dawnomike:
You need to let him know that you know the truth!
Disclose it to him in the midst polite way possible and say no more about it! Let his guilty concience judge him

yankison:
■ When u are done divorcing ur husband like ur mommy's have advised u here pls let us know so we can hail u for been strong ... I just pity u with stress u de give ursef .. Why not tell him u have seen everything he is hiding then from there problem go solve .. Country hard u go hear am hot if u divorce and u no get money

Foodqueen:


As someone has suggested go to their house and dial the girl's no, if she picks then confront her.

Do not fight, just confront her.

For you to go to their house for cooking matter means you are close to her family too.... That's betrayal.

Do not tell your husband anything.

Conscience go nearly make him run mad

sunsweet33:
■ Good and classy idea. I like this

Kobojunkie:
She may be close to that family but the one who in fact betrayed her isn't the family but her husband. Unless she and the Vicky in question are tied buddies, I don't see how Vicky's conduct may be considered betrayal particularly since Vicky is just a 23-year-old kid.

highchief1:
too much findings will kill u.ask urself why ur husband is cheating on u.maybe u r not doing well.it’s a mama world here Nthg when u go discover when go make the world attack your husband.If u do anyhow e go marry the girl join u.

sunsweet33:
■

Sister what on earth is a “23 year old kid?” 23 is old enough to mind her manners abeg.
■ Anyway the reason I say it’s a good idea is because it allows her to leverage her losing position by getting to the husband through “Vicky”.
■ And the further step would be to confront her parents without even saying anything to her, which would really teach both adulterers a good lesson (not because she’s a “kid” but because of the embarrassment it would cause).

Skyview01:
It is now her fault her husband is cheating ?
Were you dropped on your head at birth?
Asking for a friend

Kobojunkie:
No be your pastors and mogs dey commit adultery full everywhere? Abegi, make we hear word o'jare!

Skyview01:
■ I can't leave my child in the care of a pastor/GO or GS as I don't trust them.

mcprince32:
The first confrontation is take a 3 days fast and pray if you are born again child of God. Don't destroy your marriage.
Discuss with him about it.
Then do well give your husband good sex.

UnfairLife7:
Ned do not cheat with his wife with hook-up. He do marry them and he has made it known to them before marriage that he's polygamist by nature.

U Just dey cap nonsense

Yugoslavia247:


Your marriage is about to see shege.

Do you bother about your husband sexual feeling the same way you bother about him cheating on you.

Most times that's what you all do.

Like you don't know it is the sex he needs.

Focus on understand his sexual appetite.

If Vicky leaves the scene
Antonia
Anabel
Cinderella
Senorita

Are waiting in line.

Now he would become smarter or furious.

She must have worked so hard to satisfy your husband for her to ask such questions.

Who is sweeter between me and your wife?

Imagine the kind eyes she go dey use dey look you.

Anytime you are at peace with your husband she go dey vex.

Better up the game and claim your husband not just from Vicky but others.

Be insightful.
Observe him
Know why.
What if na the gal give am green light.

You don't need to rush.

If you rush you no go fit borrow oven.

Sit your husband down and discuss it.

It might be difficult but try. Don't try and fight the gal. You go embarrass yourself, your husband and the family.

Call his family instead.

If possible make una go out and settle the issue because you na go too shout.

You need to be smart.

Imagine that you know and act like you don't.

Even your husband go fear.

Leave the gal and face your husband.

Na im get problem.

E Kon be neighbors

Kaya mata self fit dey work.

Maybe the gal dey wear braless cloth and pantless.

The thing he want the gal understand

U want use Vicky hook up play.

She go Sabi suck dick

When last u suck him dick.

That alone go make am never leave Vicky hook up.

Mjshexy:
Are you certain she's the one? Yes you finally confirmed he's cheating on you and you need to confront him with the evidence and very importantly check your health status.
If i may help you out, just nicely visit your neighbors house again and quietly dial the Vicky's number gotten from your husband's phone while the suspect is home, at least that should help you in your investigation somehow

koolaid87:


Ori e bi ori tolontolo yen

Hope you get brothers wey go marry her once she divorced him.

Yugoslavia247:


Your marriage is about to see shege.

Do you bother about your husband sexual feeling the same way you bother about him cheating on you.

Most times that's what you all do.

Like you don't know it is the sex he needs.

Focus on understand his sexual appetite.

If Vicky leaves the scene
Antonia
Anabel
Cinderella
Senorita

Are waiting in line.

Now he would become smarter or furious.

She must have worked so hard to satisfy your husband for her to ask such questions.

Who is sweeter between me and your wife?

Imagine the kind eyes she go dey use dey look you.

Anytime you are at peace with your husband she go dey vex.

Better up the game and claim your husband not just from Vicky but others.

Be insightful.
Observe him
Know why.
What if na the gal give am green light.

You don't need to rush.

If you rush you no go fit borrow oven.

Sit your husband down and discuss it.

It might be difficult but try. Don't try and fight the gal. You go embarrass yourself, your husband and the family.

Call his family instead.

If possible make una go out and settle the issue because you na go too shout.

You need to be smart.

Imagine that you know and act like you don't.

Even your husband go fear.

Leave the gal and face your husband.

Na im get problem.

E Kon be neighbors

Kaya mata self fit dey work.

Maybe the gal dey wear braless cloth and pantless.

The thing he want the gal understand

U want use Vicky hook up play.

She go Sabi suck dick

When last u suck him dick.

That alone go make am never leave Vicky hook up.

labake1:



Shut up and listen to yourself.
Oh, maybe she has a contract or business deal for him abi. If he has any other business aside szx, he would have involved his wife.
I pity women that marry men like you tho

Rochasstatue:
Your husband is a danger to your and your family.
Even if you confront him, he will devise another method of concealing his cheating runs..
If you are financially stable, cheat on him.
If you are not yet financially independent,build yourself up and cheat on him.
Allow him find out and divorce the assholē

dkidd:

Why em dey pain u specially. So hookup girl no fit do another business again

labake1:



Pack one side
I dislike men that cheat or has the potential of cheating

jaeyking:
What you don't know doesn't kill you

But since you know, run your STI test and you could file for a divorce if you are not comfortable.

It's quite simple or more easier to say

Versitee:
I have been feeling like my husband has been cheating on me with our neighbors daughter. She is just about 23 years.

Yesterday which was Sunday, I went to our neighbors house around 6pm to ask if I could use their oven.

Their compound is not fenced so I just walked in straight to their backyard if I would see the man's wife.

I overheard this girl making a call. Apparently she was the only one at home and she wasn't expecting anyone.

She was asking the man over the fone who was sexualy better between his wife and her.

My attention was arrested immediately. I stopped to hear more of the conversation. When I had enough, I made my presence known. She quickly hung up and tried to put up an innocent face.

I also pretended like I heard nothing, I asked to use the oven and left .
Getting back home, I was worried if that was my husband that girl was talking to, so I decided to find out.


I got my husbands fone later that night and went through the call log. The time that girl was making that call was few minutes past 6. I checked my husbands fone and there was a number he called around that time.

The number was not saved on the fone so I decided to call that number on my own fone and my true caller identified the number as "Vicky hookup".

Guess what, the girls name is Victoria.

I was surprised because I have the girls number saved on my fone. But I guess the number I have is for her family and friends. The one my husband has is for clients.

I opened his WhatsApp and found no chat with the girl, so I decided to check his telegram. ( Normally I don't like telegram so I never open it on either my fone or husband's)

My husbands telegram was locked. I was surprised cos that is the only app locked on his fone.


To cut the long story short, I found a way to open the app, and I saw his chat with that girl.


It pains me to say that my husband has been having sex with that girl without protection.

I want to go for HIV test tomorrow. Please how do I confront my husband about this.

Also I am scared I might be infected with an sti.

extremelygolden:


Hey there! Not every woman is promiscuous, ok? For those of us one-man-woman, the hurt usually cuts soooo deep when the one we loved betrays us.

Why would you date a neighbour's daughter, for crying out loud? Just tell me why? So you'll reduce me to nothing in the neighborhood?

Common man, that's absolutely wrong, you know. Not right at all, I tell you!

countryman13:

U go get BP for nothing sake! Why don't you just hold your peace as long as d man is doing that which he's suppose to do as a father. Confronting him won't stop him coz no b today. U are just lucky to know ds singular one of Vicky

dkidd:

But u know I'm only doing what u ladies do on here when ever a guy complains like this op. And btw I don't cheat or support cheating I only want u people to know how it feels to be blamed all the time and u can't even take it a little