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Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Error401: 2:11pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
I wonder o garriAndsugar: |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Rubyjade: 2:12pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
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Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Jeezuzpick(m): 2:14pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
charles009: New phase of manhood initiating. You will now know how much you can really sacrifice for your family. I'm speaking from a lot of experience: Bro, e no easy! But then....... No one said it's easy being a man. All I will advise is, build good rapport with your coworkers and boss, be ready to cover for others so they can cover for you when you go home to see your lovelies. Plan to go either fortnightly or once every 3 weeks.....make it regular (equally spaced) so your workplace gets used to it. When you have the chance to move your family, then do so, but this should depend on how frequent transfers can happen. It's not too good to shift young kids about frequently. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by phenylalanine(m): 2:15pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
charles009:Pls make effort to settle quick so your family can join you in Lagos, it is easier to say you will visit once but once duty calls you might not even visit for months, your wife is comfortable with it for now but soon she will not and it might rub up on your great and wonderful family. All the best bro 1 Like |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by MySolace: 2:17pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
TimT:Dey followed each other. But if I may ask, between d two, who do u think was more reasonable? ![]() Be rational plz... |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Angrygoat: 2:17pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Your wife...wud soon get fuckd 1 Like |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by MySolace: 2:18pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
gassbee:Transport alone go gulp d so-called salary |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Agromuda(m): 2:19pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Don't start what you can't continue with the promise of once in a week visit to ENUGU. It's not feasible on the long run. You may start having issues with your lovely wife when you can no longer come once in a week. Also, the risk involved and the cost are not worth it. Once is a month with steady communication. Good luck!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by olamilarks(m): 2:20pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
OP is either worried his wife can't manage the home while he's away or worried they'll fok his wife! OP put your mind at rest, your wife is loyal but are you? Charles009 |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by TimT: 2:21pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
MySolace:None... But IconicR was actually self-biased because she felt the man didn't "List" his love for the whole family, only the kids, hence her accusations... So if the man had responded Nd said something about the wife, all would have been well... But u see dat other one, just carry the matter for head ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by advanceDNA: 2:24pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Angrygoat: U are wicked |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Ayoade19(m): 2:25pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
IconicR:Please have brain for once. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Omoapena(m): 2:32pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
garriAndsugar: That part sef off me o ![]() By the time he enters Lagos, to even visit them in 2 months will be impossible… 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Qatar2022: 2:38pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
michlins:This is a very bad advice |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Cutehector(m): 2:38pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
I hope the job in lagos is paying you well, if not pls stay back in that enugu |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Qatar2022: 2:39pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
advanceDNA:Even once a month is not possible, don't mind him |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Qatar2022: 2:41pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Memberclub:Bad advice, if you don't have any thing to say just shut up, if things don't work as planned in Lagos what will he do ? Bundle them back to Enugu again ani? |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by stormborn28(m): 2:42pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
garriAndsugar: ![]() ![]() |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Tzar(m): 2:43pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
A year is too long to be separated from your family o! I have seen families torn apart from this kind of separation. The temptation for adultery becomes more pronounced and the risk of traveling in Nigeria so often is very huge these days. I think 3months max is enough for her to join you with the kids. Unless she has a job that contributes heavily to the family upkeep in Enugu, why is she so reluctant to move with you?! Hopefully, she doesn’t have a boyfriend that is making it difficult to move with you asap. |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by MySolace: 2:43pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
TimT:Wait, u actually concur with her dat d man didn't mention his wife? Dats not true. The man said my relatively young family...(d wife and kid inclusive). D family is still young, barely 7years marriage. So, I think d gal(abi lady, abi woman, abi na grandma sef ![]() ![]() ...she honestly went off d line, making d AdvancedDNA guy to attack her straightaway. Misconception is all I've seen. |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by kiddkash(m): 2:46pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
IconicR:Maybe he is not a fast typist. Hence omitting the word. Don't be too quick to judge |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Tenny05(m): 2:49pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Dear all, Please can I gey any lawyer here that can do a probono case for me? Kindly indicate interest here 🙏 charles009: |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by TimT: 2:56pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
MySolace:When u love someone unconditionally, you won't generalize their name. Infact, their name will always be on the tip of your tongue.. What stops the man from saying "My wife and my kids"? Besides his wife came first before the kids abi love of the wife don tire the man? That's not misconception. Make we rest abeg .... We don too carry person matter for head 🤣🤣 |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Menclothing: 2:59pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
This is funny |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Berankis: 3:01pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
charles009:Oga move them to save your self all the stress. Move them to preserve your life too. Dont be travelling up and down. |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Dprinceoj1: 3:11pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Better follow your wife advise .because traveling from lagos to Enugu weekly is a suicide mission. |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Dprinceoj1: 3:13pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Better to follow your wife advise .because traveling from lagos to Enugu weekly is a suicide mission. |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Levels1(m): 3:13pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Something is really not clear to me. Why is almost everyone from the East rushing to Lagos State. Just an harmless question as is getting too frequent 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by dododawa1: 3:23pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
FREEDOM for both PARTY |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by MySolace: 3:28pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
TimT:D man loves his family unconditionally, don't come and start dividing it for him. Young family means young marriage. D wife is even d epicenter. Like u said, make we rest, no b our personal matter ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by jpdoncumagain: 3:31pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
How do u intend to visit once a week?.. baba be calming down oh. |
Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by callmevirus(m): 3:36pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
[quote author=IconicR post=125739089]He didn't even mention missing his wife because he already has a Lagos girlfriend waiting for him It's all about his kids because someone is already on ground in Lagos to do wifely duties Hian [/quote Get a job. Nl won't help you |
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