry properly and avoid the short cut of cohabitation and having children.. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by uuzba(m): 12:04am On Aug 13, 2023 |
IconicR: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qKHH98LDbnc?si=YDEfzZfJyopv3HmM |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by TheMostComplex1: 12:06am On Aug 13, 2023 |
He didn’t pay bride price so he got not children & any man that marries her na her children's father 3 Likes |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by NovusHomo(m): 12:10am On Aug 13, 2023 |
Mindlog: Help me here. So, if I pay dowry on an Igbo woman, I can take over the children she had by another man?! I say KWENU! 1 Like |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by manikspears: 12:12am On Aug 13, 2023 |
Obayan no be yoruba name though |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by MrDoGood(m): 12:21am On Aug 13, 2023 |
Mindlog: Bro relax your mind. By law, a woman can't claim a child. Except the father choose not to associate with that child. Get a lawyer to explain better to you. You're bringing stone age to the future. Let's say you're ready to marry your baby mama, but her family is against it. What then happens to the child? The family claims it? A lawyer will explain better to you. Okay? 8 Likes |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by livebullet(m): 12:49am On Aug 13, 2023 |
izonborn098: Children mumu raise to power 2. So I go come deny my papa because one mama lie to me? |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by niel63(m): 12:55am On Aug 13, 2023 |
izonborn098: Life really enter you sha.... When they talk about means to an end. See how you were fast to judge them all like their life is based on your personal experience. What if the said man is Canadian citizen 😂 Dey play! Keep an open mind bro. I just wan call you to order small, there are so many more comments to read. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by Mindlog: 1:03am On Aug 13, 2023 |
MrDoGood: I guess the Adelekes couldn't afford a lawyer, who could have explained better to them. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by sharone21(f): 1:26am On Aug 13, 2023 |
Smartguyboy: This law spans from SE SS up to Cameroon as a way to checkmate irresponsible men. Even widows and divorces with 4 kids do remarry.... Here, there wasn't any marriage so she was with her boyfriend and NOW has a husband. The children are mostly adults and will choose if to bear their dad's name or their mum's husband's name and they must not make the mistake of choosing a name that would later not help them go through school and life in general.... Marrying a woman with 4 kids no be beans and the man wants guarantee of his investments in the life of the children. Some will say the children will lose out on the inheritance of their dad but a man who can't send them to school and beats their beloved mum may not have anything worthy to give them later. The man wanted to scatter her life and she being a prodigal child allowed it for many years but she remembered where she was coming from and left... He wanted to cheat and thought giving the children Yoruba names meant he had won. The customary court will decide for the woman using her tradition since her people are supposed to see him as their INLAW, NOT a persona non grata.... Even if he married an Armenian, Chinese, Turkish woman he is supposed to follow her family's marriage tradition to be called a SON INLAW. It's good to always do the right thing. If this is abroad, we will say it is Civil Partnership but here no law and he would pay Palimony to the woman.... Maybe if court pities him, he may pay child's support to the woman as the children can decide for themselves who they want to be with.... But, we should applaud traditional laws that fights for the rights of women like this one as most of our laws( Civil laws) aren't really women friendly 2 Likes |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by ceejay80s(m): 1:33am On Aug 13, 2023 |
Mindlog:I don't pray to be a baby daddy, it's not a good thing for the child especially if u get married to someone else and the woman also get married to someone else and u both have children with other spouse, the child u had with the first lady will feel bad thinking no one loves him or her....they won't say it but it's in their heart...I feel for the poor ones 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by dmangodwin(m): 2:15am On Aug 13, 2023 |
greggng: Fabricated story .it doesn’t add up |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by Nobody: 2:33am On Aug 13, 2023 |
tunjijones:they were never married, Just cohabitating. The man is an irresponsible man. 1 Like |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by rexesq(m): 2:43am On Aug 13, 2023 |
Pious101: Maybe the man will prove that he paid her bride price |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by Kei144(m): 2:52am On Aug 13, 2023 |
This is one of the most satanic and barbaric culture of the igbos I detest. I feel for the Yoruba man tho Call it satanic as much as you like, but the tradition was crafted to dissuade irresponsibility among men. If a man is not ready for marriage, he should not impregnate a woman. That is why baby mama without marriage is rare among Igbos. How many Igbo celebrities have you heard impregnating women all over the country or world, even musicians? A few years ago i was in a public transport bus from Awka to Onitsha and a Yoruba man was in the bus. A discussion came up about godliness among Igbos. Then I said that the only thing that seriously draws Igbos away from God is money and that (Anambra) Igbos are not so mad about women and wine. As soon as I said "not so mad about women", the Yoruba man said, "Not at all". In the course of his stay in Anambra State, he had noticed that Anambra men are not obsessed with unbridled sex with pretty women that abound. What you call satanic culture, which is of Jewish origin, is responsible for what the Yoruba man observed among Anambra people. 1 Like |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by okoroemeka(m): 2:59am On Aug 13, 2023 |
izonborn098:this is not a case of mumu but a clash of different tribal ideologies,in igboland if you don't pay the brideprice of a woman she is not your wife and whatever children you manufacture from such relationship is not your children but belongs to the woman's family,infact the two of you are viewed as doing boyfriend and girlfriend relationship,if the man didn't pay the official brideprice their is nothing to judge but it is left for the two to settle their differences peacefully. 1 Like |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by JDJDjD: 3:04am On Aug 13, 2023 |
dipopooo:tell ur tribe man to go and pay bride price for a whole 23yrs haba |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by ivolt: 3:06am On Aug 13, 2023 |
Another alpha baby daddy down. |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by Burgerlomo: 3:50am On Aug 13, 2023 |
I don't think I can ever fight for this type of thing because the children might not be his in the first place and even if they are his children I will still stand my ground by not fighting for it most especially when the children are all grown up 😂 |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by tunjijones(m): 3:56am On Aug 13, 2023 |
Bunkbars: Cohabiting and they have 4 children? Even that does not give her the right to change the children's surname to that of her lover. It's an aberration. 1 Like |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by seyidboy(m): 4:24am On Aug 13, 2023 |
1. NO Court can deny him his right as there natural father except proven otherwise his ex wife. 2. D man needs to show court evidences that he was obstructed from performing his fatherly roles. 3. ONLY D CHILDREN HAS D RIGHT TO DECIDES 1 Like |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by StJasper(m): 4:24am On Aug 13, 2023 |
Mindlog: Whenever a person from another tribe falls victim of your so called culture, you always celebrate and eulogize your culture but whenever its other people's culture, then you will start wailing. 5 Likes |
Re: Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s by IamAsiri: 4:56am On Aug 13, 2023 |
tunjijones: Have you not heard of such cases before? And how is changing name to that of her husband an aberration? It is called adoption. Unfortunately, he only has right to fight over the last child as other children are now 18 and above and can decide for themselves the surnames they choose to adopt or stick with. 1 Like |
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