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Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by speedy0420: 2:06pm On May 27

THERE IS NO GYM FOR YOUR FACE AND HEIGHT. MUSCLES WILL NOT MAKE YOU MAGICALLY HANDSOME AS A MAN

I find it funny that one of the most generic advice people give to men seeking to attract women is to just “hit the gym”

Muscles are only there to compliment the main attractive features you have (face, height and bone structure).
Muscles were never meant to be an attractive feature in on itself

And being a gym rat is peak male gaze.

There is a very low limit to the amount of muscle mass than women find attractive (female gaze)

Anything beyond this limit is just catering to the male gaze. As Lorenzo put it “when you go past a certain point, you’re just lifting for other men”

Now don’t get me wrong. I don’t want some double digit IQ member here to start attacking me by claiming that I’m castigating going to the gym

No. Going to the gym is a good thing.
Where the divide starts is why you’re doing it

Some men lift to burn fat and live a healthier life

Other lift because they think it’ll help them attract women (this is where the vast majority of men are)

If you’re lifting primarily for yourself and yourself alone, carry go my brother. Nothing do you.

But if you’re lifting for the primary purpose of attracting women, then it’s probably over for you…. Because you ought to be able to attract them without it in the first place

Like I said, it’s a complimentary feature and not a main one

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by Franzinni: 2:59pm On May 27

But it does ... Your muscles is an indicator that you can achieve something in your life , that you can be committed and not be flippant, that you can endure discomfort to reach your goals, that you can protect, that you can defend... You don't see the value of muscles because the situation doesn't call for it ... If we were in olden days and war starts you think a scrawny looking guy would be trusted to be able to defend anything ?

Muscles says alot about a person

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by Proddigeyy(m): 3:05pm On May 27

Franzinni:
But it does ... Your muscles is an indicator that you can achieve something in your life , that you can be committed and not be flippant, that you can endure discomfort to reach your goals, that you can protect, that you can defend... You don't see the value of muscles because the situation doesn't call for it ... If we were in olden days and war starts you think a scrawny looking guy would be trusted to be able to defend anything ?

Muscles says alot about a person

see childis talk.. Fighting, strongness is by muscle.. grin

I believe you never see real fight before..

Oga your muscles is your money.. Wetin concern muscle with olden day war.. undecided

are you fighting by bear hand at war...?

ONLY BULLET DO THE TALKING..

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by Franzinni: 3:12pm On May 27

Proddigeyy:
see childis talk.. Fighting, strongness is by muscle.. I believe you never see real fight before..

Oga your muscles is your money.. Wetin concern muscle with olden day war.. are you fighting by bear hand at war...?

ONLY BULLET DO THE TALKING..

Gen z.

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by 100smile(m): 3:18pm On May 27

Franzinni:
Gen z.

He's right

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by CuriousCart(f): 3:37pm On May 27

Franzinni:
But it does ... Your muscles is an indicator that you can achieve something in your life , that you can be committed and not be flippant, that you can endure discomfort to reach your goals, that you can protect, that you can defend... You don't see the value of muscles because the situation doesn't call for it ... If we were in olden days and war starts you think a scrawny looking guy would be trusted to be able to defend anything ?

Muscles says alot about a person

Tinubu has no muscles but he's leading you.

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by Proddigeyy(m): 3:42pm On May 27

CuriousCart:

Tinubu has no muscles but he's leading you.

that dude is really funny..

Na 3 year old pikin go pull the trigger for DROCK head, who muscle help for that matter..

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by LIVINGICONREBOR: 3:53pm On May 27

Take this to the bank. There is no "straight" woman on this planet that don't get turn on seeing a muscularly ripped man in the flesh.
@franzinni, hope you lift too? Cos you have quite a deep insight on the whole benefits of being beefy.

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by Sonnobax15(m): 3:55pm On May 27

As a guyman,if you like,gather all the whole muscle wey dey this life without having money in your pocket, bannies go always rate you very low before that guyman wey dey lanky but wey hold dough..

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by speedy0420: 5:32pm On May 27

LIVINGICONREBOR:
Take this to the bank. There is no "straight" woman on this planet that don't get turn on seeing a muscularly ripped man in the flesh.
@franzinni, hope you lift too? Cos you have quite a deep insight on the whole benefits of being beefy.

Another funny thing I see regularly

You’ll be telling Nigerian guys the truth, and when they see that they cannot argue or counter, they automatically revert to the “it’s only money that matters” argument

And yet they wonder why Nigerian girls nowadays cultivate the gold-digging lifestyle

Cause and effect

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by Bluezy13(m): 5:40pm On May 27

Your assertion is incorrect.
I can attest to that.

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by speedy0420: 5:42pm On May 27

Bluezy13:
Your assertion is incorrect.
I can attest to that.

How?

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by Alphamentips: 5:52pm On May 27

speedy0420:

Another funny thing I see regularly

You’ll be telling Nigerian guys the truth, and when they see that they cannot argue or counter, they automatically revert to the “it’s only money that matters” argument

And yet they wonder why Nigerian girls nowadays cultivate the gold-digging lifestyle

Cause and effect

Lol nice buildup... Nice points you scored.

in my prime .. when gym was a morning and night thing, I go just notice say people dey stare at me. Not just babes, guys included.

Sometimes I go just dey walka for road lost in my thoughts only for people stares to shock me back to reality. I go come fold my arms make the biceps dey contracted 💪 as I dey punch on my phone screen.... Then give them an extra 10 to 15 seconds.. let them have their fill as they gaze upon my muscular Herculus-like bulky meaty frame, then I leave as soon as their 10 - 15 secs is up.

Me and my guy back then, Oscar, call this the 10 second free subscription view.

Lol gym is life...

Everyone just loves a muscle tank. Both kids, seniors, and adults. Like, I get tired of being stared at.

Kids will be like, "uncle can I see your muscle?" I go now blow my biceps muscles for them. Them go happy

I walk by and I see other guys straighten up automatically lol. It's a big flex.

I remember walking into a lecture hall from the back door and was scanning the class in search of my guys only to notice that about 5 babes wey sidon directly opposite me de look me seriously.

As I scan the room my eyes move go their side all of them just bend head immediately begin look their books. Lol..

To enter public transport nko?
Women go just dey lean on you even if enof space dey on the seat. I actually stopped lifting and started doing more aerobics and boxing to stop gaining bulks.

I was getting tired of the stares. It's draining

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by eepeepook: 6:25pm On May 27

Going to the gym to attract women is the most stupid action any man can perform.

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by udomonday: 6:27pm On May 27

Just have confidence and charisma and women will fall over themselves for you.

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by pryme(m): 6:57pm On May 27

Anybody that says the state of a man's body is not a big factor in the dating market is only fishing in a pool of women that are living on survival mode.
If a women can choose it will always be the man that can make her feel safe, and the night clubs don't hire muscular men like bouncers because they are retarded, that's because perception is everything.

For those of you that think growing muscle is just a swelling prank you have no idea what growing muscle does to a man's posture, his skin tone, his aura, and most importantly - his confidence,

and a confident man ALWAYS get the ladies, and if you think your money can give you the same kind of confidence a man gets from pushing his body to the limit, you are coming from a place of ignorance.
And when it's comes to confidence, a women can smell it from a mile away.

Every wonder why most rich married celebrities always cheat with their gym instructor?

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:21pm On May 27

the whole issue is all down to preferences, some women prefer big muscle men than skinny ones, just like some men like big women while others dont. the muscle issue is the same as the big nyansh/boobs issue... although they are irrelevant to a person's character, it makes the whole dating part more PLEASANT to whoever likes such features...

there is absolutely NO DIFFERENCE between a big muscle dude and a slender brotha... in dating terms. someone being "handsome/intelligent/fun etc" is irrelevant to how much muscle he got.

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by Goodlyhrt(m): 8:16pm On May 27

The op no talk better thing make una free am.

Who no go no know. Just free the pot belly ambassador jareh!

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by Bluezy13(m): 8:20pm On May 27

speedy0420:

How?

Some women are attracted to men who they can feel his muscles. Someone women jokingly would touch your muscles or chest and make flimsy remarks on it such as would connote flirting. Some women casually fantasize an averagely muscular man in bed.

You may not understand, you may not have experienced it. Why do you think some married women with wealthy husbands go after gigolos? It is not always about money

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by Eunoiaa(f): 8:21pm On May 27

CuriousCart:
Tinubu has no muscles but he's leading you.

Okay now this grin

Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by Eunoiaa(f): 8:24pm On May 27

Alphamentips:
Lol nice buildup... Nice points you scored.

in my prime .. when gym was a morning and night thing, I go just notice say people dey stare at me. Not just babes, guys included.

Sometimes I go just dey walka for road lost in my thoughts only for people stares to shock me back to reality. I go come fold my arms make the biceps dey contracted 💪 as I dey punch on my phone screen.... Then give them an extra 10 to 15 seconds.. let them have their fill as they gaze upon my muscular Herculus-like bulky meaty frame, then I leave as soon as their 10 - 15 secs is up.

Me and my guy back then, Oscar, call this the 10 second free subscription view.

Lol gym is life...

Everyone just loves a muscle tank. Both kids, seniors, and adults. Like, I get tired of being stared at.

Kids will be like, "uncle can I see your muscle?" I go now blow my biceps muscles for them. Them go happy

I walk by and I see other guys straighten up automatically lol. It's a big flex.

I remember walking into a lecture hall from the back door and was scanning the class in search of my guys only to notice that about 5 babes wey sidon directly opposite me de look me seriously.

As I scan the room my eyes move go their side all of them just bend head immediately begin look their books. Lol..

To enter public transport nko?
Women go just dey lean on you even if enof space dey on the seat. I actually stopped lifting and started doing more aerobics and boxing to stop gaining bulks.

I was getting tired of the stares. It's draining

S'oki lobe gbegiri (abi how do they say it, OasisX, my love? S'oki is what?)

Please, be making your points concise for those of us who have very short attention span.

As an alpha, I expected you to know the charm in brevity. I was just reading and reading and...; do better next time.

Thank you.

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by Eunoiaa(f): 8:28pm On May 27

Well, as a man myself, I see all of your points. But I will wait to read a few more comments before I give my verdict on the matter.

Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by OasisX: 8:33pm On May 27

Eunoiaa:

S'oki lobe gbegiri (abi how do they say it, OasisX, my love? S'oki is what?)

Please, be making your points concise for those of us who have very short attention span.

As an alpha, I expected you to know the charm in brevity. I was just reading and reading and...; do better next time.

Thank you.

.....ṣókí means concise/little.

Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by seanwilliam(m): 8:38pm On May 27

So na because of women una dey hit the gym ? grin

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by Eunoiaa(f): 8:39pm On May 27

OasisX:

.....ṣókí means concise/little.

Yes, I know. I mean, what's the full meaning of that quote/phrase? cheesy

Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by folake4u(f): 8:57pm On May 27

Eunoiaa:

Okay now this .

I screamedddddddddddd!

Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by Eunoiaa(f): 9:05pm On May 27

folake4u:
I screamedddddddddddd!

No, but think about it. grin

Imagine a man like Tinubu ruling a nation of alpha male and redpillers and senior mens. E nor balance.

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Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by folake4u(f): 9:07pm On May 27

Eunoiaa:

No, but think about it.

Imagine a man like Tinubu ruling a nation of alpha male and redpillers and senior mens. E nor balance.

The alpha meils and redpillers are a disgrace to this country. grin

Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by LIVINGICONREBOR: 9:18pm On May 27

Eunoiaa:
Well, as a man myself, I see all of your points. But I will wait to read a few more comments before I give my verdict on the matter.

Magnolia, at least you are already very moist down there thinking of that muscular dude bending u in different directions giving you back to back. Damn!！🤔

Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by OasisX: 9:25pm On May 27

Eunoiaa:

Yes, I know. I mean, what's the full meaning of that quote/phrase?

......you are right but some do say 'ṣókí lọbẹ oge' as well.

Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by Eunoiaa(f): 9:35pm On May 27

folake4u:
The alpha meils and redpillers are a disgrace to this country.

Big ones with nothing but empty scrotal ********s. grin

Re: Your Muscles Do Not Matter When It Comes To Attracting Women. A Thread. by folake4u(f): 9:48pm On May 27

Eunoiaa:

Big ones with nothing but empty scrotal ********s.

Very very empty.

Nonsense and ingredients. 🤦‍♀️

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