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Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by kkins25(m): 10:34am On Sep 15, 2023 |
tosinhtml: Nobody is saying staying with kids isn't a hard job. Nonetheless, its not as difficult as going out there to earn money. No-where close. I practically raised my siblings. I will keep baby at one side while playing my video game, cooking with firewood while chatting on 2go.. My mom was employed, so was dad..Was it preparing baby food or feeding baby? Was it washing baby cloths? When baby turned two, during holidays, i bathed them. fed them, clothes them, in many occasions still cook. My mum was living her best life then. lol.. π π π will the babies remain babies for ever? Abegiiiii..... By 5 years old, children are already doing house chores? by 15 they have completely taken over from mum except maybe cooking... So, tell me, what is mom doing Even now, I handle domestic chores and provide for the family. Between domestic work and job, nothing makes me go crazy like job. Nothing!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by JayCynic(m): 12:39pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/21568235.2021.1895858 |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Gohs: 2:03pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I think you are intentionally twisting the Bible to suit yourself. . . Your errors are too obvious to be a mistake. I have no intention of arguing aimlessly. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 2:06pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Gohs:Which particular passage listed was twisted. Point it out! Otherwise, stop using God's mention to forward the agenda of your pastors and mogs who use marriage to ensure their churches are filled and business continuing to bring money into them. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by tosinhtml: 2:24pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
kkins25: I understand you, I have the same sentiments but very few men have stayed with kids, so they don't even know how. For you it's different, i get it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by yewit37486: 3:22pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
kkins25: Hahahaha Jokes aside, it's amazing you took so much responsibility for your younger ones and I can bet you all must be quite close as adults. Reading your comment just made me laugh as I could picture it. Nice one. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by kkins25(m): 4:26pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
yewit37486: π€£ π€£.. Fun times men.. Atleast, I have enough stories to use against them now.. π€£π€£π€£ |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by yewit37486: 4:46pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
kkins25: hahaha, I can imagine π. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Babinski: 6:43am On Sep 16, 2023 |
ADURA123: If you dad's advice to you is not to cheat on your wife, then that advice is either rooted on moral or religious ground. Now to say you want to divorce because your wife is not giving you sex and seeing that as being compliant with your father's advice is a selfish misinterpretation. It is even worse when you want to become a bachelor and be sleeping around with women without any commitments. Such clearly negate any moral, religious or even spiritual basis of your father's advice! You need to realize that cheating on your wife can take many forms and is not limited sex. If you built your success together while she made sacrifices and then divorce her when the fruits of those sacrifices are about to mature, you are cheating her. When you bring children into the world and abandon the home that should nuture then right for selfish reasons, then you are cheating those children. Have you sat down to think of the effects on your children of denying them proper fathering so you can live an hedonistic bachelor life? Your planned action is rooted in selfishness and lack of responsibility and you need to abort it if you are indeed seeking for advice rather than validation here. I see no reasonable moral, religious or spiritual basis for you Acton except your village people are after you and you do not know. The father that gave you the advice in the first place, have you gone to him to tell him you planned course of action and see his reaction? I guess you're u know he wouldn't support you. So you taking his advice as you said is not out of respect but for your own selfish reason. Because if you respect him enough to value his advice in the first instance, it is not here than you would be seeking for advice on your planned action. Once more I will tell you. Abort your planned selfish mission and be reasonable |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by gremp(m): 12:22pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
kkins25: This is my reply to your statement and not OP's, as I want to answer some of your wondering. Timing matters a lot, imagine being at work doing nothing for most of the day then a few hours before the close of work, your boss gives you a days worth of work that's needed to be done immediately. She might be doing nothing for most of the day but as soon as the children come back work begins, taking care of the children, washing, cooking, homework and other things begins and those work doesn't stop until she sleeps because she also has to cook and take care of her husband when he gets back home. That's a lot of mental and physical juggling compressed into a few hours. So saying that domestic chores draining energy isn't surprising because of the amount of being taken care of. Then she's expected to engage in another physical exercise that is sex. Saying that sex isn't physically tasking for women if they're not an active participant is strange to me. If that's the case then stories of women who faint during sex and those that have to use hot towel after sex to ease soreness and those that were r*ped to death are most likely false then. I wonder if sex is enjoyable for OPs wife, since there's a possibility that he only focuses on getting his release. What would be the point of doing chores for hours then having to endure another internal physical chore instead of a physical release. Let's be honest most guys would be less interested in sex if the possibility of getting that release is little to none due to insensitivity or the only position they're allowed is cowgirl where she grinds on him to get her release and he's never allowed to thrust to get his. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by eternalb(f): 3:07pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
don't do it |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by eternalb(f): 3:07pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
Tzar: I have tried and love Wildfire Fire IT Up, it's an all-natural arousal oil for her. It creates a warm buzzing sensation that definitely turns me on! 1 Like |
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