luminouz:

You are so disappointing!!! Kai, imagine how people will crucify him if he opted for abortion but he wanted to marry her and went to see her parents and una still get issues with that? Y'all are so unaccountable for anything sha.

A can't imagine YOU supporting abortion. Well, I now know one more thing about you.

CHILD KILLER

Rest red piller, I'm not the source of your frustration,

If Op truly wanted to marry her, he would have done that immediately she got pregnant, not after four months.

Fountainofyouth:
OP did not expect most people's reply, the comments shock am, Pele

Next time, if you are really serious in marrying her, you'd do that when the pregnancy was 3 weeks old.

the guy thought Nairaland is same as reality

The shock eh🤣

Jeon:
Sorry, she didn't want her daughter to be a single mother.

Willing to marry her doesn't count @ all.

The mother sense that it will be miserable life for the girl to be lockdown in marriage that happened in a mistake or likely abandoned to become a single mother, which sounds like a threat according to your gender.

I don't understand @bolded .How is the child theirs? thought man is said to own a child cuz the woman is a stranger?.

I just hope that the abortion goes well and it is not done by quack. Otherwise, the consequences she will face years to come won't have remedy. I know many women like that, abortions of unwanted pregnancies carried out by quack doctors turned their wombs into barren land

Tito24:
why the matter dey pain una today like this

This thread is so entertaining 😂😂😂

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

I don laff taya.

Brokendad:
I got into a relationship with a 22 year old girl who's turning 23 by January.

Along the line, she got pregnant. We kept the pregnancy away from her people until after four months.

I have already made a visit to her family to register my interest in marrying the girl and have asked for date for introduction and traditional marriage.

But when she told the mother that she's pregnant, the first question the mother asked her is if she had told me.

When she said yes, the mother was shouting at her that why did she tell me. The mother didn't know that I was with the daughter when she made that call.

Few days after, the mother asked her to return home. A day before the girl left, I have already registered her for antenatal. But I remember when I was paying for the antenatal, the girl asked me not to waste my money.

I didn't know that she has already agreed with the mother to kill and remove a four months old pregnancy.

Immediately the mother learnt that she was pregnant, she asked her to cut all communications with me or she will lay a curse on her.

So, every other communication we were having, the mum didn't know about it.

She left Lagos on Wednesday and today, the mother called me that the baby in her daughter's womb is dead due to stress that the girl was going through while in Lagos. That no one was attending to her, bla bla bla. Not knowing that I have been taking the girl to the hospital all along. She said that they are waiting for a doctor to evacuate the baby.

I feel so terrible right now. This girl is the first daughter and the first to have anything to do with marriage and child bearing. The mother has the gut to kill the first unborn child that was coming into their family.

The mother didn't know that I have all the evidence with me. That I have the test results and the scan results. The baby was doing very well as at the scan we did a day before she left.

I told her that I am willing to take responsibility for her and the child. I am capable. I am willing to marry her. Why then does the mother still go ahead to terminate a 4 months old pregnancy?

The mother attends mountain of fire church. So, I don't know if it's the shame of what people will say about a supposedly murderous Christian home.

I told her that she can remain in Lagos until she delivers if she doesn't want anyone to know that she took in but no, the mother wants to soil her hands in blood.

From my chat with the girl, she's preparing to undergo the abortion. So, it's like the mum called me ahead to inform me that they are about to take the child off her womb. Somebody that a baby died in her womb wouldn't be strong enough to be replying me WhatsApp messages.

I am tempted to take a legal action

All of you, as in three of you, the mother, yourself and the confused girl are all criminals, in sane society, all of you would be in net by now
Is that how to start up a family? I'm asking you.....yes, you.

Which work are you doing?

What is your age and your income?

Una no go worth having a girlfriend, na family creation you go run go start...na so dem deu start family for ur village?

luminouz:


Yes I am, and obviously your old age is not reflecting on you.

You were blind and you didn't read the went to the hospital ani...and still asking me if na medical doctor do am.

Jaxxy, YOU ARE A. CHILD KILLER. I hope the same happens to your daughter and son!

So u lot want to tell me that a stranger or rapist can impregnat a girl or ur daughter and by that have right to marry her?

Clowns.

CondemnBattery:
What does this said girl do? Is she a graduate? Is she doing anything relevant to better her life? Or you just impregnate a 22yr old girl and think you should be given a medal? Guy hide your face in some shame. You want to put a teenager in family way without thinking about her future. See I have no remorse for you.

Condemn brain

Brokendad:
I got into a relationship with a 22 year old girl who's turning 23 by January.

Along the line, she got pregnant. We kept the pregnancy away from her people until after four months.

I have already made a visit to her family to register my interest in marrying the girl and have asked for date for introduction and traditional marriage.

But when she told the mother that she's pregnant, the first question the mother asked her is if she had told me.

When she said yes, the mother was shouting at her that why did she tell me. The mother didn't know that I was with the daughter when she made that call.

Few days after, the mother asked her to return home. A day before the girl left, I have already registered her for antenatal. But I remember when I was paying for the antenatal, the girl asked me not to waste my money.

I didn't know that she has already agreed with the mother to kill and remove a four months old pregnancy.

Immediately the mother learnt that she was pregnant, she asked her to cut all communications with me or she will lay a curse on her.

So, every other communication we were having, the mum didn't know about it.

She left Lagos on Wednesday and today, the mother called me that the baby in her daughter's womb is dead due to stress that the girl was going through while in Lagos. That no one was attending to her, bla bla bla. Not knowing that I have been taking the girl to the hospital all along. She said that they are waiting for a doctor to evacuate the baby.

I feel so terrible right now. This girl is the first daughter and the first to have anything to do with marriage and child bearing. The mother has the gut to kill the first unborn child that was coming into their family.

The mother didn't know that I have all the evidence with me. That I have the test results and the scan results. The baby was doing very well as at the scan we did a day before she left.

I told her that I am willing to take responsibility for her and the child. I am capable. I am willing to marry her. Why then does the mother still go ahead to terminate a 4 months old pregnancy?

The mother attends mountain of fire church. So, I don't know if it's the shame of what people will say about a supposedly murderous Christian home.

I told her that she can remain in Lagos until she delivers if she doesn't want anyone to know that she took in but no, the mother wants to soil her hands in blood.

From my chat with the girl, she's preparing to undergo the abortion. So, it's like the mum called me ahead to inform me that they are about to take the child off her womb. Somebody that a baby died in her womb wouldn't be strong enough to be replying me WhatsApp messages.

I am tempted to take a legal action

To take legal action as who?

Do you have any right over the girl?

jaxxy:


u dunce go arrest all the girls committing abortion.

It was most likely a medical doctor who did the abortion also.

There are many cases and peculiar situations where abortion is done monkey.

And in this case the baby in the womb is already distressed.

blackgold2018:

With the tune of Op, you will realize he is a trouble maker and not straight forward.

Mothers are not stupid. She has realized the op is either irresponsible or most have noticed a turn off behavior.

you are so wise

His tone was loud and clear

They want the things they don't deserve

Imagine threatening her mother with lawsuits

A troublemaker that he is

jaxxy:


So u lot want to tell me that a stranger or rapist can impregnat a girl or ur daughter and by that have right to marry her?

Clowns.

How is that scenario relevant in this case nitori Olorun?

Are you insane? Didn't you do logic in school? How will a rapist or armed robber marry the daughter o?

luminouz:

Abeg, shut it. CHILD KILLER!!!

the girl, the mother, and the guy all have blood on their hands.

You may not be immediately intelligent enough to have a well rounded opinion though

Sophiemama:
And in this case the baby in the womb is already distressed.

See the lie you tell yourself to come off as not being guilty.

That foetus wasn't distressed at all but you EVEN COPIED the mom's lie and you are feeding us too?

May the same happen to your daughter Amen!!!

Resurgent2016:


the girl, the mother, and the guy all have blood on their hands.

You may not be immediately intelligent enough to have a well rounded opinion though

Nope, not the guy. He never wanted it but your pea-sized brain even blamed him? He wanted a child.

You are a resurgent child killer

Anfieldboss:


Hmm......Nairaland has become a war zone.

In the Politics section, it is ethnic/religious fight...

In the Family/Romance section, it is fight between Redpillers/Alpha Male wanna be and Feminists/Woke Women....SMH

I second this your observations gaskiya

luminouz:


How is that scenario relevant in this case nitori Olorun?

Are you insane? Didn't you do logic in school? How will a rapist or armed robber marry the daughter o?

I believe we are arguing about abortion here or that wouldn't require abortion or is it murder?

Clowns

jaxxy:


what is the punishment for abortion? which u called murder because same oyinbo man told u so?

abortion is killing..no oyinbo need to educate anyone on that...arbortion is illegal I hope you know in Nigeria u can be jail..I don't of any legality of premarital sex..

luminouz:

See the lie you tell yourself to come off as not being guilty.

That foetus wasn't distressed at all but you EVEN COPIED the mom's lie and you are feeding us too?

May the same happen to your daughter Amen!!!

That is the mother's reason not mine. I believe that is what she will use to defend her action wherever anybody takes her to.

jaxxy:


I believe we are arguing about abortion here or that wouldn't require abortion or is it murder?

Clowns

Bros, you goofed on this one. Try to be logical next time. Have you even seen an armed robber or rapist stay around after such to propose and threaten lawsuit?

Be logical na. Haba.

To answer your question, after rape, there is post pill and flushing the womb. Not waiting after weeks or 4 months to remove the foetus. You see how logical that is?

Now pay me for teaching you, pûnk!!!

Ode!

Sophiemama:
That is the mother's reason not mine. I believe that is what she will use to defend her action wherever anybody takes her to.

I don't care Sophie or whatever you call yourself. YOU ARE A CHILD KILLER.

Brokendad:


If you support this as a woman, then there's a problem.

We can fix date and get married. People have been doing it for ages. I love this girl and she loves me too.

She wanted the baby, reason she has agreed to keep it until this time

Na una want sane society but na still una don normalize fornication and sexual immorality.
The mum did the right thing, the stigma that comes with being a single mother is alarming.
Even the so called girlfriend of yours is just way ward, having random sex here and there with a man who hasn't paid a kobo on her head.
What stops her from making you do the needful so you can both fvck yourselves to stupor?

Sophiemama, resurgent2016, Tito24, jeon, fountainofyouth, jaxxy,


You are CHILD KILLERS!!! I SPIT ON YA BALD HEADS!!!

luminouz:


Nope, not the guy. He never wanted it but your pea-sized brain even blamed him? He wanted a child.

You are a resurgent child killer

Last response to you because you appear to use only one side to your brain.

Getting a girl pregnant while in her parent's house and 4 months down the line promising to marry does not equate to taking responsibility.

Terminating a 4 months pregnancy is a big risk to even the girl, after 4 months the parents would likely have no choice but to be responsible for the pregnancy of their daughter.

If he has not taken actual responsibility, then he leaves the girl's guardians with the hard decision of deciding if they are ready to accept the responsibility of looking after a pregnant daughter and child and you cannot force that decision on them.

Resurgent2016:


Last response to you because you appear to use only one side to your brain.

Getting a girl pregnant while in her parent's house and 4 months down the line promising to marry does not equate to taking responsibility.

Terminating a 4 months pregnancy is a big risk to even the girl, after 4 months the parents would likely have no choice but to be responsible for the pregnancy of their daughter.

If he has not taken actual responsibility, then he leaves the girl's guardians with the hard decision of deciding if they are ready to accept the responsibility of looking after a pregnant daughter and child and you cannot force that decision on them.

Shut it...CHILD KILLER!!!

Brokendad:
I got into a relationship with a 22 year old girl who's turning 23 by January.


The mother attends mountain of fire church. So, I don't know if it's the shame of what people will say about a supposedly murderous Christian home.

From my chat with the girl, she's preparing to undergo the abortion. So, it's like the mum called me ahead to inform me that they are about to take the child off her womb. Somebody that a baby died in her womb wouldn't be strong enough to be replying me WhatsApp messages.

I am tempted to take a legal action

At the bolded, you too are also fornicating so you're as guilty as the woman you tried to shade.
Meanwhile, na una wan sane and moral society, but na una don normalize sexual immorality.

Brokendad:
I got into a relationship with a 22 year old girl who's turning 23 by January.

Along the line, she got pregnant. We kept the pregnancy away from her people until after four months.

I have already made a visit to her family to register my interest in marrying the girl and have asked for date for introduction and traditional marriage.

But when she told the mother that she's pregnant, the first question the mother asked her is if she had told me.

When she said yes, the mother was shouting at her that why did she tell me. The mother didn't know that I was with the daughter when she made that call.

Few days after, the mother asked her to return home. A day before the girl left, I have already registered her for antenatal. But I remember when I was paying for the antenatal, the girl asked me not to waste my money.

I didn't know that she has already agreed with the mother to kill and remove a four months old pregnancy.

Immediately the mother learnt that she was pregnant, she asked her to cut all communications with me or she will lay a curse on her.

So, every other communication we were having, the mum didn't know about it.

She left Lagos on Wednesday and today, the mother called me that the baby in her daughter's womb is dead due to stress that the girl was going through while in Lagos. That no one was attending to her, bla bla bla. Not knowing that I have been taking the girl to the hospital all along. She said that they are waiting for a doctor to evacuate the baby.

I feel so terrible right now. This girl is the first daughter and the first to have anything to do with marriage and child bearing. The mother has the gut to kill the first unborn child that was coming into their family.

The mother didn't know that I have all the evidence with me. That I have the test results and the scan results. The baby was doing very well as at the scan we did a day before she left.

I told her that I am willing to take responsibility for her and the child. I am capable. I am willing to marry her. Why then does the mother still go ahead to terminate a 4 months old pregnancy?

The mother attends mountain of fire church. So, I don't know if it's the shame of what people will say about a supposedly murderous Christian home.

I told her that she can remain in Lagos until she delivers if she doesn't want anyone to know that she took in but no, the mother wants to soil her hands in blood.

From my chat with the girl, she's preparing to undergo the abortion. So, it's like the mum called me ahead to inform me that they are about to take the child off her womb. Somebody that a baby died in her womb wouldn't be strong enough to be replying me WhatsApp messages.

I am tempted to take a legal action

When it was just 2weeks pregnancy, why didn't you go to her people formally, why wait till 4months.
Are you finally stable to train the girl to the university and also take care of the baby?
Or you just want her to give birth before you marry her, or be your baby mama

luminouz:


I don't care Sophie or whatever you call yourself. YOU ARE A CHILD KILLER.

LOL...sense man jam sense woman. Imagine someone impregnated a religious woman's daughter and hid for 4 months before opening up to the woman, thinking there is nothing she can do.

All the comments above have just re establish that there is a fundamental problem with the Nigerian belief and way of life. Nigeria is not a normal society. People think upside down. And majority of Nigerians will continue to be poor. Very few will keep migrating cos developed nation will keep hijacking the few good ones. Nigeria will not make sense, and many will continue to die in this way of life and poverty. Just imagine the boldnes in the tones of the messages. Lol. Mehn! Poverty have found a hone to live in forever. It is among Nigerians. Lol. Just take a look at the comments again. Mehn!

Sophiemama:
LOL...sense man jam sense woman. Imagine someone impregnated a religious woman's daughter and hid for 4 months before opening up to the woman, thinking there is nothing she can do.

Stop quoting me abeg. You are irritating!!! So the girl that waited for 4 months was forced abi? She agreed to keep it then later backtracked.

Oh I pray that the girl's womb is not damaged because that will be worse than having the baby.

Now, Sophie, geddifok to the kitchen and make me dinner

The title of the thread makes it seem like you impregnated the mother