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Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by tfelicityk(m): 5:39pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Well, as you mentioned with the evidence you had in your possession. I will advise you to go for the STI test you wanted to go for. If the results is positive show it to your husband. However, make sure you begin treatment for it. 2. If the result is otherwise. Keep it to yourself first. 3. Thirdly, call your husband and ask him if you are no longer sexually attractive to him. Expect rhetoric answer from him. Don't fight him, just tell him to put an end to all the immorality he had been doing with your neighbour's daughter. Please, apply wisdom here so as it doesn't result to fight. I don't how temper your husband is. 4. If you still love him and you want to continue with your marriage. Resolved this matter amicably with him. 5. If he put on attitude of what will you do and never feel remorseful. Just invite your neighbour and her daughter to the house. Tell your husband to start having the sex with her in your presence and her mother. That you don't want them to go to the hotel often again. Matter will resolved itself... I have a question - hope such things had not happened between your husband and your female cousins too? |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by abbey621(m): 5:39pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: Where did I say men have automatic rights? I said vast majority of the cases favored men, this is the absolute truth let nobody deceive you! |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by iHateFraudsters: 5:40pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by UnfairLife7(m): 5:43pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
StrongAlphMale:she has every right to inform her family. She wasn't thrown to the world from the sky. She came through her parents who happened to be her first family. You don't need a telescope or seer to tell you her hubby is nothing but a cheat and promiscuous man. Those details she put up there are evidence. She can only go furtherby setting him up to nail him completely. I am a man so i understand the man is a cheat. Telling a lady not to tell her family when a man is going astray is completely wrong. She obviously wouldn't be in her right frame of mind having discovered it. She definitely needs someone to talk to and i see no crime informing her family. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by UnfairLife7(m): 5:45pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
abbey621:which vast majority favoured men? Everything still boils down on the nature of the case Mr man. No one has automatic right on the kids until the case is table before the court. Stop being biased. I'm a man like you too. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by yak(m): 5:47pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Exodus15v11: Divorce isn't a child's play oooo. It should be the last option |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by Newmans: 5:49pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Pls don't kill your self with hbp you are even at falt by checking his phone without his consent so long as you never catch them red handed pls give your self brain. |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by UnfairLife7(m): 5:49pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Fuckyoumod:another lowlife jonkie spotted ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by BabaIbo: 5:51pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: Can't you guys allow others air their opinions freely? You think your stewpid opinion about him matters? Even if his opinion doesn't augur well with you i.e even if you feel he is not making sense, correct him politely or ignore it totally, instead of calling him names. The guy may even be better than you in every sphere of life in reality. So, you guys should stop this rub bish name calling or should I call it as slicking. Na wa o... |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by UnfairLife7(m): 5:52pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Osobi32:Men are very much insecure than women. Men feel jealous far more than women. I am a man so i know all that 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by BabaIbo: 5:54pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: You are on nairaland attacking anybody that their opinion doesn't go well with you. Maybe you are still single, you better go find something do with your life. If you continue this way, you fit no escape make this kind scenario no happen to you. |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by StrongAlphMale: 5:55pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: And las las when her so called emotionally feelings discovered to be that the man was innocent? What would become of her family and the insult and attitude they given the man? A wise woman would think before acting. This one acted with speed without thinking. She must be on colos! A wise woman covers her husband's scars and protects her home intruders...not running mouth from East to West like tap! Did she comfort the man? Why didn't she tell us the man's part of the story? Abi the man no reply? Noticed everything she wrote was between her, her feelings and the said Vicky hookup? Bros don't allow any girl to manipulate with cock and bull emotional stories without hearing from the other party! Telling her sister was wrong, if she's tired of the marriage what stops her from divorcing him? After telling her sister and humiliating the man so she'll now still park her things and go back to the same husbands abi? Dey play! |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by 4ward4: 5:57pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: Don't act dumb in the very society we live,men Cheating is real and more real than all this online garnishing and trying to project your man a Saint. Sad Reality , but it is very true. I haven't seen a non Christain fanatic religious Man passed the cheating test so far. |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by StrongAlphMale: 5:57pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
BabaIbo: The guy is jobless. Only jobless people go around attacking everyone on nairaland. He probably needs a job. Kindly ignore him |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by israelmao(m): 5:59pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
One shallow doesn't make a summer,it will be good you check out for more facts in order to catch him by the wrist and confront him with the facts.Meanwhile go for HIV test as you've said. |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by UnfairLife7(m): 6:00pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
StrongAlphMale:I hope you would have the same strength and energy to say the same thing if the table turns around tomorrow? Osinachi was hiding everything away from her family and we all saw what happened. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by UnfairLife7(m): 6:02pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
4ward4:Speak for yourself biko. There are exception in everything. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by MrNipplesLover(m): 6:05pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Una dey inside marriage/relationship, una still no get peace of mind... ![]() ![]() ![]() Una go get sense las las... |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by StrongAlphMale: 6:08pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: Dude, you have no point at all. Osinachi's husband was beating her, did you expected her not to talk? Oga she was even supposed to call the police on him ASAP because that's domestic violence. However, in this story the OP never in any way said her husband beats or harm her. A situation where beating and domestic violence is involved it is expected to call both families and even call the police asap. But in this case there was nothing like violence and so calling everyone wasn't necessary at all. A wise woman covers her husband's scars and protects her home, not disgracing and embarrassing herself and her husband who will later both turn to laughing stock outside. |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by perryy(m): 6:09pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Divorce him and come and marry me. I won't cheat on you with Vicky -hookup but with Tosin Oloso. U never see anything. E be like say u want become side chick to a married man with 10 girlfriends |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by Switinthemiddle(m): 6:09pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Maam i would advice u the way i usually tell my partner if i ever find out she's cheating on me, thats the end of our relationship cuz if u can cheat on me then u can kill me. So why stay with a person who can kill u to elope or remarry a 23 year old 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by mrdino(m): 6:09pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Do not take any drastic action without confronting him, and let it be face-to-face. Also ensure it doesn't degenerate into a physical fight (no point doing that, the deed has been done). |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by VTJN(m): 6:10pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
BabaIbo:The guy deserve the name given to him. Check all his comments and see for yourself. He goes about attacking women even when they were the victims. He said he was doing better which i doubt because successful men (young or old) don't have time for all these tantrums against women and whataview I guess he's a bitter man,known as mysogynistic. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by Fortune118005(m): 6:12pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Versitee:Is she an Igbo? |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by UnfairLife7(m): 6:20pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
StrongAlphMale:You don't beat a child and tell such child not to cry or dictate to the child how to cry. You're not the victim here neither am i so let's not dictate to her how she ought to react. Let's wait for our wives to cheat on us first then we see how we all will react. I'm not in support of divorce though provided the man accepted and apologized never to try cheat on her again. Expecially their neighbours. That is if she further Investigate and found him guilty I believe her family was in support of their marriage. If not they probably wouldn't be married by now or perhaps she wouldn't have the courage to tell them due to shame. We all are entitled to our own opinion though. But i quite understand OP absolutely well. I understand how we can take things differ. To me, i see nothing bad informing her family. She was obviously not in the right frame of mind having discovered her hubby sleeping around with their neighbour. She obviously needs someone to talk to which her family comes first. Like i said earlier, let's wait until it happens to us and see our reaction. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by highchief1: 6:22pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:thanks high life camel |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by phemmyfour: 6:23pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Versitee:Go ahead and forward the telegram screenshot to him. You don't need to be verbal about it. That girl is a professional hook up, that's why true caller revealed her name as saved by her client. It's just so unfortunate, hopefully you will come out std free |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by Osobi32(m): 6:27pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:I bet you haven't had anything to do with an insecure woman...... You will regret every bit of it. |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by ObiaboAdoka(m): 6:40pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Jossyfine:If my wife can perform all those styles I mentioned, walai I won't cheat on her . |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by tyinfinity: 6:40pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Your husband catching fun you are disturbing him up and down.let him resign in his place of work and join seminary |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by Pikadili: 6:42pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Mjshexy: Calm down with your divorce advice |
Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by Kobojunkie: 6:43pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Pikadili:If you caught your wife cheating on you with your next door neighbor, will you equally be this forgiving? ![]() 1 Like |
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