franxiz:
It hurts but I will overcome this depression with time... thank you all and good night.

before I could say anything, she was already crying and begging me for forgiveness on the phone etc, I tried acting like commando, but the love and fellings we shared took the better of me. I let the past and we started all over again.

Mhizzard:
A woman you love wholeheartedly,initially left you for another man just because she foolishly thought ahead about how your striving for success after your service would be.meanwhile she later asked for reconcilation of which you accepted her cus of the love you have for her;you are not to be blame for that though,from the on set you should have know that she is a Gold digger.

Aaaaarghmed:
OP you are a fool for taking back someone who dumped you and came back 2 years later,you are master simp.i have Always said it,if a woman comes back to you,she is a ticking time bomb and her next suprise will be a fatal explosion to you.you fit no survive am.some guys need to learn alot from me I swear

Kobojunkie:
Franxiz, no mind these small boys whose worlds are still defined by their many losses in. Relationships. You did nothing wrong. You can only try your best to make a relationship work. In the end, you cannot force anyone to remain in a relationship longer than they choose to or want to be in it for. This happens to everyone, male or female.

Aaaaarghmed:
hope you are not currently simping.you talk like one

AsomArchitectNG:
You missed the golden rule..

Never take back a woman that left you for another man

franxiz:
Good evening wonderful people on the forum.

I just want to share my depression, regrets and failed marriage experience just to let out this load in my heart and move on with life. I will be brief and straight to the point

I met this lady back in our university days, we shared a lot in common and interest. The relationship was good till graduation when we both served in different states, some months into NYSC, she messaged me to forgive her actions and try to move on with life as she had found someone who is ready to settle down and since am still serving I need time to establish myself, that message broke my heart, I tried calling her but she block me on all platforms...

Fast-forward 2years later after NYSC, I got a call from a familiar number but was not sure who the caller might be.. wow it's her! After hearing her voice... before I could say anything, she was already crying and begging me for forgiveness on the phone etc, I tried acting like commando, but the love and fellings we shared took the better of me. I let the past and we started all over again.

Few years later, we are married no kids yet and no peace in the house, we can't spend one full week in a month happy as husband and wife without quarry and not speaking to each other, I have tried to find solution to this issues, but nothing, sometimes it's goes on for months... I have tried talking the her family about it our issues but they feel less concerned as if it's my cross, I have to bear it alone.

My problem began few months after our marriage, wifey complain of being lonely at home each time I go out for work and wanted a small business to run so as to support the family, good idea I though but am regretting it today. As wifey is so engrossed in this business and forgetting she has a husband to attend to, Monday to Sunday, even Christmas, easter, salla holidays, she goes to shop from 7am and comes back at night by 9 or 9:30pm with the excuse of traffic on the way or my supplies where bringing me goods so I have to wait for them to come...

Mine most worried issue is that she is not concerned in starting a family, each time I want her attention, all I get is am tired, body dey pain me, tomorrow we do it... but she can't fail to attend to her business matters even as late as 10:30pm she is ordering goods or calling her customs of the goods she has in store from her phone....

I finally man up and told her to choose between her marriage or Business, my people this lady shock me, she walked out of the marriage to focus on her business after wasting my time and resources...

It hurts but I will overcome this depression with time... thank you all and good night.

franxiz