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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by vickydevoka(m): 3:53pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Omoapena:Not that guys will see you, they are very unmarriable set of individuals looking for highest bidders and having high taste. Try an approach a woman who makes her own money and less than 30 years, she will be so rude and stupid at the same time 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by blessingnenye(f): 3:53pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
[quote author=AmyNwa10 post=125194532]It's for this very reason; the dear of being unmarried at 30 as a lady that has pushed a lot of women to ending up with any man just to be tagged, "she married early." The men aren't even helping, since they have a knack for calling >30 unmarried ladies derogatory names such as evening newspaper. We'll just marry anyhow to avoid all of that. [https://loveonet.com/5-strategic-ways-to-handle-a-cheating-partner/ ] |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by jackmrandy: 3:54pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
tiswell: let me explain on his behalf:: if you are always live on tiktok to watch those doing match making and in search of life partners, you will know what what he is saying. the least age of females i have seen there was 24, and guess what she was told: "to go and engage herself in something meanfull and not think about marriage' Then for the ones who were ready who were coming live to me match, bross, you need to see age, 30, 31, 32, 36, 36. i have even seen 40.. no joking. then you need to hear the choice these ladies were asking a man of 35 and above. 35 and above.. if you are not on tiktok you need to be there and see what i am saying |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by MISTAICEY02288(m): 3:54pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by blessingnenye(f): 3:54pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
[https://loveonet.com/5-strategic-ways-to-handle-a-cheating-partner/ author=Sonnobax15 post=125140881] If you like,lose yourself and die of depression due to pressure from the society...... Everything good will surely happen when it's time comes.... Personally,I don't let society pressure to have an advantage over me...Cuz I know I'm unique in my own way......And no need to over push things,cuz las las everywhere go stew.[/quote] |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by vickydevoka(m): 3:54pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Omoapena:Not that guys will see you, they are very unmarriable set of individuals looking for highest bidders and having high taste. Try an approach a woman who makes her own money and less than 30 years, she will be so rude and stupid at the same time. What do some women gain in given birth to down syndrome all in the name of my moneuy |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by blessingnenye(f): 3:55pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
[. https://loveonet.com/5-strategic-ways-to-handle-a-cheating-partner/You cannot pressure the unpressured. If you cower under one nonsense pressure and end up marrying a 'horseband' (as a woman), or a 'knife' (as a man)... Na you go cry taya! And that society or whoever that pressured you, na them go still come back begin dey blame you, even mock you on top. Wisdom demands that you choose your battles and pressures right.[/quote] |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by frankson1(m): 3:55pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
IconicR: The same way you assumed I was lying. Besides, your spirit, body and soul know you're not near 60yrs. |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
frankson1:How old are you truly? |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by tiswell(m): 3:59pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
jackmrandy:Nawa o |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by frankson1(m): 3:59pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by InvertedHammer: 4:00pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
blessingnenye:/ Any lady with an iota of common sense knows that marrying below 30 is the best decision considering that nature is at play. Geriatric pregnancy and consequent risks are real. It ain't got nothing to do with societal pressure. People should be able to look in the mirror beyond all the noise and tell themselves the truth. Facts don't care about feelings. / 1 Like |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Nobody: 4:00pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
frankson1:Because you don't have to lie about it the second time |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by frankson1(m): 4:03pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
IconicR: You're wrong. I will still lie about it because this information is meaningless to you. |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Acidosis(m): 4:04pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
This doesn't apply here but then... Don't put yourself under pressure. Give yourself time and enjoy every moment.
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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Jman06(m): 4:07pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
God knows that I can never marry any lady above 25yrs. I'll rather remain single than marry one evening newspaper who'll still have same expectations from me as a younger girl would. 6 Likes |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by blessingnenye(f): 4:12pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
is 30 a death sentence? At 29, a lot single ladies begins to deliberate whether or not to celebrate their next birthday. At 29, a lot of ladies begins to age backwards, with a skeptical feelings on whether to reveal their real age or conceal it. I"ll be 30 by next month, year, week. Yet no marriage, children or money. And so what Is 30 a death sentence? I"ll be 30 by next month, yet without any accomplishment, and so what Does life suddenly stops at 30? Why is 30 such a scary age to most folks? Is it a general perception or just a fear of uncertainty. Some men will go as far as trying to scare you with statements like "I will never marry, a lady at 30 and more. is 30 really that bad? The earlier we understand that life is like a script, and to each his/ her own unique story with diverse time. The better and peaceful our mind gets to be. Age is not a determinant of successful marriage. You can still get it right @30. Your successful story can still begin @30. The right man can still show up@30. At 30+, some ladies got married to their heartthrob, gave birth, got a new connection and job. There's no time factor in life. Just do your best, focus on developing yourself, character, and personalities. When you dwell so much on your burdens, they will linger. But when you keep your mind off it, and focus on self empowerment while living it up to God and fate. It will show up at the time you least expected. https://loveonet.com/5-strategic-ways-to-handle-a-cheating-partner/ 3 Likes |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Nobody: 4:15pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
frankson1:I want to know the elders in this platform, we need to know ourselves so as to keep these kids in check |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Miravik900(m): 4:19pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
IconicR where are you? |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by YoshihideSuga: 4:19pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Luu40: I see you're a Northern Christian. Well, the concept of how you guys see marriage is very different from how Christians in the south see it. I'm genuinely curious though, what is it like marrying a Christian from Northern Nigeria (Adamawa, Gombe, Plateau, Kaduna etc) as a Yoruba or Igbo man? |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by YoshihideSuga: 4:21pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Hahnemann: Honestly, I just finished discussing with my mom about the same issue only to see a similar topic on Nairaland. When I was in Nigeria, nobody mention marriage o. When I don comot, "try to marry early" 🙄 1 Like |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by frankson1(m): 4:24pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
IconicR: True and you should start by stating your age. You take the lead. |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by YoshihideSuga: 4:26pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Goodman2023: In that case, you as the man should use condom if you don't plan on getting married. Why are you not advising the men to use condom? 1 Like |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by todugo(m): 4:30pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
ecolime: Exactly, the pressure is most from family and friends.Na women wey no dey independent i pity pass. Any woman that is independent will not have that pressure because she can easily find a man that serve as a surrogate. Once you have one child as a single mother, that pressure will never be there. |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Onefornaija24: 4:32pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
MISTAICEY02288: Free one is only one item right? |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Raalsalghul: 4:33pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Hahnemann: Even in this current Nigeria? |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by YoshihideSuga: 4:33pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Acidosis: Good advice. But I'm surprised someone like who professes conservatism isn't supporting the notion of early marriage. |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Nobody: 4:40pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Kevineleven: Professor No Nonsense. Is That You?? 1 Like |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
frankson1:I didn't lie about my own |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by frankson1(m): 4:47pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
IconicR: Yeah, because you can't prove it . Just take it that I'm older than you. |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by extol1(m): 4:47pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Juanmike:They have two options either to take their case to God or look for a man that will be servicing their engine. My take |
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Acidosis(m): 4:52pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
YoshihideSuga: Lol... I support early marriage as a way to curb the reckless high-risk sex, mental breakdown/heart breaks, and financial recklessness that come with being single (conservatism). But I also align with the realist position: everyone's journey is unique. As a matter of fact, many people will not be married in their life time. And it's absolutely OK. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
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