Simply call a Compound meeting, draw the attention of the whole compound tenants to what the man did, recommend his line be disconnected by Saturday if he doesn't pay up the money. The man has your money and will pay immediately he is disconnected!!

Gbadugbakun:
Thanks everyone for you contributions.

Me and 2 other tenants went to his room to confront him. He gave me 2k and said he doesn't have money that he would give me the remaining 3k by Friday. They told me to take the 2k first and wait till Friday.

My anger is that why did he lie to me that he would give me back the money when he knows he didn't have it. He is married with 2 small children yet he goes to ashewo joint to drink and chase women. I would wait till Friday na it's just next tomorrow.

U see this set of people ..... Womanizer and drunkard, don't ever In dis life borrow Dem money

Just remind him. Some people are that forgetful, even in critical matters.

Zonefree:
Try to give people benefit of doubt before taking any decision.

You helped on Monday and today is Wednesday, you need to relax first. He's your neighbour. Going to his house to knock when you can just send him a subtle message on WhatsApp is you being forward.

Calm down for a while, you'll get your money.

Remember he promised next morning, a real man will find all means to pay him that next morning he promised. See how you are taking sides, this explains more about you.

Light78:
Some people are abnormal nowadays.

I was on my own, then I got a call from my friend that he's at an event center. I should come so we go flex. I reminded him that I don't drink alcohol. I can only take bottle water or malt drink. He said I should come that he's feeling bored.

Before I left, I took 1k with me in case something goes out of the ordinary, I will pay for my drink and off I go. But I like paying for what I order.

Immediately I reached the place, I saw him with three more guys. They have started drink and on their second bottles. I grabbed a chair, but as I was about to have a seat, he told me to bring 2k so he can add his and pay for drinks.

I immediately left without uttering a world.


I was like, don't people think?

Keeping unreasonable friends is a pointer to doom, it is better to stay alone than being with people who lack home training. Some folks stink as in...

Gbadugbakun:
Thanks everyone for you contributions.

Me and 2 other tenants went to his room to confront him. He gave me 2k and said he doesn't have money that he would give me the remaining 3k by Friday. They told me to take the 2k first and wait till Friday.

My anger is that why did he lie to me that he would give me back the money when he knows he didn't have it. He is married with 2 small children yet he goes to ashewo joint to drink and chase women. I would wait till Friday na it's just next tomorrow.

Never try to help a womanizer and gambler, those people have no mind of their own.

Treasure17:

You guys are funny. Guess you didn't see the part where he promised to refund the guy the following morning? He defaulted man.

Me and you get same attitude somehow

I'm a very discipline guy with no tolerance for stupidity or nonsense

And I won't try to play any stupid game with anyone, and like wise , I don't like pple to take advantage of me

Gbadugbakun:
Thanks everyone for you contributions.

Me and 2 other tenants went to his room to confront him. He gave me 2k and said he doesn't have money that he would give me the remaining 3k by Friday. They told me to take the 2k first and wait till Friday.

My anger is that why did he lie to me that he would give me back the money when he knows he didn't have it. He is married with 2 small children yet he goes to ashewo joint to drink and chase women. I would wait till Friday na it's just next tomorrow.

How you take know this?

hstar:

Me and you get same attitude somehow

I'm a very discipline guy with no tolerance for stupidity or nonsense

And I won't try to play any stupid game with anyone, and like wise , I don't like pple to take advantage of me

Exactly. Even when I borrow from a friend, I make sure I don't default cause I had an agreement to refund at stipulated time.

fawaz050:


I was surprised too o. Should a Debtor forget their obligations?

Their submissions doesn't make sense.

Chingyyy878:


Their advice just weak me

Gentle reminder for wetin you request for

As in

donproject2:


Keeping unreseasnable friends is a pointer to doom, it is better to stay alone than being with people who lack home training. Some folks stink as in...

U just dey fire everybody, left and right

Though in a positive way

Zonefree:
Try to give people benefit of doubt before taking any decision.

You helped on Monday and today is Wednesday, you need to relax first. He's your neighbour. Going to his house to knock when you can just send him a subtle message on WhatsApp is you being forward.

Calm down for a while, you'll get your money.

Oh shut it.

Na wa o...Una yard wahala long like NYSC skirt.

Gbadugbakun:
In my compound, we are 5 sharing the prepaid meter. We uses to contribute 5k per person to recharged it when it finishes. So since last week we have been contributing because the units were low and the meter was making noise. By Monday this week it went off around 10 pm. And only one man hasn't paid yet. And he wasn't around that night.

He sent me a WhatsApp message around 11 after he was contacted by the guy that does the recharge reminding him that he's the only person that have not pay. He told me that I should pay for him that he didn't deposit the sales he made into his account that when he comes the following morning he would give me cash.

I transferred the 5k to the guy and we recharged. Do you know that when this man come back the next morning he did as if nothing happens between us, the whole of Tuesday he didn't even tell me anything. Today is Wednesday I was outside when he come he just pass me and enter his house. am just holding myself because if I enter his house I will damage something. why is Nigerians like this. why do we like to cheat people at any given chance. Does he know if the 5k is my last card.

You should have involved everyone rather than taking the matter on yourself. If he is owing four people he will be under more pressure to pay than one person.

The next thing he will be saying he is not at home so why is he paying the bill?

Gbadugbakun:



I just went to knock at his door. He just shouted who is that. When I told him I'm the one he told me he doesn't have money that he would give me when he has. He didn't even come out to see me. He's still inside the house and he's door is locked

Am just holding myself honestly, because if I do what is in my mind people will say is because of 5k.

If he eventually refuse to pay the money mae sure next time you guys are paying you tell him to pay for it. If he refuse to do that tell others what happened and stand your ground

Bro try dey go gym o, cos the coming days no go funny. 5 people dey use one meter ke.

Una 5 go still exchange blows soon

I don’t think you need to go as far as breaking anything or having any confrontation with him. I am sure he will still need your help in future, but he already screwed things up. You are more than then 5k, na why God dey bless you. But for the man, he is a loser.

I can never share prepaid meter

Gbadugbakun:



I just went to knock at his door. He just shouted who is that. When I told him I'm the one he told me he doesn't have money that he would give me when he has. He didn't even come out to see me. He's still inside the house and he's door is locked

Am just holding myself honestly, because if I do what is in my mind people will say is because of 5k.

Take it easy, that has helped you to know him better going forward. Just peacefully periodically remind him until you collect your money but. I know next time he will not have the impetus to reach out to you again for such assistance.
Some people can be weird at times, I tell you.

You can't ask him for your money, you would rather come to disturb us

Dont even fuss about it, just hold your peace until the next payment date and refer him to other cotenants as the one who's going to pay for you.
People go help una put mouth by then.

U sound like someone with serious anger problem. Just remind him and see his reaction. E fit be say e don forget

The guy is an idīot and knows what he is doing.
You don't need to be nice to a person who is manipulative and untrustworthy.
Embarrass him.
Make life difficult for the fuul.
Don't be nice.
Be nasty.

Gbadugbakun:



I just went to knock at his door. He just shouted who is that. When I told him I'm the one he told me he doesn't have money that he would give me when he has. He didn't even come out to see me. He's still inside the house and he's door is locked

Am just holding myself honestly, because if I do what is in my mind people will say is because of 5k.

One issue that the good person always loses both at police station and in court is lending. Do not behave in a manner you'll regret afterwards. Try and get your money in a very amicable and diplomatic manner. You can even wait until the next recharge then you tell your neighbours that he is with your own payment. That's your best bet.

Oju4190:
U see this set of people ..... Womanizer and drunkard, don't ever In dis life borrow Dem money

Not only them. What about gamblers and smokers?

Also,beware of lending money to a simp. Las las,na woman go chop the money which means you are also simping by proxy.

If una understand human behavior, wetin the man do the op nor go surprised una.

Humans? Lol. Na only God.


@op, it's good you collected the 2k from him. Learn from this and know how to deal with humans next time.

Gbadugbakun:
Thanks everyone for you contributions.

Me and 2 other tenants went to his room to confront him. He gave me 2k and said he doesn't have money that he would give me the remaining 3k by Friday. They told me to take the 2k first and wait till Friday.

My anger is that why did he lie to me that he would give me back the money when he knows he didn't have it. He is married with 2 small children yet he goes to ashewo joint to drink and chase women. I would wait till Friday na it's just next tomorrow.

Remove that part of his marriage and still fuccking outside, na all of us dey do am, even as I dey type now, na Asewo joint I dey. Comrade should cover fellow Comrades. But as for his lying to get you to pay for his light, hold his trousers very well.

Kooldon:
That is why we pretend at times that we don't have money when such request arises to avoid stories.
If and only if, it wasn't your last card, tell others about the situation that you have paid for next sub in advance, meaning he has to pay 10k for sub.
Let him just default watch as others wil tear him apart for you.
Wisdom Pro Max

Take this advice!!!! You have paid for the next payment so the debtor is owing 10k..

Tribe aside

Gbadugbakun:
In my compound, we are 5 sharing the prepaid meter. We uses to contribute 5k per person to recharged it when it finishes. So since last week we have been contributing because the units were low and the meter was making noise. By Monday this week it went off around 10 pm. And only one man hasn't paid yet. And he wasn't around that night.

He sent me a WhatsApp message around 11 after he was contacted by the guy that does the recharge reminding him that he's the only person that have not pay. He told me that I should pay for him that he didn't deposit the sales he made into his account that when he comes the following morning he would give me cash.

I transferred the 5k to the guy and we recharged. Do you know that when this man come back the next morning he did as if nothing happens between us, the whole of Tuesday he didn't even tell me anything. Today is Wednesday I was outside when he come he just pass me and enter his house. am just holding myself because if I enter his house I will damage something. why is Nigerians like this. why do we like to cheat people at any given chance. Does he know if the 5k is my last card.

Tribe aside...The Man must be an Igbo man...One did me same few mnths ago

Gbadugbakun:
In my compound, we are 5 sharing the prepaid meter. We uses to contribute 5k per person to recharged it when it finishes. So since last week we have been contributing because the units were low and the meter was making noise. By Monday this week it went off around 10 pm. And only one man hasn't paid yet. And he wasn't around that night.

He sent me a WhatsApp message around 11 after he was contacted by the guy that does the recharge reminding him that he's the only person that have not pay. He told me that I should pay for him that he didn't deposit the sales he made into his account that when he comes the following morning he would give me cash.

I transferred the 5k to the guy and we recharged. Do you know that when this man come back the next morning he did as if nothing happens between us, the whole of Tuesday he didn't even tell me anything. Today is Wednesday I was outside when he come he just pass me and enter his house. am just holding myself because if I enter his house I will damage something. why is Nigerians like this. why do we like to cheat people at any given chance. Does he know if the 5k is my last card.

I don't know what to say sha. But I find the way you write really funny.
Pls take am easy,yes some are like that.

I even have one owing me 5k as balance wey I take rescue am when he went to Bleep ashawo and could pay fully. Over 2 months now

So bross, rex and and approach him calmly for . But the part where he passed and ignored you is really bad. Conscience no go allow me do that , even to someone who lent me N100