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Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by porthouse7(f): 12:29pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense:why marry in the first place, marriage is overrated, just Bleep around and enjoy ur life. Luckily one of the girls will carry belle for you |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by CalabarPikin: 12:31pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
I don try to settle matter like this come turn the bad person... Baba do wetin dey ur mind 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by tooth4tooth: 12:31pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
What if she had lied to you that nothing happened? You will still believe her. Shes a nice girl for been truthful and sincere and she loves you. Just warn her never to try such again. Forgive her ! |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Anonymous0001: 12:32pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Continue if you truly love her .. getting married to virgin doesn’t guarantee happy home. But do your background check and make sure her mother is still with her father 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Watinhapen(m): 12:33pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Most ladies have sexual relationships during NYSC. It takes a very disciplined lady to complete her NYSC without having sex. If you think she’s sincerely sorry and won’t do it again you can forgive her but if you are the type that can’t forgive a girl who has cheated on you, I will advice you to leave her and move on. Personally I don’t forgive cheating. That’s me. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Blackscorpion1j: 12:35pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Truth is...MEN don't forgive Cheating...Know this...Know PEACE... 3 Likes |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Neddyogu(m): 12:35pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Why do u ask questions to which you already know the answers? |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by binswoli: 12:36pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Just passing, am tired of this relationship bullsh*ts. Remember brother, Okafor's Law is real and can be applied at any time or day, good luck with your decision. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Alexlalax1(m): 12:36pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
I don't always understand why people likes taking their private affairs to court of public opinion where every dick, tom and harry will be advicing you. Even people that haven't advised themselves. Oga, my question is...are you intending to marry a virgin. If not why are so anxious about her camp sexual life when you've not put a ring on that finger. Have the girl not be fucking before you know her. Since you needed advice here, send me her no let me talk sense into her!!! |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by BrighterSyde: 12:37pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Jeon: Can you fuvk around the way a man can without having feelings for the men? If no then stop deceiving yourself that you can see sex the way men see it too. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by wolement: 12:37pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
She had sex in NYSC camp. Any girl that have s*x in camp is a no go area for me. Its shows total lack of self control. Three weeks? If I were in your shoes I will move on. If you accept her she will lose respect for you and will probably see you has simp. Baba go and look for amerix on twitter or telegram to build your frame. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Geovanni412(m): 12:37pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense: It's your choice You can forgive her or leave her alone In the Bible, God told Hosea to marry a prostitute and he complied Think about it, pray on it and make a decision. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Sportsolutions2(m): 12:38pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense: Did You Have Any Other Sexual Intercourse With Any Other Lady While She Was Away For NYSC ? If You Can Respond To This Question in Truth, Then We Can Proceed To Giving You The Best Response For Your Situation |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Timetravel88: 12:38pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Jeon: Your brain is stuffed with cow dung. Are men and women equal? Who gives access to sex, men or women? A woman who gives it up easily is cheap and not respected while a man who gets it easily is the envy of most men. You want women to be polygamous like men but only want men to be responsible for security and providing for the family. I repeat your brain is stuffed with cow dung. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by MASTAkiLLAh(m): 12:40pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
If she had said something else and you found out, you would have called her a liar. We all know how school and nysc is, we don't know your own sexcapades or what you intended to find out by those questions. Allow that girl breathe, if you love her and she reciprocates then wife her |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Daughterboard(m): 12:40pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
"Don't ask, don't tell". Antidote to marital headache. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Sportsolutions2(m): 12:40pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
wolement: Obviously, She Had Wild Sex After Camp Too (Most Likely). She's Just Cajoling Him To Think That She Had Sex Over 12 Months Ago During Camp. If He is Wise; He Should Move On. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by weslay: 12:41pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Oga OP, move on... This one don fail. Imagine the lame excuse. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by justmondris: 12:42pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense:It's good thing she told you the truth but would she have told you if you did not ask or pressured her? Also, she has not learned from her mistake since she is trying to put the blame on u instead of being remorse for her act. This is a sign that she will do it over and over again. Well start by taking her to the hospital for pregnancy and HIV test. Lastly take the issue to God in prayers and make ur decision. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Hypotenuse: 12:42pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Why dint you call her, for the whole service year when u know that women love attention. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by tonymyke4life(m): 12:42pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Jeon: Lol. In as much I do not support guys cheating. Women bears the consequences more. For example, women suffers the consequences more like getting pregnant, falling breasts, widening vagina, etc. All these doesn't affect guys. The best is for d woman to keep herself for her man. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by sniperr007(m): 12:43pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Jeon: Better put it this way, why can't women be ashawo and not be judged cos some men lack selfcontrol. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Chibuzoripob: 12:43pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
so cause u didn't 📞 her due to some circumstances, she TRULY SERVE=DISTRIBUTED her pushy to willing DICKSON ? Imagine if u marry her and u have challenge, (may you NOT see CASE.Nah so she go dey give POLICE,JUDGE, LASTMAS,EFCC,KAI her pusI FREELY .She's NOT A WIFE material. LEAVE HER B4 GOD LEAVE U 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by IamMobisola(f): 12:43pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Carcholce:You spoke my mind. It's draining at this point |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Pharovo(m): 12:44pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
I mount with you Oniovo. Very unhealthy for the mind. Carcholce: |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by BloomingDale(f): 12:44pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Carcholce: Are you okay? The foolish boy ghosted her? |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Treasure17(m): 12:45pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
If you can't leave with her cheating on you, let her go. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by victorazy(m): 12:46pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Jeon: So, why is she sorry then if woman is also created for be polygamous in nature? |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by yahoodetector: 12:46pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense: Even though I am a strong redpiller and anti-feminist...but Swear say you no knack another babe while she dey do her NYSC |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Karleb(m): 12:47pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Anyone that has sex in NYSC camp is not responsible. 6 Likes |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by jayAjoku(m): 12:47pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense:if it’s only a sexual relationship and nothing more than that then go ahead and marry bro as long she is doing everything she needs to do for you I don’t see how this should be an issue abi you think say woman body na firewood ? As long as you are not there she has to take care of herself sexually |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by albert2512: 12:48pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense: The next person u might be dating might be worse and she will never mention it to you. Stick to her but do this: Make a big deal out of the issue to see 1. how she reacts and 2. to let her know that such will never be tolerated. If after you made a big deal out of it and she felt calm and undisturbed, run n leave the relation as it is a clear indication that she doesn't value and she is still seeing someone else n possibly the NYSC guy. 1 Like |
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