Who is actually the slave? The man that wakes up 5am to go and hustle the money to take care of his wife and children till 5pm OR the wife who is not working that wakes up by 5am to cook the food her husband will eat in the morning and afternoon in just 1-2 hours?

A woman decided to take her responsibilities seriously because she saw an opportunity another woman might exploit and decided to close the gap by doing the needful and you feminists are so pained and tagged it as slavery.

I think what feminists want is a husband that loves unconditionally and also submissive to their instructions. Selfishness is the root of this movement called feminism.

No matter how they try, a husband will always be the head over the wife. Whoever is not pleased with this orientation should remain single.

Modified:
Doesn't the wife eat from the food that she cooks or it's just the husband? Wasn't she cooking her own meals before she married him? What's special about this cooking that it's causing an uproar?

kelvinakproko:
Who is actually the slave? The man that wakes up 5am to go and hustle the money to take care of his wife and children till 5pm OR the wife who is not working that wakes up by 5am to cook the food her husband will eat in the morning and afternoon in just 1-2 hours?

A woman decided to take her responsibilities seriously because she saw an opportunity another woman might exploit and decided to close the gap by doing the needful and you feminists are so pained and tagged it as slavery.

I think what feminists want is a husband that loves unconditionally and also submissive to their instructions. Selfishness is the root of this movement called feminism.

No matter how they try, a husband will always be the head over the wife. [/b]Whoever is not pleased with this orientation should remain single[b].

Exactly, what I said this morning.

E don reach 2024

That woman has been forced to have sense. The other woman for just collect her man do she doubled up. I commend her too because it shows she loves and cares about her husband. As a woman, it's very wise to block your ears from these feminists.. they are bitter and irresponsible

You get time to dey reason Feminist matter.

After dem don feminist there youthful age finish. Them no go allow ordinary Church goers or Crusade goers hear word during Sermon.

na so so "I receive it Lord" you go dey hear from there yeye kiss-a-thon mouth at any slightest opportunity, if the ministers says anything concerning marriage n good husbands.

Useless Okpo's and Evening Newspapers.

spencekat:
Exactly, what I said this morning.

I wonder how these ladies think. Maybe we really need to switch roles.

Why are you now wailing and crying on this thread?

Sorry sorry don’t cry! Don’t cry!

kelvinakproko:
Who is actually the slave? The man that wakes up 5am to go and hustle the money to take care of his wife and children till 5pm OR the wife who is not working that wakes up by 5am to cook the food her husband will eat in the morning and afternoon in just 1-2 hours?

A woman decided to take her responsibilities seriously because she saw an opportunity another woman might exploit and decided to close the gap by doing the needful and you feminists are so pained and tagged it as slavery.

I think what feminists want is a husband that loves unconditionally and also submissive to their instructions. Selfishness is the root of this movement called feminism.

No matter how they try, a husband will always be the head over the wife. Whoever is not pleased with this orientation should remain single.

Bros, you don't get it. The whole idea of "feminism" on nairaland by most female monickers is just crazy. My own mum worked from 5AM to 9PM (she closes at work by 4 and resume at her shop that time). But she didn't say because she was a REAL feminist, she won't cook for us(my p-man inclusive) or bath us. My dad only cooked and bathed us as children may be once or twice(I can only remember 1 time)

lordnkem000:
That woman has been forced to have sense. The other woman for just collect her man do she doubled up. I commend her too because it shows she loves and cares about her husband. As a woman, it's very wise to block your ears from these feminists.. they are bitter and irresponsible

I used to even think it was just a movement against domestic violence and discrimination against women. I never knew it's a campaign to strip men of their masculinity and personal authority.

It's the world we now live in

Jennyclay:
Why are you now wailing and crying on this thread?

Sorry sorry don’t cry! Don’t cry!

The message was well delivered.
Go get some pain relief.
Ensure you do so on time.

There are many girls that are willing to be a subject and submissive . Men won't see or cry over that will , but will choose to cry over the girls that have nothing to do with Men.


Very funny.

The 19th century feminism that sprang up in Europe during the Modernism, was basically fighting for fair treatment of the women gender, like voting, driving a car, working, leading an organization.

However, the modern interpretation of feminism has become so quack and deficient, thanks to the unproductive, lack of foresight and illogical freedom and individualism campaigners.

Feminism, especially in Africa, particularly in Nigeria, won't survive. A bittered, divorce, failed feminist want her estranged husband to pay for children School fee, or spousal support.

How can people like Tonto Dike be an ideal feminist? You can't be hungry or surviving on guys and be a practical feminist.

There are no feminists. You people take people looking for Elon Musk's money seriously

Demigod22:
The 19th century feminism that sprang up in Europe during the Modernism, was basically fighting for fair treatment of the women gender, like voting, driving a car, working, leading an organization.

However, the modern interpretation of feminism has become so quack and deficient, thanks to the unproductive, lack of foresight and illogical freedom and individualism campaigners.

Feminism, especially in Africa, particularly in Nigeria, won't survive. A bittered, divorce, failed feminist want her estranged husband to pay for children School fee, or spousal support.

How can people like Tonto Dike be an ideal feminist? You can't be hungry or surviving on guys and be a practical feminist.

You just hit the nail on the head.
Embittered ladies are at the forefront of this movement in Nigeria

kelvinakproko:


I used to even think it was just a movement against domestic violence and discrimination against women. I never knew it's a campaign to strip men of their masculinity and personal authority.

Very baseless and clueless movement.
God forbid

lordnkem000:

Very baseless and clueless movement.
God forbid

No oooo
Feminism wasn't like this in the past ooo, It's the women of this generation that formed this nonsense... This is NOT what their foremothers fought for.....
It's my body, I can use it how I want
You and your man must share the chores 50/50 and the some of the most ridiculous thing ever heard of

Go and take your place in politics like men, Iroooo, it's dick they want to be measuring with men!!!!

drimzsmoke:



No oooo
Feminism wasn't like this in the past ooo, It's the women of this generation that formed this nonsense... This is what their foremothers fought for.....
It's my body, I can use it how I want
You and your man must share the chores 50/50 and the some of the most ridiculous thing ever had of

Go and take your place in politics like men, Iroooo, it's dick they want to be measuring with men!!!!

You are right I swear, very shameful.
I just hope others change and learn to take care of their homes

I am here to tell you that if your wife or girlfriend is wearing waist beads or waist chain your destiny is in danger.

Jennyclay:
Why are you now wailing and crying on this thread?

Sorry sorry don’t cry! Don’t cry!

Says a daily subscription.

If feminists didn’t drag her she wouldn’t have received all that money. Men gave her money to encourage her submissiveness and to pepper feminists. So the feminists one way or the other uplifted the woman.

Feminist or not


She must bow down to suck preek if not go back to papa house

Schoolshooter:
Feminist or not


She must bow down to suck preek if not go back to papa house

If both couples are working and they have no kids,then it makes no sense for a woman to wake up at 4am to cook.

If they have kids,most woman do it,sometimes they cook for the week and save it in the freezer.

The reality is that most men eat at eateries and bukkas during brake.

I do say that any woman who has issue with submission does not have business with marriage. You can be single and be successful.

kelvinakproko:


I used to even think it was just a movement against domestic violence and discrimination against women. I never knew it's a campaign to strip men of their masculinity and personal authority.

Its a quest for equality. Even the Bible says the man is the head of the home. They wan turn am upside down. Confused people

.

drimzsmoke:


Bros, you don't get it. The whole idea of "feminism" on nairaland by most female monickers is just crazy. My own mum worked from 5AM to 9PM (she closes at work by 4 and resume at her shop that time). But she didn't say because she was a REAL feminist, she won't cook for us(my p-man inclusive) or bath us. My dad only cooked and bathed us as children may be once or twice(I can only remember 1 time)

Have you asked her how she really felt about this? And whether this is what she wants for her kids. You are an adult now, you should talk to your parents like friends.
Was your father a deadbeat? Seems like he did not breadwin and did no work in the house. What was he good for then?

chiiraq802:
You get time to dey reason Feminist matter.

After dem don feminist there youthful age finish. Them no go allow ordinary Church goers or Crusade goers hear word during Sermon.

na so so "I receive it Lord" you go dey hear from there yeye kiss-a-thon mouth at any slightest opportunity, if the ministers says anything concerning marriage n good husbands.

Useless Okpo's and Evening Newspapers.

Lol
Cargoes wey don run enough suck-a-thon many of the divorcee go carry their envious, bitter and dirty character enter feminism.

Nigerian type of feminism is dangerous to everyone including young naive women

Imagine that woman strong her nyash and say she can’t cook for her own husband and term it slavery because she listened to some embittered single women??

Some time ago a confused young girl came out and claimed she can no longer cook for her brothers and dad, that she’s not slave to them, twitter feminists applauded her and cheered her on, her own father and brothers oo😂😂
But when there I need for someone to be helped with house rent, hospital bills, school fees, etc on twitter na men dey chest am pass you would hardly see feminists championing such cause,… i even heard they embezzled endsars funds

The only thing feminism offer to women is toxicity and self destruct, 90 percent of the contributions for Debbie came from supposed misogynists the rest came from corporate entities, while feminists logged out of twitter, and other girls who are not so corrupted by that cancer already have brain reset

If you are a young girl and you are foolishly following these twitter bitter women to hate men, you are in your own, twitter is a very big place, people are made billionaires per night, and most times na men dey responsible for am so be very careful of you support, and promote in case the day you need help your stupiiid wokeness no go loose guard you

Linda ikeji did worse than most of these current feminists, when she Dey today… she don retire as baby mama

motymop:
If both couples are working and they have no kids,then it makes no sense for a woman to wake up at 4am to cook.

If they have kids,most woman do it,sometimes they cook for the week and save it in the freezer.

The reality is that most men eat at eateries and bukkas during brake.

if she was singke and she works won’t she still wake at that time to prepare her on food she will eat at work


Beside who are the most men that eat outside when you have a wife and made provision for food in the house, a smart woman know better to cook lots of food especially soups and stew to store in the freezer to make her wifely duty easier, Debbie had no freezer that was why she woke so early to prepare her husbands food, if he was working she would have still woken up to prepare that food cos she sef go carry go work from the same food so stop making excuses for what is wrong

What Debbie did was what our mama have been doin for many years without complain but wokeness wan wound these generation of women and wives

eazzzy1:
If feminists didn’t drag her she wouldn’t have received all that money. Men gave her money to encourage her submissiveness and to pepper feminists. So the feminists one way or the other uplifted the woman.

nobody wanted to pepper anybody, digging into her old tweets people saw she has always been humble and supportive as a wife, that was how she got that massive support

Abi you wan tell me say NNPC, indomie and other brands that gifted her items and juicy services wanted to pepper feminists too

One even dared the men to contribute five million for her but her eyes later peeled, she has been quite since two days now

She got the benefit of being a good girl and a wife, she didn’t do anything extra ordinary by waking early to cook for her husband even tho they were struggling couples. She did not nag her husband and disrespect him, she was so loving and supportive and she believe breakthrough was imminent for her and her husband. That was what the men rewarded her for nobody wanted to pepper any yeye feminists