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| I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by nkemjacob2(m): 1:49pm On Jun 07 |
Pls i need an advice I am in love with a girl she is a baby mama. But I am finding hard to battle the metal stress of her been a baby mama of a boy. Pls I need your advice to over come this. I truly love her and I want to marry her. Pls no jokes 5 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by immortalcrown(m): 1:51pm On Jun 07 |
Some baby mamas are good, some are bad. All baby mamas are not the same because not the same situation made them baby mamas. My advice to you will be based on the situation that made your crush a baby mama. How and at what age did she become a baby mama? 115 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by osmosis101(m): 1:55pm On Jun 07 |
She's a baby lady.... Just do what makes you happy 8 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by nkemjacob2(m): 1:59pm On Jun 07 |
immortalcrown:she got deceived by a guy that promised her marriage 5 years ago. She was ignorant then. But the guy still takes care of the boy. But they are no more 31 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by immortalcrown(m): 2:00pm On Jun 07 |
nkemjacob2:How old was she when it happened? nkemjacob2:She was not deceived. She is not a rational adult. If you don't mind having an irrational wife, go ahead to marry her. The choice is yours but be ready for the consequences of your choices. I am not saying she is evil or wicked. I am not saying she cannot change for good. My point is that she was and is still an irrational adult. If she has changed for good, she would have taken responsibility of her past actions instead of claiming that she was deceived. Stop believing that she was deceived. I can bet that she was not deceived. But if you think she was actually deceived, tell us the full story of how the deception happened. 241 Likes 17 Shares |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by EmperorCaesar(m): 2:47pm On Jun 07 |
This life is too short for humans to go about seeking for advice on what they plan to do Get engaged with her, if u fail, u learn and if it goes well,you will be happy....either way it ends, the joy and sorrow that comes with it wont last that long except say u wan marry her We cant be too sure of how things might turn out to be in the end I like to make stereotypic statements alot, its either white or black for me and if i were in your shoes, I'd never go for her No match starts at 0-1 no matter the sound reason u tryna use justify that abnormality 117 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by nkemjacob2(m): 2:56pm On Jun 07 |
immortalcrown:23years |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by Samfloxin(m): 3:04pm On Jun 07 |
How do you know she was deceived? A 23 years old lady was deceived? Anyway.... 69 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by karkinase(m): 3:23pm On Jun 07 |
Better leave her alone 25 Likes |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by Sonnobax15(m): 3:23pm On Jun 07 |
 You should consider your peace of mind first,and not the opinions of total strangers... If she's giving you peace of mind,and as well being the understanding type,then you shouldn't hesitate to do the needful which is marrying her ASAP... Na baby mama she be,she no kill person  55 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by Emu4u2c: 3:42pm On Jun 07 |
I'm in one currently.. I love the girl but she is all shade of wrong and every Day I see reasons why everyone is against single mothers...One thing I observed about the single mother in my care..She fights me and disrespects me but you should see the respect she gives to the baby daddy...gets me confused then Why didn't he cope with her bad character..And believe me sometimes I feel like I'm her dump load where she off-loads all her rubbish...Why am I still in such relationship?.. Well I have access to free kitten why it last....I won't say I'm a Red piller..no.. but at least I'm not mentally and emotionally locked to her...so I'm taking advantage of the situation...Are we getting married?.... That's Left for God to decide and well I'm awaiting his direction but I will enjoy the moment while it last 79 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by SporaD8: 4:17pm On Jun 07 |
nkemjacob2 ( m):Baby Mama of a boy! Hmmn? If the Baby Daddy is still active in her, and the baby boy life, use your Teeth to count your Tongue! 77 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by descartes400: 4:20pm On Jun 07 |
nkemjacob2: https://www.nairaland.com/8112236/men-avoid-single-mothers-like 5 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by descartes400: 4:23pm On Jun 07 |
Emu4u2c: https://www.nairaland.com/8112236/men-avoid-single-mothers-like 7 Likes |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by Proserpina: 4:30pm On Jun 07 |
Na man like you made her baby mama.. you fit continue from where him stop  34 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by MASTAkiLLAh(m): 4:33pm On Jun 07 |
If she makes you happy then stay with her but if you can't accept the innocent boy from your heart then, let her go. I see nothing wrong with baby mamas most of the time, they're more matured when it comes to love. The only problem could be if you're not financially capable to take care of the kid but like I say, if you're not ready to love and accept the boy from your heart then let her go 17 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by nkemjacob2(m): 4:46pm On Jun 07 |
descartes400:U took porn poster as an advice. 1 Like |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by immortalcrown(m): 5:21pm On Jun 07 |
nkemjacob2:She was not deceived. She is not a rational adult. If you don't mind having an irrational wife, go ahead to marry her. The choice is yours but be ready for the consequences of your choices. I am not saying she is evil or wicked. My point is that she is an irrational adult. Stop believing that she was deceived. I can bet that she was not deceived. But if you think she was actually deceived, tell us the full story of how the deception happened. 8 Likes |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by SkengRay: 5:23pm On Jun 07 |
I will tell you son. Go Ahead and marry her if you think it's only love that matters 18 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by Emu4u2c: 5:24pm On Jun 07 |
descartes400: I have red lots of articles on the red pill right from the days of ubunja.... Most Old naira landers know the moniker... I'm not getting married to her but I won't avoid a chance to have a free pussycat 6 Likes |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by Dizzyyish: 5:29pm On Jun 07 |
1. Her baby daddy has imprinted on her. As a woman, she is more invested in him as she has his baby but you'll be invested in her going forward: Baby Daddy < Her < You. 2. Baggage. 3. Her child will ALWAYS have a higher priority than you. 4. You're simply there to provide for the child and herself. You'll know this someday when you try to discipline the child. Women do not love, but your love has a sedative and blinding effect. Once it clears hope you won't see yourself lying wrapped up on a spider's web. 77 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by BigYash: 5:33pm On Jun 07 |
Where you wan come send her baby daddy go Oga? You wan inherit property wen no be your own.. You and the owner go drag am tire 38 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by EriMma1: 5:40pm On Jun 07 |
Does she truly love you or just looking to escape the baby mama statues be sure what she wants out of the relationship so you don't regret it. If you're sure she loves you genuinely. Then go for her nothing wrong as long as you both love each other. Why I'm telling you to go ahead is because it's difficult to find love she may leave now and you'll never find another love. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by Zonefree(m): 5:45pm On Jun 07 |
immortalcrown:A baby mama that her baby father is still very much alive and healthy is not good for a single guy. Learn to tell people the truth no matter how painful it may sound. 58 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by immortalcrown(m): 5:48pm On Jun 07 |
Zonefree:You yourself should learn not to be narrow-minded. There is a reason I asked him to explain the condition in which the lady became a baby mama. Have you forgotten that some are baby mamas because they were raped? Have you also forgotten that not all that were raped were indecent? Some were raped where they were serving as househelp. Have you also forgotten that some are baby mamas because their husbands died? Some became baby mamas before the age of 18. There are many baby mamas whose worst enemies on earth are the men that got them pregnant. So, stop assuming that every baby mama is still sexually or emotionally attached to the man that impregnated her. 47 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by Zonefree(m): 5:51pm On Jun 07 |
nkemjacob2:Such naivety  16 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by Nonexisting1: 5:54pm On Jun 07 |
God in heaven knows that I have done my part in looking out for men and humanity in general through my posts here. I will die in my old age as a happy man who has done his part in the world. I will never ever again chook mouth on this kind of matter in this place. Brother, goodluck on your marriage with your single mother lover. 41 Likes 5 Shares
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| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by Gadafii: 5:55pm On Jun 07 |
Match never start Dem don dey lead you 1 zero Na handicap 1 be that 26 Likes |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by EreluRoz: 5:57pm On Jun 07 |
The most important thing is you love her and I see no reason why her baby should be a distraction. That baby may become a president tomorrow and make you proud of being a good step dad. In life just be good kos you don't know what posterity has waiting for you. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by Zonefree(m): 5:58pm On Jun 07 |
immortalcrown:Most baby mamas are so much in love with their abusive baby fathers. About 98.874% of Nigerian baby mamas are suffering from Stockholm syndrome. Please, let's not argue about this, we're adults here. As long as the baby daddy is so much alive and in touch, okafor's law must always prevail, unless the baby daddy is not interested. 47 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by EreluRoz: 5:58pm On Jun 07 |
Zonefree:I see you marrying a mother of four 5 Likes |
| Re: I Love Her. She Is A Baby Mama. Pls Advice Me. I Am A Single Guy by Zonefree(m): 6:01pm On Jun 07 |
Proserpina:Let her go back to the man that made her a baby mama and leave this innocent young man alone! 22 Likes 3 Shares |
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