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Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by A40(m): 10:23am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Emotionss:Nigeria is the only country a man will get away with this foolishness and you know it. If the husband was a millionaire you say? You've not heard of millionaires getting locked up? His millions make him above the law? Nothing like she could have, he could have not beaten her and smashed her phone. Try that suggestion. What type of drunkard is that? In my drinking days I used to throw up and sleep not beat people (assuming her story is true) Maybe the home is meant to be destroyed cos that is not a rational and logical man, remaining with him is probably not in her best interests anyway. That husband is a foolish man and we need to drop this he was broke, depressed angle. If he has resentment and not disgust at himself for the past two years he's failed his family then he's doomed and perhaps he should be left to his fate. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Mrbllymer: 10:33am On Aug 23, 2023 |
A40:She didn't ask for validation or your narration about the said man. Provide a solution of how she can get her husband back as the deed has been done. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by LadyRosa(f): 10:39am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Luckysbab: If its more important than her life and well being of her kids, she should go ahead begging an abuser. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by LadyRosa(f): 10:41am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Luckysbab: He needs to keep his distance. If I'm the husband, I will, but keeping my distance is to reflect on my life and the best way to do better in challenging situations. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by A40(m): 10:47am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Mrbllymer:Validation? You think I care about validating anybody. Oga I'm opening her mind to the fact that he might not be a husband worth having. Cannot be broke, unemployed and a drunkard that beats their wife. That is too many struggles for one person. There might be no solution 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkiee: 10:56am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Dmacqh:A man Jobless for two years uses the little money he has to smoke and drink, yet you think it makes sense to give such a man a loan to start a business with?.... Many of you folks will say just about anything to keep yourselves from outrightly condemning this man's actions as reported. But the same will not hold back from trying to level all the blame against the woman. Na waooo ![]() 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkiee: 11:03am On Aug 23, 2023 |
PastorFire4Fire:The average Nigerian is truly incapable of logically reasoning issues. ![]() So, are you insinuating that this man's destruction of property and also violent attack of his wife, in the presence of her kids, was an attempt to resolve his frustrations, depression and joblessness? ![]() 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by shantti(m): 11:12am On Aug 23, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: https://saharareporters.com/2021/07/16/more-women-beating-husbands-194-men-assaulted-january-%E2%80%93-lagos-government https://www./2021/06/18/video-woman-beats-her-man-up-in-public/ https://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/11/son-ex-pdp-chair-bilyamin-bello-allegedly-killed-wife-buried/ 1 Like
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Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkiee: 11:14am On Aug 23, 2023 |
dreamxhaser:She, the victim, shouldn't have locked him up. She should have instead allowed her attacker to beat the living day lights out of her so she can take bloody pictures to post on Facebook and show her kids --- assuming she survives the beating ? ![]() By the way, the police came and determined that there was grounds to have the man arrested and then took him away. But you ignore all of that to assert that it was the victim is to blame for why her attacker was arrested. Abi? ![]() 2. So, the victim should have allowed her attacker beat her to a pulp that day, then assuming she survived till the next day, escaped to her parent's home where she should then have proceeded to threaten her attacker for the next two months. And according to you, that always works magic? ![]() And this is what passes for critical reasoning from you in the year 2023? ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Pauliaette(m): 11:18am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Verokeena: If what you are telling us is true, hmmmm u are a good woman. I know what u'v past through especially with a drunk person and their mentality. U went too far but I'm not blaming you because I take it as a kind of self defence and I'm so sure he will forgive u. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by sfinkzslot(m): 11:22am On Aug 23, 2023 |
He got what he deserves, in saner clan he may still pay for damages. Hopefully he would have learnt a lesson or 2 and be more responsible. I will not excuse a man that would not get a job, drink to stupor and beat the wife, haba!! Economy or not he should be thankful to have a provider woman 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by A40(m): 11:22am On Aug 23, 2023 |
PastorFire4Fire:Na wa. Are we talking about a boy or a man here? She a woman needs to talk to people to help him get another job? Lol abeg nau. Ok let's say he had no woman. Will he not survive? Life is not easy my brother. All your life even for your church have you seen any ministry that cater to widowers? Women get their own for body 100% and can be very problematic but we can't keep coddling to foolishness from our kind either 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by shantti(m): 11:24am On Aug 23, 2023 |
When chidimma killed ataga, women suddenly wanted to hear both sides of the story, they believed the version of a murderer, and blamed ataga for cheating on his wife, chidimma was not bashed by ladies When bilyami Bello's wife killed him for infidelity, the wife was not bashed, instead bello was blamed for cheating on his wife I hope u hypocrites see where am going with these.......... UnfairLife7 I need your comment on this please ................ 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Mrbllymer: 11:32am On Aug 23, 2023 |
A40:Online marriage counselors, she didn't ask for mind opening though did she? No sensible person judges based on a side of the story, that's why courts mostly hear from both sides before giving judgment. Most will likely paint a narration to suit their side of the story. Not in support of him being lazy or beating the woman though. Since you said there's no solution and then advice her to move on and file for divorce, the man ain't the one here to complain or seek help. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by A40(m): 11:32am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Let's say he injured her. I just want to know who will have had to pay the hospital bills? I don't like seeing emotional men that don't think and use logic. If you're upset that you don't have a job it can always get worse, you're healthy, you're not destitute, you still have your wits about you. Wasn't it Solidstar I saw the other day roaming the streets aimlessly on the internet yelling at whoever the fvck knows Is he the first man that will lose his job? People like that is why Layiwasabi said broke niggas are homicidal. And I'm not one of those that even believe a man must be provider and traditional megedefegede but he should at least be bringing something while the woman also brings something. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Starships4u(m): 11:35am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Verokeena: What started in the kitchen? What did yhu do? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by A40(m): 11:36am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Mrbllymer:Then she's in the wrong place. I wouldn't advice my sister if I had one to stay with a drunken man beating her to a pulp. At that point I will question her intelligence. Maybe she's lying and maybe she's saying the truth who the fvck knows. Women lie too but we can't pretend there are not numerous men out there battering their wives I am going solely off her story. If it is true then getting the man is the least of her worries, he needs to get himself back 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Procashtips(m): 11:36am On Aug 23, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: Tell me you're naive and ignorant without saying it. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkiee: 11:36am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Starships4u:Are you of the mind that her attacker's destruction of property and violent attack of her person was somehow warranted? ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by A40(m): 11:38am On Aug 23, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:Don't let me flood this page with women killing their husbands abeg. You don't have to pander to women to prove points |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Starships4u(m): 11:39am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: I don't understand this.... |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Mrbllymer: 11:48am On Aug 23, 2023 |
A40: Exactly you already painted him and hurled words at him based on her side of the story if the man was here to say his side I'm sure there would be questions to ask, cos no one knows the truth except the two of them, and when a woman is feeding a man we both know how they can be. Yes women lie a lot but judging her case based on “numerous men out there battering their wives” doesn't seem right, for each marriage with its own peculiar case. The guy deserves the arrest but how he chose to reach is no one's business. From the story, lotta questions need to be asked. What happened after he came back and went to the kitchen? No details I'm sure there are questions asked, confrontations, insults, and many more. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by djon78(m): 11:48am On Aug 23, 2023 |
thesicilian: This is very wrong to blame this woman How will a Man not working, getting drunk and come back to insult his wife, break her phone and beat Her. She called law enforcement and arrested him Still took food to him in the police cell And she was still feeling remorseful Haba This woman is a good woman She has bore a lot That she has been taking care of the home for two good years Haba This woman don try And you have the audacity to judge this matter with that nonsense you wrote up there Honestly you are a grade one skunk And all those that liked your reply Shame to all of you Nonsense 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by rohangold(m): 11:55am On Aug 23, 2023 |
thesicilian: You are discerning 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by djon78(m): 11:56am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Madam you didn't do anything wrong How the heck will the nigger lay his filthy, dirty hands on you A woman bearing the brunt for 2 years And you were even feeling remorse for what you did You did no wrong That nigger have to wake up and be the Man he is meant to be seeing he has a supportive Wife If he was like us that our women don't even bring any money to the table but rather every bill is on our head What will he do? His is f..cking du.mb mfcker He better sit his ass up and get something doing as he is blessed with a supportive Wife that loves Him. Madam just use wisdom to be following Him Do your duties at home Continue to support But also get input from either his elders, mentors, church and counselor to work on Him Just be patient But if it will turn to violence and threaten your life And he doesn't want to change Better run!! 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by rohangold(m): 11:58am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: So now this means marriage is no more 1plus 1 equal 1? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by djon78(m): 12:05pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Verokeena: Madam you did no wrong don't mind them Look previously for my reply You are a good woman Keep on supporting Him But also call for meeting with his elders, mentors church and get counseling If it turns to violence that will endanger your life Better run!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by djon78(m): 12:08pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Verokeena: Ah this na good woman This Man no know wetin God do for am A woman that supports loves and feels bad when she hurt Him If nigger lose this kind woman Him own don be be that 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by djon78(m): 12:10pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: Nice one 👍 from a smart Man like me I agree to all you said 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by djon78(m): 12:18pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Verokeena: That's there attribute Lazy men Nonsense Like we all haven't gone through tough times? I have lost millions Still humbled myself to serve and answer boy boy Till my story changed That nigger is f... cking entitled Got him a job and he turned it down? Damn and he is also prideful and conceited This type of Man may never get money in his lifetime To make it You sometimes will have to take sh.it, humble yourself to get to your destination Chei 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by djon78(m): 12:36pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Verokeena: Hahaha wao!! First time Kobo is making serious Sense Most times I dodge his/her reply!! |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by talented321: 12:38pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Is like u don't have sense fxexperts: |
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