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Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Reallv: 6:03pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Lost my wife 2019.....till date am still pain,Ayokite love |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Raymeg7(m): 6:07pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Samantha124: Wow ooh 😮 see tear dropping from my eye, ur story touch me die, I lost my dad, I lost my senior sister and my mum is gone 3 years ago, I'm alone in the world, with just my kids no job, God will see us through 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Freelancerr(m): 6:20pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Lost my sis 10 years ago. I still think about her most time. Omo! Losing your loved one to death is the most painful thing on earth, memories alone can make you go mad if you are not strong enough. ☹️ |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by NaijaGoBetter2: 6:51pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
The English vocabulary appears challenging for many due to its extensive size. 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Lamanii22(f): 7:04pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Omoor I have never lost anyone close to me until last year October when I lost my aunt and this year I lost my father-in-law, he died two days after I gave birth to my second baby… that shii hit so deep, but time truly heals… I have been eating and partying after those times… for me, it’s time, the longer the time, the lesser the grief…. But I told God that I don’t want death anymore… the least death in my family should be 85yrs… 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by themanderon: 7:23pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Infolenka: Lost my beautiful mum earlier this year. It still hurts like hell. Still thinking how this coming Christmas would be cos it will be the first without her. Devastating is an understatement to how I feel but I hope with time I will get over the pain of the loss. It will eventually happen to everyone. It's only a question of time. Death is a reminder that we have a finite time to spend on Earth. Let's endeavour to spend it well. She lived a long and fulfilling life and I am eternally grateful to God for having a mother like her. 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by shigoawesu(m): 7:35pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Ummmmm I lost my mum in 2021 she died in my hand, lost my dad just yesterday, the pain never go away especially if you love the person but it get better ith time. Before my mum died I use to think that I'm strong but is a lie,at times I'll just start crying, it's more painful watching your love one dying and you can't do anything. May Allah forgive them of their shortcomings and bless them with Janah 3 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by PlayMaker14: 7:35pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
My Grandpa... God!!! I miss him. I really don't like to remember how he died. Sent me a message when he knew his time was up, not up to 3mins after I returned with the kola nut, I saw the nurse rolling his bed down a sloppy part in the hospital. I quickly block the nurse and my uncle (His only son) opened the sheet and saw tears on his eyes. Abeg!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by pretty1214(f): 7:38pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
I lost my dad in 2002, it's wasn't easy cz I was just in JSS1, lost my mum 2008 😭😭😭 after my Secondary School. I thought that was the end of it until I lost my fiance in April 2016, I almost ran mad cz we were suppose to go for my introduction in May. The most painful part of it was that he was shot in my presence. He was killed in order to get to his dad who happened to be a politician and he is d only son. Till date, I haven't gotten over him. Their death still hurts 😭😭😭😭 n I feel lonely most times 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by EteBabaagba222(m): 7:38pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Samantha124: It was long i had an emotional cry like dis. Brother pls accept my condolences 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by gard9ner(m): 7:39pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
I can’t keep mute on this, I lost my brother to in a ghastly accident in September 2013, it was a very painful and difficult time for the family, the first time actually I’ve lost someone so close, the trauma that came with it though! I was the last to see him after he borrowed my laptop to use and also the first to see him at the morgue where my own blood brother lay helplessly with flies patching all over his broken/open skull. Another twist to it was that he never liked coming back home, that was the very first time he touched down in a long time. Only God has all the answers! I pray for healing for any unhealed trauma and masked deep wound on any member of my family. 3 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by themanderon: 7:40pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
pansophist: Jesus is alive forevermore. I pray he reveals himself to you. |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by MTAIYEM: 7:40pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
This bring back the pain of seven years ago... Sad that my dad couldn't see me become the doctor I am today after all his sacrifices. Thank God for all in all! |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Emdebby2: 7:46pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
I've lost my dad. I've lost my elder sister. I've lost my immediate elder sister. It's painful when you don't have siblings. Still... life goes on. |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Raymeg7(m): 7:50pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
NaijaGoBetter2: Wow ooh 😮, with this ur grammar, ur story was not interesting at all, baba drop ur story in away even a boy on the street will feel that impact, Altogether sorry for ur lost, |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by pietrodark(m): 8:21pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
You don't see death just when it comes for you, you meet with Death face to face when it takes someone you love. Lost my dad 13 years ago, and it still hurts till this day. They say time heals, but I can tell you... There are scars not even time can heal, you just learn to live with the hurt and over time you learn to move inspite of it. I've lost friends, loved ones, and everytime it ripped open the scar, making it bleed all over again. But then it has taught me a lot... Death is not the end, it's the beginning. Leaving this plane of existence is just the end of Season 1, Season 2 kicks off when we exit. So do what you can, the best you can, when you can. 500 years from today, we will all become forgotten tales, our stories and deeds will be washed away, ancient relics that will only be found by those who diligently search. I live by a code now... It is stupid to fear what you can't avoid. We all know that one day we will depart from this world, so the question is, why should we be scared of it? Everyone dies. Not everyone lives. 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by id4sho(m): 8:25pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
On God oOoOO. Orphans but still kicking ![]() |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by CarlosTheJackal: 8:42pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
I lost my mother last year and it really devastated me. My good friend who was coming for my wedding had an accident close to my place and died on the spot. Life seems to be cold to me and this thread just brought back memories. I became suicidal and was close to ending it but for my wife. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by NaijaGoBetter2: 8:42pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Raymeg7:In simple term I want to share my story, as I don't think I'll have another chance. My family used to be happy, full of joy. My dad planned to go to France, but a few weeks before his trip, he woke up with a headache and passed away less than 10 minutes later. Things got worse. My mom died on the first day of my NECO exams, and I was left with my sister, who was like a mom to me. But she passed away on the day I was supposed to start my first-semester exams. Then, my brother died on the first day of my MSc exams. Now, I'm alone, carrying a heavy heart. I've become an introvert, finding it hard to love anyone because I'm afraid of losing them. What used to be daily journeys turned into a lifetime of loneliness. I wish I could write well to share what I went through before becoming who I am today. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Bettergoat: 9:07pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
I lost my mum Febuary 25th 2022 I lost my dad October 16th 2022. ( He missed his wife ) basically. What hurt me in all this was I didn't give them anything to show I appreciate them . I don't think I cried sufficiently to express the pain. No time to react. Being a first son..baby boy had to manup. Basically it feels like an empty hole that can't be filled. Not pain. 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Dicta18: 9:35pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Lost my two younger brothers to murder. I tell you you can't imagine the pain. |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by ACE1010: 10:22pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Lost my wife almost 6 years ago. Still struggling with life without her. It has not been easy. I can't even look at another woman's face. The thought of not seeing her again forever gives me heart bit😟😟😟😟 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Nobody: 10:30pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Brother? ![]() ![]() ![]() EteBabaagba222: |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Nobody: 10:49pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Now every Christmas I make sure to buy these biscuits because to me they're more than just biscuits, they remind me of my grandfather... He used to buy us these biscuits every Christmas and for me it's just a way of celebrating his life while he was still around with us because he also died on Christmas day. Raymeg7:
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Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by stephenponti(m): 11:13pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
It is well with my Soul. 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by CarlosTheJackal: 11:55pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
I lost my mother last year and it really devastated me. My good friend who was coming for my wedding had an accident close to my place and died on the spot. Life seems to be cold to me and this thread just brought back memories I became suicidal and was close to ending it but for my wife. 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by arkyn: 12:16am On Nov 26, 2023 |
There's no coping |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by DrAkpa(m): 12:23am On Nov 26, 2023 |
I sympathize with everyone here that has lost a loved one. I myself, am also a partaker in this unfortunate reality of life. But I want to point out something, those posters who have lost more than one nuclear family members within 1yr or less, should go for cleansing and do proper investigation into why these issues occur in so short a time, I do not think that these are mere coincidences. Nigeria is a very dark society. Peace 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by ilyasom(m): 2:36am On Nov 26, 2023 |
[quote author=frank317 post=127126381] I am an extrovert.... so when i heard my mums death, i was with some friends and when the news came via phone call, i cried and drank myself to stupor... the next day the reality hit and i felt empty, life was sad and meaningless, but she was sick and I consoled myself thinking she is better off than suffering here. I still miss her but it does not hurt as much. As for my girl... I was engulfed with fear, that she was actually dead after the accident was confirmed and her number was not going. She was a corper traveling home to see her mum. she actually borrowed money to make the journey as allowee no gree come. she intended to visit me after seeing her mum... I never heard from her and it was the most terrifying moment of my life. I still feel the taste of my fears... i even created a page for her here https://www.nairaland.com/1253680/loving-memory i cried my soul out... and was angry at myself for loving her so You've really tried, may her soul RIP. With all the good things you've said about her is not possible for you to forget about her at all. Did you tell your wife about her demise? |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by ilyasom(m): 2:40am On Nov 26, 2023 |
pansophist:You write so damn well bro |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by ilyasom(m): 3:18am On Nov 26, 2023 |
CarlosTheJackal:Did you go ahead with the wedding at the said date,? How did you handle it |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by ilyasom(m): 3:19am On Nov 26, 2023 |
NaijaGoBetter2:Bro you've been through a lot. do you still have any siblings |
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