GboyegaD:
You can take them to the orphanage and try to support the orphanage as much as you can. Let the management know you would appreciate they don't give them up for adoption as you are coming back to pick them once you are in a good place.

This is the best reply I've seen so far

LegallyBlunt:
Don't just open your mouth and talk. Do you know what people are going through presently? Instead of reasoning, you're judging her and saying she's failed heaven. Haba nau.

She needs encouragement to continue. What will they eat? Where will they sleep? Where are the relatives and dads?

And when things are hard and you can't feed your own kids what do you do. Tell us

take them to any family member or close relative, then put the person on monthly allowance.

my advice.

GboyegaD:
You can take them to the orphanage and try to support the orphanage as much as you can. Let the management know you would appreciate they don't give them up for adoption as you are coming back to pick them once you are in a good place.

Best advice

Loveabove:


There's no father for the first one. She got raped when she was in secondary and my late mother didn't agree to abortion.

How she got pregnant to the second child with a useless man is what I don't understand.

The immediate family of the second man is nothing to write home about. They don't care about the child and they told me this is not the only child he's impregnated a woman with. He's four other children like that from different women who the family care not for.

That is why I said circumstances I'm not ready to explain in details.

I understand you must have thought about this very well before picking the option of the orphanage home. But do you consider this kids might grow up with the thought of abandonment by immediate family. And moreover have you heard about “the Justice court”. The dead beat Dad like you claimed will be compelled to take up his responsibility upto accommodation, feeding and shelter. You don’t even need a lawyer or a dime to achieve that… just submit your case online.
You can check them out with the link below and their social media page to watch episodes on how cases similar to this are been handled there…. And you might even get support or a job from Judge Funmi.

https://thejusticecourt.com/

Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod

Ask yourself if it were to be your own children will you take them there?

descarado:

You are a very big liar.
End result is account number.
Use another moniker to suggest that.

You've already known them. I've seen that account caught begging before on one of those "sob stories" threads.
If anyone manages to still go ahead to do a proper investigation they'll see its a ruse. I think I have to look for a way to get this OP arrested for potential scamming.

You have Said a Sensible Thing Bro and that is exactly what am thinking here.

GboyegaD:
You can take them to the orphanage and try to support the orphanage as much as you can. Let the management know you would appreciate they don't give them up for adoption as you are coming back to pick them once you are in a good place.

Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod

You don't have relatives?

Uncles or aunties. Both from mother's and father's

Mindlog:


You have to explain the circumstance of their birth.

Probably prostitution and she might be in it too, since she said the boys are affecting the thing she is doing now. I might be wrong though but.....

Uyi168:
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you just go about running your mouth anyhow..

if, for now, she has no means of catering for them, then her option is reasonable.

her option is only reasonable if that is what she's going to do If the kids were hers

Don't take them to orphanage may be collecting them if you are financially stable might be wahala. Take them to a trustworthy person Let them learn Handwork at least they will have small change.

BronzeTiger:

There's no father's details anywhere. How are you guys not seeing this stuff is an obvious scam? The current hunger in Nigeria have made many of these lazy youth who don't want to work to become smarter and spin more and more tales by moonlights to get free money.

Another side of it, in my line of duty i do come accross some of these situations though, if you visit an orphanage to listen to their stories you get alot of this.
Unfortunately its rather difficult to tell which is genuine from just an internet post.

lomprico:


Probably prostitution and she might be in it too, since she said the boys are affecting the thing she is doing now. I might be wrong though but.....

Focus on the kids please.

If you truly take them as your own kids you will not be thinking of sending them to the orphanage. Can you send your own kids to the orphanage?

But then on a normal level it is not bad idea sending them to the orphanage if you are not willing to take care of them. The will be better cared for there.

Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod

i'd like to adopt them. if you cannot take care of them, i would gladly adopt them, but we must sign an agreement. You must visit them at least once every 3 months, always speak with them on the phone and never be to far away from them. Never take those kids to any Orphanage, please.

Skankamola:

Focus on the kids please.

Yes sir, have you adopted them yet?

You can lie to yourself but don't throw such lie on our faces.

YOU DON'T LOVE THEM!

Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod

This your matter get K-leg, they've been asking were is their father and father relatives you're keeping people mute. For me nothing to advise you for until you give us the full gist

Tell us that circumstances surrounding their birth if you really need a good advise . We might be able to advise from there cos those children must have one relative from their father’s side . You can’t just go & drop them in the orphanage without trying your best by looking for their father’s relatives.

Visocrate:
Life , some don’t have, some have. But exercise little patience and still make consultations, but if I were you better to learn the hardships and live with it than take them that side pls don’t think of taking them there, it’s traumatizing and the psychological effects may not be ridden off like that think of what to do. If they were your own , you will not think of that I am not saying you haven’t tried o but pls don’t think of it even if it one meal a day with you it’s better for them since they will take it with happiness than taking them to a place where even they eat round the clock they may not be happy, note I am not saying children in the orphanage are not happy o but sister e get why I am taking my time to send this message to you. God bless you all and provide for us all Amen.

What really is wrong with you? Please tell me! Are you blind to read in between the lines? He or she is struggling to survive and you want him or she to keep.those kids simply to have them keep their happiness of staying with a family? What's wrong with you really? The little he/she is managing to hold body, it's now becoming micro. If any of your religion father tell you lies that those of kids creator will provide for him/her, Na lies! The situation in the country now called for one ri make use of his/her senses. If you're my friend and you're coming to pass a week with me, you must come with some money else I will tell you I'm not around. A long Visitation without a Kobo is ONLY ALLOWED by my mom and my wife's mom. Anybody else must stay maximum of three days or longer if he comes with some money, else, you're not welcome. Feeding costlier than any other things nowadays.

My advice to the OP is to go ahead and keep those kids in the orphanage home and check on them often times.

Ur sister was fvcking around without protection now see d result....even father sef no dey

BronzeTiger:

You've already known them. I've seen that account caught begging before on one of those "sob stories" threads.
If anyone manages to still go ahead to do a proper investigation they'll see its a ruse. I think I have to look for a way to get this OP arrested for potential scamming.

I have been here more than a decade and oldies like me know there various formats.
Pregnancy, children, sick mum, homeless etc are what they usually base their stories on.
Some will use school fees. Nairalanders don't have time again. Before, students will volunteer to check your authenticity in your school and once it reach that level, the person will disappear

Wodu89:
■ And when things are hard and you can't feed your own kids what do you do. Tell us

It is better to take them to an orphanage than to abandon them on the streets somewhere.

Skankamola:

Another side of it, in my line of duty i do come accross some of these situations though, if you visit an orphanage to listen to their stories you get alot of this.
Unfortunately its rather difficult to tell which is genuine from just an internet post.

I've caught that op begging for money before editing his posts two times. There's no father's details anywhere or kids because this is all a lie. If there were loveabove would not be sketchy about providing key details that can be used to track and confirm the authenticy of this story.
This is just another nairaland fable geared towards trying to get free money.

Kobojunkiee:
It is better to take them to an orphanage than to abandon them on the streets somewhere.

At that be the portion of our kids when life hits you

Wodu89:
■At that be the portion of our kids when life hits you

Huh? What do you mean by portion?

Loveabove:
I need your say on this please

Ask yourself what if it was the other way round will you be happy your children are taken to orphanage by your sister?

RosyIsBlessed:
■ Ask yourself what if it was the other way round will you be happy your children are taken to orphanage by your sister?

Would you be happier if the kids were to become homeless and have to roam the streets day and night in search of food and a place to sleep? Would you rather they slept in the open and as prey to all sorts of predators out there?

This sounds like truth told in a hard way bro

illicit:
Best thing to do before they become miscreants and menace to the society while looking for a way to feed

ahnie:

I love you babe , always remember that.

Haba,what issa the meaning of this nah!!!
So you and kobojunkiee are poking eachother

online4business:


At least the man has a family give am him property don't subject the kids to emotional trauma.

If you've not been to an orphanage you will not really understand what it feels like.

The feeling that nobody loves them will always be there...

If the man will not take responsibility at least he has relatives who would treat the kids better because ngoro na ngoro (blood na blood)

Monika sef no fit replace blood

Because I have been involved in many children' homes and orphanages, it was one of my motivation for my postgraduate specialty in clinical child psychology.

My work experience has made me know blood is not always blood.