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Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by hardon1(m): 12:10am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Imredeemed: What is wrong if a woman assist her hubby to clear rent. Are they not together in the union. People have issues with their partners and believe everything other person is like that. My elder bro moved to his own apartment three months ago. He confessed to me that the roofing of the house which took over 2.5M came from his wife. He didn't ask her to help, she did because she want the project to be completed in time No be every woman dey give wahala over assistance 1 Like |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Kobojunkie: 12:11am On Sep 17, 2023 |
CooldipoMPS:How many men do that? Marriage has typically been an institution that strips the woman of her value and destiny in support of the man. Why do you think our ancestors resorted to feeding their daughters stories of how childbearing is their destiny and glory? 1 Like |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by stagger: 12:12am On Sep 17, 2023 |
I run all the expenses in my house. 100%. I have my respect that way. If any kind of nonsense comes up, I will simply move out and all the money flow from my end will dry up...fast. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Chummynoni(m): 12:34am On Sep 17, 2023 |
KingAzubuike:you are right kindof. It all boils down to the kind of woman the wife is. There are some blessed wife that no matter what happen, no third ear would hear about what she does in the family . Living in a house built by a wife tho is a NO-NO 1 Like |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by foolbuster: 12:50am On Sep 17, 2023 |
TimT: Oga your woman should not pay your rent. You can continue deceiving yourself all you want |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Kobojunkie: 12:55am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Chummynoni:Wrong! It boils down to the agreement from the start between the husband and the wife. If they had been sharing the bill from the beginning, chances are the woman wouldn't think much of paying the bill when he is down — assuming they also share homemaking responsibilities as well. The problem is when a man enters into marriage as "head of household" he is required by agreement to foot all the bills all of the time. When he becomes unable to do so, it means he is unworthy to continue carrying that head or household title on his head. However, most men do not realize this but continue to demand respect and submission from the woman even then. What do you expect from a woman who has finally seen that her husband isn't the invisible master he pretended he could be? 2. Those are simply SIMPs amongst wives whose self-esteem as humans has been greatly reduced in the process of life or marriage. No mentally healthy human being would give over her right to stand on the same pedestal as another so easily. |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by abbey621(m): 1:12am On Sep 17, 2023 |
foolbuster: Oga pray you never live abroad....All your macho nonsense go fall off once bills choke you. That woman wey you dey form for, all it takes is one divorce after years of simpology for you to notice your assets are split into half, you would still pay her alimony and her bank account is way fatter than yours.....E go do you like juju 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Kobojunkie: 1:32am On Sep 17, 2023 |
abbey621:Very silly macho nonsense! 1 Like
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Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by EmekaA125(m): 1:53am On Sep 17, 2023 |
A man should shoulder the basic responsibility of his family viz shelter, food and clothing alone. My sincerest opinion!!! |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Ifakiland(m): 1:55am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Imredeemed:When you enter abroad with your husband, no join am pay rent oh, infact turn housewife....na your body go tell u. |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by chijokz(m): 2:51am On Sep 17, 2023 |
TimT:Well said. I applaud your logical reasoning. 1 Like |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by FireUpNow(m): 3:22am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Even some women ridicle themselves for misbehaving and acting strangely Farida of house of Faridah comes to mind. She felt she was too rich for her husband that she had 3 kids for and wanted a brand new husband and father for her kids ending up contemplating suicide. Some of her other dirty secrets were made known. Now who is facing the shame. My prayer is that God should not make my wife to pay for the house we live in or build the house I live in. 1 Like |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by oneman2k7: 3:58am On Sep 17, 2023 |
This is absolute true. You loose your relevance immediately your wife pays for your rent. |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by udemzyudex(m): 4:00am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Tallesty1: Lol.. Dey play. |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by udemzyudex(m): 4:01am On Sep 17, 2023 |
A lot of people understand what the OP is trying to say but they just want to form woke online |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Ovasize(m): 4:06am On Sep 17, 2023 |
OP you have made a valuable point.... Very few will understand why |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Kobojunkie: 4:08am On Sep 17, 2023 |
udemzyudex:Na economy go open una eye soon. |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Yankee101: 4:11am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Stop giving misguided information Help your husband out when you can |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Kobojunkie: 4:15am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Yankee101:The husband should equally help himself out by not biting off more than he can chew in marriage. Anyway seeking to enter a union with a submissive women in this economy should know he is not only being foolish but setting himself up for failure. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by dkidd: 4:17am On Sep 17, 2023 |
zoghys:I know where u and op are coming from but a lot of ignorant boys will learn the hard way much later. This applies to 90% of women. If u want to die happy never allow ur wife take charge of the home affairs else u die miserably daily even while ur alive and breathing. She will kill u mentally, emotionally and psychologically until u have no self esteem left then u die off naturally a shadow of urself. Women are not meant to shoulder these responsibilities but the understanding ones can support. It's the reason u see most of those who can afford to do it for themselves act like it's a great deal and start claiming boss ladies for being able to pay their own bills 😁 2 Likes |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Yankee101: 4:18am On Sep 17, 2023 |
The Nigerian situation is not the only perspective on earth It’s well known other African women help out in their homes In the west there’s what we call double income homes. She has to contribute, not maybe. It can be lower than the man but she has to Naija prism isn’t the only looking glass Kobojunkie: 1 Like |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Elsueno: 4:19am On Sep 17, 2023 |
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Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by livebullet(m): 4:21am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Tallesty1:💯 correct ...no errors. |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Kobojunkie: 4:22am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Yankee101:What you just posted makes no sense ! Many families in Nigeria today are struggling as it is and double income will soon have to become the norm since there is no going back as far as the changes that the government continues to roll in. Anyone who has yet to see that happening in Nigeria is still deceiving self. Many women are already serving as breadwinners in Nigerian homes so any man looking to holding on to the old ways better make certain he is set for life or will likely have to face the same or similar issue. |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Cutehector(m): 4:37am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Sips wine and eats popcorn while enjoying the useless fights from simps and witches on this thread. |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by buzorcharles(m): 4:46am On Sep 17, 2023 |
TimT: U will understand when u are married |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by ceeceeuwa: 4:48am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Everyone will wake up with different nonsense post in the name of Redpills just to despise women. There is no blueprint for marriage. Do whatever can sustain your marriage! |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by TrainPark: 4:50am On Sep 17, 2023 |
HopeSpencer: Your nyansh hole go tell you 1 Like |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by TrainPark: 4:52am On Sep 17, 2023 |
vikstandon: Who no know go know... you go learn sense |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by jaxxy(m): 4:52am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Vinnie2000: So if a man doesn't pay the house rent what will happen? |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Boyooosa(m): 4:58am On Sep 17, 2023 |
TimT: No mind am, him too just dey play U see anywhere he write him reason He go prefer make he go sleep under bridge with his family if he's broke instead of receiving support from his wife na 1 Like |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by TrainPark: 4:59am On Sep 17, 2023 |
TimT: Don't worry . E go clear well well |
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