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Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Tozocalamity: 4:01pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
That ur girl is simply a loose girl. Leave her . Taht excuse of hers is simply not enough for someone for someone on a serious relationship. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by BadBradley: 4:02pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:this is the kind of confused men that end up fathering another man's children. Sex for women and men are different. I'm sorry but you seem like a child from a single mother. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Gandrova: 4:03pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Walz001:No amount of prayers can stop a prostitute from looking for big Gbola irrespective of the situation. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Gandrova: 4:08pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:I hope your mum didn't force another man's pregnancy on your dad with this your comments. Kindly asked your mum ! Itt seems your are not okay. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by RALPHOW(m): 4:09pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
A lady that meet a man in less than one month and had sex doesn't looked responsible. However, it maybe a mistake or be carried away with youthful exorbitant. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by UnfairLife7(m): 4:12pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
BadBradley:Take a research in all our correctional centre across the federation and see if those inmates are raised by single mothers Take further research within your community and check out those prostitutes, Yahoo Yahoo guys, street urchins, drugs addicts, armed-roberry and the likes and see if they're raised by single mothers Some of you men, your IQ is obviously below par. In your tiny brain you believe single mother children are badly raised and ended up useless? no wonder Africa is still backward and underdeveloped. Your mentality is worrisome. I wonder the kind of offsprings you will bring forth with your kind of reasoning so sad 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by BadBradley: 4:13pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:from your moniker you appear to be life-beaten |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by SAMBARRY: 4:14pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
jamesversion:I don't support promiscuity from any gender married or not but when you say you will embarrass her out of your house,lol are you referring to this new generation women? E be like say you don't know how vindictive liars they are.you think she too go keep quiet.the way she will fabricate one big lie you will be shocked.she fit say you dey fvck your own daughter or you be rap1st It's ok to break up with a woman if her ways no clean but embarrassing her means you will have to put up with drama because she go scandalize you, Even enter social media say wetin you no do and before you know it everyone will be looking at you as the demon.you think they're like our mothers and grandmothers that are forgiving in the face of oppression? You never jam bitter woman wey ready to destroy you from 10-0 and rub your name in the mud |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by HRHQueenPhil(f): 4:15pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense:u ask for a truth you can't handle...leave her .u never mature pls |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Greattha: 4:16pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
I've seen this play out over and again. OP won't understand the impact of her disloyalty now. The mere fact that he's here asking for advise says it all....he's pained and knows what to do but he needs someone else to validate his potential wrong decision... This wrong decision is usually for some of the following reasons: 1. Where will I start from? 2. After all I've invested, time and money 3. At my age 4. It was my fault. 5. It was a one time mistake, it won't happen again. 6. My ability to forgive her means I'm ready for marriage. ALL LIES YOU TELL YOURSELF to help you sleep at night till it doesn't work anymore. I hope OP does the right thing for the sake of his own sanity. NB: this will be my advice if the tables were turned. Gandrova: 2 Likes |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by UnfairLife7(m): 4:24pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
ExudeLoveToAll:fornication and adultery was kicked against by both gender |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by IamtheTruth1(m): 4:27pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense:In as much as I like her for being sincere, it is still a red flag. I seriously don’t know the advice you seek… if you want an open marriage, go ahead. If not save yourself the stress and move on. Don’t to nairaland 20yrs time saying 3 of your children are not yours man. Dating a loose woman never ends Well. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by UnfairLife7(m): 4:28pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
BadBradley:Your IQ is below par bro |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by BadBradley: 4:29pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:who takes the opinion of UnfairLife7 seriously? |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by BadBradley: 4:32pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:I need not go as far as prisons and police jail . you're a shinning example of imbecility and morbid foolishness. Single mothers have produced the worst children on the globe and you're an living proof. After all,you're UnfairLife7 |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Boldideas: 4:33pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Nicepoker: I just tire!!! |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Testimony1988(m): 4:35pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Since she opened up to you, then she loves you and want you to forgive her, please accept her back. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by jayworld15(m): 4:35pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense: Happy tears in advance. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by BadBradley: 4:37pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense:don't! You will regret it big time. Sex for men is different. She will do it again. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by REGINALD001(m): 4:43pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Carcholce: YOU HAVE SPOKEN WELL MY SON . |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by loswhite(m): 4:45pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense:You need a matured advice and you came to nairaland....kolo |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Jerryjessy: 4:45pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Men cheats but they don't need DNA test to verify the originality of the father or mother of the child. But women cheats and DNA test is necessary to confirm the originality of the father of the child. When women cheats please don't overlook the power of DNA test else you will nurture somebody else child. Don't forget to choose wisdom ahead of understanding just as the way you will need to choose Joy over happiness. Over and out in peace ✌ |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Fulgur: 4:46pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Jeon: Na your taotao go bring smelling water last last. Fòol. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by delishpot: 4:46pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense: How come you two have discussed marriage yet she doesn't know your true feelings for her?Cos if she was sure as sure can be that you love her, she would panic at your silence and look forward to seeing you face to face to understand why the silence and not have time to bang another man within a few weeks of silence when she was in the camp. Camp is not more than 2 months na for Her to sleep with someone else. So I guess you are quite unserious with her hence she doesn't know where she stands with you or she just gave that excuse to get out of trouble. Secondly, if you were serious with her and you guys vibing as one unit, how come she didn't know about this your so called personal problem? To know that you are facing some challenges and maybe she will be the one checking up on you to know how you are faring. Rather you appear when it suits you and disappear when it suits you but expect her to be waiting with open arms anytime you re-appear in her life. Also I suspect that you cheat on her or are those I don't love any woman except my MoMA kind of guy and she knows it hence her thinking that she isn't anything special, you just could have found someone new and moved on. But she self, if your wahala is too much for her she should move on and find someone to be faithful to. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Raygipson1989: 4:47pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
If you marry her and travel for one month, she will still Bleep another man bfr you come back, that's a fact. Imagine how long it took u to woe her, bfr she finally accepted you, and how long you guys stayed bfr having sex. Then someone she just met in the camp, camp of 3weeks, just had sex with her. because u didn't communicate for sometime. Ahhhh it's a no for me for marriage. Those who are saying why can't women be polygamous, they should go and propose to their man and also pay their man's groom price, then they can be polygamous. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by boxypane(m): 4:49pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense:Na u dey find wetin no loss. By the way, did you not have sex all the one year she was gone? |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by MSN1(m): 4:50pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense:This is a personal and individual differences issue here, WHAT DO U WANT US TO TELL U NOW? |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by gift2xl: 4:50pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
U got what you asked for. Dude no one is perfect, if she's willing to change and not return back, that's fine. But how would you know that's the problem. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by KrisUc(m): 4:56pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Osunde do wetin dey your mind, no matter what we tell you here, it's your mind that you'd still follow cos you're the one to determine weda u can handle it or not. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Dancebreaker: 4:59pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense Sorry to hear that but I commend the woman's honesty. Maybe she wants to start afresh with you. However, it's always better to allow a lady come back from NYSC before talking about marriage. E get why. Anyhow, a lady you already promised marriage, instead of asking after you when you didn't call, she followed another guy in camp. No concern or loyalty. Can you leave the type of woman in 9ja and go abroad and study for 6 months or a year? Can you with peace of mind leave her in Lagos (if she works there) while you work in PH or Abuja? Be realistic. Dig deeper, investigate her. You need to know her much better. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by creepsyme(f): 5:05pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense:Why asked her if you know you didn't have the psychological and mental stamina to take it? |
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