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Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by BigMamaNaija: 5:12pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
olril17: I really pity you little child. Common English you cannot understand. Respect kuma, you no get. Only insult full your mouth. Oya, go and collect the inheritance of a first son and give OP na. ![]() Maybe you're holding on to a first son's inheritance in your own family and you're seeking validation. Sorry, nothing for you. Allow the elders in your family decide who takes what. Don't go and fight to the last drop of your whatever oh. I don't usually answer ill-mannered children like you but I'm in a good mood today. Run along now and go play in the sand my dear. 1 Like |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by olril17(m): 5:18pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
BigMamaNaija:Madness dey chop you. |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by Klass99(f): 5:19pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
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Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by marcelbli: 5:19pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Peter532: Honestly, your father has no right to deny your uncle who is his elder access and right to their father's property. FULLSTOP. If you are from the East, the first son owns the residential property of the dad by right. The other properties are then shared amongst the kids. Even if that your uncle die, that property goes to his son and never to your dad. There is a proverb in igbo that is loosely translated to mean 'you do not plant flowers in a house that is not yours'. The uncle do not owe your dad for the renovations on the properties that would eventually be shared and allocated to him. He can choose to be good and reimburse your dad though. I am also sure that your dad might have been collecting rent from these properties and eating it alone. Has he ever even made an attempt to put some money away knowing that someone else is a joint beneficiary to those properties? Your uncle can in thesame vein he is claiming for the renovation costs also asked for an account for the rents collected on the properties. Life should be much more easier than this. Your family should be happy that your long lost uncle is returned and not this fight you are doing. It is never worth it to drag landed property with family members. It is too short sighted. Let them share the properties amongst them and every man can face his lane. Good thing you said your dad has his own properties. No need for any party to get greedy. |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by Levels1(m): 5:19pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
olril17: Oni se orire laiye. Baba ati iya re a fi oju sukun re ni. Wo, oni je eyan laye Iwo omo adanu yi 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by sinola(m): 5:21pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Bros, you guys should tread with caution with that guy, he just came back from SA and could be deadly. That kind of person can be evil. What about his family, I mean wife and children ![]() |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by olril17(m): 5:21pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Levels1:Go and sleep 😴 Maybe when you wake up your body go calm down🤣 |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by Femmyfamous4u(m): 5:22pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Peter532: Whatever the case. He is still entitled to the land. |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by thinkmoney(m): 5:23pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Peter532:No let your Dad fight anything with his last strength. Law is law. A compromise can be reached, still, he has the right to most of those things. Abi is it your Dad that did juju to him so he won’t come back all this time? |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by Majesty7: 5:23pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Peter532: Your father supposed to know he has an elder. Was he thinking his brother won't returned? Even if his brother died, his brother's children needs to know about the property. Your granddad gave birth to both of them. This is not even what your father should contest in the first place. |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by Majesty7: 5:24pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
thinkmoney: Why is his father even angry? Is he the only child? So if the brother didn't come, he is planning to take over everything? 1 Like |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by BigMamaNaija: 5:24pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
olril17: Grow up boy. They have been living in the said house all the while rent free or probably rented it out! Either way, they must have gotten value for whatever they spent on renovating the house. Besides, their efforts are simply honorarium to their parents. Or, are you saying capable children should only support their parents in exchange for property ![]() Better take your eyes off any first son's right in your family. And... go get some home training on public communication. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by Levels1(m): 5:26pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
olril17: You don't have sense. Even if he's not around for 100 yesrs foesdoe take away what rightfully belong to both of them to be his, just because hesh out of country forever. What happens to look away or better call the elders of the fsfami to share it in absentia for the both parties. But he felt he's never going to return hence trying to con it to his and wull affte to his children. Wickedness everywhere. But on a lighter note, God will punish you 1 Like |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by Levels1(m): 5:27pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
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Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by ForChrist1: 5:28pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Klass99: Hmmm, but would you not be putting yourself in the bad books of the law by doing such? If you build a house on another man's land, by virtue of the law, the house becomes the other man's property I believe. And if you demolish that house, you would be liable to prison sentence for damages to someone else's property. OP's father by law would have to forfiet the house to the man along with the land except the family can reach some sort of resolution or except the man himself consents to remove the structure from his land. Hmmm, Klass captain, Abeg try dey take am easy with your conclusions and decision making o. Don't always make hasty conclusions on critical issues out of anger but rather, seek advice, think deeply and pray over it. Cheers. |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by estherozioma: 5:29pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
It is very clear that your father and family are not even happy that he is back. By your little display you would have written him off dead. Thin line between love and greed 1 Like |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by Bniteodds: 5:30pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
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Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by LordOfTheGame: 5:30pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
The person who wrote this post is either one of these Lagos and Ibadan born and bred Igbo boys who don't know and have regards for customs and traditions. Oboy, your uncle is the rightful head of that family as far as he's the first son and his parents are late. It doesn't matter whether he looked after them or not, maybe as a result of his financial conditions, he remains the head and should decide what happens in the family in respect to his late parents properties. Tell your father to calm down and allow his elder brother to show him where to build his own house and any other thing. |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by Majesty7: 5:31pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
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Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by fx45(m): 5:33pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
olril17:His younger brother probably took over the said properties on the assumption that the man was long dead in South Africa since he had been incommunicado for 37 years |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by integrity16(m): 5:36pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Tell your father to thread carefully, you said it yourself that he came back with nothing so he could hypnotizing your father to his early grave. Let the elders come together to share the properties but if they fail to do so, your dad should let go. |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by Dancebreaker: 5:39pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Klass99:Well, the grandparents had the option to write their will if they didn't want tradition to prevail. But they didn't. The first son may have suffered a lot of setback in SA but could not come back then. Hoping to make it one day. Like many in Lagos for years but still squatting or details. |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by olril17(m): 5:40pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
fx45:Exactly. I will not blame the younger brother cos I consider what he felt normal. But when tempers calm it can be settled peacefully and amicably. |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by alibiz: 5:40pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Peter532:Keep off this war and advice your father to let go or else the elder will mess your family up and stay afar to laugh at your family. He is still the first son your father should respect that. |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by olril17(m): 5:42pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Levels1:Tell me wetin dey vex you on top wetin wen no concern you 🤣 Omo take am easy oo🤣🤣 Take a pill and sleep you go calm down when you wake up😂 |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by Omoapena(m): 5:42pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
olril17: You’re a fool, was the property left alone or he’s an occupant, if he was to be staying in a rented apartment, won’t he be paying money or if he rented the same property out, won’t he be collecting money so money spent on the property is as a result of the property being useful to him or he making money from it so he has to maintain it so far he’s benefiting from it…. You’re so dumb man 1 Like |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by Satanistx: 5:42pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Peter532:what is wrong with that? Na your papa senf am abroad? 1 Like |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by Adekot: 5:43pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Peter532: You and your dad are such a beautiful wicked soul, give what belong to that young man to him, with or without a will , he needs to have a share of his parents properties. 1 Like |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by cybernaut(m): 5:43pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Your dad make a big mistakes with reasons. A. When their father is alive ,your dad should ask their father his own share of inheritance Incase his elder brother returned B. Your dad should know that he is not the first son and he should work on his own property not family property C. Finally, your dad want to take it all maybe wishes his elder brother may never returned back again. Tell your father to stop deceiving you his children because he knows Igbo tradition and norms. Immediately, I grown up as a man the first thing I ask my elder brother the first son in a quit environment in a delightful manner. I said to him senior I want a share of my own land now our dad is late, so I can start planning to have my own house because you the first son I can't live with you here forever and my unborn children too. He wake up and go straight to his room without a word to me. The next day early in the morning he wake me up took me to the remaining land and told me here is your own passion kindly develop it but don't sell it Any day you sell it I will send your packing from our general house then he leave me and work away from me. |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by olril17(m): 5:44pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
BigMamaNaija:You should have read where the guy said his father has his own property. They don’t live in the house. |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by kenn2201: 5:45pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Bro, that man is the first son and elder brother to your father , if that man was dead in South Africa won’t your dad and your siblings contribute money to bury him ? He is entitled to everything his parents owned , what should be done is to remove the money for the burial of your grandfather and grandmother then share every other thing . And he has upper hand in the share and properties , that’s his right , as he decided to live in South Africa without nothing is not a reason to take away his rights. |
Re: After 37yrs In South Africa He Came Back To Drag Properties With My Father. by Omoapena(m): 5:49pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
estherozioma: Gbam OP dad is sad coz he’s elder brother is back when he’s supposed to be happy for his return… Believe me, they wished that elder brother was dead without caring for his welfare, did they even try to find out what has happened to him all the years he was incommunicado…. They just assumed he’s dead and they took over the property, if OP dad was a nice man, he’s supposed to be leaving something behind for his elder brother from whatever he’s getting from the property but since he didn’t pray for his return, he took everything for himself…. |
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