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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Luckysbab: 3:18pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Angelfrost: In this case, the gender differentiation is justifiable. |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by PDJT: 3:19pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Fiscus105: -My second wife was 32 when I married her, and she was a virgin (the most important marriage criteria). If a woman is 35 but still have her god-of-marriage intact, then you can give her a go. A virgin woman in her 30s have something in her personality that will be valuable for your matrimony. However, 40 and above is not for me except for partnership. -Good luck to young people looking for a wife/husband, you will all need it. 5 Likes |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by uuzba(m): 3:20pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Towncrier007:Unfortunately, like in the US where they have the "American Dream", Nigeria also has "The Nigerian Dream". Job, house car, marriage... It's the men that should get the Job, house and car... Then pick the woman and marry. The women are not seeing this happening from the men they know. In fact the men are all hustling and just barely managing. - The solution is just to lower expectations and accept that we live in shitty times, despite all the internet and computers. And just marry a decent hardworking guy regardless of what property he has or not. 5 Likes |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Fiscus105(m): 3:20pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Kemadealadire: Encouragement comment of smiling outside but feeling the heat inner. Everyone wants good things of life, wen it's not forthcoming, u re bound to feel the pressure, unless the person is inmbecile , not even a marriageble single or couple looking for fruit of womb. |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by TheRedpillguy: 3:21pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Sonnobax15:For some people, las las they get killed by herdsmen or Bandits. |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by blessingnenye(f): 3:23pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
[quote author=blessingnenye post=125136816]A lot of ladies are scared of 30. What's really wrong with 30? Why so dreadful with the age, after all it's just a number!!! Even with a lot of accomplishments, being 30 and single can be so pressurizing among out ladies, owing to the pressures from families and society to get married. Sometimes, this pressure sums up the reason why majority delve into an unfruitful marriage. [/https://loveonet.com/5-strategic-ways-to-handle-a-cheating-partner/] |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Levels1(m): 3:23pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
zed7: Pls how does it cause giving birth to special children? Thanks |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Karlifate: 3:23pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Onefornaija24: I'll advice you to post your ads on Facebook Marketplace and other Facebook "Buying & Selling" groups. These Jiji people will frustrate you after making payment, and might not eventually activate your ad(s). I give you my piece based on my recent experience with them. P.S: I've sold a couple of phones via Facebook Marketplace. 1 Like |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Juanmike(m): 3:24pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
extol1:What will Siofra and Jennyclay that are above 40 do now? |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Kemadealadire(f): 3:25pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Fiscus105:It's relative, I have so much to say but don't have the energy to type. Tell Seun to add voice. |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Powersurge: 3:25pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
EconomistXplain: The danger of generalisation. |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Angelfrost(m): 3:25pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Luckysbab: Actually, it's never justifiable in any case... Whenever a man marries late (or early), it's his choice and preference, but for a woman, it has to be down to her poor character (mostly arrogance). Such thinking is beyond archaic and obtuse. Whether for biological (mostly child-bearing) or otherwise, no one (man or woman) should be age-shamed or blackmailed into matrimony. Marriage is too serious and complicated a matter for anyone to jump into out of peer or societal pressure. 8 Likes |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Osariemen12: 3:26pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
A lady @30 and not married? You're a failure; a failure you're; and a failure you'll remain. You're neither beautiful nor have good manners. Your family probably has a history of mentally unstable people. Kiss the truth. If you like commit suicide after reading my comment. It will only get this beautiful world rid of one social failure. Failures everywhere. 3 Likes |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by AstrologyGuru: 3:27pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by achimendy(m): 3:27pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Sonnobax15: Exactly . |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by blessingnenye(f): 3:27pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
You need to read this, if you are still pressurized at 30. There's more to life than just getting married. Many women are suffering today because they didn't prepare themselves adequately for the task ahead. They thought marriage is a bed of rose, where relaxation comes, after the struggles in their single years. https://loveonet.com/5-strategic-ways-to-handle-a-cheating-partner/ |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by attat(m): 3:28pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Tinubu pressure no go allow any other pressure pressure me 1 Like |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Cowbell521: 3:28pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Sanguine:Men no wan marry una sef. Dem just want to dump una cuz una dey useless. Why should I be rearing a woman that should be in the street hawking kpekus? 1 Like |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by bonnyhope: 3:28pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
obembet: How old are you |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Fiscus105(m): 3:29pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
PDJT: Ur second wife? U said it all! You think she is* happy with choice she made eventually? When u re the one at the center of controversy, you feel the pressure the most. Ask her how she felt before she finally agreed to settle less with you. I biliv she would have almost cursed almighty for good decision she made about herself. Though, I still thank God for the life of ur 2nd wife ooo. A woman preserves herself but eventually ended in hand of poligamist. 3 Likes |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Karlifate: 3:30pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Angelfrost: Yeah, right. A woman attaining spectacular career success increases the probability of her divorcing her husband. Why? Because when her status in the macro hierarchy rises, it increases the probability that she will attain status higher than her husband‘s, thereby cause her attraction to her husband to die because he no longer appeals to her hypergamy. Men, if your wife suddenly gets a promotion at work, that increases the probability of her divorcing you. If a husband‘s income is higher than his wife‘s income, the probability of divorce is low. If a husband‘s income is lower than his wife‘s income, the probability of divorce is high. Income is a proxy for ‘Status in the Macro Dominance Hierarchy‘. 7 Likes |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by amakanancy(f): 3:30pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
There's no cut off age in marriage. Ignore them 1 Like |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Goodman2023: 3:30pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
blessingnenye: At 30, hardly you see a girl who uses condom... Especially when the guy is single, has a car and his rented apartment... the intention is to get pregnant...while the guy is busy cumming inside thinking she will take contraceptive, she will be busy with pregnancy test kit every morning 13 Likes |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by inyass2580(m): 3:31pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
harryboyng: You are making sense my brother... D joy of goin home to see ur kids running to welkum u mks u feel special nd happy.. 4 Likes |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by frankson1(m): 3:34pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
IconicR: I'm still older than you. Anyone who wants to feel pressured should go ahead. |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by AmancalledGod: 3:34pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
IconicR:Taaa make i hear say you dey 60 plus 1 Like |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Nobody: 3:35pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
frankson1:Seriously? How old are you then? |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Bluearrow: 3:36pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
jackmrandy:Bitter truth @bold A lot of ladies always think there is this perfect man waiting for them, not knowing they just rejected their husband. Mothers seriously need to guide their daughters btw ages 22 to 28 yrs. That is the age range most females miss their husband & once they miss it, it is very hard to find a replacement, 35 yrs will hit them within the blink of an eye. 4 Likes |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Fiscus105(m): 3:37pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Kemadealadire: Though, some people they know their past and already aware of consequences of how they leaved in the past , such people would be undeterred, no matter the pressure, because every rational human beings feel pressure on his/ her when she gets to certain age yet ,what is expected of her not forthcoming. He shouldn't wait for family or Friends to feel pressure. |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by PDJT: 3:37pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Fiscus105: -I knew her when she was 20 but I let her finish her education and get some life experiences. She wasn't hungry or desperate. However, she is a proper African woman, not an Euro-wanabe woman. -She is here beaming with smiles 😃 to your questions. She said to tell you that; she is happy with her choice, thank you. 10 Likes |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by blessingnenye(f): 3:37pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
[quote author=blessingnenye post=125136816]A lot of ladies are scared of 30. What's really wrong with 30? Why so dreadful with the age, after all it's just a number!!! Even with a lot of accomplishments, being 30 and single can be so pressurizing among out ladies, owing to the pressures from families and society to get married. Sometimes, this pressure sums up the reason why majority delve into an unfruitful marriage. [/https://loveonet.com/5-strategic-ways-to-handle-a-cheating-partner/] |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by sageb: 3:37pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
ednut1: The sad reality😂 1 Like |
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