olril17:

Tell me wetin dey vex you on top wetin wen no concern you 🤣
Omo take am easy oo🤣🤣
Take a pill and sleep you go calm down when you wake up😂

Omoapena:


You’re a fool, was the property left alone or he’s an occupant, if he was to be staying in a rented apartment, won’t he be paying money or if he rented the same property out, won’t he be collecting money so money spent on the property is as a result of the property being useful to him or he making money from it so he has to maintain it so far he’s benefiting from it….


You’re so dumb man

Peter532:
Hello all,
My dad immediate elder brother who went to south africa in the 90s is back to drag their parents property claiming to be the first son.

This is someone who after he travelled only came back once and never bothered about the affair's of the family.

Their father my grandfather died 2005 he was no where to be found. my grand mother died 2018 still nothing from him.

No contributions whatever even while their parents was still alive.

He cut all sort of communications with them and now he's back to lay claim on the properties.

The family is angry but some of the elders in the extended family are getting on is side claiming he's still the senior he was never disowned but they can't say it out though.

It's obvious he came back with almost nothing and felt laying claims on their parent property is the back up plan

No will was written and some of the old buildings has been reconstructed from the scratch by my father and yet someone is laying claim on it.

I will like to know how this will go because my father is ready to fight this with his last strength and we the children are firmly behind him

Klass99:


A very useless first son who provided no value whatsoever. Why should such a person inherit or lay claim to any properties, solely on the basis of being a first son?

We have some very messed up traditions that cause more harm than good, which need to be thrown away. Is it not men who created these traditions? Can the same men not undo them, if they really wish to?

Unlike you I mean every offence when I say (not to you specifically) that the useless first son should have stayed gone and never returned or reappeared to claim property.

What is wrong with some children sef? Are your hands broken or is your brain malfunctioning to a point where you cannot build or acquire properties of your own, without looking to grab what your parents had?

Samantha124:
What was he doing in SA all these years?

deji17:
This is why people don't want to repair or reconstruct family house. And it explains why you see many brown roofs and dilapidated buildings in many places.

Levels1:



Bro you don't have sense.


See the way the guy wrote that nonsense now.

I can relate with the situation as have been a victim of such.

The opps doesn't know that his father is the wicked one here.

olril17:

Another mumu person. Na so im easy.
Like if you will do the same. Be like say nairaland na HQ of mumu people.

Peter532:
Hello all,
My dad immediate elder brother who went to south africa in the 90s is back to drag their parents property claiming to be the first son.

This is someone who after he travelled only came back once and never bothered about the affair's of the family.

Their father my grandfather died 2005 he was no where to be found. my grand mother died 2018 still nothing from him.

No contributions whatever even while their parents was still alive.

He cut all sort of communications with them and now he's back to lay claim on the properties.

The family is angry but some of the elders in the extended family are getting on is side claiming he's still the senior he was never disowned but they can't say it out though.

It's obvious he came back with almost nothing and felt laying claims on their parent property is the back up plan

No will was written and some of the old buildings has been reconstructed from the scratch by my father and yet someone is laying claim on it.

I will like to know how this will go because my father is ready to fight this with his last strength and we the children are firmly behind him

Peter532:
Hello all,
My dad immediate elder brother who went to south africa in the 90s is back to drag their parents property claiming to be the first son.

This is someone who after he travelled only came back once and never bothered about the affair's of the family.

Their father my grandfather died 2005 he was no where to be found. my grand mother died 2018 still nothing from him.

No contributions whatever even while their parents was still alive.

He cut all sort of communications with them and now he's back to lay claim on the properties.

The family is angry but some of the elders in the extended family are getting on is side claiming he's still the senior he was never disowned but they can't say it out though.

It's obvious he came back with almost nothing and felt laying claims on their parent property is the back up plan

No will was written and some of the old buildings has been reconstructed from the scratch by my father and yet someone is laying claim on it.

I will like to know how this will go because my father is ready to fight this with his last strength and we the children are firmly behind him

fx45:
Especially in Ibadan... The world headquarters of brown roofs

Abbeytoy:


Ask your mumu father how it's done.

Olajide200:
Let me frank with you. Its going to be a hard battle except your dad has a lot of money. Its going to be about the highest bidder as far as the elders are involved. No other factor will be considered except who can bribe more. Trust me.

olril17:

You should have read where the guy said his father has his own property. They don’t live in the house.

olril17:

His father is not. Let’s calm down and be reasonable and put our selves in people shoe before giving advice.
If you have spent a lot of money fixing something and someone you haven’t seen or communicated to in an unreasonable long time as much as 37 years suddenly show up to drag that thing with you don’t you think you will also feel bad and not want to let go easily?
It’s just basic human nature to feel angry ?
See 37 years is a long time,and it’s only reasonable that guys father will have to be the one taking care of the property including Renovating while necessary. The financial cost and implications on the younger brother all those years must also be acknowledged.
So it’s not good you are calling the man all sorts of name.
The said elder brother shouldn’t have been dragging the properties, when he has been away for so long rather he should approach the issue calmly and sensibly so there can be an amicable solution.

Klass99:


If I were your father I will simply undo every renovation work done on properties he is laying claim to and let him have them, after I have returned said properties to their former state and status. I hate nonsense and stupidity sha.

fyzaila:
Go to court, let the court share all the properties and everyone can have theirs.

olril17:

He is not though.

Peter532:
Hello all,
My dad immediate elder brother who went to south africa in the 90s is back to drag their parents property claiming to be the first son.

This is someone who after he travelled only came back once and never bothered about the affair's of the family.

Their father my grandfather died 2005 he was no where to be found. my grand mother died 2018 still nothing from him.

No contributions whatever even while their parents was still alive.

He cut all sort of communications with them and now he's back to lay claim on the properties.

The family is angry but some of the elders in the extended family are getting on is side claiming he's still the senior he was never disowned but they can't say it out though.

It's obvious he came back with almost nothing and felt laying claims on their parent property is the back up plan

No will was written and some of the old buildings has been reconstructed from the scratch by my father and yet someone is laying claim on it.

I will like to know how this will go because my father is ready to fight this with his last strength and we the children are firmly behind him

Nbote:
The sad truth is whether he disappeared or not, he's still entitled to a share of his Father's properties. Infact in Igbo culture as the first son he's the rightful owner of his Father's house

cococandy:
Una love traditions sha even unfair ones

For peace to reign, involve a lawyer, get into agreement to let him refund your dad the money that went into the renovations and then they can share the property amicably.

sleek214:
Your dad wants to died on top properties that belonged to his elder brother. According to tradition, your uncle owns the properties since your grandfather didn't leave any will.

Luther0luther:
Clearly,he didn't make it in S.A...his long disappearance apparently explains that. His hope now is on those properties.Igbo land is a very patriarchal society,so he may within norms to lay claim to his late father's properties

Figger:
People at home obviously don't seem to understand that it's not that Rossy abroad, too many things may have taken place, reason for him been incommunicado all this while. Probably he was serving a long prison sentence who knows. Point is, he's still the first son, and according to Igbo tradition, he's entitled to a greater share of the father's properties. U can't deny him his birth right. Pls settle it amicably.