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Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by tiswell(m): 10:31pm On Dec 02, 2023
TheWinterBird:
That's why you shouldn't engage in pre-marital sex. If you want to be doing that, then you should've at least been using condom. I know you're going to quote me and lie that you did but you were probably not using any with her.

As for taking legal action, lol, who would you take legal action against? Imagine taking legal action against a woman's body. As if that's how it works, unless you want to go and lose. Move on, and stop engaging in pre-marital sex, or get married first to avoid this kinda wahala again.
you can only say this if you are still a virgin, otherwise stfu!
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by Mrbenny001: 10:32pm On Dec 02, 2023
jaxxy:


in God's constitution. U cannot pick a girl and get her pregnant without any consent or approval from her parents to ur relationship.
where in God's constitution..no prove..it's just what you're told..not what you know
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by Jeon(f): 10:46pm On Dec 02, 2023
Wow!

So surprised! most Men, supported the wise mom to prevent the spread of single mothers . I guess y'all tired of your gender running away from personal responsibilities/ living it for another man to carry the heavy weight.

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Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by jaxxy(m): 10:57pm On Dec 02, 2023
Mrbenny001:
where in God's constitution..no prove..it's just what you're told..not what you know

so what do u know that u were not told and u have proof?

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Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by Thundafireseun: 11:09pm On Dec 02, 2023
okerekingsley90:


Bros which kind moniker be this grin grin grin

cause trouble is my name
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by akube34: 11:18pm On Dec 02, 2023
luminouz:

So are we talking legal or moral here?

Is it moral or legal to kill or both? Which one gets you jailed?
ok I get what you mean na. So if it is in a country like Canada where abortion is legal, it is ok to do it Abi?
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by sulakishop(m): 11:19pm On Dec 02, 2023
You should be celebrating if I were you

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Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by BBIA: 11:29pm On Dec 02, 2023
Brokendad:
I got into a relationship with a 22 year old girl who's turning 23 by January.

Along the line, she got pregnant. We kept the pregnancy away from her people until after four months.

I have already made a visit to her family to register my interest in marrying the girl and have asked for date for introduction and traditional marriage.

But when she told the mother that she's pregnant, the first question the mother asked her is if she had told me.

When she said yes, the mother was shouting at her that why did she tell me. The mother didn't know that I was with the daughter when she made that call.

Few days after, the mother asked her to return home. A day before the girl left, I have already registered her for antenatal. But I remember when I was paying for the antenatal, the girl asked me not to waste my money.

I didn't know that she has already agreed with the mother to kill and remove a four months old pregnancy.

Immediately the mother learnt that she was pregnant, she asked her to cut all communications with me or she will lay a curse on her.

So, every other communication we were having, the mum didn't know about it.

She left Lagos on Wednesday and today, the mother called me that the baby in her daughter's womb is dead due to stress that the girl was going through while in Lagos. That no one was attending to her, bla bla bla. Not knowing that I have been taking the girl to the hospital all along. She said that they are waiting for a doctor to evacuate the baby.

I feel so terrible right now. This girl is the first daughter and the first to have anything to do with marriage and child bearing. The mother has the gut to kill the first unborn child that was coming into their family.

The mother didn't know that I have all the evidence with me. That I have the test results and the scan results. The baby was doing very well as at the scan we did a day before she left.

I told her that I am willing to take responsibility for her and the child. I am capable. I am willing to marry her. Why then does the mother still go ahead to terminate a 4 months old pregnancy?

The mother attends mountain of fire church. So, I don't know if it's the shame of what people will say about a supposedly murderous Christian home.

I told her that she can remain in Lagos until she delivers if she doesn't want anyone to know that she took in but no, the mother wants to soil her hands in blood.

From my chat with the girl, she's preparing to undergo the abortion. So, it's like the mum called me ahead to inform me that they are about to take the child off her womb. Somebody that a baby died in her womb wouldn't be strong enough to be replying me WhatsApp messages.

I am tempted to take a legal action
In this life, have money.


All this nonsense for no happen. grin

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Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by Danisaint112(m): 11:56pm On Dec 02, 2023
Jeon:

No, you have a problem with yourself.
You thought you are wise,by impregnating a girl and refused to talk about marriage for almost 4months not until the mom step in.And you were encouraging the girl to go into hiding ..... Why? thats means it was a mistake from the beginning.

I read all your comments and you're not completely making sense at least condemn the mom for once.

Under no circumstances should you kill a child if you fear God even a little you won't justify this with the nonsense you are typing.

God gives children and only him has the right to take. I am noy in any way supporting what the guy did but wether or not he has the intention to marry her she shouldn't and I repeat under no circumstances kill the child.

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Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by Brokendad: 11:58pm On Dec 02, 2023
luminouz:


It hasn't been removed, you pûnk!! The girl's in the hospital fighting for her life as we speak. They are pumping her full of injections that do nothing. It's the third day!!

I just pray she doesn't lose her life.

And the hospital they took her looks like a cheap one. The injections are already getting her weak... I'm scared
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by Kingson28: 12:10am On Dec 03, 2023
Granted, aborting the foetus is wrong and sinful.
But having sex with a lady whose parents have not married off to you is senseless and sinful too.
You are a thief to have slept with someone’s daughter, without her parents’ consent and approval via marriage.
You people should use your senses and conscience more.
STOP FORNICATING!
Give your life to Jesus Christ.
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by Brokendad: 12:37am On Dec 03, 2023
Kingson28:
Granted, aborting the foetus is wrong and sinful.
But having sex with a lady whose parents have not married off to you is senseless and sinful too.
You are a thief to have slept with someone’s daughter, without her parents’ consent and approval via marriage.
You people should use your senses and conscience more.
STOP FORNICATING!
Give your life to Jesus Christ.

He who calls his brother "A FOOL" shall be liable to HELLFIRE
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by GAZZUZZ(m): 1:21am On Dec 03, 2023
Brokendad:
I got into a relationship with a 22 year old girl who's turning 23 by January.

Along the line, she got pregnant. We kept the pregnancy away from her people until after four months.

I have already made a visit to her family to register my interest in marrying the girl and have asked for date for introduction and traditional marriage.

But when she told the mother that she's pregnant, the first question the mother asked her is if she had told me.

When she said yes, the mother was shouting at her that why did she tell me. The mother didn't know that I was with the daughter when she made that call.

Few days after, the mother asked her to return home. A day before the girl left, I have already registered her for antenatal. But I remember when I was paying for the antenatal, the girl asked me not to waste my money.

I didn't know that she has already agreed with the mother to kill and remove a four months old pregnancy.

Immediately the mother learnt that she was pregnant, she asked her to cut all communications with me or she will lay a curse on her.

So, every other communication we were having, the mum didn't know about it.

She left Lagos on Wednesday and today, the mother called me that the baby in her daughter's womb is dead due to stress that the girl was going through while in Lagos. That no one was attending to her, bla bla bla. Not knowing that I have been taking the girl to the hospital all along. She said that they are waiting for a doctor to evacuate the baby.

I feel so terrible right now. This girl is the first daughter and the first to have anything to do with marriage and child bearing. The mother has the gut to kill the first unborn child that was coming into their family.

The mother didn't know that I have all the evidence with me. That I have the test results and the scan results. The baby was doing very well as at the scan we did a day before she left.

I told her that I am willing to take responsibility for her and the child. I am capable. I am willing to marry her. Why then does the mother still go ahead to terminate a 4 months old pregnancy?

The mother attends mountain of fire church. So, I don't know if it's the shame of what people will say about a supposedly murderous Christian home.

I told her that she can remain in Lagos until she delivers if she doesn't want anyone to know that she took in but no, the mother wants to soil her hands in blood.

From my chat with the girl, she's preparing to undergo the abortion. So, it's like the mum called me ahead to inform me that they are about to take the child off her womb. Somebody that a baby died in her womb wouldn't be strong enough to be replying me WhatsApp messages.

I am tempted to take a legal action

You are broke, and becoming a father in 2023.

Make money , have money, now one will terminate your pregnancy if you are comfortable.

Make money.

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Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by GAZZUZZ(m): 1:22am On Dec 03, 2023
cumrade, I sight you.


BBIA:

In this life, have money.


All this nonsense for no happen. grin

GAZZUZZ:


You are broke, and becoming a father in 2023.

Make money , have money, now one will terminate your pregnancy if you are comfortable.

Make money.

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Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by chipet67(m): 2:24am On Dec 03, 2023
Abstain from premarital sex.

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Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by occfx: 4:01am On Dec 03, 2023
Brokendad:
I got into a relationship with a 22 year old girl who's turning 23 by January.

Along the line, she got pregnant. We kept the pregnancy away from her people until after four months.

I have already made a visit to her family to register my interest in marrying the girl and have asked for date for introduction and traditional marriage.

But when she told the mother that she's pregnant, the first question the mother asked her is if she had told me.

When she said yes, the mother was shouting at her that why did she tell me. The mother didn't know that I was with the daughter when she made that call.

Few days after, the mother asked her to return home. A day before the girl left, I have already registered her for antenatal. But I remember when I was paying for the antenatal, the girl asked me not to waste my money.

I didn't know that she has already agreed with the mother to kill and remove a four months old pregnancy.

Immediately the mother learnt that she was pregnant, she asked her to cut all communications with me or she will lay a curse on her.

So, every other communication we were having, the mum didn't know about it.

She left Lagos on Wednesday and today, the mother called me that the baby in her daughter's womb is dead due to stress that the girl was going through while in Lagos. That no one was attending to her, bla bla bla. Not knowing that I have been taking the girl to the hospital all along. She said that they are waiting for a doctor to evacuate the baby.

I feel so terrible right now. This girl is the first daughter and the first to have anything to do with marriage and child bearing. The mother has the gut to kill the first unborn child that was coming into their family.

The mother didn't know that I have all the evidence with me. That I have the test results and the scan results. The baby was doing very well as at the scan we did a day before she left.

I told her that I am willing to take responsibility for her and the child. I am capable. I am willing to marry her. Why then does the mother still go ahead to terminate a 4 months old pregnancy?

The mother attends mountain of fire church. So, I don't know if it's the shame of what people will say about a supposedly murderous Christian home.

I told her that she can remain in Lagos until she delivers if she doesn't want anyone to know that she took in but no, the mother wants to soil her hands in blood.

From my chat with the girl, she's preparing to undergo the abortion. So, it's like the mum called me ahead to inform me that they are about to take the child off her womb. Somebody that a baby died in her womb wouldn't be strong enough to be replying me WhatsApp messages.

I am tempted to take a legal action

Dump the girl, dump the family and move. If you marry from that kind family, you go suffer

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Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by UnfairLife7(m): 4:22am On Dec 03, 2023
Brokendad:


He who calls his brother "A FOOL" shall be liable to HELLFIRE
Stop Fornicating
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by newoffer: 5:16am On Dec 03, 2023
Wait until this miserable youth impregnate your daughter. You and the OP be like you from the same clownship.
Goldmaxx:
You talk like an average illiterate Nigerian. They're both consenting adults in affair that led to pregnancy. It happens all over the world. Non is riding the other.
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by Brokendad: 5:18am On Dec 03, 2023
GAZZUZZ:


You are broke, and becoming a father in 2023.

Make money , have money, now one will terminate your pregnancy if you are comfortable.

Make money.

Lol.

I am not broke bro, I am not.

I am way better financially than the family that I'm dealing with. The girl is just unfortunate to have an evil mother.

Gazzuz, you even know me personally as I do buy Mobil 1 from you. You cannot use me and being broke in the same sentence.
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by Brokendad: 5:20am On Dec 03, 2023
occfx:


Dump the girl, dump the family and move. If you marry from that kind family, you go suffer

I have already. I'm just afraid right now if the girl will make it out of the hospital alive. I really do wish she does.
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by GAZZUZZ(m): 6:02am On Dec 03, 2023
Brokendad:


Lol.

I am not broke bro, I am not.

I am way better financially than the family that I'm dealing with. The girl is just unfortunate to have an evil mother.

Gazzuz, you even know me personally as I do buy Mobil 1 from you. You cannot use me and being broke in the same sentence.

Then possibly it's what my friend suggested

Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by gidjah(m): 6:19am On Dec 03, 2023
You are right ma'am , our boys these days are just something else , we want to all sleep with girls
around but fly away immediately responsibilities arises! I understand marriage or settling down can so so be expensive this times but we must be cautious and play the right games .There was no girl I dated whoes parents do not know me .. I made sure I made my intentions known and your parents must always see me around including when I was dating the daughter of a king up north years ago.If that kind girl got pregnant, the parents would understand and cooperate with you but is that the case with all our chewing gum boys now my dear ? HELL NO ! THEY ALWAYS WANNA SAMPLE AND OPT OUT leaving you high and dry and hopeless too. I made sure most of my ladies went to school..hmm let me shock you to the wits, the last girl I dated after uni..had to go write NECCO EXAMS FOR HER JUST SHE PASSES MATHEMATICS AND ENGLISH!! (because I wanted her to go furthering) ! tha sounds bizarre right ?yes o, that's what real men should be able to do for ladies they love not just clothes and shoes bla bla bla .. our bro here didn't have good intentions from the beginning that we can see, though the mother messed up, she doesn't know the child's future but terminated it on the platform of religion and ignorance .. God go help us all .If the guy was well to do and sound as perceived by the mum do you think she would have gone that satanic way pls ?
sw24:
I know a man that got a lady pregnant, asked the lady to tell her parents he was coming to marry. Called the parents to tell them of his intentions,
to fix a date for introduction and collect dowry list. Gave all necessary information about his family and background for investigation. While this was ongoing they registered for antenatal. When the family confirmed that they were satisfied with his background. He negotiated dowry list and paid way before the traditional marriage.
I just hope the girl comes out of the this safe .

Anybody can want to marry a lady, Wanting is pure desire. Actions speak louder than words.

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Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by Mrbenny001: 6:27am On Dec 03, 2023
jaxxy:


so what do u know that u were not told and u have proof?
any Dr who run abortion is at risk of losing their license.. abortion is illegal and criminal offense not premarital sex.. premarital sex and pregnancy before marriage is not crime anywhere.
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by Inosky: 7:23am On Dec 03, 2023
You pregnanted a young girl of 22-year old you're not married to and want to use the idea of unprepared marriage to tie her family. That's very wrong.

However, if actually the mother aborted the baby, it's very wrong of her as she was not thinking of the innocent baby but her daughter's future which she doesn't see you worthy.

You have no legal backing if you take any of them to court, you will not only lose, you might be jailed. So move on.

The girl is not interested in any future with you, same as her mother. The girl only wanted you for s*x-mate for the main time. And I think that's what you too wanted before the pregnancy issues that made you change your mind to want to marry her.

If you love someone, you go marry her or pay her dowry before you started having unprotected sex with her.
That's a customary or legal right you have if you want to pursue such case. Without the dowry, you have no right to any lady you mistakenly impregnated, no matter what your intentions are. And her or her family have right to do anything with what you deposited there in her or even accuse of wrongdoing to their daughter without their knowledge to the point of even jailing you. However, not so with abortion which is illegal in Nigeria, but you must have a concrete evidence, the medical evidence, otherwise you can't prove that in the court of law. So, do yourself a favour and move on.
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by jaxxy(m): 7:35am On Dec 03, 2023
Mrbenny001:
any Dr who run abortion is at risk of losing their license.. abortion is illegal and criminal offense not premarital sex.. premarital sex and pregnancy before marriage is not crime anywhere.

it is against Christian belief so its wrong since she's a Christian. so go and look for a non Christian to practice premarital sex with ok.

Also if bandits rape sm1 tell me they won't do abortion if she's 2months pregnant after she's released.

Lastly there are many countries where abortion is legal.
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by MuslimIgbo: 7:36am On Dec 03, 2023
Brokendad:
I got into a relationship with a 22 year old girl who's turning 23 by January.

Along the line, she got pregnant. We kept the pregnancy away from her people until after four months.

I have already made a visit to her family to register my interest in marrying the girl and have asked for date for introduction and traditional marriage.

But when she told the mother that she's pregnant, the first question the mother asked her is if she had told me.

When she said yes, the mother was shouting at her that why did she tell me. The mother didn't know that I was with the daughter when she made that call.

Few days after, the mother asked her to return home. A day before the girl left, I have already registered her for antenatal. But I remember when I was paying for the antenatal, the girl asked me not to waste my money.

I didn't know that she has already agreed with the mother to kill and remove a four months old pregnancy.

Immediately the mother learnt that she was pregnant, she asked her to cut all communications with me or she will lay a curse on her.

So, every other communication we were having, the mum didn't know about it.

She left Lagos on Wednesday and today, the mother called me that the baby in her daughter's womb is dead due to stress that the girl was going through while in Lagos. That no one was attending to her, bla bla bla. Not knowing that I have been taking the girl to the hospital all along. She said that they are waiting for a doctor to evacuate the baby.

I feel so terrible right now. This girl is the first daughter and the first to have anything to do with marriage and child bearing. The mother has the gut to kill the first unborn child that was coming into their family.

The mother didn't know that I have all the evidence with me. That I have the test results and the scan results. The baby was doing very well as at the scan we did a day before she left.

I told her that I am willing to take responsibility for her and the child. I am capable. I am willing to marry her. Why then does the mother still go ahead to terminate a 4 months old pregnancy?

The mother attends mountain of fire church. So, I don't know if it's the shame of what people will say about a supposedly murderous Christian home.

I told her that she can remain in Lagos until she delivers if she doesn't want anyone to know that she took in but no, the mother wants to soil her hands in blood.

From my chat with the girl, she's preparing to undergo the abortion. So, it's like the mum called me ahead to inform me that they are about to take the child off her womb. Somebody that a baby died in her womb wouldn't be strong enough to be replying me WhatsApp messages.

I am tempted to take a legal action

I blame all of you.

THE CONSEQUENCES OF FORNICATIONS IS VERY GRAVE, YOU ALL DESERVE WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH NOW.

HER MOTHER DOESN'T WANT HER TO BRING SHAME TO HER AND THE FAMILY... SHE SHOULD HAVE TRAINED HER WELL AND KEEP HER AWAY FROM IMMORAL FUÇKERS LIKE YOU THAT LACKS MORAL BOUNDARIES.

YOU SHOULD HAVE KNOWN THAT SHE COULD GET PREGNANT WHEN YOU WERE FUCƘING HER RAW AND DEPOSITING SPĒRMS IN HER.

ONE DAY, YOU WILL HAVE A DAUGHTER TOO, WILL YOU LIKE YOUR DAUGHTER TO BE FORNICATING?


YOU ALL DESERVE MORE PUNISHMENTS FOR ALL THIS.

YOU ALL DESERVE TO GO TO PRISON.
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by MuslimIgbo: 7:39am On Dec 03, 2023
Jeon:
Sorry, she didn't want her daughter to be a single mother.


Willing to marry her doesn't count @ all.



The mother sense that it will be miserable life for the girl to be lockdown in marriage that happened in a mistake or likely abandoned to become a single mother, which sounds like a threat according to your gender.





I don't understand @bolded .How is the child theirs? thought man is said to own a child cuz the woman is a stranger?.
THEY ALL DESERVE WHAT THEY ARE GOING THROUGH.
I LOVE IT WHENEVER PEOPLE ARE GETTING PUNISHED FOR THE SENSELESS IMMORAL ACTIONS.

FORNICATION IS A BIG SIN AND DESERVES THOROUGH PUNISHMENTS
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by occfx: 7:52am On Dec 03, 2023
Brokendad:


I have already. I'm just afraid right now if the girl will make it out of the hospital alive. I really do wish she does.

That would be there business but prepare for billings. They will bill you badly due to fake complications from the pregy so, better keep all your evidences in tact and prepare for them. Fear damaged women, they will put you through hell.
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by maasoap(m): 7:54am On Dec 03, 2023
Brokendad:


The girl just called me. They have been injecting drugs on her but the baby isn't coming out.

She keeps having cramps. She said the doctor told the mother that something isn't opening. I don't know what that is.

But this girl runs a risk of having complicated abortion.

Right now, the baby has been damaged with all the injections, so keeping the baby is no longer an option.

The girl is Rhesus 'D' Negative. I am positive, meaning that our blood don't match. I hope the baby's blood don't mix with hers while they are doing all these. I just pity the girl because the mother will destroy her future for her.

And if that happens, and she still manages to have her womb, ovaries and f. tube intact, she runs the risk of constant miscarriages in future unless she has access to proper medical care.
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by Mrbenny001: 7:54am On Dec 03, 2023
jaxxy:


it is against Christian belief so its wrong since she's a Christian. so go and look for a non Christian to practice premarital sex with ok.

Also if bandits rape sm1 tell me they won't do abortion if she's 2months pregnant after she's released.

Lastly there are many countries where abortion is legal.
So what is the punishment for pregnancy before marriage in christian believes..what is punishment for abortion in christian believes...na oyinbo culture dry your head no be xtianity
Re: My Girlfriend's Mother Just Aborted Our Four Months Old Pregnancy (pictures) by frozen70(f): 8:02am On Dec 03, 2023
Brokendad:
I got into a relationship with a 22 year old girl who's turning 23 by January.

Along the line, she got pregnant. We kept the pregnancy away from her people until after four months.

I have already made a visit to her family to register my interest in marrying the girl and have asked for date for introduction and traditional marriage.

But when she told the mother that she's pregnant, the first question the mother asked her is if she had told me.

When she said yes, the mother was shouting at her that why did she tell me. The mother didn't know that I was with the daughter when she made that call.

Few days after, the mother asked her to return home. A day before the girl left, I have already registered her for antenatal. But I remember when I was paying for the antenatal, the girl asked me not to waste my money.

I didn't know that she has already agreed with the mother to kill and remove a four months old pregnancy.

Immediately the mother learnt that she was pregnant, she asked her to cut all communications with me or she will lay a curse on her.

So, every other communication we were having, the mum didn't know about it.

She left Lagos on Wednesday and today, the mother called me that the baby in her daughter's womb is dead due to stress that the girl was going through while in Lagos. That no one was attending to her, bla bla bla. Not knowing that I have been taking the girl to the hospital all along. She said that they are waiting for a doctor to evacuate the baby.

I feel so terrible right now. This girl is the first daughter and the first to have anything to do with marriage and child bearing. The mother has the gut to kill the first unborn child that was coming into their family.

The mother didn't know that I have all the evidence with me. That I have the test results and the scan results. The baby was doing very well as at the scan we did a day before she left.

I told her that I am willing to take responsibility for her and the child. I am capable. I am willing to marry her. Why then does the mother still go ahead to terminate a 4 months old pregnancy?

The mother attends mountain of fire church. So, I don't know if it's the shame of what people will say about a supposedly murderous Christian home.

I told her that she can remain in Lagos until she delivers if she doesn't want anyone to know that she took in but no, the mother wants to soil her hands in blood.

From my chat with the girl, she's preparing to undergo the abortion. So, it's like the mum called me ahead to inform me that they are about to take the child off her womb. Somebody that a baby died in her womb wouldn't be strong enough to be replying me WhatsApp messages.

I am tempted to take a legal action

No matter how angry or pained you are
Her family has decided what they want from their daughter

Though is quite painful but then for the fact that they dint want her to carry that pregnancy, you can't do anything

The best way for you to go about it if you really want her is to go to her family and ask for her hand in marriage and do all that is necessary to marry her

Then she will be yours with less interference from the family

If you pregnant her again, they will arbort it again and again

So let's save life

But if the mother doesn't want you at all at all

Just forget about that relationship and move on

Because am yet to reason why she arborted that pregnancy

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