Hdanny:

Hello bro

hey bro

emperor4love:
hey bro

How’s the hustle bro?
Make we align

Proverbs 19:7

Hdanny:

How’s the hustle bro?
Make we align

steady grinding bro,Dm

Someone that hasn't experience this will call u a liar, lol. Life is a lesson teacher

I used to think i had friends or colleagues. I resigned with over 12m saved but i was being debited on my accounts (250k, 200k). So before dem go tif my money finish, i transferred it to my baby mama pending when i resolve the account issue.

Before i could say jack, this woman has lost all my money. I had to sell my high end laptops and car sef.

Now the true color of everyone came out. Friends are the worse, the ones i bot fone for no de reach my house again. He comes every weekend cos we stay on d same street. Friends i de buy things for every weekend that i even dash money every and then stopped relating with me immediately. Hasn't called or chat.

The one wey dey come meet me borrow money every week wey i de even tell am to forget repayment embarrassed me cos he is now doing fine and i borrowed some funds and couldn't pay bak in time.

Only one or 2 colleagues reach out.

My siblings, two have been so supportive and encouraging. The other two wey i even place on salary for over 5 yrs no send me like dat.

My parents have been very wonderful mehn. They re lovely especially my mom. I just feel so sad i can't cater for her now but thank God dad is a pensioner

Street pple wey i de support financially nko i, lol.

Brokeness willq teach u lesson and u must learn

The moment God lifts me up again, i would not revenge or stop being good but omoooooooooo, i will always put myself first o. Big lessons mehn

tochez24:



My own mum called me lazy, and 3 three of my sisters were all misbehaving because i no hol bar... All my friends left and my babe back then finally broke up with me!!!!!

I see shege banza when my money finish, before god the magician did it for me again⚠️

I travelled and BLOCKED all of them ASAP!!!!

I only talk to my mum once in awhile and send peanuts for her because she carried me for 9 months, if not she too for don chop blocking🥴

Human beings are DISGUSTING creatures i tell you!!!!

My brother continue to keep your head up, e go click one day i tell you✅✅✅

WhiteIverson:
I am currently there right now and honestly I'm trying to weather the storm. The biggest lesson I've learnt and still learning is only you can pull yourself up. People see me and think I'm not doing my best, even my close family but omo I won't blame them. The only evidence that you're doing your best is when things start working out for you.
What a life!

Stop trolling people maybe your life will have meaning

Threedoorsdown:
Someone that hasn't experience this will call u a liar, lol. Life is a lesson
Street pple wey i de support financially nko i, lol.

Brokeness willq teach u lesson and u must learn

The moment God lifts me up again, i would not revenge or stop being good but omoooooooooo, i will always put myself first o. Big lessons mehn

Consider this period as a time to revaluate your relationship with people. It's good to be kind and help people but it must not affect your growth.
Also never be shy to tell people seeking favor (either financially or other forms of help) that you are helping them so that they will reciprocate the favor later. There is nothing bad in telling them because humans are always quick to forget.

Every one you have helped before you lost your job, do well to ask them for help either they help you or not. They owe you that favor.
Make dem no later con talk say you no ask them.
Another thing is keep applying for jobs and don't settle for jobs that are less. Wait no matter how long it takes. Don't settle for less

God bless you whoever u are. U will never lack anything good. Your words are so encouraging

As for job, it isn't easy cos i reached assistant manager in a bank and i have been applying but it is not easy seeing a similar role. I should have invested more in myself instead i was even opening businesses for my sibling and supporting others so much.

I have learnt well and another opportunity given would never go to waste.

God bless u abundantly

1000Capacity:


Consider this period as a time to revaluate your relationship with people. It's good to be kind and help people but it must not affect your growth.
Also never be shy to tell people seeking favor (either financially or other forms of help) that you are helping them so that they will reciprocate the favor later. There is nothing bad in telling them because humans are always quick to forget.

Every one you have helped before you lost your job, do well to ask them for help either they help you or not. They owe you that favor.
Make dem no later con talk say you no ask them.
Another thing is keep applying for jobs and don't settle for jobs that are less. Wait no matter how long it takes. Don't settle for less

To never be broke

LIVINGICONREBOR:
At the end of the day when the chips are down, "family" is all you have got. They came through for me.

Nope I disagree... Some friends are diamond. Not much sha but when I reach out I get more than I even expect because I do same when it's all good. You should have good people around u

Being in a genuine situation of financial need will truly reveal how your friends and family value you and whether or not they have your back, and whether they are stingy or not.

When you and your friends all have money, they can spend a lot on you eg outings, food, some business ventures, etc knowing that they aren't really in a superior position than you.
But when they know you are broke, that's when their true colors will come out.

Some will;
-Ignore your messages and pretend not to have seen them
-Stop picking your phone calls
-Pretend they don't know you
-Promise to assist you and then start dodging you
-Lie to you about their own finances just to avoid helping you

The longer you've known a person and the closer you've been with them, the more pain you will experience when they turn their back on you when you don't have money.

The irony is that you may have assisted many of them before but they won't remember what you did for them in the past.

Mind you, the very same people will try to run back into your life when you are in money again. Lol.

*The vast majority of people around you will abandon you, very few will help especially those you were not expecting.

Best is not to expect anything from anyone and you won't be disappointed.

Try your best to plan ahead, work hard, work smart, and avoid having to depend on anyone.

1000Capacity:


Consider this period as a time to revaluate your relationship with people. It's good to be kind and help people but it must not affect your growth.
Also never be shy to tell people seeking favor (either financially or other forms of help) that you are helping them so that they will reciprocate the favor later. There is nothing bad in telling them because humans are always quick to forget.

Every one you have helped before you lost your job, do well to ask them for help either they help you or not. They owe you that favor.
Make dem no later con talk say you no ask them.
Another thing is keep applying for jobs and don't settle for jobs that are less. Wait no matter how long it takes. Don't settle for less

Sorry, but the emboldened is actually wrong; making a condition for helping someone else. That's not genuine help. It's even worse when you tell them, which sends a bad signal.

You shouldn't help people because you want something back from them, you should do that because you're naturally generous and you recognize that people have needs some times. That's selflessness. Love is selfless, and it expects nothing in return.

However, that is not to say you shouldn't ask people you've helped before for help, just don't do that on the premise of that help you rendered. You'll put them in a box, and that's manipulative in a way.

Like I said initially, most people are terrible. If you depend on them to repay your good with good, then be sure to be disappointed. If you get disappointed, you'll definitely not be willing to help anyone anymore. So just be kind and leave it there.

It's never easy, that's why it's important to ask God to reproduce His love in us.

tochez24:



My own mum called me lazy, and 3 three of my sisters were all misbehaving because i no hol bar... All my friends left and my babe back then finally broke up with me!!!!!

I see shege banza when my money finish, before god the magician did it for me again⚠️

I travelled and BLOCKED all of them ASAP!!!!

I only talk to my mum once in awhile and send peanuts for her because she carried me for 9 months, if not she too for don chop blocking🥴

Human beings are DISGUSTING creatures i tell you!!!!

My brother continue to keep your head up, e go click one day i tell you✅✅✅

you talked like you did yahoo for an escape route.

GreatVocalist:

Sorry, but the emboldened is actually wrong; making a condition for helping someone else. That's not genuine help. It's even worse when you tell them, which sends a bad signal.

You shouldn't help people because you want something back from them, you should do that because you're naturally generous and you recognize that people have needs some times. That's selflessness. Love is selfless, and it expects nothing in return.

However, that is not to say you shouldn't ask people you've helped before for help, just don't do that on the premise of that help you rendered. You'll put them in a box, and that's manipulative in a way.

Like I said initially, most people are terrible. If you depend on them to repay your good with good, then be sure to be disappointed. If you get disappointed, you'll definitely not be willing to help anyone anymore. So just be kind and leave it there.

It's never easy, that's why it's important to ask God to reproduce His love in us.

Ok thanks for the counsel. I'll put it to good use

It has thought me that A broke guys has no friends.
That you will feel useless and shameful among gatherings.

I have being very very broke also but I no dey get friends ,so I no really know how friends matter be.just that one guy i dey usually help well when we were colleagues as a banker that time.if i call am to help me with small thing na so so complain.i get mind call am because i helped him well when we were bankers in Abuja.but 500 naira e no fit give me.i bone because i no sabi ask for help.My parents and siblings are bae.Nobody dey disrespect me because I no really stay with them when I broke,den dey Edo,I dey Abuja dey try hustle.My babe That time try dieee,but normal,sometimes woman go cut chain and make you feel down,but in summary she try wella because she no run as I broke.All in all,if you are in your twenties,try to hustle hard mk u dey see small small money,so your 30's and above go stew.I thank God for my life because at least,I am not broke.

willi926:
It has thought me that money answereth all things

and prayer do all things,

Tallesty1:
When you finally get it enough, you will realise that it doesn't

that's a fact.. Truth be told, you don't even need to be excessively rich to begin to see and realize it..

GreatVocalist:

Sorry, but the emboldened is actually wrong; making a condition for helping someone else. That's not genuine help. It's even worse when you tell them, which sends a bad signal.

You shouldn't help people because you want something back from them, you should do that because you're naturally generous and you recognize that people have needs some times. That's selflessness. Love is selfless, and it expects nothing in return.

However, that is not to say you shouldn't ask people you've helped before for help, just don't do that on the premise of that help you rendered. You'll put them in a box, and that's manipulative in a way.

Like I said initially, most people are terrible. If you depend on them to repay your good with good, then be sure to be disappointed. If you get disappointed, you'll definitely not be willing to help anyone anymore. So just be kind and leave it there.

It's never easy, that's why it's important to ask God to reproduce His love in us.

You are a big fool I'm not sorry to say. Normally,if you're smart you shouldn't help anyone unless you have something to gain.

Badmashiii:


You are a big fool I'm not sorry to say. Normally,if you're smart you shouldn't help anyone unless you have something to gain.

Weytin cause insult now? You air your opinion he air him own🤷‍♀️ omoh people dey this platform o

Olumighty123:


Weytin cause insult now? You air your opinion he air him own🤷‍♀️ omoh people dey this platform o

The talk trigger me na why. No lele. E dey happen

Badmashiii:


Your eyes dey pain you? You no see sey na d manchi first dey throw insult?

Point where he insulted you.... did you even read what he wrote at all? I bow for you Ooo

Save for rainy days...being broke is very depressing

willi926:
It has thought me that money answereth all things

It does not. There is always a price to pay for enormous wealth

Illegal1:
omoh.........been broke will let u realise dat u don't have contacts,bt jst phone numbers.

oil dey ur head

a woman's true nature is made evident during those days.

To always set aside certain certain amount of money no matter what. . . .

WhiteIverson:
I am currently there right now and honestly I'm trying to weather the storm. The biggest lesson I've learnt and still learning is only you can pull yourself up. People see me and think I'm not doing my best, even my close family but omo I won't blame them. The only evidence that you're doing your best is when things start working out for you.
What a life!

It took me time to understand this but thank God I'm getting over it.

Your importance is linked to what people can extract from you.

Hmmm

willi926:
It has thought me that money answereth all things

Lol... Money does not answereth all things.

Especially for married men. You will be as wild as a lion... Poverty is a dangerous weapon