chudez0147:
Atimes I wonder what's wrong with some of you guys. Chopping kpekus has now turn to one big achievement . Y'all f*cking annoying

Sincerely.... it's annoying...
Young men bragging about nonsense
U used the lady....she also used u too...that simple

YourGFsnatcher:

Wowwww!!! This is powerful. Thanx

This is true for 80% of female.

PS; never ask them (females) if this true or not, most will never admit. Even the ones doing it.

But it follows Pareto Principles and Juggernaut Law.

woginid967:


Once you enter a female.... The door to enter again will never ever be totally closed for you. Married or not. You have spare key

Girls from your tribe right .

[quote author=Powersurge post=1274715

This is true for 80% of female.

PS; never ask them (females) if this true or not, most will never admit. Even the ones doing it.

But it follows Pareto Principles and Juggernaut Law. [/quote]
Ladies don't always like admitting the truth.
Will check.those laws

I don't reconnect with exes, l don't reopen a closed relationship, once it's over it's permanently over

I thought I was the only one who noticed that crap she wrote.

When a highly unintelligent person tells a lie, the lie is usually so dumb

MykellOni:



You can't even remember his name or what he looks like and you still swear and curse him every night...
Does that add up?
Does it seem like you've got over him abi I should mind my business??
If you ladies wantu to lie, biko learn to lie intelligently....
Tbh you're the perfect definition of what the OP is talking about.

Okafor's law states that "Ones a Congo have been shined ones (c1), It can always be shined again (c ♾️), provided it was shined properly (P) the previous times. (emphasis on properly)".

Shikena:
You should be learning about the financial market, passive income, professional skills and other useful things in life that will be relevant to you and your family at any age.

well said.

The only reason you moved on and acted that way was due to the fact that he was already married as you lastly mentioned. Aside hurting your feelings u knew there was no future for Una two again nai make u fit hold body. An ex that left and came back upgraded would get a second hit no matter how u hide the thing.

Jewessgratitud3:
Why not?

My ex still came around after we broke up. 4 years after we broke up, he started calling and disturbing me that he wants to see me. He went as far as saying if I see him now I'll love him that he's now looking more fresh. I kept posting him until one day I said he can come.

When he came, I was just looking at him like every other guy.. the love was no longer there. The feeling all gone. He thought it was before that I'll jump on him . Even me I was shocked at myself. He came and said babe hug me now.. I just hugged him half way and he was like.. J you have changed o.

We were just gisting normally. I wasnt moved to play with him like we used to do, even when he tried coming close I pushed him away because the whole thing now felt strange.

When it was time for him to leave, we set out and he said wow wow.. J you have really changed. I can't believe you sat by yourself all through my stay. He said he can't believe I have truly moved on. Truly that was the day I believed I have moved on because before haa.. na inside him body I go perch till he goes. As in.. I'm always wrapped in his arms or I wrap him with my legs in a sitting position o. Before you people start thinking another thing. We were that close but the trust was not there.

The next time he called to see me again, I said abeg Siddon for your house. Married man. I no fit.

YourGFsnatcher:
meaning they can't say no. Most of them are in a relationship. I was firing one n her real bf called. She picked n still told him she loves him while I was onto her

What would have happened if your real girlfriend had called? Or are you trying to tell us you dont have a girlfriend?

You are assuming you are the one using your exs..has it occured to you that it could be vice-versa , that they using you?

At the end of the day, you will both expend energy, have fun...but only you will pay.

Who do you think have the upper hand in that equation?

MykellOni:



You can't even remember his name or what he looks like and you still swear and curse him every night...
Does that add up?
Does it seem like you've got over him abi I should mind my business??
If you ladies wantu to lie, biko learn to lie intelligently....
Tbh you're the perfect definition of what the OP is talking about.

No be lie

YourGFsnatcher:
Dear Nairaland girls,

I have been wondering If it is Truly possible for a girl to get over her ex especially when she has the chance to meet him again. I know when you don't see it will seen like it's all over.

Why I am asking is ALL my exes, anytime I'm around where they are, no matter how bitter they were about the break up always don't hesitate to meet again when I ask them to.

I have not had any resistance from any of my exes to meet again even those we haven't spoken for years due to distance or somthing.

And yes, we do " have fun" anytime we meet even when they are in a new relationship.

That really makes me scared because I feel like the girls I'm dating are also unable to resist a request from their exes to meet even when they tell me how much they won't go back, but it's very difficult to believe especially when there's an opportunity to see again.

So ladies, can you truly get over your ex even when you have the opportunity to meet again?

Ladies are more shrewd in relationships. They get over you sharp sharp and monkey branch to the next guy.
Na men dey emotional about all those things. If she needs to go, na go she dey.
She gets over you like person dey jump gutter go.

They just don't like it when you are the one dumping them first.

Woman are more transactional in relationships. They come for a specific thing she can get and xoom she is out when the right time cones

YourGFsnatcher:

Off point

I swear

Do they even love?

highvaluewoman:


Yes.

For me, out of sight is out of mind. Especially if we do not keep in touch for more than 3 months, your thoughts eventually evaporate from my mind. I quickly forget people and don't even miss people (LOL). So, no one is even that special to me. Not even my loved ones. Maybe, my kids though.

Op said, if he mistakenly be around with them, not at distance.

Can u say, if by error you meet your ex where ur current man, can never, ever see you. If ur ex call you, won't you attend to him? Is it all ur exes you can deny to see you?

Daxray07:
The only reason you moved on and acted that way was due to the fact that he was already married as you lastly mentioned. Aside hurting your feelings u knew there was no future for Una two again nai make u fit hold body. An ex that left and came back upgraded would get a second hit no matter how u hide the thing.

For her to even come out to meet him first time, is a green light that she would eventually fall, if the guy screwed further, they would back to their vomits.

woginid967:


Once you enter a female.... The door to enter again will never ever be totally closed for you. Married or not. You have spare key

You are a real nigga….you’ve said it all.

ukaface:
Na girl wey no wan forget her ex na
Why will I want to accommodate the thoughts of my ex in my brain, I can’t even remember his name or what he looks like

Na every night I Dey curse and swear for am

Kikikikiki.....the guy do u strong ting...sorry dear.
But if na well bred paddy him be, na to whine u,beg u(even upon the shit wey u go curse am)....still beg u,u meet am up....him beg u...give u red wine with chocolates...whine & beg u sumol..the wine go enta ur head sumol-sumol.....u go begin cry(na wetin broken chics dey do wen brew begin touch dia brain 🤣
Him go hug u dey press ur breast sumol-sumol........the rest na history, u sef know....him go kollect...it works and will continue to work! 🤗

saphiere:
Seun another nonsense to rubbish women.

You ask yourself if the post is truth or not? If it's true nothing stops you to admit and use the opportunity to warn ur fellow women, to me, that's how to behave rationally and not to always surport own gender, even if what they say is obvious. I am a man, yet I criticized my fellow guys if the post is obvious about men.


Meanwhile, what OP said is nothing but absolute truth, it's happening not because how God created woman ( tender heart/weaker vessel)

This is why girls should limit guys they sleep with, because it may hurt them in future marriage. More reasons marriage are frigile THISDAY.

TrainPark:


Ladies are more shrewd in relationships. They get over you sharp sharp and monkey branch to the next guy.
Na men dey emotional about all those things. If she needs to go, na go she dey.
She gets over you like person dey jump gutter go.

They just don't like it when you are the one dumping them first.

Woman are more transactional in relationships. They come for a specific thing she can get and xoom she is out when the right time cones

It is neither here nor there in relationships.
I don't agree that men are more emotional. You must be talking about Simps. lol
Some men start planning how to dump a girl the very first day he meets her.
I know I do.
Call it a habit that I transferred from buying material things.
When I buy household property, I start planning how to get rid of it the very first day I bring it home.
One time I was shopping for a couch and, while the salesman was busy trying to convince me that one couch there was the best, I was busy asking him whether the store assist in getting rid of it when I don't want it anyone. The man was confused and puzzled.
Same mindset followed me to women back when I was still playing.
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To the OP's point: maybe that is partly why I find myself making special efforts to keep my married ex's away.
I deliberately maintain "a strategic distance" from them, just to ensure that nothing happens.

Whaaat?.

You mean - once de be, always de be 😁?

JK.

It's mostly true, especially if you had the upper hand and did the dumping.

woginid967:


Once you enter a female.... The door to enter again will never ever be totally closed for you. Married or not. You have spare key

And you think that LADIES will respond to this your Topic...You are on your own.....

ukaface:
Na girl wey no wan forget her ex na
Why will I want to accommodate the thoughts of my ex in my brain, I can’t even remember his name or what he looks like

Na every night I Dey curse and swear for am

he dumped you

If I want my ex now now just call her tell her the place I am and watch her come spend a night with me but I can't just do that because I just don't want to complicate my life

woginid967:


Once you enter a female.... The door to enter again will never ever be totally closed for you. Married or not. You have spare key

Even Married women ? Says who....Speak for people you know.

Don't generalize nonsense pls 🙄.
What a deceptive statement!

YourGFsnatcher:

One love, may we fvck more

and more diseases

ukaface:
Na girl wey no wan forget her ex na
Why will I want to accommodate the thoughts of my ex in my brain, I can’t even remember his name or what he looks like

Na every night I Dey curse and swear for am

Lmao,
And yet claim you are over him already

Daxray07:
The only reason you moved on and acted that way was due to the fact that he was already married as you lastly mentioned. Aside hurting your feelings u knew there was no future for Una two again nai make u fit hold body. An ex that left and came back upgraded would get a second hit no matter how u hide the thing.

Nope. He wasn't even married the first time he came but I learnt he already impregnated someone but didn't want to marry her. He still talked about marriage that day he came but I was just bluffing him because the feelings no dey there again. It was after he left , a year later he married her a d started calling me again and I told him to rest. .

It shocked me too. I didn't believe I could move on from him. It took me 4yrs though.

So you don't recall the name and face of the person you curse and swear every night?
How pathetic, you still have it in your head my dearest friend.
You can't lie, we catch you, 😂 😂.

ukaface:
Na girl wey no wan forget her ex na
Why will I want to accommodate the thoughts of my ex in my brain, I can’t even remember his name or what he looks like

Na every night I Dey curse and swear for am

Your moniker gave you out. I think you're a pervert.

GO0DHardDick:


Achievement? Grow up Dude, I was only responding to the post! Who said it was an achievement? Why diverting from the subject of discussion? Na the post we dey respond to, no one was bragging about this bro

chudez0147:
Your moniker gave you out. I think you're a pervert.

Are you mistaking me for your father who is obviously a pervert?

Jewessgratitud3:
Why not?

My ex still came around after we broke up. 4 years after we broke up, he started calling and disturbing me that he wants to see me. He went as far as saying if I see him now I'll love him that he's now looking more fresh. I kept posting him until one day I said he can come.

When he came, I was just looking at him like every other guy.. the love was no longer there. The feeling all gone. He thought it was before that I'll jump on him . Even me I was shocked at myself. He came and said babe hug me now.. I just hugged him half way and he was like.. J you have changed o.

We were just gisting normally. I wasnt moved to play with him like we used to do, even when he tried coming close I pushed him away because the whole thing now felt strange.

When it was time for him to leave, we set out and he said wow wow.. J you have really changed. I can't believe you sat by yourself all through my stay. He said he can't believe I have truly moved on. Truly that was the day I believed I have moved on because before haa.. na inside him body I go perch till he goes. As in.. I'm always wrapped in his arms or I wrap him with my legs in a sitting position o. Before you people start thinking another thing. We were that close but the trust was not there.

The next time he called to see me again, I said abeg Siddon for your house. Married man. I no fit.

This says it all, because he is married and you know he can't marry you again that's why the chemistry was not there. If he is not married as at When he came visiting, you guys will still knack thinking he will take you back and probably settle down. For you to even allow him him to come visit you after 4 years of breakup, you still love him, you are only handicapped because he is married now and I strongly believe you guys will soon knack.