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| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by Boobysmith: 6:21pm On May 28 |
fuckJones:local gods   I love that, tired of whiteman gods.1 Like |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by Minatouchiha(m): 6:23pm On May 28 |
So after spending all that money, they now give you 3 akara and pap. 3 akara!!! The government should stop anything pilgrimage. Whoever wants to embark on one should do so with their money. |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by nairalanda1(m): 6:27pm On May 28 |
DeepSight: Says someone who just called me 'thoughtless, inept, and pathetic' Again, you should not let the fact that things cost money make you so angry for...what? |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by nairalanda1(m): 6:33pm On May 28 |
DeepSight: Meanwhile, you are allowing bitterness poision your opinion of me, as intelligent as you are, you should relaize that this is unproductive, and rebounds more on you. I realize now that people are not thinking about you and me or caring what is said about us. They are thinking about themselves—before breakfast, after breakfast, and right on until ten minutes past midnight. They would be a thousand times more concerned about a slight headache of their own than they would about the news of your death or mine. D. Carnegie. |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by DeepSight(m): 6:35pm On May 28 |
nairalanda1: You are dead to the amount of people who have died painful deaths as a consequence of these thoughtless elitist policies. And once you are insensitive and cold to that, I can never have any iota of respect for you. |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by nairalanda1(m): 6:37pm On May 28 |
DeepSight: And you too have to realize that the debt that has been caused by subsides as well as the corruption has caused a lot of harm and problems for our economy too Plus it seems amusing that you think that my opinions can lead to the deaths of millions. You accure too much powers and gifts to me. Such is the power of allowing my opinions drive you to hatred and anger...for what end? |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by nairalanda1(m): 6:38pm On May 28 |
DeepSight: I once asked General Eisenhower’s son, John, if his father ever nourished resentments. “No,” he replied, “Dad never wastes a minute thinking about people he doesn’t like D. Carnegie. So should you. |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by DeepSight(m): 6:39pm On May 28 |
nairalanda1: Dont be silly, its not your opinions leading to the deaths of people. It is simply repugnant to see a person who is insensitive to such deaths. You are the clown who once claimed that all the corruption in Nigeria is caused by subsidies. |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by nairalanda1(m): 6:45pm On May 28 |
DeepSight: See, you are allowing your resentment talk there, plus I ain't your child or your responsibiloity, as you did not give birth to me. I think I am an adult You should not let your resentment at being corrected by adults in the past drive you. its not your opinions leading to the deaths of people. It is simply repugnant to see a person who is insensitive to such deaths. CLown and insensitve Words spoken by someone who has been driven down to hate and resentment... As I said, subsides have driven us to debt and problems for our economy. If it worked, we would be prosperous. That it is not working shows that your theory is wrong. PLus what about the deahts caused by lack of jobs and investment and economic growth, brought about by subsides, subsidies, subsidies. Subsides have prevented growth in our power sector, which has led to millions of deaths, directly and indirectly. You are that insenstive that you want to continue with something that has caused tears. Anyway, give up your resentment, and stop letting your bitterness towards others for correcting you over the years lead you to project your angry feelings on me. I am not them. Anger leads to hate. |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by DeepSight(m): 6:47pm On May 28 |
nairalanda1: Its both worthless and meaningless engaging you. You are an enslaved simpleton who is not capable of rational independent thought. I bid you good evening. |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by nairalanda1(m): 6:48pm On May 28 |
DeepSight: You should not let your resentment drive you. Because you and I disagree, you are busy here calling me the Devil himself....for having an opinion When that happens, it means you have let a simple difference in opinions drive you to hate me. It need'nt be that way. Calling someone a simpleton is a manifestation of the hate and anger in you. Let it go. It will do you good. I did not say...agree with me always. That's impractical and riddiculous. |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by DeepSight(m): 6:52pm On May 28 |
nairalanda1: Good evening! Now vamoose! |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by nairalanda1(m): 6:53pm On May 28 |
DeepSight: The anger in you can be relieved by many strategies...exercise, yoga, listening to peaceful music, and always, prayer to whatever gods you serve. |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by Padipadi: 6:54pm On May 28 |
Ajens1991:Govt should stop it |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by grandstar(m): 6:55pm On May 28 |
Harnny: Any politician who drops it will lose lots of Muslim votes. It is a political issue and not a religious one. 1 Like |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by nairalanda1(m): 6:56pm On May 28 |
DeepSight: Here are some of the lessons I’ve learned over the years to help me manage my emotions rather than allowing them to lead the way. Validate your emotions first. When you find yourself riding the wave of emotion, it’s important not to dismiss those feelings. Emotions can be a lot like unruly children in need of attention. Once we validate them, we allow them to be seen and have a voice. Feeling our emotions is an important part of life; it’s what we do with them that can create problems. For example, if I’m feeling bored, sad, or lonely, I tend to turn to food for comfort. This usually doesn’t end well. As I gain weight I then feel even worse because now my self-esteem suffers. Leaning into my emotions instead of numbing them with food has been a huge part of my process. When we validate our emotions, we become more aware and accepting of them, and we begin to understand where they come from. It’s only in this place of awareness that we can see what power they may hold over us. Be aware of your triggers. If you know you struggle with specific emotions, such as anger, jealousy, or fear, try to become aware of the circumstances that trigger them. In my own life, I have learned that I often feel angry when I am disrespected or unappreciated. So if I ask my kids several times to do something and they ignore me, I feel anger beginning to rise inside. Not too long ago I would have given in to the emotion and started to shout, whereas nowadays I’m able to tune in to the preceding thought—they don’t respect me—recognize that it isn’t true, and avert the anger. Awareness is power; it gives us the control to choose how we respond. Always remember that emotion is derived from thought. If we find ourselves experiencing strong emotions, it’s helpful to examine the thoughts that preceded them. Then ask the question, are these thoughts based on truth, or my perception of the truth? Write it down. One of the biggest tools in helping me deal with my emotions has been to write them down. I have been journaling daily for about three years now, always asking questions about my emotions and trying to dig beneath the surface-level thoughts. If I feel at the mercy of my emotions, I’ll ask a simple question in my journal, such as, why do I feel so overwhelmed today? From there I can work back through the sequence of events and thoughts that have led me there. I will then ask a positive action question to engage with another emotion, such as, what is one positive thing I can do for myself right now? If you don’t have time to write, try to at least ask the questions. Take responsibility. How many times have you told someone that his or her actions made you feel a certain way? For example, “You made me angry when you were late.” It’s true that other people’s words and actions affect us, but we also need to take responsibility for the emotions we feel in response to those words and actions. No one can make you feel anything; it’s always your choice. So often the reactive emotions we feel are based on our own perception of the truth, and on the things that matter to us. Being late may be one of your triggers for anger, but for someone else it may be their norm and no big deal. Consider also that people act a certain way based on many influences that differ from your own, such as culture, upbringing, beliefs, and life experiences. Take time away. When you’re strongly connecting with a negative reactive emotion, it’s important to take time away from the person or situation you are reacting to. Never act on strong emotion. Wait until you are feeling calm and have given yourself time to rationalize and think. Only then should you act. Even if the emotion is a positive one, it can still lead you down a destructive path. How many times have you done something you later regret in the name of love? Create your mantra. It’s easy to say, “Take time away,” but hard to do in the heat of the moment. If I find myself beginning to anger and I’m not able or quick enough to remove myself from the situation, I try to connect with my mantra. A mantra is just a word or short phrase that helps you become aware of your emotion and not be controlled by it. The word I use is “soft” because I associate this with a gentle temperament. For you it may be something completely different, depending on the emotion you are most reactive to. Ultimately, it’s important to remember that you are not your emotions—you have the ability to decide if they lead you or if you lead them. As you build awareness and learn to recognize your triggers, you will become increasingly savvy about when your emotions are serving you well and when you may need to take charge of them. Source: The Tiny Buddha |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by nairalanda1(m): 6:58pm On May 28 |
DeepSight:10 steps to letting go of resentment Approach resentment as the addictive state of mind it is. Realize that you are using resentment to replicate old dramas and acknowledge that you cannot change the past. Examine how your resentment may come from mentally confusing people in your present life with people from your past. Acknowledge that you cannot control those who have rejected you. Recognize that your resentment gives you only illusions of strength. Instead, highlight and validate your real strength and power. Learn to identify signals that provoke resentment. Apply the acronym HALT, widely used in 12-step programs: Hungry, Angry, Lonely, and Tired. Practice cognitive behavioral techniques to stop indulging in resentment. Put a thought between your feelings of resentment and indulging in ruminating about them. Acknowledge your part in allowing the abuse to occur, forgive yourself for that, and make a decision to not let it occur again. Declare an amnesty with the person you resent and with yourself. Forgive when you can, and practice willful and deliberate forgetfulness when you cannot, keeping in mind that these acts are gifts to yourself rather than capitulation to the people you resent |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by DeepSight(m): 7:00pm On May 28 |
nairalanda1: Good night Dr. Phill, I say good night. |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by nairalanda1(m): 7:02pm On May 28 |
DeepSight: You are now letting your resentment cause you to essentially call me by a name that is not my own. You should not let me have so much power over you, you know. You should not let the dark side take over you, Darth. |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by DaddyYankee: 7:05pm On May 28 |
Padipadi: |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by nairalanda1(m): 7:05pm On May 28 |
DeepSight: Essentially, holding a grudge isn't good for you. It ensnares you in anger and makes you prone to persistent rumination rather than moving forward with your life. You might think that harboring ill-will harms the person you're mad at, but ultimately you're the one who suffers from it. Essentially, a grudge inhibits your ability to cope with or resolve your issue and keeps you stuck in the past—trapped in an unpleasant event or interaction that causes you distress.1 The grudge doesn't solve your problem and is highly unlikely to make you feel any better. While it is certainly unhealthy to not feel or fully process (and accept) your feelings, research shows that fixating on negative emotions rather than resolving them is also harmful—and can even make for an unpleasant demeanor and substantially erode your well-being Source |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by nairalanda1(m): 7:07pm On May 28 |
DeepSight: Arguing on the internet is like running into a brick wall – avoid it if possible. It’s ripe for misunderstanding, people generally are there just to spout their opinion, and people often say things they normally wouldn’t say in person. Doing it in person (or by phone if you must) is best, but, even if you have to deal with an issue online, using good listening skills, seeking to understand, using kindness, tact, and humility, and having the right goals for the conversation can even make conversations online productive (at times) Sauce |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by nairalanda1(m): 7:09pm On May 28 |
DeepSight: I am, just, six months old.  Anger is making you call an article written by adults, and trained people...childish. |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by femi4: 7:25pm On May 28 |
Yourprick:religious slavery |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by OKEIYIOKODU: 7:43pm On May 28 |
[quote author=Yourprick post=130182929]As seen on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/p//? They should fast because they are on religious tourism. After the government subsidized their religious tourism with 90 billion naira instead of subsidizing education production processes and health services but the government were subsidizing their pockets. You can deceive us but you cannot deceive us all the time. |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by Pootle: 7:43pm On May 28 |
| 3 akara and half cup of garri |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by kelly72: 8:13pm On May 28 |
This is what Tinubu budgeted N90 billion for? Hahaha Proper gbajue no. 1 |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by Danmisra(m): 8:19pm On May 28 |
This is pure lie. They don't serve any meal on hajj without chicken included, you think they are wretched like Nigeria, no far from it. They are very generous |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by LockDown69(m): 8:32pm On May 28 |
Misplaced priorities, religion is indeed the Bain of a society. |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by Fattprince23: 8:38pm On May 28 |
IAmHim1:Rephrased "Go away from me for I know you not, when I was naked, you didn't clothe me, when I was hungry you didn't feed me, when I was thirsty you never gave me money and when I was in prison you never visited me,"then they answer when was these Lord, " as long as you didn't do it for these needy people then you didn't do it for me" and it was vice versa. In short details, humanity should be our religion. Self development should be our spirituality for when you search deep within you, you find God and when you search for God, you find your true self. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by donbenie(m): 9:14pm On May 28 |
OmotolaDeniro:They should go and buy food then,wetin concern us for their breakfast? |
| Re: Breakfast Given To Nigerians At Hajj (picture) by imagrg(m): 9:32pm On May 28 |
You mean there is subsidy in going on pilgrimage? |
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