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Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Kipaji: 1:51pm On Apr 22 |
I'm building my home for me and my two wives. Each wife will have her bedroom. Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen. What do you think? Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated. 20 Likes 6 Shares
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Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Lonestar124: 1:54pm On Apr 22 |
Build two kitchen bro, don't listen to any advice beside this my own.. 271 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Lance008(m): 1:55pm On Apr 22 |
Kipaji:U funny bro Can't u get 2 kitchen Na Una stil Dey cause issue Abeg na 2 kitchen Mak everybody get he privacy no matter how small 56 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Hollasmall: 1:59pm On Apr 22 |
Na man you be! How you Dey cope with two wives 45 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by garriAndsugar: 2:02pm On Apr 22 |
Make the kitchen 3, as you will need one more wife in the future 250 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by DrFunmisticGlow: 2:21pm On Apr 22 |
Kipaji:build separate kitchen for each of them. Let their foodstuffs not mix so each wife can Cook for her kids separately and for you on occasion. It might be best to bring up this topic to your wives and see how they react. Also the kitchen should have ample storage room for foodstuffs (a pantry). It is a must. 34 Likes |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Danielnicks: 2:22pm On Apr 22 |
Kipaji: By that logic you should allocate the same feeding allowance to them, stock both kitchen equally, eat the same amount of food from one kitchen in the next kitchen, so one wife won't say she cooked a lot for you that's why her stock finished faster. You're obviously building a house not a home. And years later you will wonder why there's a wall between both factions. Yes, I called them factions, because that's what you're creating. 65 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Zxcvbnmghtr: 2:30pm On Apr 22 |
Danielnicks: You must have gone through a lot. Hope you won't end up marrying two wives too like your dad. Your sad experience tells a lot from your comment. 112 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Obierika(m): 2:31pm On Apr 22 |
Kipaji: Since separate kitchens for each of them since you can afford it |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by decatalyst(m): 2:38pm On Apr 22 |
Kipaji: Build 3 kitchens Build 3 sitting rooms Of course 3 bedrooms 3 toilets 3 veranda 3 water tanks 3 walkway And 3 brains 15 Likes |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by epondudu: 3:44pm On Apr 22 |
Bro build 3 kitchen, speaking from experience. You will thank me later. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by PerfectStranger(m): 4:05pm On Apr 22 |
You must be a happy man. Make it 4 if there's space, you might need extra 2 wives in future 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Danielnicks: 4:17pm On Apr 22 |
Zxcvbnmghtr: I don't even know what you're getting at. My dad's been late for decades. I grew up with just my mom. Congratulations on your flawed observation. 37 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Zxcvbnmghtr: 4:46pm On Apr 22 |
Danielnicks: Lol so how did you come about your judgement? 96 Likes |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Reminderz: 6:14pm On Apr 22 |
yes, if you can afford it fine... if you can make it 3 also, then do it, makes them wonder if there is a third one in the picture... and also make them satisfy you and bow to your authority... 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Sirhush(m): 7:06pm On Apr 22 |
So you don't know kitchen is woman other room too . 1 Like |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by ComputerOperato: 7:13pm On Apr 22 |
Reminderz: Best comment. Op build 3. And if you have two wives, best add one extra to make them 3. E get why. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Kelklein(m): 10:43pm On Apr 22 |
If you can, make the house semi-detached so that each person stays in her flat.. You know the way they build tenant flats but still in one building. 13 Likes |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Threedoorsdown: 12:40am On Apr 23 |
If the women are not troublesome and they understand each other and are quite close, build one kitchen. This way you keep your wives close and your future children closer. If they are not they above, u better build separate flats for them sef befor dem use wahala kill u 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Kipaji: 12:45am On Apr 23 |
DrFunmisticGlow: In my household, each wife will cook for everybody: me, her co-wife, and all the kids. I impose this to foster unity among the children and collaboration with the wives. For example, let's say today it is wife2's turn to cook. Then, she will cook for the whole family, not only her kids. We will all eat her food that day. And I forbid the other wife to cook something else for her kids and have her kids eat something else. No. This would create "clans" within my household, which I do not want. I want all of my kids to see themselves as brothers and sisters not as step-brothers and step-sisters. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Kipaji: 12:48am On Apr 23 |
Danielnicks: Only one wife will cook per day. If today is wife1's turn to cook, then she cooks for everybody, and everybody, including wife2's kids, have to eat her food. Could you elaborate more the embolden? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Kipaji: 12:50am On Apr 23 |
decatalyst: I understand 3 bedrooms, one for me and one for each of my wives. But 3 kitchen with 2 wives? Could you explain? |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Kipaji: 12:50am On Apr 23 |
epondudu: Bro, what is your experience? |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Kipaji: 12:51am On Apr 23 |
PerfectStranger: Can you elaborate on this? |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Kipaji: 12:56am On Apr 23 |
Reminderz: Thank you Reminderz. But I currently don't have any plans to bring in a third wife. What would be the use of a third kitchen, then? |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Kipaji: 12:58am On Apr 23 |
ComputerOperato: Why do you think this? |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Kipaji: 1:04am On Apr 23 |
Kelklein: That is my plan. There will be the main building where I live and each wives' building next to me. Here is a rough sketch to explain what I mean 10 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Kipaji: 1:05am On Apr 23 |
Threedoorsdown: Thank you. There are other polygamist men with one kitchen. Some work fine, others not so much. |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Threedoorsdown: 1:13am On Apr 23 |
True Kipaji: |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by dkidd: 1:17am On Apr 23 |
Kipaji:Of course build it in a way that their paths will hardly cross. They should have their separate quarters in the house while u have urs as the boss. So everything na based on control V |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Kipaji: 1:29am On Apr 23 |
dkidd: Thanks, dkidd. But, I don't really understand your last sentence... |
Re: Should I Have One Kitchen For Each of My Wives? by Evolutionism: 1:32am On Apr 23 |
Some people have chosen the path of No peace of mind. Every mallam with hin kettle. Not the first and definitely won't be the last. 8 Likes |
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