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How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Crucialgem(m): 11:01pm On Jun 05
You would agree with me that even all this nairalanders shouting repeller will simp for a girl that captures their heart.

So I recently met this girl which at first did not think will capture my heart up to this extent but after exchanging contact and constant calling and visiting, guys I have fallen yakata for her, even though I try following redpill teachings on nairaland but I can't help it this time around

Funny thing is after talking and vibing so well she will tell me she has a boyfriend, but she still come visiting time to time, she will even eat and watch movie in my house sometimes she will bring her younger sister

She shows me signs of caring girlfriend but always quick to remind me she has a boyfriend

I am confused and at the same time blinded by her affection, i feel she is using me but sometimes I feel she is just playing me

How do I go about dealing with this kind of girl romancelanders!!!!
Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by EreluRoz: 11:06pm On Jun 05
Redpill ends online, those ones still forming redpill haven't met that one woman that'll bring out the simphood that's naturally inbuilt in all men. No smart woman will be with a man that doesn't simp for her no matter how hard he portrays himself.

To those women who are complaining their men are too hard, I'm telling you now that you are with the wrong man because no man is too hard for his woman, when you are with the right man the natural simping comes to play freely. Take this from mama

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:11pm On Jun 05
Crucialgem:
You would agree with me that even all this nairalanders shouting repeller will simp for a girl that captures their heart.
So I recently met this girl which at first did not think will capture my heart up to this extent but after exchanging contact and constant calling and visiting, guys I have fallen yakata for her, even though I try following redpill teachings on nairaland but I can't help it this time around
Funny thing is after talking and vibing so well she will tell me she has a boyfriend, but she still come visiting time to time, she will even eat and watch movie in my house sometimes she will bring her younger sister
She shows me signs of caring girlfriend but always quick to remind me she has a boyfriend
I am confused and at the same time blinded by her affection, i feel she is using me but sometimes I feel she is just playing me
How do I go about dealing with this kind of girl romancelanders!!!!

very easy thing to deal with.... simply put yourself in the other guy's shoes, and understand that if/when she will be your girlfriend, thats exactly how she will play you and fukc around with the new guy in the picture.

this babe has no loyalty but to herself, she has no respect either for you or her BF, she is playing both of you, and sadly the worse out of it all is YOU, because you know that she has a bf, and gladly/willingly accept to be part of her yeye games (as her pawn to use whenever she feels like it)

as the saying goes:THOU SHALL NEVER TRY TO DATE WH0RES... you just fukc and then let other brothas sample her too.

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by elmagnifico411(m): 12:02am On Jun 06
You're a very SIMPle Man! grin grin grin
Crucialgem:
You would agree with me that even all this nairalanders shouting repeller will simp for a girl that captures their heart.

So I recently met this girl which at first did not think will capture my heart up to this extent but after exchanging contact and constant calling and visiting, guys I have fallen yakata for her, even though I try following redpill teachings on nairaland but I can't help it this time around

Funny thing is after talking and vibing so well she will tell me she has a boyfriend, but she still come visiting time to time, she will even eat and watch movie in my house sometimes she will bring her younger sister

She shows me signs of caring girlfriend but always quick to remind me she has a boyfriend

I am confused and at the same time blinded by her affection, i feel she is using me but sometimes I feel she is just playing me

How do I go about dealing with this kind of girl romancelanders!!!!

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Rizzputin(m): 12:09am On Jun 06
First off, NO I do not agree that you should ever simp for any woman.

Why?

Because simping does nothing but chase the girl away and make her disgusted. Yes, you're allowed to like and love a girl. But simping is out of the question because it makes you look weak.

Now, back to your question. The girl is simply enjoying your company, vibes and possibly knacks that you give and/or will give her.

You are strictly for fun. And not to be taken seriously for a bf or relationship.

That's why she keeps reminding you that she has a boyfriend so you do not make the mistake of falling for her then asking her out...

Because the moment you do that, you've ruined her vibe/fantasy and she will pull away.

Also, If you're not fùcking her.... Start immediately you're done reading this

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Peskid147: 12:33am On Jun 06
There is something you posses that makes her still stay and come visiting even when she know that she still have a boyfriend. I will advice that you tell her blank to her face that you will like to end your friendship with her and see her reaction then you know what to do next. Cus you are in her friend zone list nw...

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Alphamentips: 1:07am On Jun 06
Sha knack b4 anything wink

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by ValCon888: 2:49am On Jun 06
The reason you're simping for her is because you're yet to have post-nut clarity. By the time you knack her and cum, your mind will calm down.

Unfortunately, that will be the time when you'll care less for her and she'll care more for you.

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Sonnobax15(m): 3:00am On Jun 06
lipsrsealed
Someone is always reminding you that she has a BF,yet,you wanna take her serious? sad

Person wey get mind to dey run package for her so-called BF back? Meaning say even if she accepts you finally,she go still run similar package with another guyman wey go make sense pass you na..

Which kind agric fowl mentality be this na? angry

Nigha,if you like,you can call us SIMPS for simply trying to rescue your heart in advance from being broken into pieces like atoms.........But las las, you'll realize that you weren't only played,but you were also fooled shocked

If you like,go take that 'CAMEL' serious,na you sabi lipsrsealed

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by ziragoldd(m): 6:04am On Jun 06
Rizzputin:
First off, NO I do not agree that you should ever simp for any woman.

Why?

Because simping does nothing but chase the girl away and make her disgusted. Yes, you're allowed to like and love a girl. But simping is out of the question because it makes you look weak.

Now, back to your question. The girl is simply enjoying your company, vibes and possibly knacks that you give and/or will give her.

You are strictly for fun. And not to be taken seriously for a bf or relationship.

That's why she keeps reminding you that she has a boyfriend so you do not make the mistake of falling for her then asking her out...

Because the moment you do that, you've ruined her vibe/fantasy and she will pull away.

Also, If you're not fùcking her.... Start immediately you're done reading this
I hate simp
Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Crucialgem(m): 6:34am On Jun 06
The fact that anytime I want to be strict with her and let her know I am not in for games, she pull out the caring mode on, she begin to ask me about personal and family stuff

I have read a lot of "sign to see in a girl that loves you" here on nairaland and I have seen it in her, the problem is why pulling the boyfriend string when it looks like the feeling the mutual
Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Rizzputin(m): 7:49am On Jun 06
Crucialgem:
The fact that anytime I want to be strict with her and let her know I am not in for games, she pull out the caring mode on, she begin to ask me about personal and family stuff

I have read a lot of "sign to see in a girl that loves you" here on nairaland and I have seen it in her, the problem is why pulling the boyfriend string when it looks like the feeling the mutual

Loving you doesn't mean she wants to date you neither doesn't it mean she'll make a good gf.

Anyways, you're a simp. So a simp will always return to his simpish ways

Continue trying

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by rickleye: 7:59am On Jun 06
Crucialgem:
You would agree with me that even all this nairalanders shouting repeller will simp for a girl that captures their heart.

So I recently met this girl which at first did not think will capture my heart up to this extent but after exchanging contact and constant calling and visiting, guys I have fallen yakata for her, even though I try following redpill teachings on nairaland but I can't help it this time around

Funny thing is after talking and vibing so well she will tell me she has a boyfriend, but she still come visiting time to time, she will even eat and watch movie in my house sometimes she will bring her younger sister

She shows me signs of caring girlfriend but always quick to remind me she has a boyfriend

I am confused and at the same time blinded by her affection, i feel she is using me but sometimes I feel she is just playing me

How do I go about dealing with this kind of girl romancelanders!!!!


Not sure I understand
- she said she has a boyfriend yet you fell for her !!
Either you mandate that she break off with the other fellow or you define that whatever you two have is a fling and nothing more. So, as she has a boyfriend, you are free to see other girls.
Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Bintabisiriyu2: 8:03am On Jun 06
op you are a very stupid boy, take it from me.

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Auxtan(m): 8:14am On Jun 06
She's setting up foundations to suck your funds or to keep sucking your funds.

I can bet my balls you're showing her money and care.

When a lady sees these 2 aspects of you, even if you're not their boyfriend they will treat you like they will treat their boyfriend, albeit at a bestie stance.

Now you know you can't make her yours, make her pay enough for your funds or your cares she's been getting before she gets tired of it.

Because even love getting expiration o lol.

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Crucialgem(m): 9:12am On Jun 06
There was a day she came to my place around 9pm in the night, coming to my place in such hour made me think I could actually make some move which i did

Initially she was having it, she was even laying on her stomach and her butt up, so I felt some jingle and made more move, all of a sudden she just ward my hand off and said I should stop
I still try to push further as sometimes they say there no might be a yes, but this time she was serious so I stopped

Surprisingly she visited the next day and we didn't even talk about what happened the last night


Guys calling me a simp I seriously I am not, as a matter of fact the likelihood of me giving girl a breakfast when we start a relationship is more than the other way round. Someone made a point about post nut clarity but I haven't really been interest in the sex nowadays

I have stayed almost two years without a relationship not because I don't have girls around me but I just keep flirting with them without having something serious even plus some ex's that want to still come around
Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Uptheante(m): 1:07pm On Jun 06
Crucialgem:
There was a day she came to my place around 9pm in the night, coming to my place in such hour made me think I could actually make some move which i did

Initially she was having it, she was even laying on her stomach and her butt up, so I felt some jingle and made more move, all of a sudden she just ward my hand off and said I should stop
I still try to push further as sometimes they say there no might be a yes, but this time she was serious so I stopped

Surprisingly she visited the next day and we didn't even talk about what happened the last night


Guys calling me a simp I seriously I am not, as a matter of fact the likelihood of me giving girl a breakfast when we start a relationship is more than the other way round. Someone made a point about post nut clarity but I haven't really been interest in the sex nowadays

I have stayed almost two years without a relationship not because I don't have girls around me but I just keep flirting with them without having something serious even plus some ex's that want to still come around
Bro, the girl is toying with your emotions.
Invite other girls & let her be seeing you with them. Her jealousy will kick in & she'll compete with them for your attention because she knows you have other options.
At that point, she'll like to colonize you from the other girls, she go drop pussy for you to tie you down for only herself. Never ask her out & never show her you are desperate for her.
Let her be the one to ask you for a relationship. Your own is to pound her pussy to your satisfaction when she drops it
When a girl sees other women with you, it drives her crazy & she'll compete with them to win you over to herself. But even at that, still don't neglect the other girls incase she wants to put up some attitude for you when you give her attention (+ dick).
Also, make sure you don't spend on her or pedestalize her in any way as that will lower your appeal.
Her talk of having a boyfriend may even be a bloody lie just to make you feel she's a hot cake & men are craving for her.

In most situations, when you want to defeat a woman, use other women & you will beat her to her games & shenanigans ✌️💯

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by ExcalibursWrath: 2:43pm On Jun 06
Just use your head. You don't need to be a self-proclaimed alpha male or a redpiller to navigate a relationship.

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Nonexisting1: 5:52pm On Jun 06
Matthew 7 vs 21. Not everyone who calls out to me, ‘Lord! Lord!’ will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Only those who actually do the will of my Father in heaven will enter.

Not everyone who sayeth redpill online are redpillers but those who actually practiceth it offline. Most that sayeth it online are actually simps that liveth their fantasies online. Brotherman, you are a simp, you have been a simp and you will continue to be a simp.

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Countyguy: 6:28pm On Jun 06
Dating drills for guys by hardon. There's a lot to learn from that thread my gee.
Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Countyguy: 6:31pm On Jun 06
Uptheante:

Bro, the girl is toying with your emotions.
Invite other girls & let her be seeing you with them. Her jealousy will kick in & she'll compete with them for your attention because she knows you have other options.
At that point, she'll like to colonize you from the other girls, she go drop pussy for you to tie you down for only herself. Never ask her out & never show her you are desperate for her.
Let her be the one to ask you for a relationship. Your own is to pound her pussy to your satisfaction when she drops it
When a girl sees other women with you, it drives her crazy & she'll compete with them to win you over to herself. But even at that, still don't neglect the other girls incase she wants to put up some attitude for you when you give her attention (+ dick).
Also, make sure you don't spend on her or pedestalize her in any way as that will lower your appeal.
Her talk of having a boyfriend may even be a bloody lie just to make you feel she's a hot cake & men are craving for her.

In most situations, when you want to defeat a woman, use other women & you will beat her to her games & shenanigans ✌️💯
Big bloody lie. I believe she is single but using that boyfriend line to toy with the ops emotions

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by PUNANI01: 8:24pm On Jun 06
But if your fellow man turns and ask you for 2k, you go talk say e no dey! See as a girl don dey switch your Mumü button On and Off!

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by DECENTBWOY: 9:20pm On Jun 06
EreluRoz:
Redpill ends online, those ones still forming redpill haven't met that one woman that'll bring out the simphood that's naturally inbuilt in all men. No smart woman will be with a man that doesn't simp for her no matter how hard he portrays himself.

To those women who are complaining their men are too hard, I'm telling you now that you are with the wrong man because no man is too hard for his woman, when you are with the right man the natural simping comes to play freely. Take this from mama
I think you are mistaking "love and care" to "simping"... Bkus you care deeply for a woman doesn't make u a simp. Get ur facts right hag
Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by superCleanworks(m): 9:46pm On Jun 06
Crucialgem:
You would agree with me that even all this nairalanders shouting repeller will simp for a girl that captures their heart.

So I recently met this girl which at first did not think will capture my heart up to this extent but after exchanging contact and constant calling and visiting, guys I have fallen yakata for her, even though I try following redpill teachings on nairaland but I can't help it this time around

Funny thing is after talking and vibing so well she will tell me she has a boyfriend, but she still come visiting time to time, she will even eat and watch movie in my house sometimes she will bring her younger sister

She shows me signs of caring girlfriend but always quick to remind me she has a boyfriend

I am confused and at the same time blinded by her affection, i feel she is using me but sometimes I feel she is just playing me

How do I go about dealing with this kind of girl romancelanders!!!!
by their choice of words, you will know them.

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Nicepoker(m): 10:24pm On Jun 06
Op your simping is on denial stage.

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by 0001Lagos: 10:26pm On Jun 06
Na WA for some people
Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by anonymuz(m): 10:36pm On Jun 06
superCleanworks:

by their choice of words, you will know them.
SIMP
Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Itohanmiwa: 9:29am On Jun 07
EreluRoz:
Redpill ends online, those ones still forming redpill haven't met that one woman that'll bring out the simphood that's naturally inbuilt in all men. No smart woman will be with a man that doesn't simp for her no matter how hard he portrays himself.
To those women who are complaining their men are too hard, I'm telling you now that you are with the wrong man because no man is too hard for his woman, when you are with the right man the natural simping comes to play freely. Take this from mama
Is this how you reason? Still attach labels... smh
Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by dauntless15(m): 10:18am On Jun 07
Girls like keeping some foolish guy as a pet, you're on first base and second to her actual boyfriend, you have a function you're not aware of, she's using you as a side piece, some ego trip and someone to fall on depending on what goes on in her actual relationship, worst of all, you have fallen so she definitely have your mumu button now, you're literally the dog that comes running when she whistles, great job man, you have made it in life, continue being the lap dog.

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Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by JeffArmani234: 12:10pm On Jun 07
EreluRoz:
Redpill ends online, those ones still forming redpill haven't met that one woman that'll bring out the simphood that's naturally inbuilt in all men. No smart woman will be with a man that doesn't simp for her no matter how hard he portrays himself.

To those women who are complaining their men are too hard, I'm telling you now that you are with the wrong man because no man is too hard for his woman, when you are with the right man the natural simping comes to play freely. Take this from
mama


You go fear mama na😂😂😂😂

Madam shift…..,

I’m so different baby girl
Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by JeffArmani234: 12:49pm On Jun 07
Countyguy:
Dating drills for guys by hardon. There's a lot to learn from that thread my gee.



Where are dey reside

I get two bottles of 🍺 and a plate of isi ewu
Re: How Do I Deal With Her!!! by Countyguy: 8:13pm On Jun 07
JeffArmani234:




Where are dey reside

I get two bottles of 🍺 and a plate of isi ewu
Na warri i dey oo big man

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