epainos:
All the comments above have just re establish that there is a fundamental problem with the Nigerian belief and way of life. Nigeria is not a normal society. People think upside down. And majority of Nigerians will continue to be poor. Very few will keep migrating cos developed nation will keep hijacking the few good ones. Nigeria will not make sense, and many will continue to die in this way of life and poverty. Just imagine the boldnes in the tones of the messages. Lol. Mehn! Poverty have found a hone to live in forever. It is among Nigerians. Lol. Just take a look at the comments again. Mehn!

Abeg shut it...what's your own opinion? Support or reject? That one concern me. Make I give you wotowoto!!!!

NoahHadNoArk:
Abstain from premarital sex next time.


Take your bride to the altar, pure and clean in mind, body and soul.

What if he's not a Christian

luminouz:

Abeg shut it...what's your own opinion? Support or reject? That one concern me. Make I give you wotowoto!!!!

Living with frustrated people like this needs patience. Eeeee ya! The hardship is taking it really on you...and you are letting it out here. Eeeya!!! Sorry oooo!

Las las...you will be fine.

epainos:


Living with frustrated people like this needs patience. Eeeee ya! The hardship is taking it really on you...and you are letting it out here. Eeeya!!! Sorry oooo!

Las las...you will be fine.

Epainos!!!

Don't make me come over there and whoop your black ass.

Are you supporting or opposing? Answer me!!

Brokendad:


Did you read the entire article? I have gone to see her parents already. The girl just confirmed to me that she never wanted the baby.
So, I guess I don't have anything to fight for again.

Oga read the chat, read to understand. The girl herself obviously doesn’t want to be your wife.

Count your losses and move.

Fountainofyouth:



You are the mentally unstable one

She said the utmost truth.

No she's a psycho and nuisance.

jaxxy:
The sin of killing the baby and the sin of getting girls pregnant outside wedlock are almost thesame so don't play righteous now.

u are not married to the girl and can not marry her without her mothers approval so she is not ur property to decide anything concerning her or her future.

If u were smart u would have worked on getting the mother's approved b4 talking about her being pregnant.

why would u get a girl pregnant b4 marriage?

not everyone is a Christian, so?

OP you are a mad man. Four months you still feeling like she should deliver the baby for you. You not a cultured being. You don't sound like you have a future. Is that how u were born? If you are a responsible young man no mother will terminate your baby. From the look of things you not man enough. You sound like the normal dude whose age mates always sit on long bench.

Brokendad:
I got into a relationship with a 22 year old girl who's turning 23 by January.

Along the line, she got pregnant. We kept the pregnancy away from her people until after four months.

I have already made a visit to her family to register my interest in marrying the girl and have asked for date for introduction and traditional marriage.

But when she told the mother that she's pregnant, the first question the mother asked her is if she had told me.

When she said yes, the mother was shouting at her that why did she tell me. The mother didn't know that I was with the daughter when she made that call.

Few days after, the mother asked her to return home. A day before the girl left, I have already registered her for antenatal. But I remember when I was paying for the antenatal, the girl asked me not to waste my money.

I didn't know that she has already agreed with the mother to kill and remove a four months old pregnancy.

Immediately the mother learnt that she was pregnant, she asked her to cut all communications with me or she will lay a curse on her.

So, every other communication we were having, the mum didn't know about it.

She left Lagos on Wednesday and today, the mother called me that the baby in her daughter's womb is dead due to stress that the girl was going through while in Lagos. That no one was attending to her, bla bla bla. Not knowing that I have been taking the girl to the hospital all along. She said that they are waiting for a doctor to evacuate the baby.

I feel so terrible right now. This girl is the first daughter and the first to have anything to do with marriage and child bearing. The mother has the gut to kill the first unborn child that was coming into their family.

The mother didn't know that I have all the evidence with me. That I have the test results and the scan results. The baby was doing very well as at the scan we did a day before she left.

I told her that I am willing to take responsibility for her and the child. I am capable. I am willing to marry her. Why then does the mother still go ahead to terminate a 4 months old pregnancy?

The mother attends mountain of fire church. So, I don't know if it's the shame of what people will say about a supposedly murderous Christian home.

I told her that she can remain in Lagos until she delivers if she doesn't want anyone to know that she took in but no, the mother wants to soil her hands in blood.

From my chat with the girl, she's preparing to undergo the abortion. So, it's like the mum called me ahead to inform me that they are about to take the child off her womb. Somebody that a baby died in her womb wouldn't be strong enough to be replying me WhatsApp messages. I am tempted to take a legal action

legal action for what, seems you are more interested in the unborn baby than the lady, the lady is her daughter and as long as you haven't married her, she is still under her parents even though she is an adult. The mother has done what she think is best for their family, though am not in support of abortion but why would you be sleeping with a lady you arent married to and also without protection or you wanted to prove something ni?, you stressing kill kill wont mean nothing she is not the first to cause abortion neither would this be the last and how are you sure the lady hadn't had an abortion before, that asides you ddnt do well and the woman has done what she thinks is good for her daughter, maybe she ddnt see you fit as a good son-in-law especially as you have behaved irresponsibly in her opinion by getting her daughter pregnant and also hid it from her for a whole 4months, Haha!! Either you find love elsewhere or go to them and do the proper thing if you truly love their daughter. Take it that she had a miscarriage and leave the mama outta this abeg

I can't say if she wanted to protect the daughter or her own image..

You just sit n look for someone daughter to impregnate without any meaning impact. Dem no ask community to flog u like masquerade.

Goldmaxx:
No she's a psycho and nuisance.

What a good mother.

She no owe u any explanation. If u can keep the pregnancy until 4th month before you can meet her parent. Pregnancy is not the reason to hold down someone's daughter. You are one of those youths who seat on long bench in every corner to toast passerby. U didn't sound like you can afford yourself. They will allow you ruin their child's future. U wey Dem for arrest and parade as a dream killa. Make she marry you just like that. You think because u still have erection everything should fall in place.

one4GOD:
legal action for what, seems you are more interested in the unborn baby than the lady, the lady is her daughter and as long as you haven't married her, she is still under her parents even though she is an adult. The mother has done what she think is best for their family, though am not in support of abortion but why would you be sleeping with a lady you arent married to and also without protection or you wanted to prove something ni?, you stressing kill kill wont mean nothing she is not the first to cause abortion neither would this be the last and how are you sure the lady hadn't had an abortion before, that asides you ddnt do well and the woman has done what she thinks is good for her daughter, maybe she ddnt see you fit as a good son-in-law especially as you have behaved irresponsibly in her opinion by getting her daughter pregnant and also hid it from her for a whole 4months, Haha!! Either you find love elsewhere or go to them and do the proper thing if you truly love their daughter. Take it that she had a miscarriage and leave the mama outta this abeg

Tplanet:
You were so quick to judge the mother as a murderer but couldn't see what you and the girl did as a sin.

So your game plan is to cut corners and become a father through the back door. If i were your girl's father, nothing on earth will stop you from being jailed.

You Nairaland femiNAZIS sef
I thought y'all are religious zealots that hate abortion

You and the girl just dey make out nothing real is happening. Mumu u rush give her belle.

Harddiskng:


Oga read the chat, read to understand. The girl herself obviously doesn’t want to be your wife.

Count your losses and move.

immortalcrown:
My pain is the murder of the innocent baby.

As for you, your girlfriend and her mother, you people are morally bankrupt. Talking to you is like flogging a dead horse because you won't take any preaching of mortality. You will only change when you personally decides to do so.

Only silly people get married because of pregnancy. You never wanted to marry her. The pregnancy is what put marriage in your mind. This means you will easily divorce because of any little issue. You indulge in premarital sex to an extent of impregnating a girl. You even waited for the pregnancy to be 4 months old before you made a move for marriage.

Both of them could not even use contraception.

I mean, we got things like Postinor, Condom, etc. Yet, dem dey do without thinking.

Jeon:
Sorry, she didn't want her daughter to be a single mother.


Willing to marry her doesn't count @ all.



The mother sense that it will be miserable life for the girl to be lockdown in marriage that happened in a mistake or likely abandoned to become a single mother, which sounds like a threat according to your gender.





I don't understand @bolded .How is the child theirs? thought man is said to own a child cuz the woman is a stranger?.

Think before typing, a lot of sane minds are on this forum please.

luminouz:


Bros, you goofed on this one. Try to be logical next time. Have you even seen an armed robber or rapist stay around after such to propose and threaten lawsuit?

Be logical na. Haba.

To answer your question, after rape, there is post pill and flushing the womb. Not waiting after weeks or 4 months to remove the foetus. You see how logical that is?

Now pay me for teaching you, pûnk!!!

and what of people who didn't get access to such pills or help early and got pregnant?

or those abducted and forced into marriage?

can u see how small minded and short sighted u are all to defend an irresponsible act?

Complete clowns

Goldmaxx:
not everyone is a Christian, so?

Then u will obey the parent and law.

Mrbenny001:
abortion is killing..no oyinbo need to educate anyone on that...arbortion is illegal I hope you know in Nigeria u can be jail..I don't of any legality of premarital sex..

then premarital sex is wrong and illegal no oyinbo need to educate anyone on that.

luminouz:

Abeg, shut it. CHILD KILLER!!!

Let me ask you, do you have sex before marriage? Then you are no better o

akube34:
Let me ask you, do you have sex before marriage? Then you are no better o

Yes I do sir. Infact, I dey fuq well well. I love pussy!! But does that mean I have killed someone?

Will I go to jail for giving my girlfriend mad doggy that made her toes curl? Or will I go to jail for abortion, an illegal act under constitution?

Kindly answer me oga before I spit on that your yamayama bald head!!!

jaxxy:


then premarital sex is wrong and illegal no oyinbo need to educate anyone on that.

Premarital sex according to who? He talked of constitution,not the Bible!!!

You keep taking losses on this issue and I am now pitying you. You have zero logical IQ bro.

Goan eat dinner, make your brain cells boost small

Jeon:
Sorry, she didn't want her daughter to be a single mother.


Willing to marry her doesn't count @ all.



The mother sense that it will be miserable life for the girl to be lockdown in marriage that happened in a mistake or likely abandoned to become a single mother, which sounds like a threat according to your gender.





I don't understand @bolded .How is the child theirs? thought man is said to own a child cuz the woman is a stranger?.

With these few points of your, you have successfully proven that you are a competent idiot. Your idiocy is big, strong and reliable.

Juoflife1:
What a good mother.

Why am I not surprised? I know you well na

CHILD KILLER

jaxxy:


and what of people who didn't get access to such pills or help early and got pregnant?

or those abducted and forced into marriage?

can u see how small minded and short sighted u are all to defend an irresponsible act?

Complete clowns

You are the clown!!! You keep shifting simple goal posts and taking losses from me.

Now, we are talking about abduction again, not raping or armed robbery?

Egbon rest na!! You are too old to be flogged like this biko

luminouz:

Premarital sex according to who? He talked of constitution,not the Bible!!!

You keep taking losses on this issue and I am now pitying you. You have zero logical IQ bro.

Goan eat dinner, make your brain cells boost small

seems u don't even understand what yre arguing about so u keep hailing urself and jumping up.and down.

I have countered u severally snd ur weak response is pathetic.

U give lame narrow minded situations as examples and avoid the obvious realities of this issue.

jaxxy:


seems u don't even understand what yre arguing about so u keep hailing urself and jumping up.and down.

I have countered u severally snd ur weak response is pathetic.

U give lame narrow minded situations as examples and avoid the obvious realities of this issue.

*Sighs*

Some people just don't know when to take an L in peace.

Premarital sex is illegal because abortion is illegal in Nigeria, according to you.... How does that make logical sense biko? Has anyone ever been arrested for premarital sex in this country?

Arguing with you is leeching me of some brain cells. How can someone be so adamantly dûmb? Is your brain made of adamantium or Adamantine?

See this man, you want to just go and impregnate someone's daughter out of nowhere, then come here to be disturbing our peace. If the mother looked at you as betta person, wount she have encouraged the daughter to go ahead? You did not even give her or her husband the respect you wish for yourself, as you put their young daughter with an aspired, bright future in the family way, without their consent or blessing. Only for you to be claiming my 4 months pregnancy. Do you know in some places, you can chop bullet for disrespecting a family like that?
Omo, they have removed the belle, carry you belle giving blokos and go find someone else without future to impregnate, as for that family, them no need am.

luminouz:


You are CHILD KILLERS!!! I SPIT ON YA BALD HEADS!!!

Cry

Fountainofyouth:



Cry

CHILD KILLER!!!😡😡😡😡