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Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by id4sho(m): 1:58pm On Apr 30 |
Valoromega:Olosho blood still dey here body |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Hotzone(m): 1:58pm On Apr 30 |
Both of you need to be tutored on core values of marriage |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Solitechworld(m): 1:58pm On Apr 30 |
Tell her to leave anytime she makes that threat again, let her know you will be helping in packing her luggages 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by shiwex: 1:59pm On Apr 30 |
Oh boy....Na scam. My Wife did this for a long time and one day I just got some courage and told her to leave.......oh boy since that day, the meat and fish she cooks for me got bigger and tastier. Peace dey my house now. No let woman scam you. 13 Likes |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by amazingspiderma: 1:59pm On Apr 30 |
NeoWanZaeed: That's exactly what I want think. |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by MJos11: 1:59pm On Apr 30 |
But God when are you sending my own woman helper naaaa π |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Naddy100(m): 1:59pm On Apr 30 |
Valoromega: She knows you love n cherish her and you dont want to loose her, pls next time dont stop her.. Abi you no wan get rest of mind ni, this gender you see, they are crazy o 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by schoolboymatt(m): 2:00pm On Apr 30 |
Valoromega:right there, u have it. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by bemeruca: 2:00pm On Apr 30 |
This is normal, atimes help her pack the bags. Naija girls can get very emotional, sometimes over nothing. It's not easy to maintain a very emotional woman. |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by shiwex: 2:00pm On Apr 30 |
Hotzone:If you like call baba God to come and give the training, Woman will still find problem somewhere with you. Na their nature. |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Fibonacci88: 2:00pm On Apr 30 |
This is what happens when u are the one as a man who pushed for the marriage.. if u are a well to do guy and the lady u are dating is not pestering u for marriage oga run o . Don't ever as a man be the one pushing for marriage and the lady is indifferent. Know this and save urself issues like this. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Beraphiu(m): 2:00pm On Apr 30 |
Best option thesicilian: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Munzy14(m): 2:01pm On Apr 30 |
Valoromega:It simply explained you are a weak man. And I know you will always beg her When a woman is surrounded by weak men, she will start acting tough, And when she is surrounded by tough men, she will act soft and very feminine. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by jaxxy(m): 2:01pm On Apr 30 |
what kind of couples issues if I may ask? Threatening ur partner is wrong unless where issues are out of hand. |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by emkz: 2:01pm On Apr 30 |
Decent girls are looking for good husbands, wayward girls are playing with their own. She's doing it because she sees you have no choice. Never make anyone feel so indispensable that they feel you cannot exist without them. It takes two to make a marriage work. If she threatens to leave, allow her. Never beg her to return. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Geovanni412(m): 2:01pm On Apr 30 |
Valoromega: Every woman does that, bro It is in their DNA Your job is to tell her, she is free to go anytime If you are good and she realizes your value, she will never leave This is basic format for handling the situation |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by georgee(m): 2:01pm On Apr 30 |
Valoromega:Why are u holding her back.. Help her pack her bags and lock ur door when she leaves.. Nonsense The day u threaten me like that, i will ensure u leave my house that day |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by adebowales: 2:01pm On Apr 30 |
tnerro1:lol what do you mean |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Yelight(m): 2:02pm On Apr 30 |
1. Sit her down when there is no issue and let her know you don't like that her attitude, I mean when the atmosphere is peaceful. 2. Call someone you know she respect and honour and report the matter to him/her. This second reason is the main reason we advise singles to marry someone who has somebody he/she respect/honour/"fear". |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Patented: 2:02pm On Apr 30 |
she probably has issues from her past. is she from a broken/problematic home or did she witness the effects of such a home growing up. perhaps let her go one day make we see where matter go end.# Valoromega: |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Geonigga(m): 2:03pm On Apr 30 |
A friend of mine who recently got married during my casual discussion with him disclosed to me that two things are involved in marriage; either it works or fails and went further to conclude that one should always expect either. So if she has been threatening you of leaving the marriage why not you give her a chance and allow her to go. You won't die. Don't allow your fellow human being to make life miserable for you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by bemeruca: 2:03pm On Apr 30 |
jaxxy: People get tired and numb to a particular problem from their spouse if it keeps occurring. |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by 79733139(m): 2:04pm On Apr 30 |
Valoromega This is actually very good advice. thesicilian: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by bemeruca: 2:04pm On Apr 30 |
Yelight: How do you know he has not done this? 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Basicend: 2:05pm On Apr 30 |
thesicilian: Absolutely. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by joinnow: 2:06pm On Apr 30 |
Valoromega:here are some suggestions for addressing the situation in your marriage: 1. Communication: Encourage open and honest communication between you and your wife. Let her know how her threats of leaving make you feel and express your desire to work through issues together. 2. Understanding: Try to understand the underlying reasons for your wife's behavior. She may be feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or lacking support. Understanding her perspective can help you address the root cause of the issue. 3. Counseling: Consider attending couples counseling to improve communication, address conflicts, and strengthen your relationship. A trained therapist can help you both navigate through your differences and find constructive ways to resolve conflicts. 4. Setting boundaries: It's important to establish healthy boundaries in your relationship. Let your wife know that threatening to leave is not a constructive way to address issues and discuss alternative ways to handle disagreements. 5. Focus on the child: Keep your child's well-being as a top priority. Ensure that any decisions made are in the best interest of your child and create a stable and supportive environment for them. 6. Seek support: If the situation feels overwhelming, seek support from a therapist, counselor, or support group to help you navigate through this challenging time in your marriage. |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Yelight(m): 2:06pm On Apr 30 |
bemeruca: Because he did not say so and he's the best person to answer if he has or hasn't. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by NohurryInLife: 2:07pm On Apr 30 |
βοΈβοΈβοΈβοΈ Call off her bluffπππ except na her dey feed you...π‘π‘π‘ This type of behavior comes from a woman with poor family background.. I can bet that she may even be a product of an unmarried or widowed mother, because a normal woman with a regular upbringing, under a father can't behave like thisβοΈβοΈβοΈπππ βοΈβοΈβοΈβοΈ[/quote] This I can attest too 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by israelmao(m): 2:08pm On Apr 30 |
Do you beg her anytime she has issues with you whether she's wrong or right?And have you ever attempted to allow her to leave in order to see her reaction?Your wife should realise there're many younger and more beautiful women who are still out there willing to be married but not married,youthfulness is not only the basis or access to marriage. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Blackman101: 2:09pm On Apr 30 |
call her bluff |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Forumites: 2:10pm On Apr 30 |
madridguy:You suddenly turn legal adviser nomawagbe. You donβt tire to dey defend bad government? πππππ 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by bobbiiee: 2:11pm On Apr 30 |
She will eventually leave. Women don't say that without a reason. Is she the breadwinner? Do you simp for her? Is she having an affair? In case she leaves, change the locks to the house like my cousin. I dont see marriage as favour. If she wants to leave open the door for her & wish her well. Marriage is not by force. |
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