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Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by goldstar25(f): 2:11pm On Aug 27, 2023
That your friend is wicked. So he went behind your back to woo your sister. Only this act of his shows that he will use and dump her. Confront him first and still tell your sister so that tomorrow she won't say if you had told blah blah blah so avoid those talks and confront them both. Beware of this your friend because he can secretly ask your girlfriend out and in the future still go behind your back and ask your daughter out. Real friend will seek your permission before going further. Drop him as your friend because he doesn't respect you.

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Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by doncartel: 2:12pm On Aug 27, 2023
Your sister may also have his type of mindset: Liberal-minded, loves partying, loves casual sex, uses intimacy gadgets, uses sex enhancement drugs, attends sex parties, has multiple boyfriends etc. Like Madonna, Blac Chyna, Cardi B, Tiwa Savage, Kardashians, Nicki Minaj and the girls of the playboy mansion.

Your friend may be the one to be shocked at her own level of promiscuity. Or he may have found his soulmate and then propose marriage.

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Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by 360command: 2:13pm On Aug 27, 2023
Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice
talk to your friend; tall or short, big or small. Seriously warn him not to play with your sisters feelings. You care not what happens to him but he is crossing the line.

Also, talk to your sister and make her understand reasons you see such relationship won't work.

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Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by Harrynight(m): 2:14pm On Aug 27, 2023
You can only tell Ur sister Ur reasons for objecting the union, however if she insists and agree for the guy, true u can't do anything
Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by AdaojoTheUrchin: 2:15pm On Aug 27, 2023
Una dey craze for this country? Not even possible with me. I don't keep stupid friends close.
Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by SweetDipBenny(m): 2:17pm On Aug 27, 2023
Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice
Allow him fvck ur sister na smiley
It's no big deal👍
Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by Beverlyjean(f): 2:19pm On Aug 27, 2023
Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice

He is a bad friend....tey to end the relationship and cut him off... although I suspect that he is ur chairman and u are scared of telling him ...and that's why he dint ask for ur permission and went ahead , thereby disrespecting u

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Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by orikoku: 2:21pm On Aug 27, 2023
Tell your sister the friend of yours is having HIV that he don't want people to know. See how your sister will run like a rabbit and never look back.

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Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by orikoku: 2:22pm On Aug 27, 2023
goldstar25:
That your friend is wicked. So he went behind your back to woo your sister. Only this act of his shows that he will use and dump her. Confront him first and still tell your sister so that tomorrow she won't say if you had told blah blah blah so avoid those talks and confront them both. Beware of this your friend because he can secretly ask your girlfriend out and in the future still go behind your back and ask your daughter out. Real friend will seek your permission before going further. Drop him as your friend because he doesn't respect you.
word.
Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by Basiljoe: 2:24pm On Aug 27, 2023
Mumu. Warn your sister.
Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by Sultty(m): 2:27pm On Aug 27, 2023
Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice
run o
Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by Gggjhhj: 2:30pm On Aug 27, 2023
My friend can't date my sister, my sisters is like there sisters, likewise I can't date my friends sister, no matter how she enter eye

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Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by jameel6: 2:37pm On Aug 27, 2023
If you are my friend, no matter how good, how close you are to me, I will never allow you date my sister.

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Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by Germi9: 2:37pm On Aug 27, 2023
I no dey put mouth for family matter
Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by GodSaklek(m): 2:38pm On Aug 27, 2023
Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

Please advice
play your role as an elder brother,ask her if what u heared is true,if she never denied it,then tell her that u are not happy about it,so she should quit,let her undastnd that the person is ur friend,a friend is also like a family member who will forever remain as part of the family,tell her that u are not in suppose of that,unless they get married in near future which u dont see happening,if he end up dumping her bcus u know your friend very well,this will also affect your image and reduce u to nothing.

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Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by AmancalledGod: 2:39pm On Aug 27, 2023
In go Knack your sister wototo, then her body go calm down, in go still leave am, but that your friend nah fool, e no know the bro code or what, never date a niqqa sister
Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by Lovenorth: 2:40pm On Aug 27, 2023
Call your friend and warn him to steer clear of your sister, case closed
Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by 21NAUGHTYUTY(m): 2:40pm On Aug 27, 2023
Leave her to taste heartbreak , it must go around

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Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by Originalsly: 2:40pm On Aug 27, 2023
I'm almost sure your sister heard from you about your guy's under skirt adventures. Women are not wired like men ... she will want to know what is it that he has that alllll these women be falling for him ... and she can't rest until she finds out. Now how do you know if she went after him? ... thinking back ... can you recall any changes in her behavior or dress when he was around?... as in then she will choose to wear bum shorts or go bra less? ... or short dress? She probably seduced him... and him being weak it wouldn't take much ... just a flash of her undies may have been enough. It will be a waste of time talking to your sister.... you need to talk to your guy man to man and find out what's up. He is at the control... not her.

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Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by Georgejeez: 2:41pm On Aug 27, 2023
Yugoslavia247:


It is good.
Be like e dey spend on you too.
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 I don laugh faint for here o .

Money go make you defend your Enemy

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Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by deltateam: 2:41pm On Aug 27, 2023
dopedealer:
I have something to say
Bro it depends on a number of criterias!
First, is he still a womanizer ?
Secondly,is he ready to settle down now?
Thirdly is your sister ready for marriage now ?
Lastly , would you ever forgive your friend if at the end of the day he dates her and they don't end up in Marriage.
If you answer NO to 3 or more of this questions , pls discontinue the relationship as it is still in its early stage and make her see reasons why.

Also tell your friend you are not in support point blank. Let him choose either you or her ! Then you would know if he really values your friendship or not !

Your questions are funny. You're asking if a womanizer wants to get married.

What's different between op sister and others on his forgone list?

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Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by Switinthemiddle(m): 2:43pm On Aug 27, 2023
Stawner16:
Your friend certainly has no respect for the bro code.
so whats the bro code and is there a sis code

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Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by intruder15(m): 2:43pm On Aug 27, 2023
Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice

He went against the bro code by dating your sister. Confront him about it and tell him to back off. If he doesn't, I see no reason he should be called your friend. True friends don't run shits with family.

If he choose not to back off, confront your sister and let her know that you don't approve their relationship.

You are doing this to save your head. What if he impregnates her and denies the pregnancy? They will now say is he not your friend? Call it out now so it won't come back in future to haunt you.
Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by nnamdi640: 2:44pm On Aug 27, 2023
You said this your friend is womanizer and yet you are coming here to ask us whether to allow such dating, it simply mean you don't like your sister because if you do you would have rejected it immediately you had such knowledge about the date. You should know that a womanizer can't make a better home even if he ends up marrying your sister.
Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by okoroemeka(m): 2:44pm On Aug 27, 2023
Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice
ignore them there is nothing you can do,girls love such guys
Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by NoahHadNoArk: 2:52pm On Aug 27, 2023
Switinthemiddle:
lol, gee calm down he no reach this level. He is still my main padi. Its just his ways ion like

Your main padi has broken the brothers code.

Know this and know peace


Cut ties off with him now, then hold your sister by the ear and warn her desist and abstain from him forthwith.


My peace I leave you
Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by professore(m): 2:56pm On Aug 27, 2023
Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice
That is not a good friend. A good friend should not woo your sister codedly but should make it open to you and seek your own consent first, before going to your sister. Stop yourself and your sister from mingling with him if you can and be careful should in case he fights back.
Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by fineberry(m): 2:57pm On Aug 27, 2023
Op tell you sister who your friend is, make a see reasons. It's your sister we're talking about here.

You better act fast because your sister is your responsibility to protect.

Let me say this here...... there use to be this handsome guy in my area back then.... really fine guy, but can't see anything under skirt and remove eyes. He called me one day and said he want to talk to me.....I was like ok......he told me that he really like my sister (younger) that if I don't mind, can I talk to my sister on his behalf.....I just laugh.....so I now told him to go talk to her himself......I was very confident that my sister cannot date this kind person lai lai.

My sis later told me all what he said and we just laugh about it all.
Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by bukatyne(f): 2:59pm On Aug 27, 2023
Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice

Since you have been a 'non-judgemental' friend prior to now, why do you want to change? grin

Besides the fact you have been silent all this while tells your friend that you have no qualms with his lifestyle.

Werey dun wo, ko se bi lomo. cheesy

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Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by etrange: 3:00pm On Aug 27, 2023
Lol... the chicken has come home to roost.

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Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by immortalmortal: 3:00pm On Aug 27, 2023
Yes
Re: Should I Allow My Womanizing Friend Date My Sister by BelieveAfrica: 3:02pm On Aug 27, 2023
The guy is a bad influence and he is not your friend.
Insist he leaves your sister and break your friendship with him. He just broke guys code.

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