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Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Walz001: 2:57pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense: Oga i guess you really want to hear the truth right Get your lamp and oil it .... its goj g to be hard or dad for you to have a virgin at home after marriage you hear she has intercourse outside My opinion is that if you both understand each other try to let go off so many things in marriage and look into your future Pray about her Study her character if you can And be wiser than her in all Development Then you have a wife ... My brother no advice can help you tham your own advice too 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by WhereMyLoud: 2:57pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Carcholce:320th like, 32nd share. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Ed12(m): 2:58pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Carry on if you know that you can live forever with the fact that she has confessed to cheating on you.. Any thought otherwise, abort.. But my advise to that lady in question is that, if she doesn't want live her marital life miserably, she should count her losses and move on to the next man.. she ge banza, she go see from this poster hand |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by perdollar(m): 3:02pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Person go camp make himshe no knack? If you no marry her another person maybe better than you self fit marry jer |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by CalmElder(m): 3:02pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Carcholce: As in ehn....it wasn't until I started noticing the change in hitherto rational and objective people on this forum that I realized what posts such as this are doing to people's minds. They are making men and women bitter and turning them against each other. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by warrifinest1985: 3:04pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
I've been on this earth 4 decades now and this is the first any has admitted to her man about her sexual relationship with another without her man finding any evidence or caught her red handed. Because even if you catch warri girl red handed even with the prick inside their private part them go still deny. Your girl is a good woman, she likes you, hold her with both hands because one thing i like about her is her sincererity. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by CJStarz: 3:05pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
The trust is broken. You can never trust her again even when she's innocent. Don't put the two of U into future emotional trauma. Don't go ahead with the marriage. Next time,DO NOT ASK CERTAIN QUESTIONS. IGNORANCE IS BLISS. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by izubext007: 3:09pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
She had sex in the camp for just 21 days camping....well it's normal bro go ahead and marry her. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by yazzman(m): 3:12pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Marriage no be by force... |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Gentlesoul2021(m): 3:12pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense: I had a fall out with a girl just because she was pinning fatherly duty on me. Buy me this, buy me that... other guy dey take care of their girlfriend.. I referred her back to her father. When she was preparing for her nysc, I willingly want to give out the materials I didn't use during my nysc but refused I give money, I was like why buy these things when I have it and didn't even use it cos I bought excess during preparation for my service plus some kits nysc gave to us.... She left for nysc without speaking to me, infact we didn't communicate for a year. I'd reach out on some occasion and I was met with no response at all. Nysc dey shack her now... I looked front... Barely a month to her pop, I saw her text lol, and we reconnected so I flow along. She came back home, and I wine her, about her nysc service year and she told me she was with a guy who wouldn't even spend a kobo on her that she even planned a birthday party for him ND bought him things and during her own, the guy didn't even send an sms talkless of gifting her... I laughed Then, I scope her again by asking if she must av narrate our issues to the guy ND she said yes that, what I did and said to her really hurt her to tears especially the mention of her father I do yell at her. I had to let her know that, with the few experience she had, it rain every where, u were seeing me as a wicked person yet I was stretching my hands as I can afford wic was not enough for u.... Well after collecting few nacks I looked away.. @OP don't be a sissy, walk away if u want ur peace of mind. Imagine small fall out, girls go don jump onto another preek... Don't let anyone use u as an alternative option. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Deicide: 3:19pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Fake story |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Chizy12345: 3:22pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
you're wicked. you want to kill her for complete one year and you want her to have sex. that means you suppose to be visiting her every month |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Fearcom(m): 3:28pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense: Don't marry her. Why? She's a W.HORE Imagine the excuse. I saw so many responses. Many sic.k and damage.d people online. She did what so many ladies (SINGLE AND MARRIED who go for youth service do. AND SHE DID IT BECAUSE SHE WANTED TO. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by ExudeLoveToAll: 3:28pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Jeon: Equality in cheating but no equality in financial responsibility women will always be women, use your critical thinking skills.. Don't cherry pick equality, there should be equality all through |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by ExudeLoveToAll: 3:36pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Chioma1989: Sex doesn't just happen, it starts from the initiation stage down to the propagation and then the termination stage. It only someone who lacks self control with issues of sex that will say it just happens and everyone looks moves. If you can't respect your boyfriend during relationship you can't do that in marriage. Marriage doesn't change people, they remain the same but the difference is that it's termed a long term relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by luminouz(m): 3:39pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense: You'd be a mumu to believe the relationship ended for camp. She was voraciously chopped throughout the NYSC year. Any woman who confesses cheating MUST NEVER BE FORGIVEN. Or she go give you a bastard!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by luminouz(m): 3:40pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:SIMP!!! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Ezenzu: 3:41pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense: |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by ExudeLoveToAll: 3:41pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: He should not have the African man mentality? Which mentality should he have then , Caucasian? There is nothing like equality in cheating when there is no equality in financial responsibility know this and know peace. Those who have this mentality also found out that things don't pan out that way. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Mavinsoladele(m): 3:41pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Carcholce: ☺️✊ |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by luminouz(m): 3:42pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Romanoff:Sit down jor. Because he didn't call her for a while, she come cheat? Just 3 weeks camp oh. Kai, women never cease to amaze me. Olodho dey her blood and I can swear that she was chopped throughout service. OP must not continue biko. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by luminouz(m): 3:43pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Stevenbright:Now this is the comment I'm looking for. Nice take. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Chioma1989: 3:44pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
ExudeLoveToAll: Marriage changes lots of people o. Some departmental friends in school that had boy friends still did some away matches then . Some are now married and committed to their marriages. Marriage is far more different from all these nonsense relationships that are indeterminate. Reason women keeps their options open to avoid disappointment; same with men. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by ExudeLoveToAll: 3:49pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Sportsolutions2: There is nothing like equality in cheating, don't deceive yourself. When equality in cheating doesn't lead equality in financial responsibility, that's no equality. People like you wi learn a hard way. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by atiku4President(m): 3:49pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense:From the way you write, I think you have a big head and average in height |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by ExudeLoveToAll: 3:51pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Sportsolutions2: There is nothing like equality in cheating, don't deceive yourself. When equality in cheating doesn't lead equality in financial responsibility, that's no equality. People like you will learn. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by luminouz(m): 3:55pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
payaseriy: Kai...you are wicked!!! I'm already feeling sad for OP. Shey na person gf dem dig mercilessly like this? |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by DIntegrity: 3:55pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
You're not compelled to make any choice immediately! it's clear you're not comfortable with it at all. No need for explanation or digging deep, end it. Personally, the reason she gave is nonsense! I won't proceed any further with my intentions. Nevertheless, it's still your choice. You choose and live with. Don't choose what you won't be able to live with happily |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by luminouz(m): 3:56pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
iwaeda:She didn't enjoy the affair bawo? Una simps dey fall my hand. Have you ever seen any woman that confessed to enjoying her affair after being caught? |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Greattha: 3:57pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
2 things. OP, you would always remember this event. Some years down the line, when the realities of marriage hit, she may irritate you so much you would do something stupid... 2. Be prepared to continue this cat and mouse game after marriage....you have a slight argument and she slips and falls onto another man's D because she thinks you no longer love her. IMO, I don't think she ever valued you at all. It's better you take the tough decision now than later. You know what to do. letstalksense: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Gandrova: 3:58pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
She cheated on you because she never heard from you. And if she truly cares about you, she would have called and asked what happened and why haven't you called. Just mere assumptions that you were dating another person. Bro, Marriage is a serious commitment or union that shouldn't be toy with. You haven't gotten to your destination. Allow the hoe to move on pls. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Gandrova: 4:01pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Greattha:most of them think marriage is just mere dating. Each time he thinks about what she did, he will never be happy. She is a slut |
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